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Confused About Gender Identity and Career

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Harmony, who says he’s been confused about his gender identity. He feels more gender fluid or bi-gender and asks for The Council’s take on this.

The Council says they think it’s wonderful Harmony is questioning his gender identity. Everyone who comes into this Earth reality has both genders – it’s what you choose to work with according to the challenges you pick in this lifetime. There are many people who go back and forth and it’s wonderful because you’re thinking about the whole you.

Harmony asks if he might be making up his female feelings in his head. The Council says not to minimize making things up in your head. You do this because something interests you and its calling you. Explore this and go with these feelings. Does it feel good? Do you fight it? Or is it pleasant for you and gives you joy?

Next Harmony asks what he should be pursuing as far as a career. The Council says there’s never a ‘supposed to’ or ‘what you should be pursuing’ as far as work it concerned. Before you came into this lifetime you wanted to experience many things and the dual gender was one of them. You wanted many opportunities in different careers and to travel to different places. Don’t limit yourself. Go with whatever has your interest at the moment and it will lead you to something else. The purpose of the variety you seek in this life was to give you joy, not hardship. Try everything.

When you try something and it’s boring, then move on to something else. If you try something and it makes you happy then stay with it until you feel a change is necessary. When you find something you love to do, do more of it.

The Council closes by saying you brought many talents with you and because of what you want, explore all of it. Don’t limit yourself.


Listen to the entire 4-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Harmony and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it, or ask your own question.

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January 25, 2020 Posted by | Audio Content, Career, Channeling, Gender, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , | Leave a comment

Married but Attracted to Another Man

This post answers questions for The Council from an anonymous reader who says her mother died recently, we’re moving Dad, I’m getting frequent headaches, feeling family stresses, seeing cracks in my marriage, and feeling isolated. I have deep feelings for a man who isn’t mine. I have a good partnership with my husband, but we’re different people and there are limits to the connection. I love my family, but feel burdened.

The Council asks when you’re in a marriage you say is good, but you’re attracted to another person, if this new person in your life wasn’t there would you still think there are cracks in your marriage?

The attraction you have towards this other person doesn’t have the intention behind it to work out romantically in your current lifetime. If you can understand this man has come into your life to be a friend and you know him from another lifetime, can you appreciate and live with this and still have your private life?

If you’re so attracted to this man that you’re unable to function around him and it’s making cracks in your marriage, take a look at this. This has to do with you and not this other man, not your husband, and not the death of your mother. This has happened so you can ask yourself what you want.

The Council says in another reality very similar to your current lifetime, you and this man are together romantically. Many people don’t understand that other parts of your spirit are living in other realities and your romantic relationship with this man can be working out in one of those realities. Does this make you feel good? Is it enough for you to know that you’re experiencing this romantic relationship in another reality?

But you’re here in the present to focus on the present. What do you want in your here and now? You find yourself attracted to this man and The Council says everything is possible, but you didn’t pre-plan in spirit to get together romantically with this man in your current lifetime. You pre-planned to learn about other realities, to learn how you create, to learn there are many different parts of you living at once in different realities, and to learn how you can have something in one reality but not in another.

As you become more practiced in meditation you begin to know that you already have everything you want. It’s already happening. In your current reality you’re here to learn a certain lesson, in another reality it’s another lesson, and in a third reality it’s yet another lesson. These lessons can be with different versions of all the same people. But isn’t it fun to know you can have what you want? You have what you desire in a vibrational reality as soon as you start to imagine it. If it’s not enough, then take all your focus, every day, and focus on creating it by feeling the way you want your life to be. Eventually it must come to you, but be sure it’s what you want.

Even though your day to day living may be difficult right now you need to experience it. Your headaches are because you’re jumping from reality to reality and you’re not grounding enough. The Council recommends listening to the Chakra Meditations post. You need to surround yourself in white light so that you become clear about what you want and how you want to experience it.


Listen to the 7-minute audio recording of our session with The Council to hear all their guidance for this anonymous reader and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it, or ask your own question.

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January 20, 2020 Posted by | Audio Content, Chakras, Channeling, Desire, Feelings, Marriage, Other Realities, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , , , | 7 Comments

Dreams That Are Out of Body Experiences

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Andrea, who says she’s been remembering more of her dreams lately and they seem very real. She dreams about places she’s been, but in the dream these places are different from the real places. She also dreams about places she hasn’t been and don’t exist in her waking reality.

The Council says it seems Andrea’s spirit wants her to experience things at a faster rate and they feel most of what she’s calling dreams are really out of body experiences, which are projections into other realities while she’s asleep. Just about everyone has these astral projections when they sleep, but they don’t remember them. While your body is asleep your spirit sort of pops out and you visit friends. You go to spirit and talk over lessons you need or things you want to experience that you haven’t experienced before. You meet other souls. You plan your future. And you go to places that don’t exist in your present reality.

You’re always learning and looking for different places to help you experience whatever it is you desire. And because you want this so badly, your spirit is having you remember these experiences as if they were your dreams. Pay attention to the feeling of wherever you go in these out of body experiences. Does it feel good? Do you like being in this place even though it doesn’t match up with the way you remember? Or if you experience a brand new place, why are you there? What’s the feeling you have when you’re in this other dimension?

The Council says one of the reasons Andrea remembers these astral projections is to help her learn about feelings and to experience them from other realities as well as her current reality. In time as you keep having these astral projections you’ll learn the reason your spirit wants you to have them. This is something you wanted to learn and the fasted way to do this is by having these out of body experiences.

As Andrea hears The Council’s reply, what does she think about this? Do you like the idea of astral projecting, or is it scary? If it is scary, why? You’re spirit. Nothing can harm you. There is no end to you. You’re just hopping around different realities trying to learn how you feel in them. Look for clues. Look for familiar things that you see or hear. After you do this many times it will come to you what mysteries you’re trying to solve. And The Council says they know one of the feelings you want to learn about is fear.

You want to work through these feelings of fear. If you’re afraid of something in your current reality, are you also afraid of it in another reality? What is that fear? What does it feel like? What does it remind you of? As you go into these astral projections these are questions to ask yourself.

When you wake in the morning and remember these projections we recommend you write them down and then go through it during the day. I was in this reality. This is what it looked like. Did I see someone familiar? What did I feel like? Was I on a mission? Was I looking for something in that reality? And going through this process will help advance Andrea’s spiritual growth.


Listen to the entire 9-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Andrea and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it, or ask your own question.

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January 19, 2020 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Emotions, Feelings, Other Realities, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , , , | 2 Comments

How Can I Mend a Deteriorated Personal Relationship?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Glenda, who says she met someone about 8 years ago that she believes was her twin soul. We had so many similarities and we could tell without a word what the other was thinking.

The Council says this is because there have been many, many lifetimes where you’ve popped in and out of each others lives, almost like brothers and sisters. The two of you have had lots of fun as well as a lot of challenges. And you continue to want to come in and out of each other’s lives.

Glenda says two years ago this man took a job that required a move to a city further away. He changed after this move and he was aware of this and frustrated by it. We had a few arguments about his behavior, which had never been an issue before, and it led to him largely cutting me from his life.

Glenda says she understands about loss. Both her parents as well as some dear friends have passed from this life and she’s had failed relationships also. The situation with this man doesn’t feel like any of those. It’s more like a piece of herself is missing. She asks The Council if there’s a way to mend the link between her and this man.

The Council says this was an experience she wanted to have from a spiritual perspective. She wanted to learn about loss, how to accept it, and how to let it go. This relationship can be mended, but it will take time. The Council suggests Glenda does the inner work first by sending loving energy and talking to the spirit of this person. You are here to help each other. Learn from this situation. It’s okay to leave each others lives and you’ll always be able to return.

The Council says this situation has been repeated by the two of you in past lives, but there’s a desire on both your parts to be in relationship in this lifetime. The frustration this person is going through is what leads to the arguments and you have to allow this soul time to work this out on their end. With patience, inner work, and meditation contact will be made again. The Council feels it’s possible to hear from this person in six months, but they say the timing is also up to the people involved.

You wish to experience time together then separate. Sometimes in past lives it was for good and sometimes you came back. When you separate you learn more about yourselves and when you come back together you’re able to share what you’ve learned and you both grow from this.

The Council says there’s only a slight possibility of this relationship becoming romantic in this lifetime, but it wasn’t really something that was planned from a spiritual perspective.


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January 13, 2020 Posted by | Audio Content, Challenges, Channeling, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , | 6 Comments

How to Improve Relationship with Your Family

This post answers follow up questions for The Council from a reader named, Kali, who previously asked questions that were answered in our post, Problem Being Estranged from Her Family. Kali says she’s been working hard on this issue, taking The Council’s earlier advice on acceptance, compassion, allowing, and self-examination. She feels like she’s making progress and was able to attend her family’s holiday celebration recently. She says it wasn’t horrible, but she wasn’t able to enjoy herself. She asks if The Council has any more advice on how she can improve her family situation further?

The Council suggests asking why you didn’t enjoy yourself at your family party. What was it about each person you didn’t enjoy? It’s a great experience to be somewhere and not enjoy yourself, but realize you got through it.

It’s wonderful you went to the party and realized it wasn’t that bad. The reason you’re in this situation is to learn more about yourself. What do you expect from these people? How would you have liked the party to be? Did you go to the party expecting it to not work out? Or hoping it will work out, but not having a detailed image in your mind of how it would work out? Did you try to create a happy occasion with your thoughts? Or did you just grumble and go and see what happened?

Kali asks if it’s important that she like her family members. The Council says we’ve come to bring love into this reality. There are things people do that we may not like, but can you love them as another soul? Yes, it’s important to bring love in for your family even if you don’t really like them.

Kali says she feels giving up a desire to be validated by her father has helped her spiritual growth and she asks if The Council can confirm this. The Council says this is true and it’s one of the things you wished to do in this lifetime. You wanted to see everyone as they are and learn to allow them their opinion. But you wanted to have your own opinions about things and yourself and to stand strong in your opinions so that you don’t need to be validated by anyone else.

The Council suggest meeting with your family one on one a little at a time. If this isn’t possible, then do your best to show up at another family gathering and think of each person as a spirit. Meditate on the idea that they’re here with their challenges. They are here to learn from you and you’re here to learn from them.


Listen to the entire audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Kali and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it, or ask your own question.

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January 12, 2020 Posted by | Audio Content, Challenges, Channeling, Love, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , | 4 Comments

Why am I Having Mental and Physical Health Problems?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Carl, who’s wondering why he’s increasingly having problems with his mental and physical health and vitality despite feeling more aware of God, and he wants to know what he’s doing to perpetuate this struggle. He also feels he has a big purpose in this lifetime and asks how the world will come to know him.

The Council asks Carl what routine he uses for getting to know God. Do you feel the joy and happiness from knowing God? Do you feel all is well? If you feel this way the mental and physical challenges you’re going through will decline. The Council says to read about God is one thing and to think about God is another, but they ask Carl to find the feeling of God. Go into your heart and look for the light, even if it’s just a pinpoint. Grow into this light and have it expand. In this light feel for God. God is within you.

The Council says any physical and mental problems always stems from the spirit being confused on it’s path. By bringing the focus of God back into your life and your body the physical and emotional challenges you feel, no matter what they are, will slowly disappear.

How quickly Carl is able to feel better depends on him. How often are you willing to feel the presence of God in your heart and sit in this vibration? Once you begin to do this, even if it’s just for one minute, you’ll begin to see the change. You’ll see how nice this feels and you’ll want to stay in this vibration. You’ll gradually meditate for longer periods of time to stay in this vibration longer and your life will begin to change.

The Council says by Carl not being enough in the light his thoughts aren’t appropriate for what he’s trying to achieve. Change your thoughts. Focus on the energy of love. Be kinder to yourself and do more things you enjoy. If you can get in the vibration of laughter you’ll begin to heal faster.

The Council says each spirit that’s here knows Carl. The fastest way to get people to know you and want to know more about you is to offer these people love, kindness, a service if you can help someone, or an ear to listen to them. As people begin to see you their idea of who you are also changes. The Council says you can take this into any part of your life. You can take this into relationships, you can take this into your career, and you can take this into family matters. By working on this level of love, kindness, and service, doors will open to you and people will want to be around you.


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January 10, 2020 Posted by | Audio Content, Challenges, Channeling, Feelings, Life Purpose, Love, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Why Am I So Attracted to This Man if I’m in a Stable Marriage?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Stella, who recently met a man she calls, “E”, who she has an intense connection with. Stella and E are drawn to each other and she feels so alive and at peace when they’re together. I can see E and me in a loving and supportive relationship, however I’m in a stable and, I thought, happy marriage and I love and respect my husband.

The Council asks Stella if E hadn’t come along would she still think she’s in a loving marriage. You feel an attraction to E that comes from other lifetimes where you were together. The Council says they see in your current lifetime you’re not choosing to come together with E as a romantic partner. You intend to have a supportive friendship for a short time as if you appeared to each other in case either one of you were in need or there are things you’re trying to work out where you need another ear.

The Council advises Stella to focus on her marriage. She is capable of having a good marriage and still having memories of another time where you knew E more intimately. Stella can meditate and ask for information about these previous lives with E and it will come. You may be together with E in a another lifetime. You work well together. But your focus should now be on your marriage. Find the happiness there and support it and you can have the best of both worlds where you are happily married and you have a wonderfully supportive friendship.

The Council says Stella, her husband, and E were all siblings in another lifetime in the early 1700s. There’s an energy that holds the three of you together from this other lifetime. All of you agreed to come together in your current lifetime so you could work together and The Council doesn’t see any reason for Stella to hide her friendship with E from her husband. As you move forward with this you can see the three of you merge together in your thinking and it should be very nice.


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January 8, 2020 Posted by | Agreement, Audio Content, Channeling, Marriage, Other Lifetimes, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , | 4 Comments

Will a Move to My Country of Origin Be Positive for My Family?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader who goes by the name, SoulPeace, who’s thinking about moving from the USA to the country where her parents live, and she asks if this move will be a positive one for her and her family.

The Council says the positive change SoulPeace is looking for would have to come from within her. Your attitude and hopes for this move, what you focus on from the moment you make the decision to go, if you see this move as peaceful and loving, then you will create the move this way. If you go with fear there will be discontent and relationships where you don’t get along, then you’ll create this sort of move instead. The Council feels this would be a wonderful move if SoulPeace can go with the correct thoughts and feelings. If you go knowing the move will work it will be a wonderful move.

SoulPeace is also thinking about retiring from her current Information Technology job and starting another profession like investment banking or something to do with the stock market because she believes this might give her more time with her child and her family. The Council says this would also be a wonderful change and they see this working out for SoulPeace, but it depends on how she creates this in her life. They say a change all around will be very beneficial. If SoulPeace thinks of these changes as a new beginning and keeps seeing her life the way she wants it to be, The Council says it will manifest.

SoulPeace asks about the timing for this move and The Council says to get back into meditation. It’ll change the way you think, bring in a positive attitude, bring clarity, and it will open the proper doors for you. Think about the decision to move, give yourself a little time, and then start the wheels in motion.


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January 6, 2020 Posted by | Audio Content, Career, Channeling, Meditation, Questions & Answers, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , , , | 2 Comments

Was I Unloved When I Was Previously Aborted in Another Life?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Joni, who was told by her spiritual healer recently that her spirit was aborted by one mother before she came into her current lifetime with a different mother. Joni asks if she wasn’t loved in that lifetime where she was aborted.

The Council says your spirit wanted to experience the lesson of going through an abortion and so you agreed to this in spirit and pre-planned it. The reason you were aborted wasn’t because you were unloved, it was because the mother felt alone and couldn’t handle the stress of having a child at that time. You agreed to help the mother have this experience by being aborted, and then you’d go on to experience a life that you planned for yourself. (Our apologies for Bob mistakenly referring to Joni as Terri in this section of the recording.)

Joni asks if the abortion has anything to do with why she doesn’t feel a bond with her brothers and sister in her current lifetime. The Council says you’re experiencing this difficulty bonding with your brothers and sister because in another lifetime you had these same siblings, but a disease in that lifetime caused all of you to die early.

In your current lifetime you all agreed to come together again. Some of you are open to being together and some of you don’t want to feel a connection because there’s an unconscious fear of losing each other again. Search yourself to see if there’s an uncomfortable feeling that comes up. That would be from this other lifetime.

You’ve all chosen to be together again. Ask yourself how you’d like that experience to be and work towards that. A feeling of being cut off from each other is normal under the circumstances, but you’re all here to change that feeling. Let go of the fear of not being connected with your brothers and sister. Meditate and think of each of your siblings and know they’re souls you know from another time.


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January 2, 2020 Posted by | Agreement, Audio Content, Channeling, Love, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , | 3 Comments

   

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