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How Can I Help This Man With His Commitment Issues?

This post answers a question for The Council from a reader named, Aquarius, who has a follow-up question to the ones we answered in our post, Why Has the Man in My Life Become So Distant? She says thank you for providing me with some clarity on this situation. Can you tell me how I can help this man with his commitment issues?

The Council says because this man is afraid to commit to an intimate relationship at this time, giving him room right now is the best thing you can do. If you try getting closer to this man at this time and push the relationship, this will go in the opposite way of what he needs. Be more of a friend right now and make the relationship as free as you can. Let this man come and go. When he does come, be there and enjoy the relationship for the way it is.

When there’s no pressure to take the relationship further and there’s just a lovely time getting together, in time this will help his commitment issue between the two of you disappear. Right now the best thing to do is to be friendly and give this man the freedom that no one is pushing him into a corner. Without going too deeply into what’s coming up for this man, these commitment issues are something he’s gone through in another lifetime.

Don’t force this relationship. Be loving. Be fun. Be open. When this man feels the want, not the need, to be around you, the relationship can begin to change.

If Aquarius has a desire to explore other relationships while she’s waiting for this man to work through his commitment issues, it’s up to her. Isn’t it wonderful that the choice is hers to decide how she wants to handle this situation? Do you want to see other people while you’re working on this relationship with this man? Or do you want to just concentrate on this man? This is why you’re the creator and you have the freedom and the choice, moment to moment, to make any choice you want. And if you don’t like the choice you make, you can make another choice.

Listen to the entire audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Aquarius and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it, or ask The Council your own question in a comment box that appears at the bottom of most of our blog pages.

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February 26, 2021 - Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Choice, Other Lifetimes, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , , ,

1 Comment »

  1. Thankyou so much for your answer. I am giving him space and I am focusing on myself.
    With Love and Gratitude,
    Aquarius xx

    Liked by 1 person

    Comment by Aquarius | March 2, 2021

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