Ask The Council

What will you ask Spirit?

Welcome

Bob & Cynthia

Welcome to Ask The Council, a blog where you can ask a group of loving and wise spirit guides a question and get an answer, for free. You can contact us for a paid private session with The Council, and you can read the questions other readers have asked and the answers they’ve received. Other posts contain quotations from The Council that we hope you find inspiring, uplifting, and educational.

Ask The Council a Question

If there’s a question you’ve been thinking about and you’re curious how The Council might answer it, we encourage you to either use the blog’s Comments feature to ask your question, or contact us for a private session. You can click here to go to the ‘Let us know what you think about this post, or ask The Council a question’ section of this Welcome post and type your question there or you can type your question in the same section at the bottom of any post that inspires you to ask a question or leave a comment.

Since the blog is currently a project we do in our spare time it can take a while for us to do a session with The Council on a question and then publish a post on the session. Depending on the question and the session it can sometimes take weeks after a question is asked to publish a post with The Council’s answer. Please be patient.

The Council

Cynthia is able to communicate with a group of five non-physical spirit guides in a manner similar to the way Esther Hicks communicates with and speaks for the spirit guides, Abraham, and Jane Roberts communicated and spoke for the spirit guide, Seth. I (Bob) basically interview The Council as they speak through Cynthia during what we refer to as a session. Sessions generally last 5-15 minutes and are usually audio recorded. During the session Cynthia is aware of what The Council is saying and she also receives visual impressions and other types of telepathic communication from them.

The Council’s Basic Guidance

Since we began these sessions with The Council around 2009 they consistently emphasize a few basic ideas that we attempt to summarize here:

1) You are an eternal spiritual being in a physical body.

You are the energy and vibration of continuously expanding love, intelligence, and joy.

Your physical experience in your physical body and your psychological experience of your personality is a small part of the totality of who you truly are.

Let yourself imagine from time to time what it might feel like to experience more of the wondrous totality of who you really are, and don’t be surprised if you are able to experience this more often.

2) You are the creator of all that you experience.

As you open to the possibility your true nature is greater than you ordinarily perceive, it becomes easier to consider the possibility that this expanded you is truly the creator of everything that you experience.

If you’re used to thinking of yourself in a more limited sense, the idea that you are the creator of your experience may be difficult to understand. Our post, What About This Idea That We Create Whatever We Desire, offers insights into this idea.

3) You are here to expand the love you are into physical reality.

You chose, as a spiritual being, to come into this physical reality to experience the joy of expanding the love you are as a spiritual being, into this physical reality. This is your purpose for being here.

Finding Your Way Around the Blog

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At the bottom of the left column on the Home page is a ‘Previous Entries’ link that will take you to a page with a list of earlier posts.

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The right-hand column of most blog pages contains this Welcome message. Below the Welcome message in the right-hand column are some useful features:

Email Subscription: Use this to subscribe to blog posts. You will receive an email notification with a link back to the blog each time a new post is published.

Search: Type a keyword or phrase and click the Search button to get a list of posts in the left column that contain the keyword or phrase.

Archives: The Archives list indicates the number of posts for each month listed. Clicking on the link for a month will display in the left column of the page a list of the posts published that month.

Categories: This is a list of keywords used to categorize posts. Posts can be included in more than one category, if applicable. Clicking on a category link will display in the left column a list of posts assigned to the category you selected.

Navigation Bar

The Navigation Bar at the top of each page contains a link to the blog Home page and links to the following additional pages:

Welcome: A link that displays this Welcome message in the left column (and the right column). At the bottom of the Welcome message is a Comment box where you can post a general comment about the blog or ask The Council a question.

Questions & Answers: Use this link to display a list of introductions to our longer posts, most of which are responses to reader questions. This is an easy way to check out these more in-depth posts. They are listed in chronological order with the most recent post on top. Clicking on the post title will take you to the page where you can read the complete post.

Contact Us: The Contact Us page contains a contact form similar to the Comment form mentioned above. The difference between the Contact Us form and the Comment forms is that the Contact Us form is a private message to us (Cynthia and Bob). It is not posted on the blog. Comments appear on the post page where the comment is posted. The Contact Us form can be used for communicating with us about private sessions or other private matters you think aren’t appropriate for posting in a public Comment.

Bob & Cynthia

312 Comments »

  1. Hi, a few days ago I had a detailed dream about a man with negative energy, his intentions were not specifically known but left me with that feeling. I was supposed to be setting up a play date with this little girl that lived at this man’s house for my daughter, but he didn’t want us there when I arrived. I’m not really sure if these details matter, but the one significant aspect seemed to be that he had a large black snake around his neck the snake was mostly covered in bees. Any ideas to what my subconscious might be trying to tell me? The dream gets more and more vague after that. Thank you again for this opportunity.

    Comment by Lavender | November 16, 2017 | Reply

    • Interesting dream, Lavender. This may be The Council’s first question about dream interpretation. We’ll ask when we have time and post the recording of our session. Stay tuned. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 16, 2017 | Reply

      • Great! That’s exciting, I’d like to add that it was sitting draped over his neck, more like a pet vs. him being constricted by it, that detail might also be important.

        Comment by Lavender | November 16, 2017 | Reply

        • Noted, Lavender. Stay tuned for The Council’s response.

          Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 17, 2017 | Reply

  2. Hi Cynthia, Bob & The Council,

    Thank you for sharing your amazing gifts and your valuable time to help other people. Your blog is very informative and I enjoy reading it.

    I would like to ask Spirit a personal question about myself and the spiritual journey I am on. I started my awakening several years ago, and since then, my thirst for knowledge has been insatiable. It’s almost like I have this constant magnetic pull to the Spirit realm. It is constantly on my mind, and when I try to distance myself from it (spirit), I end up right back at it. I guess my question is, why? Why is the pull to Spirit so strong? And what am I supposed to be doing with it? What is my purpose in all of this? I guess I need a little direction. I obviously want to serve God and my Higher Purpose and acheive my goals for this lifetime, but I’m not clear on what they are. Any guidance would be greatly appreciated!

    Thank you so much! Much love.

    Kristi Louise

    Comment by Kristi Louise | November 13, 2017 | Reply

    • Good questions Kristi. When we have a chance we’ll ask The Council and see what they have to say, and we’ll post their reply when it’s ready. Stay tuned. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 13, 2017 | Reply

  3. Hello Bob and Cynthia. I asked a few questions a few months ago. I loved the response y’all and the Council gave me. You confirmed what I was thinking all along. I do have a couple more questions. If you don’t mind.

    My best friend lives in California. I have such strong feelings for her. I feel as though she is my soul mate. We both know that we are in each other’s soul group. My question is, will I ever be able to be with her? What do I need to do to help her talk to me again?

    Our relationship got a little messed up when I forgot to put the most important word in the text. I love her so much. How can I fix it?

    My parents still do not like that I am transgender. My dad and I have agreed to disagree. No big deal. My mom is still having the hardest time with it. Will she ever get off my back about being transgender? She believes that I am not supposed to be transgender. She thinks I chose to be this way. Why is she giving me such a hard time?

    My dad is having heart surgery on the 30th of this month. So, on Monday. I’m worried that he isn’t going to be the same after the surgery. Honestly I’m worried that he isn’t going to make it through the surgery. We just lost a family friend of ours. They say things come in threes. Will I be able to handle what ever happens to my dad?

    Thank you for listening to me. I thank you for all the things you and the council do for everyone.

    ~Brennan

    Comment by Brennan | October 27, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, Brennan. We’re glad you liked The Council’s response to your previous question and that you’re asking more. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and post their response on our blog. In the meantime, think uplifting thoughts about your Dad’s surgery tomorrow. We are. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 29, 2017 | Reply

  4. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the council,
    Thank you so much for this opportunity to ask you and the guides some questions! I would like some clarification on my future please. Do you see a move for me? What do you see career wise? Anything for my children and husband? Thank you so much for your time.
    Love and Light, Maria

    Comment by Maria | October 27, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, Maria. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions when we have time. We’ll post their reply when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 29, 2017 | Reply

  5. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the council,

    I want to thank you for all the guidance that you have been giving me with the help of the council. I always try to read and re-read it when I am stuck with something.

    Me and my son have moved back with my husband a week back. Although everything is going well so far, I am not feeling happy deep inside. Th happiness is superficial and is not coming from heart. I feel my inner self is not that happy, may be I am finding it hard to forget what happened in the past.

    I will start meditating on it. Can you please guide me what can I do to help my self to have more loving thoughts and be in more positive state of mind. I feel like my inner self is trying to tell me something I can’t hear in meditation/intuition. Can you please guide me if this is the case.

    Immensely thankful,

    Thanks,
    Vacha

    Comment by learningsoulsite | October 5, 2017 | Reply

  6. Hello , I am still single at 34 and have heart failure and I worry about running out of time to find love. I have never once found love. I feel like god has forgotten me. Please let me know if and when I will find love and a description of him. I would like a partner to share my life with. Thanks

    Comment by Kimberly | September 19, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, Kimberly. We’ll try to get some answers for you about a love relationship in your life. We’ll post a response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 25, 2017 | Reply

  7. Good evening,
    I’m looking for some guidance and insight into a struggling romantic relationship, and my own self worth.

    I wrote to the council about 9 months ago and I’m happy to report that my son, although still has a tick disorder, is doing much better and happier! Thank you!

    I however am still stuck in this cycle with Ty, and don’t know how to let him go or create a loving supportive relationship. I was wondering if you had any insight as to our soul agreement for this lifetime and/or on our past lives together?

    Even though friends and family have told me to let him go, I don’t want to give up. I see past his masks and into his heart and I love him. I feel a very strong connection with him and love that I can’t seem to sever even though he has expressed not being ready for this relationship right now. I don’t want to let him go. I’ve found myself terrified of being alone, jealous and like I’m being abandoned by him. Even though he says he’s not ready, he still spends majority of his time with me and my son. This week, I lost control of myself and was not kind. I embarrassed him and he is taking his space from me. I believe in love and that we can make it through anything, but he is very prideful and even though he won’t admit it, sensitive.

    How do I fix this relationship?Can I heal these wounds I’ve inflicted? Are we bound to repeat this cycle again/ what are we supposed to learn from this? I feel very lost, so any direction on my path would be greatly appreciated.

    Thank you for your time and guidance. Love and light to you!

    Comment by Kelly | September 10, 2017 | Reply

  8. Hello Bob,Cynthia and the Council –

    Hope you are well. I came to know about the website from my daughter. My Name is Arvinda and My husband’s name is Yogesh.

    We live in India. I have been hearing about the Soul and its learning in this life. I want to understand what is my are my learning lessons in this life.

    Also I would really appreciate if you can also tell me what are my husband’s learning lessons in life.

    When I look back at my life, I have always done so much for my life and haven’t quite received the same amount of love from them. Now I am close to 60 years old and my husband is 62 years old.

    If you can please help us to acknowledge it with my learning lessons and my husband’s learning lessons – I would be deeply grateful.

    Thanks,
    Arvinda and Yogesh

    Comment by Arvinda Dave | August 21, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, Arvinda. We’re so glad Vacha has recommended our blog to you. As soon as we get a chance we’ll ask The Council about your lessons and the lessons of Yogesh in this lifetime and post their response. Please stay tuned. It may take a while since there are several questions ahead of yours. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 21, 2017 | Reply

  9. Dear Cynthia, Bob & Council

    I am planning to move to Cambodia early next year to fulfill my dream and to do the work I feel I am guided to do. I have to leave my cat behind as she cannot travel with me. I have found somebody that is willing to take her in when I leave for Cambodia, but I would like to ask a few questions to the council that I would like to have clarity on.

    1. Is this person the correct one to look after her?
    2. I understand why she came into my life (my healer and support in very difficult times), but what did I agree to offer her in this lifetime and did I do that for her? I feel sad and guilty to leave her behind, while she was so good to and for me. Did we agree that I would leave her behind?
    3. Can the Council tell me about previous lifetimes, as I feel we shared more than this?
    4. Does she understand why I have to leave her behind and is she ready to move on?
    5. Did I have a previous lifetime in Cambodia (I feel an intense need to go back since I was there for a holiday 5 years ago) and is it the right move/time for me to go?
    6. An old Cambodian woman who did a reading for me believe that I was her doctor in a previous life. Does the Council have anything for me about this?
    7. I feel guided to produce a specific synergetic transformational essence blend, do transformational retreats for tourists, some healing work at a wellness centre in Cambodia and whatever else I feel guided to when I am there. Does the Council have anything for me about this?

    Once again, I am very appreciative of the work you do and the opportunity to be able to get clarity on the questions I have.

    Much love and appreciation
    Just Me Again

    Comment by Just Me Again | August 15, 2017 | Reply

    • Interesting questions about your cat and Cambodia. We’ve already recorded a session with The Council on it, but it may take a while to post it. Please be patient. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 21, 2017 | Reply

      • So glad to hear, thank you, and i will be patient. Love & Blessings x

        Comment by Just Me Again | August 21, 2017 | Reply

  10. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the council,

    Hope you guys are doing good. I am trying to do meditation as much as I can, as the Council suggested — to reach the answers of the questions that I have myself. It does give me peace and seems like it’s helping me to grow in a way. Thank you council for that.

    I do feel something special few times during meditation, but I can’t seem to reach to the answer or intuition by myself during meditation. Can the council please guide me where I am going wrong or what can I improve upon in the meditation that I am doing. I usually do guided meditation and the color meditation(Imagining a color green/white and letting it flow through my body).

    I did have one experience of seeing white light and hearing voices which I could remember after waking up before 5 years in a dream at night(after praying for a long time), but I can’t seem to reach to that state again.

    One more thing I want to ask the council is that I have been reading Michael Newton – Journey of souls and destiny of souls – In that book its written that we have a primary soul mate and a soul group in which we frequently incarnate. I do understand the concept of a soul mate that they can be a friend, sister/brother, husband or any other relationship.

    The relationship with a soul mate is different from what I understand, they help each other to grow and be of support/ there is an inherent feeling of “coming home” with a soul mate.

    I feel that all the romantic relationships I had till now, I never connected with anyone at that level that I can feel they are my soul mate. I do have friends, relatives with whom I feel deep connection but in terms of romantic relationships, I don’t think I have reached that feeling of sharing a deeper connection.

    As the Council suggested before, the lesson to be learned from this life was to be very independent. It may mean that I need to be emotionally independent and not rely on anyone. Can the council please guide me if the learnings that I have is a reason that I haven’t come across to my soulmate yet. I am not sure if there is a possibility in the future to meet a person who is/has been my primary soul mate/spouse in my past lives.

    Thanks so much.

    Loads of love.

    Comment by learningsoulsite | August 9, 2017 | Reply

    • Two good questions, LearningSoulSite. We’re glad your meditations are bringing you peace and helping your grow. We’ll ask The Council how you can improve your meditations, and your question about soul mates when we have time, and we’ll post their response. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 9, 2017 | Reply

  11. Hi Bob, Cynthia, and The Council,

    I feel quite shy asking this question, but curiosity has gotten the better of me so here it goes… Earlier this year, a psychic told me that I am a “channel” much like Cynthia. While I have had sensory experiences–smelling phantom scents and occasionally feel like I’m having a conversation in my head, I’ve certainly never had an experience where I can do any automatic writing, feel like I know the future, or channel spirit. Can you offer some feedback on this?

    Much love and gratitude to you all.

    Comment by Anonymous | August 4, 2017 | Reply

  12. Hello Council,
    I had an abortion. Now I want to die. I am told I took a life and now I don’t want to live anymore. I have two kids and a husband but I have no desire to live. I was shy of five weeks. I try and communicate with the soul. I’ve read every book regarding past life regressions and aborted spirits returning to the same mother but nothing makes me feel better. I feel shunned. Scared. And fear divine retribution.
    My life feels as if it is over. What can the council offer?

    Comment by Casey | July 27, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, Casey. Try and hold on. We did a session with The Council today to answer your question. We understand an abortion can be a difficult time and we’ll try to get their reply to you shortly. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 30, 2017 | Reply

  13. Hello Bob and Cynthia and The Council! I have a question about people with Autism. I understand that people with Autism think differently than “typical” people. Working with this population shows that people with Autism can lack empathy or ability to read facial expressions and body language. They often perseverate on items or concepts and communication can be difficult. My question is, if we plan our lives in advance, why would so many people choose to be born with Autism?

    Comment by EG | July 21, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, EG. We haven’t had many or any questions specifically about autism. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question and post their response when it’s ready. Thank you for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 22, 2017 | Reply

  14. Hello, my question is about whether or not I should be sexually intimate with my best friend. Does the council see this becoming an issue later on, or could it remain light and fun, which is what it’s meant to be? Im also wondering if we were connected from a past life or if this is a fresh feeling and new intention/relationship?

    Comment by Lavender | July 11, 2017 | Reply

    • Good question, Lavender. When we get a chance we’ll ask The Council your question and post their response. Stay turned. Love & light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 11, 2017 | Reply

      • Thank you! Im very much looking forward to the response!!

        Comment by Lavender | July 21, 2017 | Reply

  15. Happy summer! And such a happy summer it is, greatly in part to the healing I’ve received from the council. I am moving in the direction of love and working everyday to create expansion within myself and my family. I feel stronger as each week passes and my confidence is larger than it has ever been before.

    I am certain that I am able to invite the very soul that I love so much into this family and even though I sometimes get anxious about exactly when this will happen, I have been able to call my energy back to me and re-focus relatively easily. My gratitude for this gift goes beyond words or the physical. Thank you.

    I have two questions now that I feel can help me even further. The first is this: Is there any advice for my partner on helping me to create this pregnancy? We have started trying, but he is still unsure if this is a possibility due to a report form the doctor that he received years ago. I’ve told him that our thoughts create our reality and I believe this with my whole heart, but I’m also wondering if there’s anything he can do with his physical body to help promote fertility? Is it strictly mind over matter? Anything I can send his way is much appreciated!

    My second question is one about my son. He is an amazing little boy who has taught me SO much and continuously pushes me to be my best self. I would like some advice on how to help him through some things he seemed to come into this life with. (I’m sure I’ve also partially created, during times of struggle where I have been less than perfect as his mama.)

    He’s a perfectionist. He wants very much to please and even more than that, he always wants to be on top. I know to some extent this is normal for all children, but I worry that he will be untrue to himself by being so concerned with having to be so perfect all the time. I want him to know that my love is unconditional and I want him to feel secure in making decisions that feel good to him as opposed to what he might think others want, from him.

    He is such a special little boy, smart beyond his years and SO easy to love. He has difficulty opening up and allowing himself to love my partner. Sometimes this bothers me and I know he holds back his true feelings surrounding the situation because he doesn’t want to upset me. I want to encourage communication and honesty while making sure he feels loved and secure, especially as this family grows. I want to provide him with tools that he will use for the rest of his life, tools that will make his journey more joyful and spiritual.

    Please tell me what I can do to help him and I will implement it immediately! And just out of curiosity, could you sneak in a little info about any past lives I’ve shared with both my little boy and my partner? I’m just SO darn curious!!! Thank you. Always and eternally.

    With all the LOVE,
    Wendy

    Comment by Wendy Aronsson | July 2, 2017 | Reply

  16. Hi Bob, Cynthia and the council,

    We have a spiritual leader/Guruji that we go to for guidance mostly related to family issues or gaining more spiritual knowledge. He says he can also talk to spirit world and gives us guidance based on that and on Astrology.

    Sometimes he says it is because of Astrology and he suggests us some chants, rituals of “pooja” that gets performed by priests. Most of the rituals include praying god and asking for wellness through interacting number of sanskrit shlokas.
    Sometimes that does have an effect and the other times it has positive effects but lasts temporarily.

    The more I read consunil’s guidance and read about spirituality – I have a question about the authenticity and the actual impact of such kind of rituals performed. One thought I have is it might work because we “believe” in it and it doesn’t if we dont “believe”. But I am not sure on this part.

    As the counsil say – We need to learn our lessons in order for our soul to grow and we “choose” this “difficult” experiences before taking birth. However, when we are born we sometimes feel its too much to handle and resort to such kind of activities. What I wanted to ask is that – does this sort of rituals have any effect or can postpone learning the lessons.

    The other question I have is regarding two of my friends – Pragna and Priayanka. I feel I share a connection from past lives with both of them. Both of them always love and give me support when I was going through difficult time. Can the council please tell me about the past lives we have shared and what is the pre birth plan for me with both my friends. I particularly love my friend Pragna who is in USA and I miss her a lot. She helps a lot in staying positive and sort of keeping me happy.
    I wish I can be toeghether with Pragna in future. Can the counsil see that happening ? or we were just meant to be together physically for a short amount of time and we need to live in separate countries now.

    Thanks for showing love and light – Bob,Cythia and the counsil
    Loads of love.

    Comment by learningsoulsite | June 30, 2017 | Reply

  17. Hello, I have a question for The Council. I feel like there is so much more that I have to accomplish and get depressed when things don’t work out. I’m convinced that I have the ability to live the life I want to lead, but seem to be frustrated quite often–meaning things seem like they might happen then don’t. Also, I have a bit of difficulty with people. Any advice? Anything from a previous life that I am trying to rectify? Which career at this point would I be most successful?

    Thanks!

    Comment by Anonymous | June 28, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, Anonymous. Good questions. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and post their response. Stay turned. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 28, 2017 | Reply

  18. Hi Bob and Cynthia,
    I asked a question of the council a few months ago and was grateful for your thoughtful response- I had recently had an abortion and was really feeling sad and guilty about it (In my previous question I wondered if the aborted soul would return o our family). I’ve tried to work through my negative feelings around the abortion these past few months- saw a few therapists, have done some reading, tried communicating with the aborted soul…. and while I do feel more functional, I feel there is still so much more work to do. Can the Council provide any guidance as to how I can truly work through this experience in a healthy way and learn to forgive myself?

    Comment by Anonymous | June 5, 2017 | Reply

  19. Hello Bob,Cynthia and Counsel,

    Hope you guys are doing good. From the last couple of days I have been thinking about a question, which is in regards to my marriage.
    For a long time almost for 5 months, my husband was not calling me and we were still going over the issues the two times we talked in that time. Now, from last week he called and he claims that he is changed and he understood my issues and willing to work on those. He sounds very changed but I am little bit skeptical since this is not his usual behavior with me. I am more keen on settling in India and he is saying he would need like 2 more years to do that.

    The question that keep me unsure is that – if he is actually changed or he wants me just for the sack of money and the home loan that we have. When I go there, I am pretty much alone without a family and I need to go through a lot if those issues happen again.

    I also think about the counsel’s guidance from last time and it was said that in the pre birth plan, the issues between my husband and me were suppose to be resolved once I learn to be independent. I also think about our son and feel that if things to workout, it would be good for him and me for our future life together.

    If I think about it positively and move ahead and possibly reconcile, Is this a good time to do that or should I wait for some more time. Can the counsel please guide me as in what changes I should see in him and may be in me too in order to this relationship to workout.

    Thanks so much.

    Love,
    Vacha

    Comment by learningsoulsite | May 22, 2017 | Reply

  20. I have decided to write in today, as my mom has often pointed The Council out to me and has even written about a difficult situation I had to go through (a second time again) to you and showed me the response.
    I have three main holes in me that I need help healing.

    First, it is my relationship. I will be 25 years old in a few months. I am dating (and staying with) a 21 year old man. Although I have great confusion around this, I am almost sure I love him for the right reasons. We have been together for two years (then broken up for, not sure, but could be 6 months – because I decided to pursue a love-less ego boost relationship with someone I could never pursue a life with). And by some “miracle” I got back with the 21 year old man. It was as of we were never apart. And for a few months it was amazing. I suppose I felt ‘home’ again.

    It’s been a little over a year again, being together, and a lot has changed. He can be the most amazing guy, and then at times make choices that damages me emotionally and to the point where I feel physically sick. Although he is not an alcoholic at all – these bad choices always involves his friends and alcohol. He has made the same mistake numerous of times. Always apologizes, and then he does it again. We are currently at a point where I have told him to stop drinking completely or we need to end this. (Of course everything in me had hoped that he would choose the ‘quit drinking’ issue – which he did).

    The concern I have now though, is. 1. Am I molding this person into someone I want and am I forcing him to face personal issues, he is not ready for? Or could this be a positive thing? 2. I feel haunted by the moments where he has hurt me, yet I want to be in this relationship. Is there a soulmate in this person whom I can pursue a life with? Has he come to a realisation? Is there hope for us? Or have I learnt the necessary lessons and do I need to be strong and let go? What if that will be the biggest mistake ever?

    Another thing I could really use some guidance with is my “career”. I have been an au pair for quite some time. I do this with no passion, in fact, I do it with a heavy heart. This is not my calling. I am more. Yet, I stay stuck, as I can not get a admin job, due to the fact that I have no experience. Also, I can not do it in the “live your life and leave the job that makes you unhappy” way as I have to still survive financially. Where does my heart want to take me? I said ‘admin’ as I feel it is probably the best I can find with only childcare experience.

    Last thing. I have come to the realisation lately that I am utterly unhappy. It is as if my eyes open and my soul told me “Wake up. You need to start loving yourself.” I feel like a have been doing a little bit better, but not with the passion I should be grabbing this new life that awaits me. Maybe just a little guidance on this?

    I want to have a relationship with myself. A joyful, beautiful one. I want to feel free.

    I would appreciate any guidance you offer and await it with a open mind and open heart.

    Thank you.

    Comment by LostSoul | May 8, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, Lost Soul. We’ll ask The Council your questions when we have time and post their response. Love and Light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 10, 2017 | Reply

      • Thank you!
        I am looking forward to ypur response.

        Comment by LostSoul | May 23, 2017 | Reply

  21. Thank you. I can’t wait to hear what the council has to say

    Comment by Brennan | April 27, 2017 | Reply

  22. Hi bob and Cynthia

    Thank you so so much for your time and help. You kindly answered my questions around my new baby and losing my job and also about my fear of being sick.

    Council mentioned that kids get sick and doesn’t mean I should get sick and I shouldnt live in the fear. I’d like to expand on this as this fear is a phobia of myself vomiting and since having kids it’s getting worse and worse. I am so scared of kids catching a stomach bug and I know it’s going to happen one day and I am petrified of catching it. I feel like I would rather die than vomit and it’s taking over my thoughts every day of whether we will catch it. How can I overcome this fear? I know of other people
    With this phobia and no amount of therapy seems to help. I don’t see anyone who has got over it.

    Can anyone help with how I can overcome this? It’s taking over my life and I know one day it will happen. It’s ruining my time as a parent as I am so scared I will not cope!

    I am fine with other illness like colds measles chicken pox – it’s only vomiting 😦

    I would be so grateful for advice as I cannot live like this!

    Many thanks and blessings x

    Comment by Anon | April 27, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, Anon. Maybe there’s a past life connection with your phobia of vomiting. We’ll ask The Council about your phobia and publish a post on their reply. Hang in there. Love & Light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 27, 2017 | Reply

  23. I’ve been learning a little about pre-birth planning. I’m curious to see if y’all can help me with this. My birth name is Sheala. I am changing my name to Brennan. I’m going to be going through the change soon. I’m going from female to male. I’m wondering if I planned in my pre-birth planning to be transgender. If so why did I plan this? It’s hard to even be gay/lesbian in this day and age. Transgender is extremely hard for some to understand. On top of that I have mental illness. What is the purpose for me to have all these things that are “shunned” upon? What is the reason for me in this lifetime?

    Comment by Brennan | April 24, 2017 | Reply

    • Good question, Brennan. We’ll ask The Council as soon as we can a post their response. Love and Light, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 25, 2017 | Reply

  24. Hello, I would love to meet my Soulmate Husband (the soulmate I will marry) soon, someone who I connect with deeply on all levels, and there is huge mutual love. Do The Council have any insights on this please? Is there anything I can do to speed up the process? Are they able to see him at all?

    I understand that I will attract the same vibration as myself… however I struggle with lack/ poverty issues, and would love to meet someone who does NOT struggle with poverty issues, so that I feel safe and secure. Do you have any insights? Many thanks and much gratitude, Diana

    Comment by dianawalles | April 20, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, Diana. We’ll ask The Council how you can find a loving and financially secure husband and post their response as soon as we have time. Love, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 20, 2017 | Reply

  25. Hello, I’m 42 years old, and for over 20 years have been trapped in meaningless, unfulfilling office jobs. I’d love to focus more on my creativity and art, and also to develop healing work and group skills.

    I’ve been in despair for many years – not knowing how to fulfill my potential, because I work in a meaningless, badly paid, full-time job – and have: a) no money to use for trainings b) I’m exhausted all the time c) I have very little spare time to develop my art, healing skills etc. I feel trapped.

    Is there any hope for me still to break out of this cycle, and somehow survive financially? Will I ever get any support from anywhere? I want to feel like I’ve lived, before I die. I hope to thrive one day, to use my potential, and break free from struggle 😦

    Comment by Diana | April 20, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, Diana. We’ll ask The Council about how you can find more satisfying work and post their response when we have time. Love, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 20, 2017 | Reply

  26. I want to ask for your help. I’m 42 years old and a single woman. In my life I’ve never done anything important. For me it´s very difficult to have any kind of relationship or employment. I’m very worried because I feel the time is running and I don´t have a real life. I feel I’m died on life.

    Also I want to know why all that I’ve wanted had become impossible, especially if it’s about a relationship. All my love relationships became impossible and platonic. I usually got obsessed with this man. I really spent a lot of years trying to forget and moved on every relationship.

    In my career I don’t know what to do. I studied something but now I lost interest in this and I’d like to find other things, but this looks impossible too. So I feel very worried for my financial situation and I don’t know what to do to survive now.

    Thank you for all the help you can give.

    Comment by fernanda wu | April 19, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, Fernanda. We’ll ask The Council your questions about relationships and career, and post a response as soon as we have time. Love, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 20, 2017 | Reply

  27. Hello Bob,Cynthia and Counsil,

    Thanks for guiding and inspiring us with all the wonderful answers. Last few days I have been reading few books by Dr.Brian Weiss and Khorshed Bhavnagari’s books about Spirit world. I am also reading Abraham and Hick’s books.

    The question I had is for Spiritual Realms. I have read that each reincarnation that we have is for learning things and we expand in the spirit world. From the books knowledge, there are 7 realms and we grow and eventually become one with source after 7th realm.

    If there are indeed realms, I just wanted to know which level(If there are 7) of realm my spirit belonged to when I took birth in this lifetime and what is the main learning that I intend of having in this life time. From the book, I came to know that depending upon the life we live,based on Karma – we can either expand or we can come down in the realm.

    Can the council please guide us if this is true. If this is not true, how do we exactly expand the learning experiences in this life time?

    Thanks again – loads of respect –
    Vacha

    Comment by learningsoulsite | April 18, 2017 | Reply

    • Hi, Vacha. We’ll ask The Council your question about spiritual realms and post a response as soon as it’s ready. Love, Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 20, 2017 | Reply

      • Hello Bob, cynthia and council,

        I have one more question which I have been thinking from sometime. It is regarding the pre birth plan that I have with my son . Since I dont know yet which way my marriage would go, I am not sure about the future that lies for my son And me with respect to family .
        I was just wondering did my son came to this life knowing that this would happen and what could be his pre birth plan with me and his learnings out of this whole experience of getting born in unstable family.

        Thanks again for helping like you always do,
        Deeply grateful ,
        Vacha

        Comment by learningsoulsite | April 21, 2017 | Reply

        • Hi, Vacha. Please try and wait until we’ve answered your more recently posted questions before posting new questions. This will help us keep track of them. Love and Light, Bob & Cynthia

          Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 21, 2017 | Reply

          • I am sorry bob and cynthia. I would ask new questions later.
            Thanks

            Comment by learningsoulsite | April 22, 2017

  28. Please explain the buffer of time in regards to manifestation.
    thank you

    Comment by Juan Ramirez | April 8, 2017 | Reply


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