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Choosing Childhood Abuse

This post answers questions from a reader named, Marie, who’s had an abusive childhood. She asks The Council if a soul can choose a life of pain and suffering, because she can’t believe she’s chosen this for herself. Marie also asks about a strained relationship with her brother in response to our post, What’s is the Purpose of a Decade’s-long Strained Relationship with a Twin Brother.

The Council says when you (in spirit) choose a particularly challenging life experience, you don’t think it will be horrible. In spirit you think you’ll be experiencing this difficulty because you’re not feeling your connection to who you truly are as a spiritual being.

When you’re living a painful physical reality it’s because you’re not fulfilling your purpose in this lifetime, which is to experience this difficulty and then turn it around. You have called in this difficult experience for one reason: to change it.

The purpose of this difficulty is to think how much more you are than a human being in a physical body. It’s to turn your thoughts toward love, no matter what you’re experiencing. Love has the ability to change everything. We are all here for the single purpose of bringing love into our lives.

As you meditate on your situation and begin to understand it, you’re realize this difficulty isn’t a punishment you’ve created for yourself or that others are putting you through. You’ve chosen this experience to change it.

Some souls choose to experience difficult emotions in this lifetime. They call in other souls that have agreed to abuse them, and they have agreed to do this only out of love so you can have this experience and get on with your purpose, which is to change your experience to something better.

Sometimes we pick difficult challenges to teach people around us to see it and perhaps change, or for people to see what we’re going through and have compassion for us. You are awakening in other spirits the vibration of love and compassion because you’ve experienced this.

Marie says her mother was able to show love to her brother and concludes her mother must have agreed with her to show her rejection as part of her life experience. And The Council asks Marie what she’s learned from this? Has she learned not to reject other people and realize she deserves more? Move forward on your path, show love, and do good deeds for yourself and others. Stop the hurting and always look forward to doing good.

Marie says she can’t understand how violence to a child can raise consciousness and lead to an experience of love. And The Council says as she looks at what she’s gone through hasn’t she expanded, even a little bit, and learned how to move forward. The violence has served it’s purpose. You have expanded, even if you don’t think so right now.

On a different subject Marie says she’s tried for a long time to make a better relationship with her brother, but he remains distant. The Council says contact with Marie can bring up difficult memories of the past for her brother. He’s choosing to shield himself from these heavy memories for now.

The Council says changing the way Marie sees her relationship with her brother can make it less painful. He’s not in the same place as Marie and isn’t looking to question his past so much. To get past this, send him the pink vibration of love. As he allows himself to take this in, your relationship will change.

The Council asks Marie if she’s ready to let go of the abuse she’s gone through? Now look forward. What kind of life do you want to create? As long as you focus on the abuse, you won’t move forward and create a new life with caring and love.

Learn from what you’ve come through. Change the way you see your life experience. Think about how this has enlightened you and taught the people who went through this with you what they needed to learn. Create the life you desire. Go into the vibration of love, joy, and happiness and think about this more and more.

You are a brave soul and have come through a lot. Now you are the creator of the rest of your life experience. Meditate on this information repeatedly. Eventually a little light bulb will go off and the understanding will occur on a very deep level and the healing will happen.

Marie needs to know that she’s gone through what she (in spirit) wanted to experience. It’s not her job to think about how everyone else handled it. The abuse didn’t happen because there was something lacking in her. It was set up in spirit for her to experience in her physical reality and now it’s over. Now it’s Marie’s turn to create the rest of her life.

Listen to our entire 18-minute session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Marie and the rest of us on this important subject of why we choose in spirit to experience abuse in our physical life, and let us know your feelings on the subject.

October 31, 2017 Posted by | Agreement, Audio Content, Challenges, Channeling, Expansion, Life Purpose, Love, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments

A Relationship – Being Transgender – Dad’s Surgery

This post answers questions from Brennan, who’s concerned about his relationship with his best friend; he wants to know if his mother will ever accept him as transgender; and he’s concerned about handling whatever happens in his Dad’s surgery today.

Brennan says his best friend lives in California and he has strong feelings for her, but their relationship became difficult when he forgot to to put an important word in a text and now he asks The Council how he can fix the problem.

The Council says Brennan has to get to a place where he’s able to think about this situation with his best friend differently. Instead of beating himself up because he forgot to put a word in a text, he can say it now if he wants to and hasn’t already. This situation is likely to pass. If Brennan hangs on to all the things he didn’t do that messed up this relationship, the relationship will stay the way it is.

The Council advises making light of what’s happened. And as Brennan believes this and can be in this lighter energy, he can begin to send this lighter energy to his best friend. It’s okay to make mistakes. We aren’t here to live life perfectly. We’re here to experience what’s good and what we goofed up on and learn not beat ourselves up for our mistakes. If Brennan truly believes he’ll be able to fix this relationship, then he’ll be able to.

Brennan is transgender and he asks The Council if his Mom will ever accept this. The Council says Brennan is helping his mother learn acceptance, which is one of the experiences she wished (in spirit) to learn in this lifetime. He needs to be who he is and allow his mother to accept him at her own pace the way he wants her to accept who he is.

Brennan finishes with a question about his father’s heart surgery, which is scheduled for today. He’s worried his father won’t make it through this surgery and he asks if he’ll be able to handle whatever happens.

The Council says Brennan will be able to handle whatever happens in today’s surgery because it’s all part of what was pre-planned in spirit. Send your father light and love and healing, and accept whatever choice he makes about whether to stay or to leave this lifetime.

Listen to our entire 6-minute session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Brennan and the rest of us, and let us know how you feel about it.

October 30, 2017 Posted by | Audio Content, Beliefs, Channeling, Gender, Love, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , , | Leave a comment

How Do I Send Love to People I Don’t Like?

This post is inspired by a question from a reader who goes by the name, PE, who asks The Council how they can send love to people they don’t like.

PE ended a relationship with a male and female couple earlier this year because PE grew to dislike them even thought PE doesn’t know why because they are nice people. But PE is angry with this couple even though they haven’t done anything to justify PE’s feelings. And PE’s resentment feels like it’s based on something specific. PE moved across the country to create some distance from these people, but they ended up working for the same company in the same city.

The Council says in another lifetime, they think in Rome, you and this couple were in the senate together. You spoke out about your beliefs that weren’t generally accepted by others and this couple was against what you stood for and got many others in the senate to turn against you.

Because of the problems these people caused for you in the senate you decided to leave that life, move away, and start doing something else in a new location, quietly, and by yourself. You worked the land and were happy in this life.

In your current lifetime you wanted (in spirit) to come together with this couple, but subconsciously you were reminded of the lifetime in the senate and you moved away like you did in that other lifetime.

What you and this couple agreed to (in spirit) is that this couple would be nice to you in your current lifetime and you would try to see them with more compassion and love, and learn to trust them. This is part of your purpose here in your current lifetime. Try to let go of the feelings of mistrust and not liking this couple and see who they are and you are as spiritual beings and work out this situation.

When PE is ready The Council suggests trying to rekindle this friendship. They suggest PE meditate on the situation first. Feel compassion for this couple who is trying to fulfill their purpose, and be available to your own healing.

Listen to our entire 5-minute session with The Council to hear all their guidance for PE and the rest of us and let us know how you feel about it.

October 28, 2017 Posted by | Agreement, Audio Content, Channeling, Feelings, Forgiveness, Life Purpose, Love, Other Lifetimes, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit, Trust | , , | Leave a comment

Having More Loving Thoughts About Her Husband

This post is inspired by questions from a reader named, Vacha, who’s asked questions about her relationship with her husband before. She and her young son have moved back to be with her husband (and her son’s father) after a separation due to Vacha feeling abused in their relationship. She says everything is going well so far, but she isn’t feeling happy deep inside and suggests she may be finding it difficult to forget her husband’s past behavior.

The Council asks Vacha if her purpose for moving back with her husband was to be open to trying her marriage again? They say if she focuses on what happened in the past, she’ll never move forward. They ask what Vacha can do to make their relationship better? What would she like to see her husband doing, and talk to him about these things.

Vacha says she’s going to begin meditating on what to do and she asks for guidance to have more loving thoughts and be in a more positive state of mind. The Council says to have more loving thoughts, think about what brought her and her husband together in the beginning of the relationship. When she looks at her husband now, look at him with the understanding that he’s also a spirit in a physical body going through his own lessons. Is he trying to make the relationship work?

The Council says the purpose of this challenge in their relationship is for her to bring love into the situation, change it with her thoughts, and turn the situation around. See her situation the way she desires it to be. Stop focusing on being unhappy. Find the happiness from the memories she has and try to bring this happiness into her life every day.

Listen to our entire 6-minute session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Vacha and the rest of us, and let us know how you feel about it.

October 25, 2017 Posted by | Audio Content, Challenges, Channeling, Love, Marriage, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Confused About Relationship with Her Boyfriend

This post is inspired by questions from a reader who goes by the name, Ivygreat, about her confusing relationship with her boyfriend. When she tries to tell her boyfriend he’s done something to offend her and they need to talk about it, he twists her words and she ends up feeling worse.

The Council says one of the great lessons Ivygreat would like to learn in this lifetime is independence, living on her own, and being able to take care of herself.

Being with her boyfriend will show Ivygreat that perhaps it’s better to leave this relationship and become more independent, or does she wish to stay in this relationship and experience the unhappiness.

The Council feels if Ivygreat was to become more independent, be able to support herself, and not be afraid to go out on her own, this relationship will change.

Ivygreat is in a place where her boyfriend knows he is needed and she is sort of under his thumb. The relationship will remain this way until she finds a way to change it by doing what she can for herself.

The Council says Ivygreat’s boyfriend isn’t able to hear and understand what upsets her about his behavior. He imagines he’s being attacked when she tries to talk to him about these things. For the time being The Council advises holding back this criticism and not trying to explain what’s wrong. Instead The Council advises Ivygreat to let what she doesn’t like about her boyfriend to challenge her to grow.

The Council says as Ivygreat experiences how good it feels to be independent, this feeling good and the ability to meet the challenge and create what she wants will change the relationship for the better.

Listen to our entire 6-minute session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Ivygreat and the rest of us, and let us know your feelings.

October 9, 2017 Posted by | Audio Content, Challenges, Channeling, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , | 2 Comments

Why Has My Housemate Turned On Me?

This post is inspired by a question from a reader who goes by the name, Exhausted Soul, who asks The Council why their housemate has turned on them? Exhausted Soul has a feeling she and their housemate shared a past life together. They don’t think they’ve done anything to deserve this treatment and is having difficulty understanding the situation.

The Council says when we have lessons involving another person that we planned in spirit to learn in our current lifetime, it’s almost 100% certain we know this person from another lifetime and we’re trying to evolve past something we’ve experienced in order to learn from each other and make it better this time around.

This experience isn’t something mean your housemate has done to hurt you. It’s meant to teach you. How do you handle this situation? Do you stay? Do you leave? What do you do with this situation now?

The Council says there was a past life in Asia where you were the brother and your housemate was your younger sister in a family that was destroyed by sickness. When you were 9 years old you found a way to leave your sister and live with another family that took you in as a servant and eventually you were accepted as part of this family.

Your sister, who is your housemate now, was abandoned by you and she had a very short life of hard labor and trying to survive. The anger your housemate has for you in this lifetime is carried over from this Asian lifetime.

The Council says you don’t need to have done something wrong in this lifetime to feel anger from your housemate. This anger is something that was intended to come up so it could be healed. Can you send your housemate love and move on? It was your wish to learn how to be around your housemate and deal with her anger and find love to send to her. You have the opportunity to bring the vibration of love into the relationship this time around when you part.

This previous lifetime has been recreated in this lifetime to see if you handle it with more love or the anger from the previous life. You now have the opportunity to handle this situation differently than you did in your previous life.

Listen to our entire 7-minute session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Exhausted Soul and the rest of us, and let us know your feelings on this session.

October 7, 2017 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Healing, Love, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , | 2 Comments

Will I Find Love?

This post is inspired by a question from a reader named, Kimberly, who is 34 years old and says she’s never been in love. She says she’d like a partner to share her life with, but she suffers from heart failure and worries God has forgotten her.

The Council says if and when Kimberly finds love is totally up to her and it’s her thoughts that will determine what this person will be like.

The Council says when Kimberly feels her life is running out (and they add that they don’t see this happening any time soon), there’s an urgency to create the love she desires, but it’s desired from a place of fear and for this reason it can’t be created.

The Council says Kimberly needs to begin to imagine her life with a loving partner. As she stays in this vibration of love she’ll be able to attract a loving partner into her life.

The Council asks how Kimberly can expect to attract the partner of her dreams when her focus is on her life ending abruptly, not ever being loved, and worrying she may never find love. This isn’t the vibration that will bring her what she desires. She must get past the feeling of never being loved. Find somewhere in her life where she’s experienced love and hold onto that vibration.

The Council says it was Kimberly’s purpose coming into this lifetime to create love in every situation. By experiencing being unloved she then has a desire for the knowledge how to turn this situation around so she can be loved. In asking the question, will I find love? she is given the information on how to turn this situation around. Expect it, have hope for it, and feel happiness as she thinks of it. That’s how she will attract the partner of her dreams.

Listen to our 6-minute session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Kimberly and the rest of us on how to start creating love in our life.

October 5, 2017 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Imagination, Love, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , , | 2 Comments

Do Extra-Terrestrial Beings Live in Our Solar System?

This post is inspired by questions from a reader named, Kristi, who asks if aliens are real (as in extra-terrestrial beings living in our solar system) and she asks if The Council can tell her about them.

The Council says of course aliens or extra-terrestrial beings are real and some end up here on Earth to learn and some to teach. They are not here to harm us. It’s known that aliens are here, but this is kept very quiet.

Bob asked The Council how we would know when we came across an alien and The Council said many times we wouldn’t know. You usually can’t tell by the way they look because they assume a human form, but you’d feel a difference in their energy. You perceive things you never perceived before when you’re in their presence. They are here to learn from us, to teach us, and to add love to every situation.

Bob asked if Kristi has come in contact with any aliens in this lifetime and The Council said when she was a baby there were two aliens who were her neighbors briefly and teachers that were there to observe. These two aliens had contact with Kristi in another lifetime and there was a shared desire to be allowed to come into this lifetime and observe a child in this reality.

The Council says when we dream about aliens they can assume non-human form, but The Council repeats that when aliens come into our human reality they assume a human form. The Council says some aliens leave evidence that can be found that extra-terrestrials have been here so we can learn there is more than the human form. Crop circles are an example of this.

Listen to our entire 13-minute session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Kristi and the rest of us, and let us know how you feel about it.

October 3, 2017 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Feelings, Other Lifetimes, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , , , , , | 3 Comments

   

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