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Will My Ex-Husband Return to Me and the Child I’m Pregnant With?

This post answers a question for The Council from a reader named, Irena, who says I just became aware I’m pregnant and my ex-husband has divorced me. He doesn’t want anything to do with the child or me. I was completely blindsided by the divorce and I had no idea we had issues in our marriage.

The Council asks Irena if she was aware her husband didn’t want children? He planned in spirit that if the two of you came together in your current lifetime there would be no children. Having children is not part of the lesson your ex-husband wanted to learn. Your ex-husband is following his path and this is something you agreed to in spirit also. Having a divorce and your child not having a father was also in the plan you made in spirit.

In the future there will be someone in your life who will be a husband to you and a father to your child. The coming together with your ex-husband isn’t something we see either of you really wanting. The pregnancy was for you to learn to have a child independently and become more self-sufficient.

Because your ex-husband was abandoned in a previous life, he wanted the experience of abandoning his child in his current life because he was unable to understand how a father could do this and he chose this abandoning role to learn more about it.

In response to Bob’s question whether the pregnancy precipitated the divorce, The Council says there were other things that allowed the divorce to happen.

Irena asks if her ex-husband regrets his decision to divorce her and will he come back to her and the baby she’s pregnant with. The Council says they don’t see this happening. Concentrate on your child and being a single parent. This is what you wanted.


Listen to the entire 3-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Irena and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it, or as your own question.

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August 12, 2020 - Posted by | Questions & Answers

3 Comments »

  1. Been in this exact place and it all worked out fine. Hang in there, Irena, and just know that not only does everything happen for a reason, it’s usually the best reason.

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    Comment by Pam Lazos | August 12, 2020 | Reply


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