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Feeling Guilty for Giving a Child Up for Adoption

This post is inspired by questions from a reader named Miyam, who gave her newborn up for adoption, and now she’s feeling guilty, embarrassed, and ashamed.

The Council asks Miyam why she feels that way, because her situation was an unhealthy one and she chose to give this child to someone who was able to offer it a better home and a better life.

Miyam says there’s a negative outlook in society on pregnancy when the mother isn’t able to raise the child and there’s also a negative outlook when a mother chooses abortion. To this The Council replies it’s not Miyam’s place to get other people to understand what she’s going through. It’s for her to understand and learn how this can help her grow and change her life for the better. Does she stay and repeat the same lesson, or realize she’s in an unhealthy relationship and she’s done the right thing by putting this child up for adoption so it’s able to learn whatever it seeks to learn.

Miyam says this wasn’t the first child she gave up for adoption and she asks why her spirit planned this and why she allowed this to happen. The Council replies that it’s her choice to stay in this relationship and it’s her choice to repeat this lesson over and over again and they advise her to consider this perspective.

Miyam says sometimes she’s ready to give up on life and sometimes she thinks she’s was meant to allow these children to come into this lifetime to experience what they pre-planned. The Council says Miyam pre-planned to bring these children in, with the understanding between her and the souls of these children that if she was able to raise these children herself, she would. But there was also the understanding if she was unable to safely raise these children, she’d be able to abort the pregnancy or give the children up for adoption.

The Council recommends Miyam change the way she thinks about giving these children up for adoption. How wonderful it was to complete what they desired in spirit so she and the children can move forward. The Council points out Miyam is at a wonderful place once she’s able to understand she made the correct decisions for these children, and the sadness and guilt can be changed by how she thinks about her situation.

Listen to our entire 9-minute session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Miyam and the rest of us, and let us know what you think.

May 14, 2017 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Choice, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Pregnancy, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , , | Leave a comment

Fear of Vomiting

This post is inspired by a reader who goes by the name of Anon, who has a fear of vomiting that has gotten worse since she’s given birth to a new child.

The Council says people who are afraid of vomiting usually need to feel more in control in their lives because they feel so out of control when they’re afraid of vomiting. The Council asks Anon to take a look at her life and see if she has a need to control everything going on around her. They say the fear of vomiting is the fear of not being in control, being powerless, and dying.

The Council says Anon’s fear of vomiting in her current lifetime is connected to her memories of sickness, disease, suffering, and death from other lifetimes. They say the reason she’s experiencing this now is because she has a desire to heal these memories. Once she’s able to understand this fear is from other lives it should be easier to let them go of them. It’s only here for her to heal it.

The Council says hypnotherapy would bring much understanding of this fear to Anon and will have excellent outcomes. Anon should begin to read about other lifetimes and how they affect this particular lifetime. They also suggest meditating to try and get a sense of what it’s experience in these other lifetimes, and they close by recommending Dr. Brian Weiss’s books on past lives and hypnotherapy.

Listen to our entire session with The Council (below) to receive all the guidance for Anon and the rest of us, and let us know what you think.

May 11, 2017 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Healing, Other Lifetimes, Questions & Answers | , , , , , , | 3 Comments

Are There Spirit Realms?

This post is inspired by questions from an appreciative reader named Vacha, who’s been reading about spirit realms and asks The Council’s opinion about these realms. Vacha also asks what she intended, as spirit, to learn in this lifetime.

The Council says they don’t see the existence of the spiritual realms Vacha is speaking of. Instead they see expanding and learning from each incarnation and growing from challenges, happiness, what you learn from the people around you, and how you handle situations and treat people. You keep creating until you feel you no longer need to experience these Earthly realities.

In between these Earthly realities The Council doesn’t perceive any realms. But there are different ways you can help your spirit expand. You can be a guide or helper to people who are experiencing Earthly realities. You can be in spirit and help other spirits create their new Earthly realities. There are many things you can do in the spirit world, but The Council says it’s not like climbing a ladder. The main purpose of everyone’s life is to take the love from spirit and bring it into whatever reality  you are focusing on.

On Vacha’s question about what she intended to learn in this lifetime, The Council says one of her lessons is to be very independent and on her own, but also to expand her learning about many different subjects in addition to the spirit world. She wanted to acquire more intelligence and understanding, and The Council feels she is doing this.

Based on her reading, Vacha expresses the idea we can either expand or come down in a realm. The Council repeats there are no realms and says if you think you either expand or get demoted, they say you can never move backwards.

Vacha asks how we can expand the learning experiences in this lifetime and The Council says the way we learn is by repeating the challenges and lessons we pick for ourselves until we understand them.

Listen to our entire 7-minute session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Vacha and the rest of us, and let us know what you think.

May 10, 2017 Posted by | Audio Content, Challenges, Channeling, Expansion, Life Purpose, Love, Questions & Answers | , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Will Ex-Boyfriend Realize Impact of his Actions and Express Acknowledgement?

This post is inspired by questions from a reader who calls herself LookingForTheOne, who says her ex-boyfriend left her a while back, but the pain she experiences from the break up never left her. And The Council replies that they are almost sure the pain of the break up is what she’s focusing on and as her thoughts stay on this pain, she can expect to remain in the feeling of it.

The Council advises her to focus instead on the joy in this relationship that she’d like in her next relationship. They say she pre-planned in spirit to be in this relationship for a reason, that she will meet the spirit of her ex-boyfriend in another lifetime, and this soul isn’t lost to her forever. They advise her to find a way to be grateful this particular person was in her life for a while. And they say both of them chose as spirits to be together in this lifetime to learn about love.

In response to LookingForTheOne’s statement that she believes she and her ex-boyfriend are soulmates and they could have made it together until the end of this lifetime, The Council says we are all soulmates. And they add that as a spirit she didn’t want to be partners with her ex-boyfriend for the rest of her life. The Council says they came together to learn what was wanted and what was not wanted in terms of love in this relationship.

When LookingForTheOne asks if her ex-boyfriend will ever realize the impact his choices made on others and show any acknowledgement, The Council says it’s a possibility, but nothing is definite and they recommend she allow him to be who he is. They add that allowing is a form of love.

When LookingForTheOne asks about past lives she and her ex-boyfriend shared together, The Council says they feel focusing on the past isn’t that helpful and will tend to keep her focused this relationship. And then The Council goes on to say they had a relationship in another lifetime where they were together, went through many hardships, and were supportive of each other. They had loving relationships in other lifetimes, including one where they were father and daughter.

The Council says in each past life relationship they tried to find the love and express it in the reality they were living in at that time. They created challenges and happy moments and their current lifetime is an extension of those lifetimes where the two of them work together to learn something else.

The Council asks if one of them was brave enough in spirit to be mean and cause hurtful feelings in their human reality so they could both learn from this. The Council emphasizes it’s a very loving spirit that would do that if it’s what you desire to learn. And they add it’s a challenging path to be on. You were hurt; can you still love yourself enough to realize this isn’t what you want and create a different path for yourself.

The Council says there was a lifetime in the early 1800s where LookingForTheOne worked as a dance hall girl in a saloon. Her ex-boyfriend was one of her patrons in that lifetime and loved her very much, but she never returned this love and walked away from that relationship, and it was hard for him in that lifetime.

In their current lifetime The Council asks if they wanted to experience the other side of the coin? Did her ex-boyfriend walk away from their relationship in this lifetime? The Council says you helped each other experience these unfortunate situations so you can find love in them, no matter what, and that is bringing the vibration of love into this reality.

LookingForTheOne asks if they were married in a past life and whether her ex-boyfriend was really in love with her like he said he was in this life, or if he was lying to her. And The Council says her ex-boyfriend had the love for her in this lifetime and in other lifetimes also.

Listen to our 11-minute session to hear all The Council’s guidance for LookingForTheOne and for the rest of us, and let us know what you think.

May 7, 2017 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Love, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments

Finding a Loving and Financially Secure Husband

This post is inspired by questions from a reader named Diana, who says she’d love to meet her soulmate husband soon and she asks if The Council has any insights on this and if there’s anything she can do to speed up the process.

The Council asks Diana what she’s thinking about to create this marriage in her life. They encourage her to think more about what she will bring to the relationship and not so much about what her husband will bring. As she begins to focus on herself and what makes her happy, she’ll begin to attract that in another person.

Diana asks if The Council is able to see her future husband and The Council says it’s her beliefs and what she focuses on that will pick the husband that she calls in with her thoughts and feelings. They say there are perhaps 10 different men that can come into Diana’s life, and as she focuses on what she wants and what she brings to the relationship, she will draw the most appropriate husband to her.

Diana says she struggles with issues of lack and poverty and she’d like to meet someone who doesn’t have these struggles. The Council says as she struggles with these issues she’ll bring in someone she’s attracted to, but he’ll have similar issues. That is why it’s very important to work on herself and her thoughts first.

If Diana’s thoughts are on lack and poverty it is unlikely she’ll be able to attract someone who’s wealthy. She can change her thoughts to: her abundance is growing  and she’s ready to receive more in her life. She is a spirit in a physical body. There is abundance all around her, she just has to claim it with her thoughts.

Listen to our 7-minute session with The Council (below) to hear all The Council’s guidance for Diana and the rest of us, and let us know what you think.

May 6, 2017 Posted by | Audio Content, Beliefs, Challenges, Channeling, Marriage, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Did I Pre-Plan in Spirit to be Transgender?

This post is inspired by an interesting question for The Council from Brennan, a reader who’s been learning a little about pre-birth planning and he’s wondering if he pre-birth planned to be transgender.

For those of you new to the idea of pre-birth planning, it’s the idea there’s a spiritual part of you that existed before you were born, and that part of you pre-planned before incarnating into this reality certain intentions for your lifetime on Earth.

There’s been a lot of information on transgender lately, but if you’re new to this idea it’s when someone is physically born male or female, but grow up to feel their actual gender is the opposite of their birth gender.

The Council’s first comment is that Brennan is one of the courageous souls who have come forward to change their identity to show others that love is love. It doesn’t matter what gender you are.

Brennan is teaching his family and friends to think and act differently, to go into their hearts and feel love for you the same whether you are a woman or a man. You are one of many who have come forward at this time to bring acceptance and love to everything, regardless of your gender.

Brennan says in addition to being transgender he has mental illness and he asks The Council why he’s experiencing these things that most other people try to avoid.

The Council says the purpose is to have the mental illness and gender identification brought out to be accepted, to teach people how to handle these, and the bottom line reason is to get people to show love. They add this is a wonderful thing and they applaud Brennan for being brave enough to do this.

The Council says they are with Brennan every step of the way and will provide love and support from the spirit world. Brennan and those like him are the beginning of having transgender accepted and bringing so much love into this reality by having the courage to do this.

Listen to our entire 4-minute session with The Council to hear all their guidance for Brennan and the rest of us, and let us know what you think.

May 3, 2017 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Gender, Love, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , , , , , | 1 Comment

An Apparent Broken Relationship Contract

This post is inspired by questions for The Council from a reader named Mel, who read our post, Purpose of Sharing This Lifetime, about an apparent broken relationship contract. Mel says he has a similar problem with a woman he was supposed to have made a spiritual agreement with to be partners in this lifetime, but she’s chosen to be with another man and Mel feels she’s broken their relationship contract.

The Council advises Mel that whatever he and this woman pre-planned in spirit before coming into this lifetime, in this lifetime he and this woman are creating the changes they are experiencing. It’s not that this woman broke their relationship contract. It’s that in this lifetime Mel and this woman are now creating new situations.

The Council emphasizes nothing happens to you in this lifetime or any other lifetime that you don’t help create, including this apparent broken relationship contract. Perhaps this situation will take Mel in other directions he also wished to experience. The Council emphasizes there’s always a backup plan. And they add that whether it’s in this lifetime or another lifetime, Mel will come together with this woman to finish what they wish to explore together.

Mel says even though this woman is choosing to be with another man, Mel feels he’s unable to pull away. He believes he wants and needs her love in his life. The Council says in spirit the man this woman is choosing to be with has also agreed to come along at this time, maybe to give this woman the opportunity to choose who she wants to be with. The Council suggests Mel understand he’s part of this agreement with this other man to see how he’ll handle this part of their lives together.

The Council says there is an agreement that the three of them can create other directions in this lifetime if that is what they desire and Mel knew of this in spirit before coming into this lifetime and was fine with this.

The Council advises Mel that when he’s able to  wish this woman well and appreciate the love he has for her as his friend, good things will begin to happen for him. They advise Mel to consider there’s someone else that’s agreed to come along for him if this woman friend of his didn’t choose him. And they say if he allows this to happen he’ll experience even more happiness in this new relationship than he believed possible.

Listen to our 9-minute session (below) with The Council to hear all their guidance for Mel and the rest of us, and let us know what you think.

May 2, 2017 Posted by | Agreement, Audio Content, Channeling, Creation, Love, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , , | Leave a comment

   

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