Ask The Council

What will you ask Spirit?

Why Am I Intimidated By My Boss?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Audrey.

Audrey: I know I have a romantic past life with my boss, but why am I intimidated by him, or almost scared of him?

Council: What we see here is there’s not a life with a romantic relationship. In this particular past life you were siblings in a very large family and he was the oldest, and your parents had passed over already so he was taking care of the family. And your brother was very stern and very, very strict. He gave you and all the siblings many, many chores to do, and it was a hard relationship.

And when you were about twelve years old he left. He abandoned the whole family and you were terrified. And you even tried to find him, but you couldn’t, and it left you with a feeling of fear. And then you thought if he came back, what would he be like?

So that is disturbing you in your current lifetime because you’ve come together to try and be nice to each other, try to be supportive of each other, you working for him, him working with you. But that particular life does not have a romantic relationship between the two of you.

So we suggest you meditate on this life. Try to imagine being in a big family with him taking care of you, and it was a very hard life, and then being abandoned, but yet being afraid if he came back, what would he be like.

Bob: And what about Audrey’s question, why am I intimidated by him or almost scared of him?

Council: You were intimidated and scared of him in that previous lifetime. You were very young and he had to take on the whole family and try to take care of them. And he was a very angry person because he had to take care of everyone. So that left you in that lifetime being afraid of him, being intimidated, and having to do everything he said.

And so, in your current lifetime the feeling is coming up. But what you work on in this lifetime is that you don’t have to be intimidated, you can make boundaries, and you can be together as co-workers and friends. And the two souls here just want to get on pleasantly in this lifetime and be supportive of each other.

Bob: And you don’t see any past lives where Audrey had a romantic relationship with this soul?

Council: It doesn’t pertain to what’s going on now. This life as brother and sister is what’s affecting their current lifetime.

Bob: Is there a past life where they had a romantic relationship?

Council: We’re sure there probably are many.

Bob: But this past life as brother and sister is the one that’s affecting her currently?

Council: Yes, that’s what we said. Yes.

Bob: Okay.

Council: And so we wish you love, and happiness, and fun in creating your lives. You are the creator in your life. No one else is.


Listen to the entire 4-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Audrey and the rest of us, and let us know what you feel about it.

You can also ask The Council your own free question by typing it into one of the Comment boxes that appear at the bottom of most of our blog pages, and we’ll answer it when we have time.

Or you can pay $60 to speak with The Council on the telephone for a half-hour by clicking on this link. Once we receive your payment, we’ll contact you by email to arrange a mutually convenient day and time for your phone call and your questions.

If you like this post, please click the LIKE button in the section following the recording to let us and other readers know. Thanks.

December 30, 2023 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Other Lifetimes, Questions & Answers, Relationships, You Create Your Reality | , , | 1 Comment