Ask The Council

What will you ask Spirit?

Welcome

Bob & Cynthia

Welcome to Ask The Council, a blog where you can ask a group of loving and wise spirit guides a question and get an answer, for free. You can also contact us for a paid private phone session with The Council, and you can read the questions other readers have asked and the answers they’ve received. Other posts contain quotations from The Council that we hope you find inspiring, uplifting, and educational.

Ask The Council a Question

If there’s a question you’ve been thinking about and you’re curious how The Council might answer it, we encourage you to either use the blog’s Comments feature to ask your question, or contact us for a private phone session. You can click here to go to the ‘Let us know what you think about this post, or ask The Council a question’ section of this Welcome post and type your question there or you can type your question in the same section at the bottom of any post that inspires you to ask a question or leave a comment.

Since the blog is currently a project we do in our spare time it can take a while for us to do a session with The Council on a question and then publish a post on the session. Depending on the question and the session it can sometimes take weeks after a question is asked to publish a post with The Council’s answer. Please be patient.

The Council

Cynthia is able to communicate with a group of five non-physical spirit guides in a manner similar to the way Esther Hicks communicates with and speaks for the spirit guides, Abraham, and Jane Roberts communicated and spoke for the spirit guide, Seth. I (Bob) basically interview The Council as they speak through Cynthia during what we refer to as a session. Sessions generally last 5-15 minutes and are usually audio recorded. During the session Cynthia is aware of what The Council is saying and she also receives visual impressions and other types of telepathic communication from them.

The Council’s Basic Guidance

Since we began these sessions with The Council around 2009 they consistently emphasize a few basic ideas that we attempt to summarize here:

1) You are an eternal spiritual being in a physical body.

You are the energy and vibration of continuously expanding love, intelligence, and joy.

Your physical experience in your physical body and your psychological experience of your personality is a small part of the totality of who you truly are.

Let yourself imagine from time to time what it might feel like to experience more of the wondrous totality of who you really are, and don’t be surprised if you are able to experience this more often.

2) You are the creator of all that you experience.

As you open to the possibility your true nature is greater than you ordinarily perceive, it becomes easier to consider the possibility that this expanded you is truly the creator of everything that you experience.

If you’re used to thinking of yourself in a more limited sense, the idea that you are the creator of your experience may be difficult to understand. Our post, What About This Idea That We Create Whatever We Desire, offers insights into this idea.

3) You are here to expand the love you are into physical reality.

You chose, as a spiritual being, to come into this physical reality to experience the joy of expanding the love you are as a spiritual being, into this physical reality. This is your purpose for being here.

Finding Your Way Around the Blog

Home Page

The left-hand column on the Home page contain a long chronological series of posts with the most recent on top. Each post begins with a title. Clicking on a post title will take you to a blog page dedicated to that particular post. Following each post is a Like button where you can indicate to us and other readers if you like the post.

The footer section of each post identifies the date the post was published, the Categories the post has been assigned to, the keyword/keyphrase Tags assigned to the post, and a Comment link. If readers comments on a post, the Comments link will indicate the number of comments. If a post has no comments yet, the Comment link text appears as “Leave a Comment”.

Clicking on the Comments link takes you to a Comment text box on a post page dedicated to that post. Here you can type a comment in the text box and click the Post Comment button to have your comment displayed just below the text box. If you are replying to someone else’s comment, your comment will appear indented underneath the comment you are replying to.

At the bottom of the left column on the Home page is a ‘Previous Entries’ link that will take you to a page with a list of earlier posts.

Blog Features

The right-hand column of most blog pages contains this Welcome message. Below the Welcome message in the right-hand column are some useful features:

Email Subscription: Use this to subscribe to blog posts. You will receive an email notification with a link back to the blog each time a new post is published.

Search: Type a keyword or phrase and click the Search button to get a list of posts in the left column that contain the keyword or phrase.

Archives: The Archives list indicates the number of posts for each month listed. Clicking on the link for a month will display in the left column of the page a list of the posts published that month.

Categories: This is a list of keywords used to categorize posts. Posts can be included in more than one category, if applicable. Clicking on a category link will display in the left column a list of posts assigned to the category you selected.

Navigation Bar

The Navigation Bar at the top of each page contains a link to the blog Home page and links to the following additional pages:

Welcome: A link that displays this Welcome message in the left column (and the right column). At the bottom of the Welcome message is a Comment box where you can post a general comment about the blog or ask The Council a question.

Questions & Answers: Use this link to display a list of introductions to our longer posts, most of which are responses to reader questions. This is an easy way to check out these more in-depth posts. They are listed in chronological order with the most recent post on top. Clicking on the post title will take you to the page where you can read the complete post.

Contact Us: The Contact Us page contains a contact form similar to the Comment form mentioned above. The difference between the Contact Us form and the Comment forms is that the Contact Us form is a private message to us (Cynthia and Bob). It is not posted on the blog. Comments appear on the post page where the comment is posted. The Contact Us form can be used for communicating with us about private sessions or other private matters you think aren’t appropriate for posting in a public Comment.

Bob & Cynthia

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  1. We’ll be glad to ask The Council your questions about your running injuries when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 28, 2022

  2. I have been plagued by running injuries lately. Running is critical to my mental and physical health. It’s also time spent with connecting with friends. Why does this keep happening? Knee, foot, it’s driving me crazy! I don’t have time or money for physical therapy and…. I don’t understand why it’s necessary. Aren’t our bodies meant to be in motion? I feel like my vibration is highest when I’m running often so I’m trying to understand where these barriers are coming from. I’ll take it easy, but then can I meditate myself back to a near daily run?

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    Comment by Anonymous | November 28, 2022

  3. Hi, LovePeace. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about health and happiness when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 25, 2022

  4. Hello,

    My family is struggling with bad health ever since we moved to Atlanta. We are continuously getting sick, highly unusual for us. These also take long time to get better and it can affect our office, kids’school schedule.

    I have been having some issues with friends/family as well, I want to check if any of them has evil eye/bad intentions that contribute to our bad health. Please provide guidance on how can we keep healthy and happy.

    Best

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    Comment by LovePeace | November 18, 2022

  5. Hi, Janet. Sorry we haven’t gotten to your questions yet, but we have received them. It’s just taking us a while to get around to them. Please stay tuned for The Council’s response when we have time. Thanks.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 17, 2022

  6. Question: I asked this about 6 weeks ago, didn’t get a reply, and hope it wasn’t lost. My 18-yr old cat is going outside of his litter box. Vet ruled out a medical issue and said he is trying to tell me something. What? I feel we are soul connected as well. How? JW
    (Sorry if you have been too busy to get to this before).

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    Comment by Janet | October 17, 2022

  7. Hi, Anonymous. We’ll ask The Council about your temper with your child as soon as we can and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 23, 2022

  8. Hi. I have been losing my temper lately, terribly with one of my children. It’s stressful for the whole family. Many of their behaviors trigger me and I can’t seem to regain my composure once I’ve lost it. I’m generally not a volatile person, just with this child. What can I do? Where does this come from? Things feel busy right now and I’m stretched thin (I’m often parenting alone, there are activities, school, work, visitors, neighborhood dramas) but it feels like an excuse to link my behavior to any of that. I guess I’m wondering how to be more resilient, more present, and less triggered. Very interested in the Council’s thoughts. Thank you.

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    Comment by Anonymous | September 20, 2022

  9. Hi, Adrian. We’ll ask The Council about your relationship with this man you just met when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 20, 2022

  10. I have met a man… and there are all these signs he may be someone very special to me.. (during our 1st kiss 2 dragonflies flew into his house!) I have not known him long (a week) and hate to prematurely jump in before really knowing him but there are all these strange signs.. they are almost bizarre in nature.. for instance I programmed his name into my phone, at first I only had his first name, Bobby, then once I put in his last name the phone decided to call him the “Abraham Group” all on its own… and it also decided to progrsm his email address as your email address Bob@askthecouncil.com. We had a good laugh about that. Today I got curious and looked up your email address and found this site and could not believe that you talk about Abraham and Esther Hicks who’s work I am familiar with and that your site is connected to a galactic council! I am dumbfounded and awestruck all at the same time. Is this man as special to me as I think he may be based on all these signs? Can I really trust this? What does all of this mean? I’m getting divorced and I’ve asked for my romantic soul mate to come in at the right time. I only recently decided to date thinking that while not really ready (my divorce is still in its early stages) that it felt like time to meet someone nice for this moment but I honestly didn’t expect to meet my soulmate now. Is this man my romantic soul mate that I have been calling in? Can I trust this? I will say after 3 great dates now that I feel really good around him… he feels really familiar and comfortable to me, like home. Any guidance would be so greatly appreciated! I guess I am having a hard time believing the unbelievable at the moment.. lol. 😊

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    Comment by Adrian Savya Tubero | September 20, 2022

  11. Hi, Vibrationally Aware. Sorry to hear about your mother’s passing. We’ll ask The Council your questions when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 12, 2022

  12. Hi Council,
    I just found out today my mother was found dead in a hotel room today. I am sad and want to know two things:
    Was it a “natural” death and does she have a message for me and my siblings?

    Much love,
    Vibrationally Aware

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    Comment by Anonymous | September 11, 2022

  13. Hi, Bluestar Child. We’ll do our best to answer your questions for The Council about twin flames when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 9, 2022

  14. Hi, Janet. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your cat and your relationship to it when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 9, 2022

  15. My 18-yr old cat is going outside of his litter box. Vet ruled out a medical issue and said he is trying to tell me something. What? I feel we are soul connected as well. How? Thank-you. JW

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    Comment by Janet | September 8, 2022

  16. Hi Bob and Cynthia, I would like to ask the Council:

    – Do I have a Twin Flame? (I don´t mean soulmate)
    – What spiritual contract did I have with Jorge, a boy I studied with at University? Was he my twin flame or was he just another soulmate in my life?
    – (If I´ve a twin flame but it´s not this boy) Is my twin flame incarnated on another planet (for example in the Pleiades where I come from) or dimension or is he in my current incarnation?
    – If he is incarnated now, have I met him or do I have to meet him even in this life?
    – In general: Is it necessary to unite with your twin flame to spiritually Ascend from 3ªD here on Earth, or is it an attachment of the ego that we need to let it go and actually have to unite with our own “multimensional selves” ? Are them our true twin flame?

    Sorry, for all this questions, but the Twin Flame´s teachings are very confusing and contradictory for me, here on Earth.
    Thanks to all for your work and wisdom

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    Comment by Bluestar Child | September 8, 2022

  17. Hi, Tina. We’ll be happy to ask The Council if you’re 100% Pleiadian when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 26, 2022

  18. Greetings, I sincerely appreciate your willingness to answer questions – I was recently told by a reputable individual that I am 100% Pleiadian, here on earth with the mission to assist with humanity’s highest evolution? Is that true?

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    Comment by Tina | August 23, 2022

  19. Hi, Star27. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your marriage, the relationship with the many who died, and your new relationship when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 22, 2022

  20. Hello Cynthia, Bob and Council,
    I’m currently stuck in an unhappy marriage. I’m trying to keep the peace for the sake of my family. We have a young adult son still living with us.
    We’ve been talking about divorce for years now but we are still together. I do love my husband and care for him but I’ve been very sad because we argue every day and we are more like roommates that don’t get along. He has some addictions but I know he’s trying to fight them. And I know he loves me on his way too.

    I didn’t expect to meet someone very special a few years ago that I felt I knew from other lives. We could not help but fall in love with each other. Nothing happened other than some kissing and communication of love. This person died in terrible circumstances and I almost died too as a result. Through several mediums I’ve learned we’ve met at each and every incarnation since the time of Atlantis as we promised each other that we would do that. And we’ll meet again, I know that. I would love to know more about my relationship with this man. I got lots of communication from him and I know he’s now one of my guides and is helping me and protecting me (I feel so privileged…). Other mediums told me that he would help me find some other man if I move away from my husband.

    I also had a dream or visitation from my mom and she was like trying to prepare me for “a man that is coming… ” but I woke up before she could tell me more.

    As I’m trying to heal from the most difficult loss of my life (that man I fell In love with) and learn to live with my husband and all the health problems that I have I decided to try alternative medicine.

    Another big surprise from the universe: the person helping me with my health seems to be another soulmate. But this time he’s the one telling me this: he said we’ve been together in other lives helping each other, fighting on the same side of wars. It was immediate recognition. He used the word “buddies” but I don’t feel that type of connection like fighting wars together. What I feel is a more loving, comfortable and safe feeling. I feel like hugging him a lot but just like I love to hug my son. I also saw in my mind one of his spiritual guides. He said I described him to a “t”. I think he’s holding back telling me more about those lives and I’m doing something similar because I didn’t tell him what I think his guide was communicating to me: something like he was glad we finally met and then he smiled a lot and had an expression like “pass the popcorn, this is going to be interesting!”

    I would like to know more about those past lives with this new man and what I can expect from him now. Is he a soulmate with whom I could share my life? Or just a very good friend? Perhaps collaborator? I’ve suffered so much with my previous loss that now I’m not even allowing myself to dream of falling in love again.

    I’m still debating divorcing my husband… How can I find a way to live independently from my husband? My health is limiting how much I can work. I’m very creative and I’ve been thinking about writing a book and also singing. No one ever shines light on my singing…

    Thank you for your help.
    Star27

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    Comment by Maria | August 19, 2022

  21. Hi, Vertigo. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your neck and shoulder pain when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 5, 2022

  22. Hi,

    I’m wondering if the Council has any advice for my neck/shoulder pain. It started a couple of months ago and my entire right arm hurts and tingles throughout the day. Physical therapist says it’s a nerve compression issue but so far no actual therapy helps. The pain is only a 2 or 3 but it’s really bothersome and is a major distraction from the rest of life.

    Thanks!

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    Comment by Vertigo | July 30, 2022

  23. Hi, Kristine. We’ll be happy to ask The Council why your cat is so itchy and if they can recommend treatment when we have time, and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 28, 2022

  24. Dear Cynthia, Bob and the council. I adopted a beautiful cat last year and she has been itching on the sides of her head, behind her ears and neck the whole time I’ve had her, which would have started prior. The vet thought she had a food allergy and put her on a hypo-allergenic diet, which she was on for atleast 5 months, and she continued to itch and bleed. Friends suggested fleas, but with treatment it did not work. I’ve kept her inside and stopped using any fragrances and perfumes, it has not worked. I’ve taken her to the vet four times and they want her on meds for the rest of her life, even though they have no idea what the cause is, and I will not do that to her. I am so horribly stressed and feel awful for her, but I don’t know what to do! Council, please, what can you see. Why is she itching all the time?
    I want her to have the best life with me. I adore her and I just want her to be happy. She’s all I have.
    Besides the scratching, is she happy I adopted her? Is there anything else I can do to make her feel loved and happy?
    Your guidance is beyond appreciated.
    Love and appreciation,
    Kristine.

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    Comment by Kristine | July 28, 2022

  25. Hi, Linda. We’ll be happy to ask The Council for your career guidance when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 20, 2022

  26. Hi Bob and Cynthia and hello to the Council,

    I would like to ask the Council if they could guide me regarding my career calling.

    When I was a teenager I thought I knew exactly what university to go and what to study. Unfortunately, my plans were disrupted by physical and emotional abuse from my father and stepmother, and my plans to study suddenly stopped making sense. I started to feel lost in my life and many things stopped giving me joy. My family was always important to me and losing them caused me great pain and grief. Instead of focusing on my career choice, I was looking for answers to my questions. I wanted to know why I went through so much hardship as a child in so many ways. Now I know that it was a pre-birth agreement and that the purpose in my life is to help people. But I still don’t know how to help. Can you please help me and guide me on this?

    Thinking back on what I really loved, I found that I enjoyed finding answers to my challenges. I also enjoy helping children because I feel like I can connect to them well. Is the right path for me to become a child psychologist and start studying psychology? If not, is there a profession that is right for me that I would find fulfilling and help those who have been through something similar as me? When I look at the people around me, I feel like they all know what they are supposed to do in life. And I’m ashamed that I still don’t know what to do. Thank you so much for all the advice, insights and ideas. Love and light, Linda from Europe

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    Comment by Linda | July 18, 2022

  27. Wonderful, thank you. yay! 🙂

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    Comment by Heather Rose | July 18, 2022

  28. Hi, Heather Rose. We’re glad you found our blog. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your spiritual connection with your daughter, Mira, when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 18, 2022

  29. I found this site last night in a sleepy haze and knew I was directed here. I want to ask the council about my and my middle child’s (Mira) connection. We both feel like we have made many contracts with each other before. She is only 11 but she has been saying this since she was little. I know she’s right but let’s face it, human beings love validation and verification.
    Thank you all for the endless love and light! Heather

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    Comment by Heather Rose | July 5, 2022

  30. Hi, Christea17. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your health when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 21, 2022

  31. Hi, Sonaliv27. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about what’s hanging around you or your children when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 21, 2022

  32. Hi Cynthia and Bob,

    I would like to ask the Council about my health. I have a long list of health issues, both physical and mental (depression, anxiety, OCD, ADD). My energy levels are very low most days and would like to know what causes this. It is getting harder and harder to live normal life, and work is very exhausting. I am only 30 but I feel like a 80 year old. What can I do to help improve my physical and mental condition? Thank you so much for taking the time to read and answer my question. Many blessings!

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    Comment by christea17 | June 20, 2022

  33. Hi, is there a spirit / something around me and or my children? Is it evil? How do I make it leave?

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    Comment by sonaliv27 | June 17, 2022

  34. Hi, LovePeace. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your marriage and whether your next partner will come from your current workplace when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 31, 2022

  35. Hi, Janet. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your ringing in your ears when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 31, 2022

  36. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the council,

    Thanks for all that you do for us.

    I have been wanting a divorce from my abusive husband but he is reluctant for it. He is doing this on the premise of my son – because he does not want me to get married again. Can the council please guide me how can I come out of this situation, any suggestions will be welcome and appreciated, I would like to coparent with him but I do wish him to be my husband because since a long time, almost 10 years, our relationship has never been successful and I do not wish to continue living a lie anymore.

    At the same time, I also have another question about a suggestion council made sometime back for me. After moving to a different state, I met a person during my company gathering. We have not talked a whole lot but it seems to be that there is a connection. I would like to ask the council if my next partner will be from my current workplace or will he manifest later at my potential next workplace.

    Best,
    Love Peace.

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    Comment by LovePeace | May 29, 2022

  37. This is a question…..Why am I having ringing in my ears? Is it from a viral source or is there something else going on?

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    Comment by Janet | May 27, 2022

  38. Hi and thank you very much! I would love ti listenn thé audio recording. As I am hard or hearing and my english isn’t perfect, I guess I could miss some part if the council answers. World be wonderful if could be possible to have also a written version of it.
    Warmly,

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    Comment by P | May 17, 2022

  39. Hi, P. We’ll be happy to ask The Council some of your questions when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 14, 2022

  40. Hi, I am glad I’ve found this website. I live traveling since 10 years, I wish to find my place/people where I feel home, I wish to heal myself and to find my way and mission so to live life fully a lightful, meaningful life and radiating love and light to others.
    I have many questions, all connected, please feel free to answer to one, or more, or all as you wish 🙏🏼

    How can I fully heal myself (psychologically, physically, emotionally, energetically)and my past traumas so to live fully this life? and how can I manifest my full potential and higher self in this lifetime? How to manage the darkish energies manifesting strongly in me sometime?
    What is my “mission” here and life purpose?
    Who was I before this lifetime?
    Am I connected to Pleiades or other constellation/stars/planets and in which way?
    How can I personally connect with the loving spiritual realms, the “invisible things”,
    spirit guides, angels etc. and have clear guidance and clear evidence of it, that are a prove for my rational mind?
    What is the name of my spirit guide?

    I wish you will answer me.
    Thank you very much for what you do and for caring about people

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    Comment by P. | May 14, 2022

  41. How lovely of you. Thank you x Anon

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    Comment by Anonymous | April 27, 2022

  42. Hi, Anonymous. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about finding a lovely place to live on your own and get back to your music when we have time, and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 25, 2022

  43. Dear Bob, Cynthia, & The Council.

    Thank you so much for all the work you do. I eagerly await each new post.

    I have a bit of an unusual & desperate scenario & am wondering if The Council could advise.

    The past two decades have been precarious & difficult. I’ve found it tough to get work, & therefore somewhere to live.

    I originally wanted to be a musician & have been trying to teach & write to create a secure foundation & accommodation from which to make music my main source of income, but the foundation, & therefore the music career, never came.

    The way my work is done changed after the ‘08 crash, & I find myself doing an awful lot of unpaid work applying & pitching for jobs, funding, gigs, practicing, self-promoting, & doing the mandatory unpaid work that comes with self employment. Renting has been unstable & I’ve lived in thirteen places these 20 years.

    At one point I got ill, was made homeless & ended up in subsidised accommodation – I’ve no family or partner & this has been the most security & stability I’ve ever had & I’ve been so grateful, it’s been wonderful. Sadly the building is being demolished & I’ll get notice to move out soon.

    I have tried to up my job search to earn enough to rent somewhere like this locally, but had to leave one job due to being physically attacked, and was bullied out of another. I should be putting in as many job applications as I can to ensure my security, but I’m drained & can’t face doing any more unpaid work.

    Rents have skyrocketed & I’m scared I’ll have to move away from my treasured local support network I spent my adult life cultivating, & the musicians, music, & culture of the city I’ve grown up in & love so much, which are my lifeline.

    I love my home so so much, & I am already grieving its loss. I’m scared I won’t find something this wonderful, secure, and affordable in this location where I can live on my own.

    I’d love to hear your advice. How can I break out of this cycle? Can spirit show me what happens next for me in terms of my accommodation? How do I find something as wonderful as where I am? How I can stay in my home town without flatsharing? I’m in my 40’s now & don’t think I can do that any more.

    With the precarity taking its toll, & I’ve also lost my love of practicing & writing music & I would love to know how I can get that back.

    Thank you for your time in reading this.
    Anonymous

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    Comment by Anonymous | April 21, 2022

  44. Hi, Heather. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about your latent abilities when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 13, 2022

  45. Hi and many blessings to you. I have been recently having a revival of some latent abilities that I used to have as a child. I’m confused what is the purpose or reason is and what I am supposed to be doing with these talents and energy. Am I supposed to work on developing this further or is this not my path or purpose? Thank you for your time and attention to my question.

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    Comment by Heather | April 10, 2022

  46. Hello,
    I have a question about how my husband’s and my marriage would end. I have been told by the council that after I move to new state, where my new job has led me to be, I will meet another person and that will be a perfect relationship for me and my son.
    My husband right now came with us in the hope that we can stay together but we are going through the exact same drama we have been living with last 10 years. We are just not perfect for each other. I have also been told that I would stay friendly with him, which I prefer considering the co-parenting I would like to do for my son.
    As I have been told, he will live far from us, and will teach me lesson about independence. I would like to ask – if he is planning to move to India after the marriage ends or will he stay in USA? Can the council please guide me if the end of the marriage would be the extra marital affair from either side?
    Also, he threatens that he will take his life and my life if I end the marriage so i would like to know can he do this for real or he is just using this as blackmail. I feel so alone and I am trying to find strength and happiness in this situation.

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    Comment by starfish.qa@gmail.com | March 23, 2022

  47. Hi, Jaden. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your connection to Nordic countries, and other lifetimes related to your current life when we have time. We’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 13, 2022

  48. Hi, Vibrationally Aware. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about the people at the job you recently left and your future prospects when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 13, 2022

  49. I was once told by an intuitive that almost half of my past hundred lifetimes were in the Nordic countries. What is it about this part of the world that my soul finds so appealing? When I read about the culture a number of aspects such as sustainability, simplicity, and modesty seem appealing but I feel like there is something more than that. I was previously also told I had a Viking lifetime, are there other lifetimes here that are interesting to know about?

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    Comment by Jaden | March 12, 2022

  50. Hello Bob, Cynthia and The Council, I would like to get some insight about a job I just quit and my future prospects. I was offered a job in 2021 by a friend/client. I worked there for over a year and the owner was exceptionally abusive. I finally couldn’t take it anymore and quit yesterday. I can’t understand why this owner was so abusive to me and why I would attract this. Do I have a past connection to the two women I worked for? I don’t have another job lined up. I am visualizing what I want, but I am concerned that I may be dragging some unfinished energy with me. I don’t want to repeat the same scenario in a new place. Is there an industry that I should pursue? Any insight would be much appreciated.

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    Comment by Vibrationally Aware | March 12, 2022

  51. Hi, Anonymous. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about bringing more friends to your family when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 12, 2022

  52. Can the Council advise on bringing more friends into my family’s life? I’m not lonely but I would love a stronger community and other families to share experiences and friendship with. Is manifesting a matter of meditation? Visualization? Can I manifest friends for my husband and children or is that not allowing them to be on their own paths?

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    Comment by Anonymous | March 11, 2022

  53. Hi, Bluestar_child. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about the Pleiades and mermaids when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 6, 2022

  54. Hi Cynthia & Bob,
    Sorry for my mistakes in English because it is not my native language
    Ok, I have a couple of questions:
    1) I am very curious to know which star or stars of the Pleiades I come from.
    2) I want to know if there is any reason why I have been obsessed with mermaids since I was a child, so I would like to know if the mermaids are related to the cluster of the Pleiades or they are related to my past lives, because I feel that I miss living underwater very much, and recently in a dream someone called me “water princess” (I did not tell anyone about this dream) and a few days later someone in my family called me “sea princess”. I don’t know what to think, I don’t know if all this is just the product of a fantasy that I have created with my mind over the years or if it is a memory and the mermaids have something to do with me. I’m confused.
    Thanks in advance for the Council’s response. Peace and love to all.

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    Comment by Bluestar_child | March 2, 2022

  55. Hi, Angie. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your relationship with Brent and with your husband when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thank you so much for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 27, 2022

  56. To: The Council
    Why do I feel so drawn to this person?
    I’ve been married for almost 24 years. For the past 10 years I’ve experienced a lot of personal growth in my education, my career, and how I take care of myself. However these changes came about, I’ve always been focused on my husband. One of my goals was to go back and finish my degree. When I finally decided to make my move, I knew it was time to do so. Several years before I graduated, I learned that this company opened an innovation center near where I live. At the moment that I saw the office building I knew I was going to work there. In my last year in college, I applied ONLY at this company and I got the job. I started in June 2016.
    In August 2017 I went to Michigan for work. I was introduced to our development team and it was nothing more than a hello. There was this one individual that I became curious about – I just wanted to know more about him. Who is he? I didn’t talk to him and besides he wasn’t on my project so there was no need to. His name is Brent and he had my attention.
    I went back home and didn’t think much of him. Later, I would hear his name from co-workers and I was all ears wanting to know what they had to say about him. Why would I want to know about someone that is 1400 miles away and that I didn’t have much of a conversation with? I did contact him for work related questions but that was the extent of our conversations.
    In 2018, I was assigned a project that he was also assigned to. I only worked with him temporarily and when we did talk it was only about the project. After planning, I was moved to another project so I didn’t talk to him that much after that.
    Then by 2019 I decided to focus more on myself. My husband has this pattern of saying things to me that do not feel good. Some of his actions weren’t so good either. I felt that it was time to redirect my focus towards what I need to do for myself and not worry about him as much. I told myself that I’m going to plan more time with my friends and do things that I enjoy.
    Later that year, I got to work with Brent again. We were able to work together more than last time which led to us talking more. We started to get to know each other and we clicked. We were realizing how much we had in common. I started to feel like Brent was my person. I wanted to know more about him and I just wanted to continue to talk to him. Was it meant for us to be put in each other’s paths?
    I definitely looked forward to talking to him every time I was at work. He had me laughing and the feeling was something I hadn’t had in a long while. All I wanted was to be with him and I couldn’t understand why. I was so drawn to him. I’ve never felt this way with anyone before. As we were getting to know each other I noticed that there were many parallels with our lives. We were just on different timelines and then eventually we caught up to each other.
    Now it’s 2022 and I’ve been trying to understand our connection and all of the emotions that comes with this. I try not to talk to him, to not want to be near him and I feel like I’m being torn apart. I definitely felt it in the middle of my chest. It’s become a regular feeling even when I’m trying to complete tasks for work. How can someone have such an effect on another person when all they’ve done is talked through work or on the phone? I want to try to understand the purpose and what it means to have Brent in my life. I truly feel that he and I were meant to meet since I’ve now taken on a more spiritual path and learning to be more present. If this is true, I just want to make sure I approach the situation appropriately and in the best way possible. Thank you for your guidance!

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    Comment by Angie | February 26, 2022

  57. Hi, Jane. We’re so glad you enjoyed your phone session with The Council. Thanks for your kind words.

    We’ll ask The Council your question about what you’re seeing in your peripheral vision when we have time and we’ll post their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 15, 2022

  58. First off, I wanted to thank you for the 30 minute reading a few weeks ago. So beautiful and meaningful. I appreciate you all do so much. I do have a quick question.

    I see quick flashes, lights, shadows in my peripheral vision. It happens in random places, inside or outside, and is becoming more common.

    Am I seeing “beyond the veil” or do I need to get my eyes (and mind) checked?

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    Comment by Jane | February 13, 2022

  59. Hi, Anna. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your Ph.D. thesis when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 13, 2022

  60. Dear Bob, Cynthia, and The Council. Thank you so much for all the work you do.

    I was scouring the internet for answers about something that’s on my mind at the moment, and couldn’t find something that really hit the spot, so thought I’d ask and see if you would be happy to answer on my subject.

    I am a PhD student at the end of my studies. I passed a gruelling exam, which included one examiner relentlessly shouting at me for nearly two hours, and would be handed my degree subject to completing some corrections. I love the subject I wrote on and labored over my corrections over long days, weeks, months, and submitted them at the end of last year, but have heard nothing back.

    I have this feeling in the pit of my stomach, and had a dream, that these examiners will not pass my corrections. Once I realised I felt this I began using affirmations, visualisations, and praying for them to pass my corrections. Sometimes I am able to feel better about it and believe it, sometimes not. I also used tarot to see what the outcome would be, and received the same message, that my corrections wouldn’t pass…

    And so I’m wondering now: can I really change this outcome? Can I really change two people’s free will and decision about my work? It feels to me that to do this would be a miracle! But if I can create this miracle, am I going about it in the right way or is there something else I can do?

    I’m also wondering: did I attract this examiner’s behaviour in my exam? And am I attracting the delay in hearing my results from them? And how does my dream and tarot work in this situation? Are they just projections of how I’m feeling, or are they telling me what is now a set-in-stone outcome?

    In eager anticipation, and with deep respect and much love,
    Anna

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    Comment by Anna | February 9, 2022

  61. Hi, Janette. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about your stillbirth and your pregnancy when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 4, 2022

  62. Hi Cynthia, Bob and The Council,

    You have graciously answered a message from me before, years ago, regarding my daughter’s stillbirth. I am writing again with other questions that have recently been eating away at my thoughts.

    Last year, leading up to me turning 40, I was overcome with wanting to try for a baby. Our daughter was stillborn in 2014, our son who is now 6 was born in 2015. Well, since he was just a toddler, the name Haven started appearing to me everywhere. I’d come across this name so regularly that it was overwhelming and I knew I couldn’t deny that the universe was trying to tell me something. Between turning 40, and this name that I became convinced was speaking to me, we tried and immediately got pregnant. Being that Haven means “a safe place”, I had convinced myself that it was either our daughter reminding us that she is in a safe place in Heaven, or it could be another spirit baby trying to communicate that they want to come to us. I sure don’t know, but I absolutely do know that it means SOMETHING. So this little boy I’m pregnant with will be Haven💙What’s even more miraculous than me getting pregnant so fast at 40, is that this baby’s due date is when my daughters was (March 25th). I lost her at 33 1/2 weeks pregnant on February 7th, 2014 – when that day approaches this upcoming week, I will be exactly 33 1/2 weeks pregnant with Haven. What does this all mean???? That can’t be a coincidence, right? Would love The Councils thoughts on this…

    Also, because of the loss of our daughter, with my 6 year old son and now our little boy I’m pregnant with, they have done fetal monitoring on me. I go in 2 x’s/wk to have the babies heartbeat checked thoroughly which is reassuring. But this is VERY triggering for me. I sit there and question “what if they had done fetal monitoring with my daughter?” (who wasn’t very active) “Would she be here today?” “They would’ve noticed she didn’t move a lot if I would’ve just been monitored”. It haunts me quite frankly, almost 8 years later, that I could’ve done something to change the outcome. How did I not know she wasn’t moving? I was 33 1/2 weeks along with her pregnancy, and if they could’ve caught something with extra monitoring I feel like she could be here today. At 33 1/2 wks, she could’ve survived even if they had to have me deliver her at that point. I just make myself sick thinking about the “what if’s”.

    Still struggling to reach peace and would love to hear from you all,
    Sincerely,
    Janette

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    Comment by Janette | February 3, 2022

  63. Hi, Anonymous. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your son’s anger when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 31, 2022

  64. Hello, I have really been working on my relationship with my young son. In many ways it has improved and he seems to walk through the world with less anger. However, he still seems to have an enormous amount of anger (jealousy?) toward his younger brother. It is causing a ton of tension in our family and makes it hard to trust him.

    Will this ever go away? Is there anything that I can do to alleviate this anger? Where does this come from?

    In the past, the council suggested that I go to therapy- I have. It’s been ok but I honestly can’t seem to cultivate a sense of calm and peace in our family. My son is very resistant to any sort of calming technique- meditation, breathing, etc. He prefers to laugh maniacally and pick on his little brother endlessly.

    Very open to any perspective or suggestions from the council.

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    Comment by Anonymous | January 30, 2022

  65. Thank you! I hope you are both well. I love this site so much. Every post has a pearl of wisdom in it & I’ve really grow through reading it.
    All the best,
    E

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    Comment by Eleanor | January 26, 2022

  66. Hi, Artist. Thanks for your kind words. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your relationship when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 25, 2022

  67. Hi, Eleanor. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about abandonment in your love life and your professional life, and whether you can re-attract your colleague and your ex when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response. Thank’s for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 25, 2022

  68. Dear Cynthia, Bob and Council,
    This is a follow-up question to my previous one on whether my past life caused present suffering and you replied that I was Polish in a concentration camp and decided to experience the camp inmates’ feelings on a personal level. I would assume their primary feeling would be fear but I don’t feel that, only sadness, feeling stuck, lonely, mostly hopeless, self pity and self doubt. I’ve been trying to actually follow Doctor DiLorenzo book Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself, I haven’t gotten to the main part because it takes so much time but I am meditating up to that point. I also read most of the spiritual books. You said I should have hope like I did in the last life, but did my life get better or that hope did nothing? Also, hypothetical question, if I were to escape this life, would I have to repeat the same or not, since I chose this experience? I would greatly appreciate your response.

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    Comment by Mari | January 24, 2022

  69. This council is so helpful in bringing understanding to matters. I’m feeling emotionally wounded by a recent relationship that ended abruptly. We are working on being friends. It was very hurtful and I didn’t expect it. I would really like to understand him better. I am not sure where we are headed, except that I feel like knowing him is important. There is a lot to learn, and I am afraid of being surprised again. Trusting is difficult. We also have a mutual very close friend who we adore, there is a sort of trio energy that brings us together. I appreciate anything you can tell me.
    My heart is also heavy because I lost a friend and regret not trying harder to connect with him while he was alive. I wish that friend and I had more opportunity to visit while he was alive.
    I am so grateful for any of your input. Sending love and thanks to all.

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    Comment by TheArtist | January 23, 2022

  70. My question follows on from this one I had just over a year ago: https://askthecouncil.com/2020/12/15/is-my-current-relationship-with-my-soul-contracted-life-partner/

    I’d specifically like to know more about abandonment as I don’t feel I’ve really moved forward with this issue. Since your guidance I’ve seen just how many abandonments I’ve experienced; both in my love life and at work I’ve had everything from colleagues taking my ideas and becoming rich and famous, to more recently a colleague in a project I run ghosting me/the work (the fourth person to leave this project); love-wise it’s been a similar spectrum, from infidelity and abuse, to lovers putting deposits on homes with me then disappearing, and more recently the person I spoke of in my previous post.

    I’d like to know why this has been a running theme in my life? Is this something to do with some past lives I’ve had as well as my abusive neglectful upbringing? And is it something I chose to change in this lifetime?

    I’d also like to know what I need to do to heal this pattern as I’ve always wanted to have a permanent life-partner and the same colleagues to go forward with work-wise.

    I’m also wondering whether, if I do this work, I can re-attract the colleague that has just left and also my ex? Or is it that in healing this pattern I grow beyond this particular colleague and ex and attract a new (what I hope is permanent) colleague and boyfriend?

    Thank you for listening. Your advice would be so appreciated on my quest.
    With best wishes,
    E

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    Comment by Eleanor | January 21, 2022

  71. Hi, Mari. It’s our understanding that if we finish our current lifetime and still have unlearned lessons that we planned to learn, then we plan to learn these lessons in a future life. But we’ll ask The Council your question when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your follow-up question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 19, 2022

  72. Hi,
    This is a follow up on the question about whether my past lives caused my present one (you said I wanted to experience what the concentration camp Jewish prisoners went through. What happens if I exit this life, would I have to repeat this? Since I made a choice to do this? Thanks so much.

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    Comment by Mari | January 18, 2022

  73. Hello Bob and Cynthia,
    I would like to ask The Council about my relationship with my mother.

    From a young age I experienced difficulties that were a great challenge for me. My mother always perceived me negatively and did not show me as much love as my two sisters. That deepened after my dad died. I would like to know why my mother doesn’t need me in her life? Why is she pushing me away? Did I hurt her in any way?

    In 2020 she had a stroke and in the first few months I felt like our relationship was getting better. That was until my youngest sister moved in with her. Since then our relationship has been tested again. She doesn’t respond to my messages and doesn’t want to talk to me when my youngest sister isn’t there. I suspect that my sister doesn’t want me to have a nice relationship with my mother and only wants to keep her to herself.

    Why is my youngest sister so manipulative? What can I do to improve my relationship with my mother? Is there any hope for me? Is there anything I should know right now?

    Thank you! Love and light, Ilona

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    Comment by Ilona | January 13, 2022

  74. I find myself getting aroused frequently and somewhat easily and am often thinking about making love. I get the feeling I have an abundance of lifetimes that emphasize romance and other physical pleasures and that my soul is rather fond of the physical. Is this assessment true? and if so can you tell about these lifetimes that are romance heavy?

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    Comment by Tom | January 2, 2022

  75. Thanks Bob, Cynthia and of course, the wise Council.

    xoxo Chris

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    Comment by Chris | December 29, 2021

  76. Hi, Chris. We believe we posted The Council’s response to your questions on Dec 16, 2021. Here’s a link. Hope this helps.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 28, 2021

  77. Hi Bob,

    Not sure if the Council ever replied to my question back in November. Many thanks!

    Hope you and Cynthia are well!

    Best, Chris

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    Comment by Chris | December 28, 2021

  78. Hi, LadyInLife. We’ll be happy to answer your questions for The Council about Loki energy and past life connections with the man you’re seeing, when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 13, 2021

  79. Everything in my life is changing, I have a new relationship, a new job, my car just died for good, suddenly, and I’m moving into a new home. It feels a little chaotic, but exciting though there is a lot of pressure for me to succeed. A palm reader recently told me I have a lot of Loki energy around me. Can you tell me more about this entity/energy and how I can best work with it and honor it? Interestingly, the man I am seeing is really into Loki, and even has two tattoos dedicated to Loki. I am also wondering if you can tell me about past life connections with the man I’ve been seeing and tell me about how Loki is involved with us. The relationship is fairly new, but it feels as though it long lasting potential and hopefully remains a harmonious and beautiful thing.

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    Comment by LadyInLife | December 12, 2021

  80. Hi, Pursuing Dreams. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about the course you’re thinking of taking and whether it will help you own your own company when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 1, 2021

  81. Hello,

    I am a Computer Science professional. I want to get council’s opinion on taking up a new course I am thinking about taking since last couple of months now.

    This course is very different from my regular line of work and its also very challenging. I always wanted to study from Ivy League university, but due to financial constraints I was not able to do so earlier. Now I am in a situation where in I think I can take up this challenge.

    This is a big phase shift from what I am doing right now. Can the council please guide me if this thought of taking up a new course and pursuing Masters is something that I should go for. I also wanted to check if this course will help my career and eventually my own company as entrepreneur. Since this is going to be big endeavor for me, I would love to know Council’s guidance. ​

    Thanks for all you do!

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    Comment by Pursuing Dreams | November 30, 2021

  82. Hi, Starseed_Lightworker. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about whether or not to stay with your husband when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 20, 2021

  83. Dear Cynthia, Bob and the Council,

    I am at a crossroads in my life and would appreciate your help and guidance in the decision I want to make.

    My husband and I have had various issues since the beginning of marriage and it has been 10 years now. I was in abusive relationship for long time and then I have decided to love my self and be self dependent. I was in such a miserable situation earlier that I felt like committing suicide a couple of times during that phase but my love for my young kid kept me alive. By hard work and grace of god, now I am in a position to take care of my self and my kid.

    The thing is that my husband seems to have changed now since last 3 years but I cant forget what he and his family has done with me earlier.

    Going forward in my life my plan is to keep doing better work in office, study part-time in a university while doing work to support my self and my kid and eventually when my kid grows up, retire and travel and do more spiritual and teaching work. I do not want to be dependent on anyone for money, happiness and taking care of me – I want to do it all myself. I have began to find solace in loneliness now.

    I have got a very good job opportunity in a different state which is remote work right now but I can move if I want to move there which would be a fresh start for me and my kid and a different way of living life.

    The difficult decision I need to make is should I continue staying with my husband for the sake my kid having a father or should I move on and build a new life my self and my kid. At the current moment, I like my husband as a friend since he has changed from his abusive patterns but I have lost the love, I dont know if I can love him again considering the history. At the same time, I am also not sure if there will be love for me outside of this marriage.

    Can the council please guide me and provide me some inputs? I will forever be grateful for the knowledge that I have obtained from this blog.

    Love, light and peace!

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    Comment by starseed_lightworker | November 20, 2021

  84. Hi, Christea17. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about your difficulty teaching your students when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 19, 2021

  85. Greetings, Bob and Cynthia!
    I would appreciate the Council’ s advice on the following matter. I work as a teacher and I am having a lot of difficulties with my students. Some of them are very disrespectful and lack interest in learning. It is hard to teach them anything. Unfortunately, I feel like I lack the authority, strength and energy needed to change the atmosphere in my classes. I don’t know how to deal with unpleasant situations. I like teaching, but rarely do I feel like I can teach them something. Sometimes it is really despressing what goes on during my classes. I wish I knew how to deal with these situations better and how to interact more positively with my students.
    Thank you and the Council for the advice.
    All my best and many blessings!

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    Comment by christea17 | November 19, 2021

  86. Thankyou guys.

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    Comment by Peace05 | November 11, 2021

  87. Hi, PeaceLoveSirius. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your spirit guides when we have time and we’ll post their response in an audio recording as soon as it’s ready. Thanks so much for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 8, 2021

  88. Hi, Chris. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your love life when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 5, 2021

  89. Hi Bob, Cynthia and Council,

    Last week, the Council mentioned that my issues were fear and success, but I really think it is about love. Since I was 29 years old I wanted to find my lifelong love companion. I stayed open, hopeful and always kept my eyes and heart open. I’m now 59 and can say the only ones who showed up were two amazing, lovely men who were not available. Both in unhappy marriages, separated or asked by their spouse for a divorce when I met them but neither left despite their “love” for me. The Council mentioned there is the person Ted, near me, who is one of the two men mentioned, or someone new in South America. I wish with all my heart Ted is the one with him saying “I do see us together, but it will take patience and time.” I am beginning to lose hope after decades or hopes and prayers OR was it just not the time until now? Love and gratitude. Chris

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    Comment by Chris | November 5, 2021

  90. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the Council,

    You have been my angels who have helped me tremendously in different areas of my life – family, work, jobs, etc. Your guidance has been very precious and life-changing for me.

    As I have been guided here before, I have been seeing and hearing things outside our conscious realm. I can hear vibrations at this point, when someone is angry I can hear not only the words but I can sense the vibration change. As far as seeing is concerned, I used to see shadows but I am beginning to sense presences, especially at night time. Also sometimes I see light figurines. For the first time in my life, I saw a light shape – it was probably like an animal. Just so that it’s clear – I do not consume alcohol at all or do not do any kind of drugs whatsoever that is making me hallucinate but these are all real genuine experiences.

    At this point, I think I am starting to open up and I would like a guide that can help me in this journey. There are a lot of unknowns here and I would sincerely welcome a guide that can help me develop further in this area and help me progress and serve humanity better.

    Can the council see any such kind of guide that will come into my life that can help me navigate this? If so, will the guide be from the spirit world or would they be in the physical world as a friend/mentor? If there is no such guide, what do I have to do to create it for me so that I have help navigating these new uncommon skills? Because of past life situations, I have fear in my mind that I am trying to overcome, which makes it more difficult to progress. That is why I would like to know if there is a spiritual guide for me in this lifetime.

    Thanks very much for all you do, it changes lives including mine.

    Wish you the best.

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    Comment by PeaceLoveSirius | November 5, 2021

  91. Hi, Curious Aquarius. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about these two mysterious childhood events when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 27, 2021

  92. Dear Cynthia, Bob and the Council,
    When I was four I lived in a house on a farm. I was up late and my mum left me to stay up and watch tv. On my own I put myself to bed, but sensed this dark, scary presence over me. I was absolutely petrified and covered my entire body with the blankets until I fell asleep. It was absolutely petrifying and unforgettable. The next day I asked my mum if it was her and she said, no. Since that night until I was about 11 years old I had to sleep with the door open and a light on. Can you please tell me if it was real or was it just in my head? What was it if it was real?
    After we had moved, many tenants have rented that house with many leaving unexpectedly and abandoning all their belongings, even their pets, which is terrible. I know of at least one tenant asking my uncle if anyone had died in that house cause there are ghosts, and my uncle replied if they were on drugs, because my uncle is a non believer of everything.
    I did live in that house as a teenager, but nothing creepy ever happened again.
    At age 10 or so I lived at another address and I was standing outside in the garden with my mum, her friend and some of the other kids, where out of nowhere a boy on his knees was hovering and zoomed past and disappeared. My mums friend asked if anyone saw it, and I did, but it was so out of the blue. Any explanation about either event will be greatly appreciated.
    Love and light,
    Curious Aquarius xxx

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    Comment by Curious Aquarius | October 26, 2021

  93. Hi, Peace5. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about your brother when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 24, 2021

  94. Hi Bob and Cynthia and of course the council. I hope you all are doing well during this pandemic and staying strong. I wanted to ask the council a question about my brother. He is almost 23 yrs old, but he has been very troublesome lately. I don’t know what’s gotten into him. Even though he has an incurable disease he stopped taking his medicine, he stopped taking care of himself, and he behaves very nasty with me and the whole family even my 6 year old son. He takes medical marijuana because of the disease he has but I think it’s harming him more than helping him. He isn’t interested in anything at all, he doesn’t even try to get a job. All he does is lay around all day long, sleeps, showers like 4 times a day even though he doesn’t go anywhere.He fights with us, curses at us for no apparent reason and he doesn’t want to speak with any of us.What is going on with him and is he ever going to change for the better? What can I do to help him get better physically and mentally? Thanks love and light.

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    Comment by Peace5 | October 23, 2021

  95. Hi, Denisa. We’ll be happy to ask The Council for guidance with your life partner relationship when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 22, 2021

  96. Hi, Monica. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about what contributes to your block in intimacy when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 22, 2021

  97. Hi Bob and Cynthia,
    If possible, I would so appreciate it if the Council could give me some guidance on my relationship with me and my life partner. We would love to start a family together, but still nothing happens. My life partner keeps talking about wanting to have children with me, but he also mentions that he would like my financial situation to be similar to his. I would like to, but I really don’t know what to do to improve my financial situation. It seems so hard for me at this moment. Is it really the reason why we don’t try to have children or is it something else? Have we agreed to have children together in this lifetime? What can I do to improve my financial situation? It seems to me that I don’t know which way to go. I’m thinking of writing a book about my childhood, what I’ve been through and what I’ve learned from it. Will my financial situation improve if I write a book? What can I do to improve my financial situation and have children with my life partner? Do my life partner and I share any past life that is related to our current lifetime? What is the main purpose of our relationship? Thank you so much for your help. Love and light, Denisa

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    Comment by Denisa | October 21, 2021

  98. Hello Bob and Cynthia,
    I would like to ask the Council about my block in intimacy. I’m ashamed and I feel uncomfortable. My husband is very upset because of it and I want him to be happy. I would like to know what causes my block in intimacy and how can I change it? Thank you very much for your help. Many blessings, Monica

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    Comment by Monica | October 21, 2021

  99. Interesting questions, Darla. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response. Nice to see you’re blogging again. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 13, 2021

  100. Hello Bob and Cynthia! Thanks so much for helping so many people. My question is about reincarnation. Over the years I’ve read and heard hundreds of near death experiences. Some of these people say that when they’re on the other side, a voice gives them an option to stay or go back to their life on earth. Others say they begged to stay in such a blissful place full of love, but were “forced” to come back to their life. They suddenly end back up in their bodies. How much free will do we have once we cross over? Who is ultimately in charge of whether we come back to life on earth or not? Is it our higher self or a guide or God that makes this decision?

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    Comment by She's a Maineiac | October 13, 2021

  101. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the Council,

    I would so appreciate if the Council could give me some guidance on my purpose in this lifetime. Why am I here on earth? I feel like there’s nothing special about me and I don’t feel useful. I do a business in the field of fashion, and I try to achieve financial security but unfortunately, I always fail. I can’t fulfill my dreams and I don’t understand why. Is it related to any of my past lives? How can I improve my financial situation? What is the most important thing I should know and do right now? Thank you so much for your help and your guidance. Love, Monica

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    Comment by Monica | October 4, 2021

  102. Hi, E-Diggity. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your relationship with your daughter and the Arcturian’s when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks so much for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 18, 2021

  103. Hi, Momof3. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about this man who’s come into your life when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 18, 2021

  104. Hi, Pedro. Thank you so much for your appreciation. It means a lot to us. We’ll ask The Council about your situation as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Hang in there. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 18, 2021

  105. Hi, Jolanda. Glad The Council’s guidance has been helpful in the past. As soon as we have time we’ll ask them about your daughter and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light. Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 18, 2021

  106. Hey Bob and Cynthia hope you are well. I am on a journey of self awareness, manifestation and the universe. I know I want a freedom lifestyle, time freedom and being with family and the ones I love. I know I want
    To be my own boss, spend my time how I wish, doing something I love.

    However I am stuck with my purpose, how I can serve and add value (as obviously I still need money which I know is energy) can the council help me with my purpose in life? What are my skills I can use to serve and create the freedom lifestyle for myself and my familiy? I struggle to think of any skills I have, or what brings me joy, I have joined programmes where I meditate, journal, do the inner work, goal setting, visualisation. I can see the end result I understand my why (family) but I need guidance on my dharma, my purpose and the steps to take me there. Thank you so much

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    Comment by ldavis1978 | September 16, 2021

  107. Hello,
    My daughter has come into a psychic ability and she has guides who work with her, who I believe are Arcturian. I would like to know more about her star connections, and the nature of my relationship to my daughter and these other beings, beyond this lifetime. I hope to help validate and help facilitate her expansion into these abilities, I want to invite this connection to these benevolent beings and do what we came here to do.
    My daughter and I would like to know more about our past together.
    Thank you for your time. 🙏🏼

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    Comment by E-Diggity | September 13, 2021

  108. Hello,
    Thank you for the opportunity to ask questions. I was curious about a man who has come into my life currently. I feel very comfortable and safe with him as if I have known him for years, but we just recently met. I also find myself wanting more in this relationship but im not sure if he feels the same which is unnerving. Also, i am surprised by my feelings, as I lost my husband last year, and I didn’t think i could feel anything for anyone else.
    Just wondering if this was preplanned. Or if i have had previous lives with this person. Also is this just a passing thing, because im grieving/vulnerable, or can it actually be mutually true feelings that we build on and find love again.
    Thank you in advance 💕

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    Comment by Momof3 | September 10, 2021

  109. Hi Cynthia and Bob. First I’d like to say how beautiful is the work you’re doing here with The Council.

    I’m 21 and I’m passing through a very strange time of my life. Sometimes I feel a strong loneliness, but I don’t feel comfortable with any other human being. I don’t want anyone to touch me, but I’m touch starving. I get irritated very easy and I also feel tired of living. I feel far away from home, even when I’m actually in my house. I’m always looking at the past with a sense of longing to get there, but I know that it’s impossible. And as if that isn’t enough, I’m on a heavy mixture of emotion that is tearing me up and getting me on a identity crisis.
    The worst thing is that I don’t have any planning or expectations for the future.
    I don’t have any friends, I don’t like my family, I don’t know what to do.
    My whole life seems like a bad travel that doesn’t ends.
    I want to know if The Council have any suggestions or advices to what should I do now.

    Thank you very much

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    Comment by Pedro Lucas | September 10, 2021

  110. Dear Council, Bob and Cynthia

    I’ve written to you a few times over the years and your answers have really helped me. I’m hoping you can help me again because I’m finding myself in another painful dilemma.

    My question this time is: Why do i keep attracting abusive behaviour, no matter how hard i try to keep myself safe??? When i think I’ve closed the door on abuse in my life, it just finds me again in unexpected places and ways. Sorry this is a long letter… i need to explain what I’m going through.

    I’ve been through 3 abusive relationships in my life, and i ended the last (and worst) one in 2017. I’ve never had a healthy relationship with a kind and respectful man, and all i want in my life is to be able to settle down with someone nice. After the last one ended, i did so much work on myself to gain knowledge, strength, confidence and self worth to ensure i never got into another relationship like that again, plus spiritual work too. I vowed they my home would be a safe zone, free from abusive behaviour.

    I’ve been with a nice man who treats me well for 2 years now, but now even this relationship is in the verge of ending because he can’t cope with how my youngest child behaves. And i can’t cope with it either, and am so confused about why it’s happening.

    This time it’s my 8yo daughter who’s abusing me. She is an extremely lovely girl, but has mild autism spectrum disorder which means she has a lot of trouble with her emotions, especially anger. Her dad was my last abuser, and i feel she’s learned his behaviour… but when she’s angry actually treating me worse than he did!!

    2021 has been the worst and hardest year of my life. Early in the year she told me that her dad and new stepmum were abusing her. So i took over her full custody, went through court to fight for her safety and eventually won. But during that time my daughter completely broke down emotionally, and her behaviour, which was already very bad, turned insanely bad. She viciously attacked me many times, she was very destructive too, and she could barely sleep at all due to long night terrors that lasted hours and hours and hours every night (she was also extremely violent during the night terrors). I thought i was going to lose my mind and that i might have to give her over to foster care to look after her. I called the police quite a few times too. Luckily, in the last 2 months she’s been pretty good and has calmed down a lot and stopped being violent and isn’t so aggressive. I’ve spoken to her about how this is a peaceful home where we don’t hurt, hit, kick, or punch each other and she says she understands, but she also says she can’t control herself when she gets angry.

    Unfortunately, in the last week she’s started getting aggressive and angry again and last night she attacked me again, this time kicking me in the face so hard that she injured my neck.

    I feel so dejected, disappointed, confused and let down by life… I’ve done everything i can to keep myself safe and to ensure i only have respectful and safe relationships in my life, and now it’s my own child who’s abusing me! Additionally, because I’m the only one who can protect her from the abuse of her dad, I’m trapped with her, protecting her, while she abuses me. This feels so unfair!

    And i just can’t understand why abuse keeps following me like a bad smell. I realise there must be some kind of lesson to learn, but i thought I’d learned it by strengthening myself and my boundaries. So when a child I’m obligated to protect starts abusing me, i wonder what the lesson must be now? I haven’t willingly invited this abuser into my life, she’s my child, and no-one chooses to have an abusive child, or a child with neurological and emotional problems.

    My second question about this is that I’m concerned for her future. If she behaves like this at 8 years old, unable to control her extreme rage, what will she be like as a teenager and an adult? Will she get herself into trouble, abusing and attacking others? I’m such a peace loving person, i don’t know how to deal with this problem in her and help her to change for the better. Obviously my peaceful ways haven’t had any positive influence on her over the years.

    Thirdly, I’m wondering where this is coming from within her? As I’d like to be able to help her. Has she learned this or inherited it from her father? Or is it her autism? Or both? Or something else?

    And finally, will i ever be able to keep a nice man and have a healthy relationship? I’m 45 now, and because I’m having this huge difficulty with my daughter, i feel like there’s not much hope left. My lovely man says it’s too much for him to deal with and that he doesn’t want these problems in his life. Just when i need my partner the most, he leaves me to deal with it on my own and distances himself from us, which hurts so much and breaks my heart.

    Thank you so much for listening to my story. I really hope you can shed some insight to help me and my family.
    Thank you
    Jolanda

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    Comment by waimarama13 | September 4, 2021

  111. Hi, Christine. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your son’s behavior when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 25, 2021

  112. Hello Bob and Cynthia. Thank you for this opportunity to ask Council a question.
    I am concerned about my eldest son, who is 20 years old. He finished school 2 years ago and has done very little with his life since then. He spends most of his days smoking marijuana, from first thing in the morning until late at night. He also believes he has an alcohol addiction. When he was younger, he was very outgoing and appeared happy and enthusiastic about life. Now, he is often very aggressive and his reaction to a situation often appears way out of proportion, and he can be very nasty and domineering. When he is like this, it is impossible to talk rationally with him, and we are left feeling totally depleted. He can also be very lazy.
    Because he is my son, I feel like I am responsible in some way, but I don’t know what we did that made him grow up this way. I felt we were very loving and attentive parents, but I know we weren’t perfect. My other son is very different.
    I would appreciate some insight into his behaviour, and our relationship. Thank you.
    With love and gratitude, Concerned Mother.

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    Comment by Christine | August 24, 2021

  113. Hi, Starfish. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your career when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 18, 2021

  114. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the council,

    I have a question for you guys. I have received answers in the past which has been tremendously helpful. Thanks for the such selfless act of love you are doing by operating this web page.

    My question is related to my professional situation. Since childhood I have been very hardworking in the studies and later on in my profession but I think I am not receiving enough as per my skillset and hard-work. I come from very humble background and I have struggled a lot and fought with circumstances in more ways than one to be able to do well professionally. I am giving it my full effort.

    Is there reason I am not able to manifest my dream job or career. Can the council guide me if I should me doing something differently which can bring me closer to where I want to be professionally and financially. Also, along the same lines – I also have a question that should I continue doing job or the council sees entrepreneurship for me down the line, I wonder if doing setting up my own business or taking up further education is required to take me next level.

    Thanks so much!

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    Comment by starfish.qa@gmail.com | August 17, 2021

  115. I’m hoping to do some traveling to at least several countries (eventually) and I wanted to ask, are there any places (preferably in safer countries) that my soul is particularly fond of (countries or cities)? That includes places from other lifetimes.

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    Comment by Mr Redd | August 15, 2021

  116. Hi, Leo. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about tarot readings that take place in the past and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 29, 2021

  117. Hi, Over The Wall. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about Palestine when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 29, 2021

  118. Hi Bob and Cynthia. I have a question about tarot cards. Are tarot cards always accurate when answering questions about things that have happened in the past? I know they can only predict probabilities when asking about future events since we have the ability to change our thoughts and in turn change what we’re attracting but what about past events? I’ve had several readings on past events where I’ve received different answers to the same question and I want to know why this is. If I’m asking about a fixed event that happened in the past how could two different tarot readers give me two different answers to the same question? Tarot is something I’m really passionate about and have relied on quite heavily over the years but the experiences I have been having recently are making me question it’s legitimacy and whether or not they’re capable of giving out accurate information 100% of the time. Is it possible that my vibration or the vibration of the tarot reader is affecting the accuracy of the readings and causing the readings to give false answers a portion of the time?

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    Comment by Leo Moon | July 29, 2021

  119. What is The Council’s take on the human rights abuses against Palestine(I know this situation isn’t exactly two-sided like the media portrays having studied it) such as the evictions, home demolitions and poisoning of crops? I’ve seen the situation brought up briefly in Brian Weiss’s and Neale Walsch’s books but not directly in any spiritual material. How does The Council see this situation playing out in the future decades to come as society transforms?

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    Comment by Over The Wall | July 27, 2021

  120. Hi, Conner. We’ll be happy to ask The Council if your interpretation of your dream is correct and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 24, 2021

  121. Hi, Mari. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about past lives influencing your suffering in your current life when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 24, 2021

  122. Hello and thank you for your work. I would like some validations about a dream and some impressions I’ve had. I had been thinking about other lifetimes and I had a dream where I saw a woman named Rachel doing what appeared to be a slow dance or some sort of exercise. I was made aware during the dream by a voice that she is the mother of a lifetime of my soul that will overlap with my current lifetime. I was also made aware that this life would have many variations in various realities with different individuals and different settings which would allow me to explore many places and perspectives. Are my interpretations of the dream correct, and is there anything else I should know about this experience?

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    Comment by ConnorM | July 22, 2021

  123. Thanks for fast response. Sorry for asking so many questions, but when you have a chance could you tell me whether my past lives (and which) have influenced my suffering in this life, or I just decided to have this experience for learning purposes?

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    Comment by Mari | July 22, 2021

  124. Hi, Marianna. We think what The Council is saying here is that the spiritual aspect of who you are wants you to experience your marriage and your job for their lesson learning opportunities in turning these situations around. Hope this helps.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 19, 2021

  125. Hi Bob and Cynthia! Thanks so much for your response to my question. I have a follow-up. The Council says : “You think the marriage and the job isn’t what you want, but it is what you want.” I am wondering how can that be? Do you mean I should just accept what is and then that becomes what I want?

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    Comment by Marianna | July 19, 2021

  126. Hi, Christea17. We’ll be happy to answer your question for The Council about the best way for you to connect spiritually when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks so much for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 17, 2021

  127. Hello again, Bob and Cynthia! This is Cristiana. You replied to my first question earlier in March and I want to thank you again for taking the time to answer it.
    I am writing my second question for you. Perhaps it will receive an answer too.
    I would like to know which are the best ways for me to connect spritually. I feel there are many ways to go about this and I want to know which are the ones best suited for me. I have been superficial in this regard and also a bit confused as to how to go about it. When I am faced with too many options I often choose none. I would like to start somewhere and have something I could practice regularly and with confidence. Lately I have felt an attraction towards Native American wisdom and spirituality. Is there a reason for this? Looking forward to receiving some guidance. Thank you!

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    Comment by christea17 | July 17, 2021

  128. Thank you! I did not see the June 28 response and will look for it now. Kindest regards to you and the amazing Council!

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    Comment by Anonymous | July 9, 2021

  129. We believe the only question we received on May 17th of this year was from a person named, Chris, and we answered Chis’s question on June 28th. If you’re referring to another question please let us know.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 7, 2021

  130. Hi Bob and Cynthia – just checking to see if The Council had a response to my question back on May 17th. Much love to you! Thank you!

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    Comment by Anonymous | July 7, 2021

  131. Hi, Clare. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your trust issues with women when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 7, 2021

  132. Hi Bob, Cynthia and hello to the Council,

    I would like to ask the Council if they could help me with my trust issues with women. As far as I can remember, I never felt full trust in women in general as if I knew that they would betray me or hurt me. I had some close friends, but it always ended without any explanation. What happened that I can’t have closer and beautiful friendships with women? Does it have anything to do with my parents’ divorce when I was 6? Or did something happen in one of my past lives? I would like to understand that. Is there also something that I can learn? What can I do to have closer friendships in general? I am asking for advice because I would like to have good friendships. Thank you very much for your help. Love & light, Clare

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    Comment by Clare | July 6, 2021

  133. Thank you

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    Comment by Mari | June 15, 2021

  134. Hi, Mari. We’ll be happy to ask The Council for advice on your depression, employment, and marriage when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 15, 2021

  135. Hello Bob and Cynthia,
    I am wondering why I would choose this life and how I can have hope. I’ve had a very unhappy childhood, I’ve been depressed all my life and discovered that I wasn’t able to practice a profession that I successfully studied for because apparently I have a slight cognitive impairment (which could be due to the long lasting depresdion). Currently working an unfulfilling job. I am on medication which is not working after trying many. I am unhappy and feel trapped in my current marriage. I don’t have many friends or support except for mental health professionals. Sometimes it just seems too much. Can you advise what to do? It just seems so hopeless.

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    Comment by Mari | June 12, 2021

  136. Hi, PE. We’ll be happy to ask The Council how you can heal your relationship with your dead mother when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 12, 2021

  137. Hi, Darla. Good to hear from you. Congratulations on your experience of your higher self during hypnotherapy. For those who are unfamiliar with QHHT it stands for Quantuum Healing Hypnotherapy Technique. Excellent questions about future lives after one awakens to our true self, the end of reincarnation, transcending to higher states of consciousness, and your path moving forward. We’ll ask The Council these questions as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thank you so much for these extremely thoughtful questions. We look forward to hearing what The Council has to say about them. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 8, 2021

  138. Hi, PE. We’ll ask The Council about your relationship with your mother who’s passed when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 8, 2021

  139. Hello Bob and Cynthia! It seems as if one of our main purposes is to have a spiritual awakening, to rediscover our true selves and realize just how powerful and divine we all are. During a QHHT hypnotherapy session, I had a profound experience of my higher self. I was expansive and gigantic–full of divine love, energy, and power. My council spoke through me and answered all of my questions. My question is: what happens for future lives after we do have an awakening to our true self? Do we have to reincarnate again, and therefore, “forget” who we really are again? Is there an end to reincarnation once we have fully awakening to our higher self on earth? Or at least do we transcend to higher states of consciousness? What is my path forward? Thank you, Darla

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    Comment by She's a Maineiac | June 8, 2021

  140. Hello to The Council, Cynthia and Bob. If possible, I would so appreciate it if the Council could give some guidance on my relationship with me and my mother. I have asked for guidance on this platform before and the Council did strongly indicate that our relationship was marked by a difficult past life. My mother passed away last year but I continue to often have troubling dreams about her. I feel guilty for not speaking to her the last few months of her life and for not always being compassionate to her. Just when I think I am making progress with healing our relationship, even after her death, it feels like I am taking a step backward or I feel stuck. I would appreciate any advise. Warm wishes

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    Comment by PE | June 6, 2021

  141. They don’t even have to be affecting necessarily but perhaps helpful in any way

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    Comment by Rob | June 4, 2021

  142. Hi, Rob. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about lifetimes that could be affecting your current income and health struggles when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of it as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 4, 2021

  143. Hi, I was wondering if the Council can briefly describe to me which 3 or 4 of my other lifetimes that would be most beneficial for me to try and connect with to help me succeed and deal with my income and health struggles?

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    Comment by Rob | June 3, 2021

  144. Thank you so much for your kind words, Kaitlin. We’re glad you felt comfortable talking with us and for suggesting to readers they try a phone session if they’re thinking about it. Be well. Until the next time.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 29, 2021

  145. Hi everyone! I am posting this on the blog to expand on the personal email that I sent to Cynthia and Bob as a thank you after a personal reading. I hope this will give insight to anyone wondering about what a personal session is like or maybe it will inspire someone to get one.

    I had my first phone reading for my 22nd birthday last week, and it was incredible! I had this beautiful 30-minute conversation with the council where I could ask any question that I wanted. It was highly personal, filled with so much love, care, and guidance. I did not expect so much to come through.
    I had prepared a list of questions, but I probably only got through the first few because so much guidance was given to me.

    The council is incredibly loving, funny, and they answered some questions that I had had for a long time. I feel so much clarity, purpose, and a sense of direction. I am in the beginning of a new journey; a path that I have wanted to go down for quite some time, but didn’t really know for sure if I could. The council basically told me that this path that I had been questioning, was what I had wanted to do in the first place before I even got here! So because of this, I feel so much support and validation.

    I feel excited for life, and after the reading I just felt so much joy in the air. Bob and Cynthia also have the most comforting voices, and it was such a pleasure to talk to such warm and loving people. If you are thinking of getting a reading, I highly recommend it, and I will for sure be back for another one, because I have many more questions! The other amazing thing is that they record the session and send it to you so you can listen to it as many times as you want to! Much love, and thank you so much again!!

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    Comment by Kaitlin | May 26, 2021

  146. Thank you Bob and Cynthia so much.

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    Comment by Chris | May 18, 2021

  147. Hi, Chris. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your brother, his son, and being alone when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 18, 2021

  148. Hello, I wanted to find the meaning in giving up three years of my life to help a brother who was ill, who eventually died, then his son taking his life in despair two days later. I was beyond devastated trying to pick up the pieces of my life following massive tragedy. My brothers wife, had sheltered him and their son for help and guidance from me and my sisters prior to their passing so there was no way to help. After one year I was recovering and ready to “get my life back”. I was still hoping for love. I attracted a wonderful man in a dead marriage and he was the most incredible man I had ever met through my work in his office. This alone surprised me I would meet someone in my late years. His wife unbeknownst to me had asked him for a divorce and we developed a very close, non physical deep friendship. I thought finally he was worth the wait, but no this too seems like it will go nowhere. I was hoping God was finally giving me a gift and if appears not to be. I feel hopeless to ever have someone of my own. Just wonder after decades of looking and being open to love, am I meant to be alone? I have given everything in love and service and feel completely empty.

    Thank you for direction. Basically are there things we ask for that we will never get?

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    Comment by Chris | May 17, 2021

  149. Hi, Live_Breathe. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about the shadows you’ve been seeing and if there’s any relationship to developing clairvoyance. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthai

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 13, 2021

  150. Dear Council and Bob/Cynthia,

    I am curious about seeing shadows from the corner of my eyes. Since a lot of years now, I see shadows from the corner of my eyes. I have not faced any negative consequences from it but I am curious about knowing what it is.

    At times, I almost feel like a shadow has walked in the room, only to realize later there was no one there. Can the council please guide me about what this shadows/presence is and what does it represent in my life.

    Does it mean by any chance that I am unconsciously developing my Clairvoyance. Also curious if I need any protection so to say from this shadows.

    Thanks and love

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    Comment by Live_Breathe | May 11, 2021

  151. Hi, Lightworker. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about Covid and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 10, 2021

  152. Hello Bob,Cynthia and the council,

    Thanks for the amazing work that you guys do. I have a question about Covid condition in India at present. Its getting worst day by day and millions of people are dying everyday.

    We have lost very close family members due to covid and almost every other day we hear someone we know passing away from corona – this includes very young members as well. As an empath, it affects me very deeply.

    I want to ask a question – can the council please give an insight about when do they see situation improving? I am very scared for my aged parents in India who are alone at present. And if possible – please give a guidance about how one can remain positive and stay protected from this virus.

    Thanks. Much love.

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    Comment by Lightworker | May 10, 2021

  153. Hi, Anonymous. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your son when we have time and we’ll post their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 8, 2021

  154. Hi, I am struggling watching my young son navigate this world. He’s a tricky kid, very bright and curious but competitive and insecure. And he seems that he just can’t get a break. His little brother is easy and seems to skate through. But my oldest- in our neighborhood and extended family, at his new school he often feels excluded. How can we help him feel loved, know close friendship. I often wonder what he carried into this life from other lives. If his journey is meant to be difficult I can’t change that but I’m curious if I can help him experience more peace and kindness along the way. He’s very resistant to any sort of meditation or mindfulness. Thank you!

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    Comment by Anonymous | April 30, 2021

  155. Hi, Weston. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about the Pleiades when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 25, 2021

  156. I have always been drawn to the Pleiades. Ever since I can remember. At night if the stars are visible, I feel that I have to see them before I can go indoors. Why? I also feel in my soul that this life is a punishment (maybe self imposed) for a previous failure. Who am I?

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    Comment by Weston | April 23, 2021

  157. Hi, Amorist. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your husband and mother when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 20, 2021

  158. Hi, Lisa. Please have patience. Thanks.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 14, 2021

  159. I never got a response 😔

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    Comment by lisabayer | April 13, 2021

  160. I learn so much from reading responses from The Council and I want to thank you all so much for facilitating this service.
    In my life I feel that I’ve been coping with many relationships with overbearing individuals. I assume there is a purpose, but my ex-husband has been such a challenging person, who I think fits the description of a narcissist, empathy does not come easily to him and he has very toxic ways of dealing with others. What is my history with him beyond this lifetime? What are my children gaining from him? As a result his influence I have spent a great deal of time being incredibly concerned for the wellbeing of my children, things were so difficult for a long time. It was heartbreaking. Perhaps there is something you could tell me about this that would ease my anxiety or help me with my outlook. Similarly, my mother is someone who is a very emotionally reactive, controlling individual who I feel seeks out disappointment and problems. We are living with her now, and I’m really struggling with this situation. I want my own home so badly but I don’t see the path forward toward that goal. How will I make ends meet and find safe space for my children and I? Why am I dependent on my mother? I love her, but I feel sort of trapped and as though I don’t have space or privacy. I just want everyone to be happy and okay. Who am I in all of this? Thank you for your time.

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    Comment by Amorist | April 12, 2021

  161. Hi, Loving Star. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your relationship with your boyfriend and the new man in your life when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 10, 2021

  162. Hi Bob and Cynthia and hello to the Council,

    I would like to ask the Council about my relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 10 years and our relationship is very loving. I know that he loves me very much, but I feel that I still miss something in our relationship. What was our pre-birth plan? Did we agree in spirit that we would stay together?

    I ask because I fell in love with another man who, as you said, was my father from my past life. I talk to the angels a lot and they told me that this man also likes me very much and is waiting for me to show him my love. I keep all my feelings for him back because I don’t want to hurt my boyfriend. On the other hand, I would like to show this man that I feel the same way he does. Is it okay to have these feelings? I feel very bad about that.

    What happens when I show my love to this man? I feel very confused about it, because I am feeling drawn to this man. I would like to know your view / insights / guidance on this situation. Thank you so much. Love and light to you all, Loving Star

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    Comment by Loving Star | April 8, 2021

  163. Hi, Lisa. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about what you need to know and unblock from your past lives as soon as we can and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 22, 2021

  164. Hi, I found this page after having another vivid dream about my past life in Atlantis. This one was different than my recurring dream. The dream I usually have is that I’m in a tower and I hear a bell go off as red-skinned people are charging down a hill to attack. The dream I had tonight was of a reincarnation pool where I laid into a pool to reincarnate and it was tied into my mother who I don’t get along with. I’ve also had dreams of being a woman pharaoh or empress in Egypt and was burned. I feel like my soul is always trying to teach me something, but I’m not fully awake. Who am I and what do I need to know and unblock from my past lives? Thanks a ton.

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    Comment by lisabayer | March 22, 2021

  165. Thank you, Cristiana. Blessings to you.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 5, 2021

  166. Thank you so much, Bob and Cynthia, for the answers and the blessings!!! It was such a great surprise to read this post today. I wish you all the best and I thank you for the beautiful work that you do!

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    Comment by Cristiana | March 3, 2021

  167. Hi, Kristi. Thanks for your kind words and for following our blog. It means a lot to us that you look forward to each post.

    We’ll ask The Council your questions about your son’s future when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 23, 2021

  168. Hi Cynthia, Bob & The Council,

    Thank you for the wonderful work you guys do & the clarity you provide to so many people. I’ve been a reader for a couple of years now and look forward to every post.

    I have some questions about my son that I’d like some insight on. My son is about to turn 18 and will graduate from high school in the next few months. He seems to be lacking motivation when it comes to school and planning his next steps after he graduates. College was always on the table as an option but due to his lack of efforts this school year, he won’t qualify for tuition assistance now unfortunately. We are not sure that this even concerns him. He has done nothing to prepare for college, he has not applied to any schools yet. He does have a job currently, but it is a low wage part-time job while he is in school. No matter what his father and I do to help prepare him for his next steps in his life, he seems uninterested. He is almost 18 so we try to step back and encourage him to take actions instead of us doing it for him. Here are my questions for The Council:
    1. What can his father & I do help him him in this next phase of his life?
    2. What direction do you see his future heading? Do you see that he goes to college?
    3. Should we be concerned about anything?

    Any other insights regarding our son and his future are much appreciated! We want him to successful and independent and happy. He has a heart of gold & is a great person overall…. he just lacks direction and motivation. Thank you so much!

    Kristi E.

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    Comment by Kristi | February 22, 2021

  169. Hi, LoveAndHealth. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about natural remedies for your father’s kidney condition when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Our prayers are with you and your father. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 12, 2021

  170. Dear Bob Cynthia and Council,

    I want to seek guidance regarding my dad. He has recently been diagnosed with a kidney condition. We found out that he has one kidney since birth similar to my aunt in the family.

    We also found out that we cant do anything for this condition from medical perspective. I want to request council’s guidance for my dad’s better health. Please let me know if there are any natural remedies/medicines/yoga/meditation that can be helpful for his health condition.

    Thank you!

    Loads of love!

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    Comment by LoveAndHealth | February 11, 2021

  171. Thank you Bob and Cynthia

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    Comment by She's a Maineiac | February 9, 2021

  172. Hi, Loving Star. Thank you for your kind words of appreciation. As soon as we have time we’ll ask The Council about your relationship with this man you work with and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thank you for these questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 8, 2021

  173. Hi Bob and Cynthia, and hello to the Council!

    I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your answers. It helped me a lot!

    Now I would like to ask the Council if they could bring clarity to my situation. I was introduced to a man about 10 years ago, and from the first moment I feel a certain connection to him on a deeper level. Even though I feel his affection for me, I didn’t show mine because I was surprised by the connection itself. Why do I feel this connection? Did we share any past lives together? If so, what were our roles in those lives, and what happened between us?

    The reason I’m asking is that I started working in his law firm and I feel that my connection to him is much stronger than before. I feel like we were on a similar wave and I can’t explain why this is so, because I feel that this connection is mutual. Why did we meet in this life, and what did we agree on as spirits when we entered this life?

    I see that he is a person who cares about me and helps guide me in my career. Is that why we met? What other gifts can we pass on to each other? Is there anything important I should know about us, for example, whether we have agreed that a romantic relationship will develop between us?

    Thank you so much for any insights… Love & light

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    Comment by Loving Star | February 8, 2021

  174. Hi, Darla. Our condolences over you’re mother’s recent passing. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. We’ll be happy to ask The Council for the guidance you requested as soon as we can and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 8, 2021

  175. Hi Bob and Cynthia,

    My mother recently passed from Alzheimer’s Disease. I cared for her at home up until her last two weeks at an assisted living facility. While the disease left her unable to eat or drink, her memory was still intact and she was able to talk to me almost until the very end.

    While I know she’s at peace now, she suffered tremendously the last few months, often lying down on the floor crying in pain. I felt helpless to get her better and it was torture seeing her suffer. I still feel the heavy weight of guilt in my heart as I chose to honor her wishes to die without any artificial means of sustaining her life.

    Can the Council shed some light on her passing or her last days on earth? Does she forgive me for not being able to help her? Are our relationship issues resolved from past lives?
    Thanks for any insight you can provide me.

    Peace and blessing to you, Darla

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    Comment by She's a Maineiac | February 8, 2021

  176. It looks like you successfully signed up for email notifications when we post a new blog, Wai. Thank you so much for following.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 5, 2021

  177. Trying to subscribe, but I’m having trouble. I hope this works!

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    Comment by waimarama13 | February 4, 2021

  178. Hi I’m just signing up so i can receive email notifications! 💗

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    Comment by waimarama13 | February 4, 2021

  179. Hello, Thank you Bob and Cynthia and to the Council for all the wise and kind words that you provide us through this blog. I’ve learned so much from the Council. I am looking for a new professional opportunity and am curious how I can bring this about. I have been saying an abundance mantra (that’s new for me- I’m trying to create my own reality, as you often suggest!) and staying positive and grateful- is that enough? I’m thinking about contacting an old colleague but not sure if that is appropriate (or desperate? They offered me a position last year that I didn’t take, partially out of fear, but I’m ready to take it now- is that opportunity long gone? Do I just need to let it go? Can I recreate it?). Thank you!

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    Comment by Anonymous | January 28, 2021

  180. Concerning 2020-04-01 Challenger – Coronavirus follow-up questions, why does The Council say, “Everyone here is so brave to be on this planet now going through this virus.”? If reality is the soul is eternal and the body finite, who is being brave? Emmanuel’s Book states we should see the physical body like a space suit. A chosen vehicle necessary to experience the physical. I like the example of disposable work gloves as that is more often the reality of our conscious experience.

    Like the chicken (eternal soul) and the pig’s (conscious body) commitment to breakfast, who is really being brave? The chicken has no fear in this process as it is the pig who suffers, bleeds, and dies in the end. Why is there so little conversation about the rights of pig to not be abused, tortured, and returned to the dust bin as the acceptable planned outcome? It is because, our physical bodies have no rights or advocates to defend against so-called higher-level planning by souls who have no fear of experiencing or dying because in the end, they get to go remotely and safely analyze and play with their Soul Groups while they figure it out. We will just whip up another body for you to abuse again next time you want to play – brave soul.

    Does the physical incarnation have no rights when faced with spiritual plans that hurt, harm, and destroy their existence? If not, we (those living in the conscious physical world) are in fact nothing more than disposable work gloves for those who never pay the ultimate price.

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    Comment by scobled | January 24, 2021

  181. In reviewing previous Covid-19 posts by The Council, I find the following comment revealing.

    “2020-09-06 Kristi – Questions about COVID-19 – “Bob asked The Council if they could say what country was involved in the slip-up. The Council says if we went into this it would create more chaos right now. What will be helpful is after there’s discussion and more information becomes available, we can let you know if this information is true.”

    I find it interesting that The Council chooses to serve as an inhibitor to revealing the known truth instead of a facilitator. How convenient to be able to sit on the sidelines and not take a position in advance that would be later validated or invalidated by emerging information. It appears The Council is part of the cover-up, not separate from it.

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    Comment by Derek | January 24, 2021

  182. Hi, LearningToDiscern. Interesting questions. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of our session when it’s ready. Thanks for asking. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 23, 2021

  183. Dear Bob, Cynthia, and Council guides

    Recently I have started learning about the Illuminati movement, the dark side of government, and CIA professionals from internet resources. I have also been reading about Mind control and Surveillance that we as a society are living under. I have seen proofs on the internet that establishes its connectivity to newly changed government.

    I read a lot of metaphysics books. The move towards transhumanism is I think the movement which will take us further from spirituality. Among all the things I have been reading – what disturbed me most was the use of children these evil forces use in their rituals. I want to ask the council if all this information is true. If so, How to live our life as an individual(and with kids) to be protected from all this and how to go closer to spirituality in this kind of atmosphere.

    Thanks so much!

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    Comment by LearningToDiscern | January 23, 2021

  184. Thank you so much for your appreciation, SeekingGuidance. We’ll ask The Council your questions about your son when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 17, 2021

  185. Hello Guys,

    Thanks so much for your wonderful life changing advises you have been giving on this platform. For me personally – those have been pretty helpful in the past.

    I have question about my kid. My son is 7 years old. He is amazingly wise and kind for his age. He asks questions at times which are so profound. I am very sure that he is sort of like an old soul who has come here to share the wisdom he has with the rest of the world.

    My question is that – Is he a starseed? I think he might be from my intuition. I have been told in the past I am Starseed and I have origins in Sirius. My question is that if my son is starseed? If so, what are his gifts and how can I help him enhance those? I think he has immense potential – I want to make sure I nurture his talents and support him in his mission/life goals. Please share any suggestions which will help me as a parent.

    Thanks!

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    Comment by SeekingGuidance | January 10, 2021

  186. Hi- thank you Bob and Cynthia and the Council for all the wonderful advice you provide! Here is my question- is loud, rock ‘n roll music ‘bad’? Bad for our souls, bad for kids? I’m serious. We don’t listen to much pop music in our house but my partner will let our kids listen to ‘hard’ rock. The lyrics are fine, even poetic, but I have a hard time believing it’s good for them- physiologically or spiritually. It’s loud and aggressive. The kids love it. Am I over reacting? What type of music does the council enjoy?

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    Comment by Anonymous | December 28, 2020

  187. Hi, Christiana. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about what’s the appropriate path for you and we’ll past an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 11, 2020

  188. Dear Cynthia and Bob,

    I am writing this because I need some guidance when it comes to the path I should pursue in this life. I have lots of skills and interests and therefore, many options (or so I think). I am also very scattered-brained and I feel my life is very fragmented, in a kaleidoscopic kind of way. My question is about which direction should I channel my energy and focus into. For a long time I have been dreaming about getting in touch with my artistic side but it is not the only calling I get. I feel a pull towards many activities. I wonder if artistic expression is something I should take seriously or if it is just a past time hobby. Is there some work from my past-lives that I am supposed to pursue, or something that I need to know from my past lives to help me understand my current one better? Thank you very much in advance. I know I’ve asked more than one question, but I would appreciate any answer given. Thank you for the help.

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    Comment by Cristiana | December 11, 2020

  189. Hello Council and Bob/Cynthia, You guys are amazing team of angels doing such helpful work. I have been a admirer since a long time now. I have a question about my current professional life situation. Since last few months, I am loosing my motivation of working in my current job. I am very much interested to start my own private small investment firm and move to path of being investment banker. This field is very different from my present job of being a Software engineer but I feel strong calling to do this. I have had some good successes with my investments recently and that has given me more confidence to pursue this professionally. Also at this time in my life I think I would be happy being an entrepreneur, I have a gut feeling telling me its right thing for me to do.

    Can the council please guide me if taking this leap of faith of changing the profession entirely would help me finding my passion and would be a good move to make at this time/within a year? It doesnt make sense a lot from salary perspective since I am earning a good amount now but I am strongly feeling a calling do move to this profession. This is very exciting for me and I am enjoying it a lot.

    I would wait for council’s response on this since it would give me much needed blessing and confidence to go ahead and do it.

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    Comment by LightAndLove | December 9, 2020

  190. How exciting. Thank you!

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    Comment by Eleanor | December 9, 2020

  191. Hello Cynthia and Bob
    I hope I am
    Not leaving a question in the wrong place but after reading this lady’s comment It prompted me to ask my own questions
    I have been working on myself and past and recent trauma and am open to a relationship now since the sudden death of my partner and childrens father 7 years ago
    However currently 2 Men are in my life as friends only . Both have major issues themselves and I have a tendency to rescue others
    Do I cut my losses and move on or is the connection I feel with them both a reason to stay and see what develops
    Like I said it’s purely friendship with both at the moment
    Thank you and hope I didn’t hate crash here
    I asked the council a message about 5 years ago now it was most helpful
    Thank you
    K xxx

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    Comment by Kali | December 8, 2020

  192. We’re glad you found our blog, Eleanor. Hang in there. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 8, 2020

  193. Dear Cynthia, Bob, and The Council

    I hope this finds you well.

    I came across your site only yesterday while looking for information on soul contracts, and think the work you do here is amazing! So, I too, would like to ask The Council a question, if I may:

    I grew up in a severely abusive home, and began the long process of recovery as soon as I left. It’s been a journey of estrangement, homelessness, fragile mental health, and difficulty finding work, but I have come a very long way. Naturally, this journey’s included steep learning curves in relationships, and despite 26-years of ‘failed’ relationships, my heart that has always told me I actually have a soul-contracted life-partner/husband. Three 1/2 years ago, my then-partner abandoned me when I had cancer, & I vowed that I would work on myself so hard that my next relationship would be with that soul-contracted life-partner/husband.

    This summer a friend of a friend stepped forward. To my surprise, our lives mirrored, we had an awful lot in common, and the union was surrounded in synchronicity. Sadly, this person has (at least with me) a pattern of leaving and coming back, which takes an immense toll on me. We are currently separated and I am taking stock.

    So my question is this: I would like to know if this is my soul-contracted life-partner/husband, and if so, what I need to do or learn to handle the connection? If not, I would like to release this person and know what I need to do, change, or understand in order to bring my future life-partner/husband into my life, and also at what point in my life I can expect this person to appear?

    All the very best,
    Eleanor

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    Comment by Eleanor | December 8, 2020

  194. Thank you so much~

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    Comment by Special K | December 1, 2020

  195. Hi, Special K. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your boyfriend who’s passed when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 29, 2020

  196. I would like to ask the Council a question. My boyfriend passed away—we were on-again-off-again for the past 20 years (more on than off, thankfully during the last 5 years!). I began seeing signs of him around me almost immediately, feeling his touch on my feet/legs when I meditate, etc. My questions are these: Does he approve of our transdimensional relationship (or is it all my imagination), will we be reunited in the afterlife and exist eternally alongside each other even though near the very end several months before he passed we were separated? I love him, I want to spend my afterlife with him—and I pray he feels the same and wishes to continue our love as a couple now…inside my heart it feels like he does–but doubt can sometimes creep in.

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    Comment by Special K | November 27, 2020

  197. Hello,

    I have a question about my mother’s health if the council can please help me with that. Recently my Aunt passed away unexpectedly, who was younger than my mom, and that has triggered a lot of concern in my mind regarding my health and my time with her.

    I live away from my home country and can only visit once a year or once every two years to my parents. I have been crying a lot ever since my aunt passed away worrying about my mother’s health. Since my job is better in this country, as per my current plan, I am planning to move back to my home country in next 5 years(by 2025). I want to make sure I spend some quality time with my parents and I am around when they need me.

    Being the only child, I am very much attached to my mother. I cant even stand the thought of her passing away, I have been feeling depressed and have spent many sleepless nights recently.

    Can the council please guide me if the plan to move to my home country in 5 years is okay and I would still have some years I will able to spend with my mom and my dad ? Even though, I know its up to an individual to create their life and their passing, any guidance regarding this will be appreciated. Also I wanted to check if there is any way I can increase my parents’ life by visualization and positive thoughts ? If I keep thinking positive thoughts, visualizations techniques – will that help to increase my parents life span and their health ?

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    Comment by LoveMyParents | November 16, 2020

  198. Hi, LovePeace. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your husband’s health as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for asking. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 22, 2020

  199. Hi, Kenneth. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about “announcing dreams” and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for asking. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 22, 2020

  200. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the Council,

    I have a question about My husband’s health. He is having very high triglycerides and given the history of the heart attacks in his family – I am very much worried about him.

    Other than the medicines and the diet that the doctor is suggesting – can the council please guide if he can do any meditation to help him with his condition ? Also, since physical pains and ailments are associated with spiritual aspects – I wanted to check the reason of developing this and the issues his higher self is trying to address with this disease.

    Thanks so much!

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    Comment by LovePeace | October 19, 2020

  201. I would like to know what the purpose is of ‘Announcing Dreams’ in which a soul presents itself to living person, often declaring its intent to be reborn to them or even just engaging in random parent/child activities.

    Why do some souls in these situations choose to appear as children while others appear as an elderly prior incarnation? Why do some individuals have these dreams while they are still young themselves? And can souls who engage in this sort of communication declare their desire to individuals who they have had no prior incarnations with?

    Lastly, do I have any lifetimes where I as a spirit thought it was necessary or desirable engage in this type of action with a potential mother or father?

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    Comment by Kenneth | October 19, 2020

  202. Hi, Mazy. Your question makes lots of sense. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your not having experienced your spirit guides and the spirit of your deceased mother when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 15, 2020

  203. Hi, Denisa. We’ll be happy to ask The Council what career path is right for you when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 15, 2020

  204. Hi Bob and Cynthia,

    Thank you for all that you do to help others! I have a question if it’s ok? For quite some time now, I’ve not felt my guides or deceased mother around me. I have asked for them out loud and quietly in my mind. In the past, I was experiencing detailed lucid dreams with important symbolism and also experiencing astral projection/travel where I’ve met with a few guides and my deceased mother briefly. The dreams and astral projections/travels decreased in frequency and now I haven’t experienced either in about a year. I’ve found myself having doubts and wondering why they aren’t with me? I hope this all makes sense.

    Thank you again for all you do,
    Mazy

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    Comment by Mazy | October 14, 2020

  205. Hello Bob and Cynthia,

    I would like to ask you, if the Council could guide me in my career. After moving abroad for my partner I had a great difficulty finding a good job. Ultimately I found a job and was able to gain a foothold in a new country, for which I am very grateful. However, I’m at the point where I want to move forward in my career and my life, but I’m feeling stuck, unsure and overwhelmed. I would love to know, what career path is actually right for my next step in life in Switzerland?

    In my home country I worked mostly as an accountant but now I would like to start working in human resources. Is the career in human resources the right direction for me now or is there another career path ready for me now? I would like to know if there is any special message or guidance for me regarding my career growth and if the Council see me in a new job later this year? Thank you so much. Many blessings. Denisa

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    Comment by Denisa | October 14, 2020

  206. Hi, Keith. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about the Holy Spirit when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 9, 2020

  207. Who or What is the Holy Spirit? When I was born again 20 years ago, I experienced miracles every day for about two weeks, and felt a buzz that my new Christian friends said meant that I was filled with the Holy Spirit. Lately I’ve gotten away from religion and am on a more direct spiritual path. And even though God and Christ come up in my readings and discussions, I’ve yet to find mention of the Holy Spirit.

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    Comment by Keith Ruenheck | October 8, 2020

  208. Hi, MindfulLoving. We’ll ask The Council your questions about your job and entrepreneurship when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 3, 2020

  209. Dear Bob/Cynthia,

    I want to ask for guidance regarding my job. I have started doing job about 5 years back to be independent and it has helped me a lot so far. However – due to this current COVID crisis, I have started having anxiety issues a lot due to job stress. I also feel restless and cant sleep at nights due to stress and anxiety – I am worried I will start having panic attacks if the situation continues. I have a young kid and I think I am unable to manage everything at present time. To cope with the stress – I have started reading books about meditation and mindfulness.

    I also read a lot about stocks trading and entrepreneurship. I do want to be financially independent and I have some savings but not a whole lot. Can the council please guide me if leaving my current job would be advisable for me ? It is a very difficult decision for me as I am on work visa and I think it would be difficult for me to get into another job if I leave my job and lose my visa status. Also – on the same note, can the council please guide me if the path of entrepreneurship is for me and I would succeed in that ? If so – what field should I choose to be in and when should I make that switch ?

    Thanks so much for showing light with a lot of love!

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    Comment by mindfulloving | September 27, 2020

  210. Hi, Denisa. We’ll be happy to answer your question about your life purpose when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Keep meditating. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 26, 2020

  211. Hi, Denisa. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about what may be holding you back from finding the employment you desire as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 26, 2020

  212. Dear Cynthia and Bob,
    I would like to ask you, if the Council would give me clarity about my life purpose in this lifetime. As a child, I went through emotional and physical abuse by my father and my step-mothers, which led me to search for the meaning of my life and my life purpose. This searching led me to spirituality and to angels, from whom I learned that my life purpose is to help people on their journey and show them the way. I am not entirely sure what this means. I would love, if the Council could provide more clarity, guidance, insight into this subject. I have also recently begun to meditate with my intention of connecting to my spiritual guides and allowing them to speak to me and through me. Am I on the right track? Is there anything that would help me be more open? Thank you so much, many blessings..

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    Comment by Denisa | September 26, 2020

  213. Dear Bob and Cynthia,

    Can the Council provide a spiritual perspective on my struggle with finding good jobs? I don’t understand why I always have such great problems with it and why I’m especially afraid of interviews. I feel like an internal resistance to it and I don’t understand it at all.

    A few years ago, I moved to Switzerland to start living with my soul mate and create a life and family together. However, in order to have a nice life and create a family, I have to find a good job. Are any of my past lives holding me back? Are there any spiritual/life lessons I should learn from this?

    I appreciate any further guidance/insights on my journey. Thank you so much.

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    Comment by Denisa | September 25, 2020

  214. Hi, Looking For Guidance. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your follow-up questions about your past life in Egypt when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 20, 2020

  215. Hello Cynthia, Bob and the Council,

    Firstly – I would like to thank you guys for amazing work that you are doing. I have a follow up question about guidance I have received from council earlier about a past life in Egypt. It seems that I have gone through a initiation process in sarcophagus that has gone wrong in that life time and has created a lot of fear in my soul. I wanted to know if that was part of my pre-birth planning for that life time. As I am understanding a bit about pre-birth planning, I am learning that nothing happens by accident and whatever happens is always planned by spirit. I want to check why was this planned for my egypt life – if I was not ready to work with that amount energy, why was it planned that I will go through initiation process during that time – knowing it can cause damage in my soul and that would be very hard to repair.

    Does the council think that I will be able to get rid of all the fear in this lifetime and will move forward with the energy work I planned to do in that life time ? I feel stuck at times and even though I understand the fears are from past life time – its seems its very hard to get rid of those imprints and behavior patterns. I think the energy level in my body is rising and I do have glimpses of vision and audio sensations/dreams that is hard to understand at times and I believe once I can get rid of my fear – I can move forward with my spiritual progress and ascension – can the council please guide me regarding when this will happen and how do help with this ascension ? Please let me know how can I help my soul to ascend and move forward by erasing past karma. I would also like to know if there are any negative forces that I need to be protect my self from.

    Thank you!

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    Comment by Looking for guidance | September 20, 2020

  216. Hi, Will. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about locations for reincarnation when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 31, 2020

  217. I have heard that many souls have an affinity for certain locations on earth that they keep coming back to in numerous incarnations. I would like to ask what general areas (such as countries and continents) that my soul likes to incarnate in? Also are there specific locales and cities in particular that I like? Lastly are there time periods that I like more than others?

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    Comment by Will Nyl | August 31, 2020

  218. Hi, Anonymous. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your brother when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 23, 2020

  219. Hello,
    I have never had a close relationship with one of my brothers- usually I tolerate him and try not to create drama. Last spring he crossed some lines while we were at a family gathering- disrespectful toward our dad, aggressive toward me, hurtful toward my kids. He never apologized. I haven’t spoken to him since. But nor have I spoken ill of him. I’ve tried hard to just quietly avoid him. I’ve said very little to my parents or other siblings, even my husband. So- I know he needs compassion. Can I give it to him from afar? It feels so good to be free of that toxic relationship! He could be so cruel and now I don’t have to pretend to be ok with all of that.
    Can I forgive him without having him in my life? I’m not stewing in anger but I don’t want to be around him. Do we have unfinished business? I worry that I will get stuck married to him in my next life. What do I need to do to finish this?

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    Comment by Anonymous | August 21, 2020

  220. Hi, Looking For Advice. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your aunt’s depression when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 19, 2020

  221. Thankyou! Looking forward to receiving the messages xx

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    Comment by curiouspisces | August 19, 2020

  222. Hello,

    I have a question about my aunt if the council can please share some insights on this – from last few years, she slipped in a sort of depression. She was very happy, lively woman before but ever since the depression happened – she lost essence of her self.

    My aunt’s family has tried all the doctors and tried praying to different gods but things are not going even close to her previous behavior. She has even gone to thyroid surgeries to make it little better but nothing seems to be helping. We think – she has gone through a lot of struggles in the past related to kids and family and all the emotions are bubbled up and causing this depression.

    My question for the council is to first understand the reason behind this depression and if there is anything we can do externally to help her aid in this and come out of this if its possible. At present, due to my aunt’s current mental situation – the family seems to be falling apart and there doesnt seem to be light at the end of the tunnel.

    Any guidance will be appreciated, Thank you so much!

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    Comment by Looking for advise | August 19, 2020

  223. Hi, Chris. Congratulations on overcoming most of your addictive behaviors. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about your bulimia when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 17, 2020

  224. Throughout my life, I have engaged in and overcome a number of OCD and addictive behaviors, including alcoholism. However, after 34 years (I’m now 46), I still suffer from bulimia. I have been in 4 in-patient centers and worked with several therapists and counselors and cannot figure out how to move beyond this (intellectually I understand, but to put new behaviors into practice seems more than what I am willing or capable of doing). I understand all about eating disorders, have significant conscious self-awareness, have worked with an energy healer and I’m just at a loss. Any insight/ideas/guidance would be helpful.

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    Comment by Chris | August 17, 2020

  225. Hi, Laura. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your relationship with Eric when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 14, 2020

  226. Hello, I would like to all the council about a man I met a year ago named Eric. We have a special connection, but have both been going through very difficult times in our lives since we met. I believe one or both of us has been going through a dark night of the soul. Because of this, we see and talk to each other only occasionally. Why were we brought into each other’s lives, and will we be together someday?

    Thank you for any insight you can provide.

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    Comment by Laura | August 14, 2020

  227. Hi, Feeling Empty. Have faith. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your friend who’s recently departed when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Keep your eyes peeled for a sign and we’re pretty sure you’ll receive it. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 12, 2020

  228. Dear Cynthia, bob and the council,
    Last week I lost my beautiful friend to suicide. I am in complete disbelief and can’t accept he is physically not here. My mind can’t accept it because where I live we are in lock down , and can’t attend a funeral, which makes it real and believable. I am waiting for a sign to confirm this tragedy. Will he be there waiting for me when it is my turn and is he ok now? Was this in his contract? Does he know how much I care? I’m looking forward to your response because although I have been spiritual and believed in the after life my whole life, I am beginning to lose faith in all my beliefs. With love, feeling empty.

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    Comment by Feeling empty | August 11, 2020

  229. Hi, Mel. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your daughter’s confidence, weight loss, and any relationship to past lives when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 10, 2020

  230. Hello. What is the best way to help my daughter feel more confident and boost her self esteem? I wonder if her past lives have prevented her from seeing the wonderful, smart amazing young woman she is. Maybe the interactions the two of us had in our past lives have prevented her in some way from feeling this confidence in this life. What about weight loss? Is being over weight a result of past lives? If so, how do we overcome this.

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    Comment by Mel | August 10, 2020

  231. Hi, Irena. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about your husband when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 1, 2020

  232. Hello. I just became aware that I am pregnant and in the meantime my ex husband divorced me. He said he does not want anything to do with the child or with me. I was completely blindsided by the divorce as I had no idea our marriage had issues. I would like to know if he regrets his decision to leave and if will come back to us. I still do love him but feel hurt for leaving the way he did.

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    Comment by Irena | July 30, 2020

  233. Hi, JD. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your problems when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 27, 2020

  234. Hi, Looking For Advice. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question how moving to India might affect your son’s education when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 27, 2020

  235. I would like some help making sense of the problems in my life and how to move forward. I have (or display numerous symptoms of) inattentive ADHD, maladaptive daydreaming, and high social anxiety. I have always been a lot weaker than the vast majority of males and the right half of my body is noticeably weaker. When I was young I developed double vision, and in my mid teens I developed incontinence (possibly due to consuming significant liquid one day and something in my urinary system just kind of broke, I’ve never found an explanation for this online, but my urethra feels damaged since). In my early twenties I developed a persistent stye on my right eye and then a ringing in my right ear, and can’t really hear out of it and for this I can’t find explanation for either. I think sitting on the computer and using a mouse tired my right hand and arm out and the pain went all the way into my ear. Once again it feels like something inside me just broke. This is all especially concerning because I am not even 30 yet.

    My questions are 1. What exactly is the source of all this and is there is anything I can do about it? and 2) I have a family member who will be retiring soon and I only make around the minimum for where I live and would like to make around the average ($50 000) to compensate. However the above problems have resulted in me having little experience, skills, connections or education. I would like some advice on what I can do to achieve this. I think I might have to find an alternative to typical 9-5 jobs such as working from home due to my numerous problems but I have no idea what.

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    Comment by JD | July 26, 2020

  236. Thank you for the amazing work you guys have been doing – Bob, Cynthia and the council. I have asked for advises on the blog and those have been life changing for me – so I am deeply thankful for that.

    I have a question about the move that we are thinking of making – from USA to India in few years. I want to know how will be that move for my child who is 7 years old at the moment. Education system and life style in India is much different in India compared to USA – while I know I will be easily able to adjust in that atmosphere but my main concern point is my kid’s education and his future. Can the council please guide me if this move to India will be good move for him and his education or is it better to stay in USA for his education. Also – if we move back, if he plans to come later in USA for studies and for career, he would be able to adjust here without family.

    This will be a very crucial advise for our family as we are very concerned about his education and life in India and whether or not we should make this move considering him. He is very creative by nature and along with that he is also very good at Math and science. I feel at times that USA will be better for appreciating the creative talents he has of storytelling and coming up with new ideas.

    Please guide us and advise us on this from your wisdom.

    Thank you very much.

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    Comment by Looking for advise | July 26, 2020

  237. Hi, CuriousPisces. We’ll be happy to ask The Council you question about possible shared past lives with your friend when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for asking. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 16, 2020

  238. Dear Cynthia, bob and the council,
    I would love to know if a friend and I have had any significant past lives together and what what were our roles, and how does it impact this current life?
    He asks me why someone like me has come into their life because he feels closer to me than others and feels feels there’s a spiritual connection.
    Thankyou for helping so many people and guiding them with answers.
    Love and light xxx

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    Comment by Curiouspisces | July 11, 2020

  239. Hi, Ashley. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about whether you have any unfinished business with this man as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 4, 2020

  240. Hi,
    For the last year or so I have been plagued with deep sentimental and nostalgic feelings for someone that I haven’t communicated with for about 7 years. I think it all started with him coming to me in a dream, out of nowhere. Since then I have carried our memories, probably too close, just burning this fire and having dreams often about him. I feel like he visits me, but then I think this is just wishful thinking, which I’m sure it is because he has moved on with life. To his knowledge, I have too and he is unaware of these feelings that I still hold onto.

    I want to let this go, as I am in a relationship myself, but I feel things have become clear to me over the last year, how much I have held onto him suppressing the continued feelings. It hit me one day that the person I am with now reminds me of him and for a long time I never connected that. I was with this guy the night his sister died 10 years ago. We were neighbors and best friends growing up, our moms were close. I miss this guy so much, but I also told him my feelings after we finally had a fling, 10 years ago, and he shut it down. I just realized one day how much he impacted my life and also how much my life continues to be impacted because he isn’t in it.

    I always have wondered if there were romantic feelings that he suppressed. He broke my heart and I still haven’t healed 10 years later, and we don’t speak. What should I do? Part of me says that we had a would contract and there is unfinished business, and the pessimistic side says I’m delusional. I feel like I’m not in a position to put myself out there to gain back anything, even friendship, as it would hurt too much to be turned down and I’m terrified of how he views me and I wish I knew. Will he come back in my life? Did we have a contract? Thank you so much for your time.

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    Comment by Ashley | July 2, 2020

  241. Hi, Alethea. We’ll be glad to answer your question about what you should be doing, and where you should be doing it as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of The Council’s response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 2, 2020

  242. Hoping you can help me. I am looking for guidance on what I should be doing and where, because I never feel at peace, like I’m in the right place, or a sense of belonging. I feel homesick at home. I feel like there are important things I should be doing and I’m just going through the motions instead.

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    Comment by Alethea | July 1, 2020

  243. Thanks for the clarification, Brock.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 23, 2020

  244. Hi, Jolanda. Sounds like a problem all right. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about it when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 23, 2020

  245. Hi again Cynthia and Bob! The council is been really helpful in answering two of my questions in the past, so I’m hoping you can help with my latest dilemma 🙂

    My first ever question was about my relationship with an abuser. Going on your advice and the advice of others, including professionals, I ended the relationship 3 years ago and have been so much happier! Thank you!!

    After 2.5 years on my own and doing a lot of self development work, I was blessed to find an amazing new partner and we’ve been together for 10 months now. My question relates to him as I’m experiencing something very unusual with him. I’ve never had this problem before with another man.

    Ever since the first time we slept in the same bed together, I haven’t been able to sleep when we’re together. On my own, my sleep is great, no problems at all. But with him, my body feels like electricity is pumping through me and, no matter how exhausted I am, or how late it is, I can’t fall asleep or stay asleep. I’ve tried my herbal sleep formula which normally works on the odd occasion that I can’t sleep on my own. But when I’m with him, I can take 3 or more doses and still be wide awake. Eventually I usually fall asleep in the very early morning, close to dawn. There have only been 4 occasions with him when I’ve had a proper sleep in 10 months. 3 of those occasions we were sleeping outdoors (camping, or sleeping on the car at the beach with the doors open). I’ve tried many rituals to cleanse myself and him before bed: sage, visualisation, prayer, protection, deep breathing, and having showers just before bed. These sometimes help a little, but usually not a lot. I also must say that we’re normally making love before bed on most occasions (we don’t live together, so make the most of it when we do see each other!).

    I used to be worried that it was a sign that he wasn’t right for me, but he is such a beautiful loving and kind man and we truly feel like soul mates/twin flames… I feel that we’re a match made in heaven! We often having psychic experiences together (eg. thinking/saying the same thing at the same time), so we’re very tuned into each other’s energy.

    I wonder if it’s a psychic connection, or something to do with our energy bodies which causes the problem. I also wonder if it’s some kind of message that I’m not receiving (I recently had an ancestor who seemed to interrupt my sleep every night for a week until i worked out the message she was trying to give me psychically).

    My new man sleeps perfectly fine and soundly when we’re together, so it’s just me that has this problem and it’s become a huge issue for me and makes me question how our future will look if i can’t resolve it. I hope The Council can help me understand what is happening and give me some solutions to fix this problem? Thank you so much again, many blessings, Jolanda

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    Comment by Jolanda | June 21, 2020

  246. Hi, Thomas. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about connecting to your inner guidance and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready, but we’re pretty sure you can do this with some practice. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 19, 2020

  247. This is awesome, I have just learned about this. Is it possible to meditate myself and discover my council for future life guidance and my past lives?

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    Comment by Thomas Fleenor | June 18, 2020

  248. I was basically wondering if it was easy to get the souls we want to be with to participate in creating of the new experiences I mentioned in the first question. From what I heard, it is seems rather easy.

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    Comment by Brock Boe | June 18, 2020

  249. Hi, Brock. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about creating new lifetimes in the historical past as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Regarding your second question, it’s a little unclear to us what you’re asking. We can try asking The Council, but if you can clarify your question for us in another post it would be appreciated. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 18, 2020

  250. Hi, Kaitlin. Thanks for shortening your questions. We’ll ask The Council as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 18, 2020

  251. Regarding reincarnation and non-linear time, I would like to have some clarification on the ways we can create new lifetimes that are set in what we consider to be the historical past when everything already exists in the now. Is it that when I create a life in the past, I am creating a new timeline where the would be parents had an additional child? Or perhaps am I creating a new timeline where they had different children and families (assuming all involved are willing to create that additional experience)?

    And this somewhat relates to the previous assumption, but do spirits tend to be willing to create these additional experiences for us when we all have our own desires? I am asking this because I’ve read some experiences about people who, in altered states such as lucid dreaming, managed to set up new lifetimes with great ease with very specific experiences at very specific times during these lives.

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    Comment by Brock Boe | June 18, 2020

  252. My two questions are: 1) What is my higher self doing while I am currently focused in this life, because I am not aware of it while I am here.
    2) How do I communicate with my higher self and listen to my own guidance to know what I really want?

    Thank you so much again!

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    Comment by Kaitlin | June 17, 2020

  253. Oh okay thank you so much! I’ll post a new comment on the most recent post and also think about doing a private session! Love and light!

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    Comment by Kaitlin | June 17, 2020

  254. Hi, Kaitlin. Good to hear from you. Our blog is only for people with one or two questions. You have the option to have a private one-hour phone reading with The Council for $100. Otherwise please post a new comment with one or two questions and we’ll answer your questions as soon as we have time. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 17, 2020

  255. Hi The Council, Cynthia, and Bob! Hopefully it’s alright to ask more questions. If so, I have a second new set of questions!

    1) What is my higher self doing while I am currently focused in this life?
    – as a follow up to that, how does it work exactly? How is there a larger part of me in spirit (who I really am), while there is a small part focused here – yet I am not aware of this larger part and what it is doing? It frustrates me to not be able to remember!

    2) How do I communicate with my higher self and listen to my own guidance to know what my higher self really wants?

    3) Since I am eternal, how did it all start? Before matter there was only consciousness, but how did consciousness even start?? Where did conciseness come from?

    4) What does spirit and the light council do all “day”? How do you spend your “time”? Besides answering the questions whenever Bob and Cynthia communicate with you.

    I have more questions written down, but I’ll leave it at that for now! Aside from these questions and future ones, maybe on a different post I would love to know how your (Bob and Cynthia) journey started! How Cynthia started communicating with the light council and how this whole blog began! Was it a surprise? Did you always know you could channel? I know you were familiar with Abraham; did they inspire you to want to do something similar?

    Thank you so much, and I hope you are all doing well!

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    Comment by Kaitlin | June 16, 2020

  256. Hi, Amazed. Good questions. It seems The Council is able to know about most of us by tuning into their vibration. We’ll be happy to ask them your question as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 10, 2020

  257. Hi Bob and Cynthia,
    I have a question or two for the council. How do they know who is asking the question without knowing anything about us. Also i am curious to know exactly when and how does a spirit enter a humans body when it is in a mothers womb.

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    Comment by Amazed | June 10, 2020

  258. Hi, Peace Peace-Peace. We’ll be happy to answer your questions about your shortness of breath and it’s relationship to a spiritual perspective as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of The Council’s response on our blog. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 24, 2020

  259. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the Council,

    Thank you for your guidance and showing us light. I want to ask the council about my health. I have recently started having shortness of breath which seems to be related to lung issues. I have been having this problem before Corona Virus situation as well so it does not seem to be related to Covid situation only.

    Can the council please guide me with any particular meditation/medicines that can be helpful. I will also get doctor’s opinion and I am going to get the tests done as well but wanted to take guidance from the council as I deeply believe the physical ailments are often symptoms of inner work and issues that you need to work upon from spiritual perspective.

    Please guide me about what can I do to get better and what are the issues that I need to look into from spiritual perspective that can accelerate my healing. Also, please suggest if this condition is associated with any of my past lives that I need to heal.

    Thank you so much.

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    Comment by peace peace-peace | May 23, 2020

  260. Hi, Wendy. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their reply as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 17, 2020

  261. Hi, Keith. We’re not sure the soul, higher self, or oversoul is unchanging throughout all incarnations, but we’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about spirits meeting in heaven as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 17, 2020

  262. I have a colleague (and friend?) who recently began excluding me from work projects I had expected to be a part of. Is she someone that I can still trust? Should I be looking for a new job? (tough times, I know) I received an offer recently but didn’t take it. I am having second thoughts.

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    Comment by Anonymous | May 15, 2020

  263. Hello all,

    I have dealt with many of the same struggles for a number of years and am looking for some clarity. I have lived with debilitating anxiety along with a fear of illness and death, for as long as I can remember. I have made a great deal of progress on my path and yet, things linger. I have a host of physical symptoms that I deal with, almost daily. Because of my history with anxiety, I have difficult determining which of these symptoms are truly physical and how to heal them. It feels like my nervous system is shot. I get shaky, palpitations, headaches, nauseous, and exhausted. I often feel feverish and achy. I miss my vitality and excitement. I am in the process of bringing a long time vision to fruition and feel scared that I won’t be able to accomplish my goals because I always feel “off”. I am tired of feeling this way and wonder if I have signed up for a lifetime of feeling or being unwell. All tests come back normal but I do not feel “normal”. I would like to know how to heal these bodies and how to find confidence and persistence while taking on this next chapter. I would like to know how I can feel and be my best and what lessons are directly impacting the energies at hand. I am so close and so, so overwhelmed. Please send me messages of healing and guidance on how to do so. I so deeply appreciate the gifts and wisdom you as a team, provide.

    And so I thank you. 😉

    Wendy

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    Comment by Wendy | May 14, 2020

  264. Using Bob Olson’s terminology, where the spirit resides in our physical bodies, and crosses into the light upon ‘death’. And the soul is the higher self (aka over soul), unchanging throughout all incarnations, can one spirit meet another spirit in heaven? For instance, can Tom Petty (the musician) locate Jimmy Hendrix (the musician) and start jamming?

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    Comment by Keith Ruenheck | May 11, 2020

  265. Hi, John. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about soul groups when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 25, 2020

  266. Hello, I would like to ask some questions related to soul groups. Are there any pros and cons to incarnating with individuals (close friends and family) outside one’s soul group? Do I have any lifetimes where my family consisted of people outside of my soul group that would be beneficial for me to know about? Is this action of incarnating with souls outside of ones own group typical for me? Because I’ve always thought having many lifetimes is a good way to interact and learn from many different individuals rather than being with the same individuals over and over again.

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    Comment by JohnT | April 25, 2020

  267. Hi, SoulSeekingNirvana. We’ll be happy to answer your questions for The Council on psychic protection when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 16, 2020

  268. Interesting questions, Over The Wall. We’ll ask The Council as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their reply as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for asking. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 15, 2020

  269. I have some questions about some of the things I’ve been reading on this blog. It seems that in spirit travel is instantaneous, but is it also possible to be in multiple locations at once? For example, could I take up residence in both the astral counterparts of both London and Paris at the same time?

    Another thing I would like to ask is our abilities in spirit about life selection. I hear stories about souls being shown many different options when planning a life (I am specifically referring to sets of parents and locations souls are offered), but would it also be possible simply to say ‘yes’ to all if we are multidimensional?

    Lastly, this relates to the previous question, but since there are different timelines playing out, do we select incarnating into different timelines at once as well? For example, would someone incarnating in 1945 select multiple timelines where the outcomes of World War 2 are different so they could experience multiple situations, or would they just pick one outcome to incarnate into?

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    Comment by Over The Wall | April 15, 2020

  270. Hello Bob, Cynthia, and the council,

    I have a question about my psychic protection. I have begun taking a lot of interest in spirituality and I feel I am going through a spiritual enlightenment process.

    I have a question about if there is any negative energy around me at times – I am asking this due to two experiences I have had. When I am doing a lot of reading about spirituality – I feel like my energy is expanding. I have also begun to hear and feel a presence. Mostly it’s positive but at times I get worried when it happens at night. Twice it happened that I got random calls exactly at 3:33 and as a believer of synchronicity – that got me worried. I rely on my feelings and it didn’t feel a very peaceful presence around night time.

    I understand that fear is holding me back in some capacity in my spiritual journey. Can the council please let me know if there is any negative energy around me in any form? If so, how do I protect my self and my family psychically? I want to feel peace and love when I am doing my research or meditation.

    Thanks.

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    Comment by SoulSeekingNirvana | April 14, 2020

  271. Hi, Mr Wheeler. We’ll be happy to answerer your interesting questions about other lifetimes as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their reply as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for asking. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 22, 2020

  272. I would like to ask some questions about lifetimes and other ways we as spirits gain experiences. Since we are all connected, I’ve heard that spirits can gain experiences from the lifetimes of other souls by “downloading” or “imprinting” their lifetimes on to their own soul. Is this something that requires permission from the soul lending the experiences (as it sounds intrusive)?

    I would also like to have some confirmations about impressions I’ve been having about my own lifetimes. I feel like I have a lifetime that takes place in the earlier part of the 20th century perhaps in America. I also feel that I have a life (or multiple lives) around what is called Scandinavia that takes place roughly around the latter two-thirds of this century. Are these impressions accurate and could I get a few details on these lives if so?

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    Comment by Mr Wheeler | March 22, 2020

  273. Hi, Wonder. When we have time we’ll ask The Council your questions about souls and will post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 14, 2020

  274. Hi Bob and Cynthia
    I have a few questions about souls. What happens when a soul learns all the lessons that are there to learn. Do they have to repeat any lessons even if they have learned it. Do souls ever quarrel over anything in the spirit world or are they always about showing love, no matter what.
    Thankyou.

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    Comment by Wonder | March 14, 2020

  275. Hi, Jay. When we have time we’ll ask The Council about your tinnitus and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 3, 2020

  276. Hello Council!

    I am struggling with a problem that I have been unable to solve myself: I have bouts of very debilitating tinnitus. I am a person who can appreciate silence, but there is no silence in my experience now, just very high pitch tones, like feedback. When I have these episodes, it is so distracting that I literally feel unable to use my brain. How can I address this problem? It’s really wearing me out emotionally, leaving me feeling hopeless.

    I thank you so much for considering my question.

    Yours In The Light,

    Jay

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    Comment by Jay | March 1, 2020

  277. Hi, Rob. Interesting question. We’ll ask The Council as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s available. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 23, 2020

  278. I have a question that I have heard different responses to in regards to our other selves’ experiences upon transitioning to spirit. For example, suppose when a person is young their parents have the option of moving to at least two different places, and as a result there is a branching off where multiple selves are created. These selves end up with different friends, occupations and so forth. With noticeably different experiences, could these selves upon transition experience different life reviews, be greeted by different people and create different afterlife conditions for themselves based on their individual desires and experiences or do all the individual selves merge together? Or is it that each self creates its own afterlife and then after merges with the greater part of them later?

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    Comment by Rob | February 23, 2020

  279. Hi, AustinMat. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your dreams when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 7, 2020

  280. Hi, I have some questions about snippets of dreams I’ve had over the years, and I would love to have some insight into their significance. Many of these dreams take place at what look like educational facilities, mostly mundane although at least one occasion I think I saw a prestigious flight of spiral stairs in a grand place.

    I don’t remember much of what takes places during these dreams except briefly seeing people I have known or perhaps wanted to get to know. In the most recent one I can remember, I appeared to be a student back at an elementary school where I believe I saw a person I will call LH, who I don’t know very well. Why did I see her there?

    And while I do think about my time in school every now and then, and even furthering my education occasionally, I want to ask if these dreams have any other significance that I don’t realize?

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    Comment by AustinMat | February 6, 2020

  281. Hi N. We’d be glad to ask The Council your question about why you’re having difficulty attracting the kind of partner you desire as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording or their reply on this site as soon as it’s ready. From our experience it’s not a numbers game. If you’re looking for one man, you can find him in a small town as easily as a big city if your intentions are there. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 29, 2020

  282. Hi Council. I am wondering if you could give me some help. Since I was a kid, many mediums have told me that I came to Earth to have a mission with Education. And indeed… despite me not trying very much and just begrudgingly going with the flow my entire life… I just landed a very competitive, permanent job in higher education. I even met “A”, whom I had a very strong connection with and I feel like we are supposed to build good research together (and clearly have a past life connection). However, this job is in a really small town and for me, a perpetually single woman, it is very statistically unlikely that I will meet my ideal partner there. I have been dreaming, envisioning, praying for, trying to find a partner for the best part of the last decade, with zero success, not even a single relationship happened. And this is killing me inside, to the point I don’t care about this “mission” anymore. I was wondering…why was I able to create something that I didn’t want or care about at all (I really didn’t care about the science or the education), but the one thing I want the most, which is to find someone who loves, desires, and chooses me, fails completely?? It feels like a punishment! Anyway, thank you so much in advance for any guidance you can give me.

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    Comment by N | January 26, 2020

  283. Hi, Frankie. We’ve just done a session with The Council to answer your questions. As soons as it’s ready we’ll post an audio recording of their response. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 23, 2020

  284. Hi, Brock. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions on Atlantis when we have time. We’ll post an audio recording of their response on our blog as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for asking these questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 16, 2020

  285. Greetings. I would like to ask a few questions on Atlantis. 1) Do I have any noteworthy lifetimes associated with this place. 2) I’ve been trying to find info on Atlantis from various sources in the spiritual community (e.g. hypnosis sessions, channelings) and I have noticed some different and contradictory information come through, particularly in regards to when Atlantis began (some say thousands of years ago, others say millions) what exactly is was (some say it was an actual continent that existed in our timeline, some say that the place in question refers to a bleed through from another dimension) and what the technology was like (some say they had airships for example, others say they used levitation). Would the Council like to give their take on these matters and why such disagreements about it in the spiritual community exist?

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    Comment by Brock Boe | January 13, 2020

  286. Hi, LookingForGuidance. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your parents’ health when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 12, 2020

  287. Hello,

    Thanks for the amazing work you are doing – Bob, Cynthia and the Council. I want to take your guidance on my parents’ health. My mom and dad are living far from me and I have recently learned that they are having health issues.

    My mom has arthritis pain in the shoulders area and knees at times and is unable to move her hands. She has been doing Yoga recently along with medicines. My dad has had an accident post which he has severe shoulder injuries.

    Can the council please guide me how can my dad and mom get better? I would appreciate if the council can suggest any meditation or any other thing which can help them recover faster.

    My mom and dad are highly spiritual people, I have observed a lot of times physical pains are a manifestation of spiritual learnings. Please suggest whats best for them, being away their health and happiness worries me a lot.

    Thanks a lot.

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    Comment by LookingForGuidance | January 10, 2020

  288. Hi, T. We’ll ask The Council if they see anything you might be doing that’s blocking your allowing abundance when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 2, 2020

  289. Hello Bob, Cynthia and The Council,
    I hope everyone is well! The last I spoke with you all, things really seemed on the upswing with my career. Shortly afterward though, it steadily went downhill. I know I attract everything that comes to me and I’m trying to softly focus on the career and compensation that is in my Vortex of Creation. Do you have any advice? Is there something specific that I’m doing to block my allowing? There are a couple of good things in the works, so I try to focus on that, and I am very grateful, but the reality that I need money now to pay the bills really has my attention. I believe things will improve, I guess I could just use some encouragement from Spirit and my Inner Being.

    Thanks so much!

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    Comment by T | January 2, 2020

  290. Hi, SoulPeace. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about moving back to your country of origin and about changing careers when we have time. We’ll post an audio recording of The Council’s response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 1, 2020

  291. Hello,

    Thank you Bob, Cynthia and the Council. I have a question about a big change I am thinking about regarding my life, As its an important decision I love to get your guidance on the same.

    I am thinking about moving closer to my parents which means moving back to my country from USA. Will it be a positive change for my life and my family’s life? I am also thinking about retiring from my current IT job and start in the other profession such as investment banking/stock market as that may give me more time to be around my kid and my family.

    I also know that I need to meditate more and move forward towards my soul’s progress.

    I want to take council’s opnion on the same question regarding moving back and changing my profession? And if the council sees it will be positive for me, can they guide me on the time frame when I should be moving ahead with that decision?

    Thanks for the love and light you have always shown. Merry Christmas and have a happy new year!

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    Comment by soulpeace191689339 | December 26, 2019

  292. Hi Bob, Cynthia and the Council:

    I am wishing you all the best.

    I am writing with three different but very related things in mind:
    1) I deeply feel that I am on the path to be a “shaman/shamanic
    2) I’m a social worker/therapist full time feel that I am taking on the trauma and pain of the families I work with
    3) I am spiritually working through family-based/inherited trauma and painful emotions.

    I believe they are connected because I am experiencing a new spiritual awareness where I see my capacity to help others to spiritually heal, but while I see that I also feel that I’m in a liminal space. I feel myself connected to my spiritual path, but also feel overwhelmed by the pain and trauma of my clients and of my very own family. I also am processing and reintegrating my own pain.
    In other words, I feel myself spiritually and emotionally carrying what is mine, but also what is not mine (i.e. what I’m experiencing from clients, family, friends), and I feel anxious, sometimes heavy, and sad, but I don’t always know why.

    I feel this is all an indication of where my spiritual path is taking me, as a healer/shaman, but at times I feel like I’m on a path that hasn’t been revealed, while experiencing and feeling things that I can’t explain or control. For instance, I’ve also had more and more intuitive dreams and insights that have come true.

    My questions are:
    1) How should I consider finding assistance with understanding the shaman’s path? Should I meditate more, or find a teacher, or do a vision quest of some kind?
    2) How can I begin to get a handle on releasing other people’s emotions, and differentiating between these feelings and my own?

    Thank you and with very much gratitude.

    Frankie

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    Comment by Frankie | December 13, 2019

  293. Hello! Earlier this year, you helped me understand a unsettling connection (karmic) with my boss. I’m still working with him, still trying to navigate those feelings. It’s hard feeling a soul connection and keeping my distance. I’m considering looking for another job just to get away from it.

    I’m also getting hit from other sides. My mother died recently, and we are moving dad. I am getting frequent headaches, feeling family stresses, and seeing cracks in my marriage. It has been a growth year. Ha!

    I feel isolated. I have deep feelings for a man who isn’t mine. I have a good partnership with my husband, but we are really different people and there are limits to the connection. I love my family, but feel burdened. Right now, everything feels heavy and takes work.

    What do I need to do/learn to get out of this canyon? I’m beat!

    Happy holidays to you both!

    With love and appreciation,
    Anon

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    Comment by Anon | December 13, 2019

  294. Hello Bob, Cynthia, and The Council,

    Recently I have been having more dreams. I dream of places I’ve been to but I’m the dream they are quite different from the real places. They are often located in different places as well. These places do not exist like this in this reality. The dreams are not necessarily pleasant either. However the dreams are very really. Sometimes I have multiple dreams about various locations. Why am I having these dreams? Is it escapist mentality even though the dreams are scary? Or am I seeing other realities where my spirit is or has been?

    Ever grateful for you
    -Andrea

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    Comment by Andrea | December 9, 2019

  295. Hi, Teri. We suspect you chose to experience life long depression and anxiety in order to overcome it. We doubt your soul wanted you to hate your life. We’ll ask The Council your questions when we have time and we’ll post their response on our blog as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 28, 2019

  296. Hello to the Council! My question relates to why I and my higher self would chose to experience chronic life long depression & anxiety in this physical body.

    Despite working very hard to be happier, to love myself, and to find meaning & purpose in my existence, I mostly feel ambivalent about being here. I have never felt like I was living a life that suits me; life feels like just surviving; my big dreams & desires are a constant source of longing and suffering (because they will likely never come true).

    I have spent 30+ years trying to Live by spiritual principles – focusing on and feeling ease & joy, trying to change self-limiting/negative beliefs; trying to manifest my dreams, practicing appreciation; and being of service to others. But it hasn’t changed the fact that underneath I still feel depressed & disappointed with myself & the life I am living. It’s like there is a clear limit to my potential down here.

    Is it possible that my soul simply wanted to have the particular experience of hating her life?

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    Comment by Teri | November 22, 2019

  297. Good question, Trisha. We’ll ask The Council as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for asking. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 21, 2019

  298. I have a question inspired by what I read in ‘Journey of the Souls’ where under regression an individual mentioned that in the spirit world souls can have private conversations which can’t be picked up by others if they are very close together. This has me wondering about how much privacy one can have in general when we return to spirit. Can we create private spaces such as a house or even island where we don’t have to worry about others randomly intruding or coming near? And how would that work if there is no separation in spirit?

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    Comment by Trisha | November 21, 2019

  299. Hi, Carl. Thanks for your questions for The Council. We’ll ask them about your mental and physical health, your vitality, and your purpose as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Hang in there. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 8, 2019

  300. Hi, Heartbroken. We’ll ask The Council your follow-up questions as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 8, 2019

  301. Hello, I’m wondering why I’m increasingly having problems with mental and physical health and vitality despite feeling more aware of God. Why is this happening, and for how much longer? I feel I have a big purpose. How will the world come to know me? What am I doing to perpetuate this struggle?

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    Comment by Carl | November 7, 2019

  302. Hi, Heartbroken. We’re not sure how much information The Council will give you on your husband’s lessons, but we’ll try to find out if the situation with the other woman was pre-planned, it’s purpose, and whether there’s a possibility she or another woman may come into your husband’s life. Thanks for your follow-up question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 6, 2019

  303. Hi, Matt. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your very good questions about vibrational reality as soon as we have time and post an audio recording of their reply as soon as it’s ready. Thank you so much for these question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 6, 2019

  304. Hi Bob, Cynthia and the council. Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my questions. I really appreciate what you are doing for us.

    After the council’s advice I understand that my lesson is to understand, forgive, and commitment. But to better understand my situation I had some other questions for the council.

    My marriage was falling apart because my husband was involved with another woman recently and I tried to understand why he did what he did. I always loved him and I don’t know what on my part might have caused him to do that. So what was he possibly trying to learn or experience from all this? Was it pre-planned by us in spirit? What was the purpose of this woman coming into our lives? Did we have any past life relations with her that might have caused her to come between us?

    Right now my husband does not want to be with her. He wants to save our marriage. I am willing to forgive him even though it is hard. Is there any possibility of her or any other woman coming back into his life.

    Again thank you for your love and support.

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    Comment by Heartbroken | November 6, 2019

  305. Hi. I’ve seen the term “vibrational reality” used quite a bit but I’d like some help to better understand what they are.

    When I desire something and create a vibrational reality as a result, I would like to know what the part of me in that vibrational reality actually experiences. Even though it is not physical from my perspective, would it look, sound, and feel physical to the part of me and anybody else who occupies that reality, or would it be different?

    Also, if I were to imagine the Earth as I would like it to be for example, would the people I imagine in that vibrational reality just be projections and not real, or would they be actual selves of other people, or something else? I’m not sure what has been created in these situations. Thank you.

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    Comment by AustinMat | October 31, 2019

  306. Hi, Audrey. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about the Akashic Field when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 25, 2019

  307. Dear Bob, Cynthia, and the Council,

    What is the Akashic Field? How can it be accessed?

    Thank you always,

    Audrey

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    Comment by Audrey | October 24, 2019

  308. Hi, Heartbroken. We’ll ask The Council what lessons you’re supposed to learn from your difficulties in your marriage as soon as we have time and maybe they’ll have some suggestions for you about what you can do. We’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 22, 2019

  309. Hi Bob, Cynthia and the council l need some advice again. My marriage is in shambles right now because of an individual. I want to separate from my husband but he wants to come back and I dont know what lessons am I supposed to learn from this and I dont know what to do.

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    Comment by Heartbroken | October 17, 2019

  310. Hi, Sara Jane. We’ll ask The Council your question about whether you’ll find meaningful work in this lifetime in addition to being a mother when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of our session with them as soon as it’s available. Hang in there. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 10, 2019

  311. Hello, Dear Council! I’m in a huge transition phase of life and I feel like I’m on the brink of something new. While it is exciting, it also comes with a lot of anxiety, as I’m the mother of 3 young children and dependent on my husband, financially.

    I’ve never felt like I had a calling, career-wise (outside of being a mom, which is a great job but pays nothing:-), but lately I feel something beyond mothering calling to me. The problem is I cannot figure out what it is! I feel a spiritual pull toward something and know in my gut I’m on the brink of change, but am unsure as to what that is or even what direction to look in. I’ve tried meditating and going within to “hear” my inner being and its guidance, but haven’t felt any clarity.

    Am I going to find meaningful work in this lifetime? IS my main purpose in this lifetime to be a mother?

    I feel stuck on the edge of a cliff and since part of this transition likely includes me moving out of my marriage, I’m anxious to know if I’ll be self sufficient AND happy creating a life for myself and my children someday.

    (FYI my husband is a good man and father and we are committed to co-parenting our children despite our marriage becoming a platonic friendship that will likely move towards separation in the near future).

    Thank you for any insight!!!
    Sara Jane

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    Comment by Sara Jane | October 9, 2019

  312. Hi, Eden. Thank you for your questions about soul contracts. We’ve already done a session with The Council on your questions and we’ll post an audio recording of it as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 30, 2019

  313. Hi, Hubert. Very interesting questions. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and we’ll publish the audio recording of our session as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for asking.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 23, 2019

  314. I would like to a question about generating probable selves. It pertains to this quote in the Seth Material;

    “In two probable realities, your mother, for example, did not have children. In some she married but not the man you know as your father. In some probable systems, you and your mother would both exist, do both exist, but as complete strangers”

    It seems that we generate probable selves not just during the crossroads we encounter in life, but also prior to entry into the physical. How do we generate these probable selves that have one or two different parents? Would the selves where one or both parents are different select families in the same geographic location and ethnicity or could these and other choices they make be entirely different?

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    Comment by Hubert02 | September 22, 2019

  315. Hi, Utah. Interesting question. We’ll ask The Council about the fires in the Amazon Rainforest when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 30, 2019

  316. Hello Bob, Cynthia and The Council,

    I’m so sad about the fires burning in the Amazon Rainforest. The thought of the plants and animals suffering and dying is tearing me up- not to mention the effects the loss of Rainforest will have on the people of the world. I’m not exactly sure what to ask. Can The Council give a spiritual perspective?
    Thank you so much!

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    Comment by Utah | August 27, 2019

  317. Hi Bob and Cynthia,

    Thank you for your work with The Council, I find the answers very insightful and applicable for many areas of my life. I have the following question for The Council please:

    Could you please explain soul contracts and how, as humans, our free will allows us to walk away from a soul contract that was decided upon before birth. I’m confused about how humans are able to walk away from soul contracts, wouldn’t this be going against the wisdom of their soul? What are the implications for both souls involved in a contract that has been walked away from?

    For context I am referring to a romantic soul contract where two people made a pre-birth plan to be life partners and one person walked away from this contract.

    Thank you so much!

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    Comment by eden | August 19, 2019

  318. Hello Bob and Cynthia and the lovely council,

    I want to ask the council’s opinion on one of my major life decision. I have had various issues with my husband in the past and we have tried being together in spite of all those issues. Presently he has changed from his past behaviors but I cant seem to forget the issues and instances when I needed him the most and he was at his worst in those times.

    I am thinking about living independently with my son from quite sometime now, but I am worried about my kid not getting his father around him anymore.

    I have two options going forward now: 1. Live as I am living presently and try to forget the past.
    2. Live independently with my kid in which case my kid wont have his dad around.

    I want to ask the council’s opinion on which way I should go and what aligns with the things I am here to learn this life time. Also, since its not my decision alone and also my kid’s what would be best for him?

    If at all I decide to live independently, should I live on my own or should I move in with my parents because I can get help with my kid with my parents around.

    Thanks!

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    Comment by SoulSeekingNirvana | August 9, 2019

  319. Hi, I had a strange experience over the weekend and wonder if the Council can provide clarity. I went camping with my husband and small kids at a designated but unstaffed campsite (in a national forest). Partway through the night my husband got cold (we didn’t bring enough blankets) and returned to the car. I fell asleep, woke up to some rain in the night….. then saw a flash light outside the tent, figured it was husband checking on things…. saw t the flashlight again a while later…. then a really loud jarring noise at the bottom of the tent, almost like someone hitting it. This happened three times over a pretty long stretch. I know I wasn’t dreaming because it woke up my son. It felt close enough to my daughter’s head that I scooped her up and had her sleep in my arms. It was terrifying.
    In the morning my husband said he had been in the car all night. There were no signs of anything around the tent. WHAT HAPPENED? I cannot come up with a reasonable earthly explanation. We love the site and go a few times a year- was someone or something trying to tell us it’s no longer safe?

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    Comment by Anonymous | August 5, 2019

  320. Interesting question, Keith. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and we’ll publish an audio recording of our session as soon as it’s ready.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 5, 2019

  321. Good question, GoodLife4Always. We’ve done a session on it and we’ll publish a post with the recording as soon as it’s ready.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 5, 2019

  322. Good question, Darla. We’ve done a session to answer it and we’ll publish a post on it as soon as it’s ready.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 5, 2019

  323. Hi, Peace. We’ve done a session to answer your questions about your brother and as soon as it’s ready we’ll post it. Shouldn’t be long now.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 5, 2019

  324. There appear to be rules about communicating with Spirit. For instance, they can’t tell us winning lottery numbers. Who made those rules, and why?

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    Comment by Keith Ruenheck | August 1, 2019

  325. Dear Bob and Cynthia and the Council,
    I have a strong connection with a person that I’ve been talking to. When we first met, they were not interested in socializing or even laying an eye on me. That since changed and we’ve connected quickly this year! They’ve shared and opened up about their past, pains, family, beliefs, and God with me. I’ve start to fallen in love. I care and want to be in their life. I want to see my future with them. I’ve expressed my feeling. In the back of my mind now I think I rushed because I anxiously wanted an answer. The reply I got was a sad no… I’m sorry. They’ve asked to stay as friends and for me not to leave them. I still feel that they care and does have feelings, I guess I’m being crazy. Can you please let me know why this person came in my life? What are our past life connections? How should I move forward? I do see them every week and I’m lost and torn. Thank you for your guidance and healing.

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    Comment by goodlife4always | July 22, 2019

  326. Hello again Bob and Cynthia! It’s Darla. I have a question about a past life. I’ve had two separate past life regression experiences which were life-changing in so many ways. However, during these sessions I didn’t revisit any past lives. (I only briefly touched on one where I was a child who was physically unable to walk.) I mainly had my council speak through me about other questions, not any past lives. Would you ask the council what past life had the most impact on my current life and why? Thank you for helping me and so many people through this blog. Peace and blessing to you!

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    Comment by She's a Maineiac | July 21, 2019

  327. Hi Bob and Cynthia. Thankyou for helping us through the blog. My question for the council is about my brother. My brother seems like he has some unfinished business from past lives. I say that because he behaves very rudely sometimes with me and my parents. Right now he is at a point where he doesnt hate me but hates his parents. What is the reason for his anger towards my parents and sometimes me. Did I know him any past lives and I am supposed to support him in this life as a loving sister. Also he has an incurable disease in this life. Why did he create this and will he get over it. Also since he has such a short temper I am worried about the person he will marry, or is he ever even going to find a suitable wife for himself and be able to stay in that relationship for long. If so do you know around when he will find his soulmate and get married. Sorry for all the questions but I really want my brother to become a better person because he is so hard headed and filled with anger. Thankyou.

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    Comment by Peace | July 20, 2019

  328. Hi, Frances. Very interesting questions. We’ll be happy to ask The Council when we have time and we’ll publish a post with an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s reade. In the meantime, enjoy the love. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 7, 2019

  329. Greetings Cynthia, Bob and the Council,

    I am writing because three and a half months ago I entered into a relationship with someone that I am falling in love with. He represents a lot of what I have prayed for. He treats me well, is incredibly loving, and is helping me to see myself in new ways. I feel like this is a deep soul connection, and to be honest, a part of me is terrified.

    I’m used to being independent, and have created a life for myself that feels stable and his presence in my life is throwing me off kilter. What if I lose myself? I have purpose related life goals that I fear will get derailed. Also, he and I have a number of differences – he’s very Christian while I define myself as incredible spiritual but not Christian, we both come from different cultures, and his values are more conservative than mine. But I love him.

    My questions are, how can I overcome my fears of getting lost in this person/relationship? How am I meant to grow from this? Is it possible to create a life/family with this man without losing sight of what I want to accomplish professionally/purposefully? Why is it that I fell for someone so different from me?

    Thank you for your insight into this!

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    Comment by Frances | July 7, 2019

  330. Hi Bob and Cynthia. I would like to ask the council why I have such a negative relationship with my stepmother. It seems like she is always filled with anger and negative energy towards everyone and I always feel fear when I am around her. I think she herself needs some sort of healing.

    Did I know her from a past life? What lessons are we meant to learn from each other? How can I change our relationship into a better one? Did I do something bad to her in her past life to deserve this? Even though I try to get away from these negative feelings I am unable to. Please help shed some light. Thankyou.

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    Comment by Distressed | June 15, 2019

  331. Hi Bob and cynthia thankyou so much for doing this. The question I am about to ask is a little awkward and embarrassing but i really need to know about this situation. I think due to malnutrition my body did not develop right during puberty and by that I mean womanly assests like breasts. I have tried a lot of things to make them grow but nothing seems to work and it really takes a toll on my self esteem and confidence. I am trying some home remedies but to no avail
    Can you suggest why this happened and how I can cure this? Greatly appreciated. Thankyou.

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    Comment by Depressed05 | June 14, 2019

  332. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the council,

    I have a question about my feelings of home. A lot of times I feel like I want to go back home even when I am home. I think I am missing something and I feel I don’t belong where I am a lot of times.

    Although it may seem an awkward question, but the feeling that I have is not going away and I think it’s getting stronger. Even when things are going great, I have a strong feeling of going back home with my Mom. I used to think it’s about my physical home, but I was surprised to have the same feeling even when I have visited and stayed at home for couple of months.

    Can the council please guide me regarding this feeling of going home and belongingness? Does it have a connection to the Pleiades and my life over there? If yes, can I do anything to contact my family over there?

    It would be great to know my purpose in life. I think if I do what I am meant to do be doing this feeling will reduce in its intensity.

    Thanks so much.

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    Comment by soulpeace191689339 | June 5, 2019

  333. Hello to the Council and Bob and Cynthia, I have a question- why am I so sensitive to the sun? It seems like it’s getting worse rather than better and I truly dread the summer now. I want to enjoy this physical reality and pass on a love of nature to my kids. Why did I create this sensitivity in my skin and can I do anything to mitigate it?

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    Comment by Anonymous | May 31, 2019

  334. Good day to all. I have received life changing advice from the council before and I’m in desperate need of their advice, once again. I have a long history of anxiety/panic disorder. One which I have worked very closely with and have managed to grow and heal a great deal, from. There is a lot of fear behind my anxiety and when it turns to a panic attack, it get very ugly, very quick. I am unable to function. I shake, become nauseous, pace for hours and become absolutely terrified that I’m going to die. I feel completely out of control. Family/maternal responsibilities are a huge trigger. Which saddens me deeply because there’s nothing more important to me than being joyfully present with my children. I’m in the middle of a very anxious period, where I’m going to bed and waking up with anxiety. And where I battle it throughout the entire day. I know it’s time to shed another layer, to get closer to my highest truth…but I feel completely stuck and don’t know where to start. I only know that I do not want to lose another moment with my children, to this feeling. It feels like it mostly lives in my heart and solar plexus and has been very intense, for several days now. I would very much like to know how to best move through this and which lifetime is affecting my sense of security, the most. Or, where should I focus my healing?

    Thank you for listening and providing such selfless support to those of us in need. May you feel love and support in return.

    Many blessings,
    Wendy

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    Comment by Wendy Aronsson | May 19, 2019

  335. For a long time I’ve had an interest in Northern European history and myths (e.g. stone henge, Norse myths etc.). I would like to ask if I had lifetimes associated with this geographic area and where?

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    Comment by Rob | May 1, 2019

  336. Hi, Mystery. We’ll ask The Council for clarification on your missing bangle earrings and money when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of of their response on our blog as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 18, 2019

  337. Hi, SoulPeace. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your son’s low weight and his poor health when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response on our blog as soon as it’s ready. Good luck with your son. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 18, 2019

  338. Hello Bob,Cynthia and the Council,

    Thanks for always showing us light and enlightening us on the spiritual journey. I am deeply grateful for your love and guidance for us all.

    I have a question regarding my son. My son will be 6 years old next month and I have a question regarding his health and weight. When I was pregnant with him and even when he was younger – we have been going through some issues as family. Pregnancy, in particular, has been very difficult and I think because of that – his health got impacted.

    He has low weight compared to other kids of his age. Also, since childhood, his immunity is very low and he gets sick very often. He has allergies and high sensitivity to climate and food. He is a very picky eater and even the food that he likes, he eats very little. He is also a hyperactive kid and burns calories faster.

    Can the council please guide me if this was something he has preplanned while in spirit and what is his or our learning lesson from this situation. Also, the main important question that worries me the most is – going forward how can I help him to be more healthy and improve his weight.

    I would really appreciate if the council can give me some advice which can help me as a parent in understanding my kid’s spiritual learnings better.

    Thanks!

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    Comment by soulpeace191689339 | April 15, 2019

  339. Hi, Bob and Cynthia. I had talked the council before about my lost golden bangles. They told they were in an old purse but now I realized those were my mothers in the house. She has 4 altogether. So can you please ask the council if they see what happened to mine, and there was also money missing with it which was in an envelope.

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    Comment by Mystery | April 14, 2019

  340. Hi, Curious. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your marriage and the possibility of having more children when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their reply on this blog when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 10, 2019

  341. Hi Bob and Cynthia thankyou so much for doing this. I wanted to ask did I marry the right man and did we preplan this marriage? I am asking this because when we got married we went through not so happy times. Though right now everything seems to be fine I sometimes think that something out of nowhere will pop in and we will be going through bad times again. Do you see us having a long happy married life. Also are we meant to have any more children?

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    Comment by curious | April 9, 2019

  342. I love your blog. Thank you for taking the time out to channel and answer questions. I have a question that has been bothering me, and I have been guided to your site, so who knows, maybe the universe was suggesting I ask you! I am a twin flame, and recently I messaged my twin and I feel I may have been too hasty with my choice of words. In short I told him that I am stepping away from him if he does not want to open up to me more, but that if he changes his mind, I will always be here for him. He has not replied and it has been several weeks. He may have misunderstood my intentions, or he may not want to get any closer to me at this time. I am feeling the disconnection and it worries me. My question is did I make the wrong choice? or What can I do to help him open up to me more so we can connect in the 3D?

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    Comment by Grale Irithe | March 10, 2019

  343. There are cases where living people have claimed that a soul has communicated with them asking if they would be that soul’s parent. I was wondering why these cases exist if everything of this matter is planned in spirit beforehand?

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    Comment by Jaden Lom | March 7, 2019

  344. Hi, Jaden. We’re a little confused about your question and are hoping you can provide some clarification. We don’t understand what you mean when you say,

    “…why are there so many stories about souls asking (or even declaring) individuals to be their parents via dreams (or even appearing in the physical as orbs or the person they were in a previous life)? Are these souls simply asking for the potential parent to engage in something that wasn’t previously planned…”

    If you can ask your question a different way so we might be able to understand it better, we’d appreciate it. Thanks. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 7, 2019

  345. Hi I would like to ask a question about prebirth communication between parents and the souls of incoming children. If things are planned in spirit beforehand, why are there so many stories about souls asking (or even declaring) individuals to be their parents via dreams (or even appearing in the physical as orbs or the person they were in a previous life)? Are these souls simply asking for the potential parent to engage in something that wasn’t previously planned (as individuals can change course during their physical incarnation)?

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    Comment by Jaden Lom | March 4, 2019

  346. Hi, Seeking Truth. We like your meditation question. Until we’re able to do a session with The Council on this question you may want to check out our recent post, Meditations to Balance and Align Your Chakras, if you haven’t already. Cynthia suggests doing the meditations for all the chakras one time and then on a weekly basis doing the meditation just for the Crown chakra. This may help you until we get further guidance from The Council. We also look forward to asking The Council your question about employment. Thank you for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 18, 2019

  347. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the council,

    Thank you so much for being there with me as a guiding person in my spiritual journey. I have a question about meditation. Whenever I go deep in meditation, I see colors. I also see a third eye opening up during my meditation which is when I see different colors(its mostly blue/indigo and sometimes yellow).

    From the meditation center I visit, they tell me that it would be hard to reach the self-realisation stage if you are stuck at your third eye stage. It looks like your energy is trying to connect with the divine through that point rather than reaching until the seventh chakra.

    Can the council please guide me how can I pass this stage in meditation and if you can share some suggestions which can help me that would be wonderful.

    The other question I have is regarding my job. I am getting good job offers but I am hesitant to take those up because of my young kid. Can the council please guide me if I should change my job or stay at my current job where I am being paid less but there is more flexibility?

    Thanks so much!

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    Comment by Seeking truth | February 18, 2019

  348. Thank you!

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    Comment by Anon | February 17, 2019

  349. Hi, Anon. Sounds like a challenging situation. We’ll ask The Council about your relationship with your boss as soon as we have time and we’ll publish an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thank you for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 10, 2019

  350. I’m faithfully married with children, and recently started a new job. My boss took my breath away when I met him. It was instant recognition and desire. I could tell he was shaken also. Both of us are committed to our spouses, and we work well together otherwise. I believe we were married in a past life. I also think he was a soldier.

    Why have we come together in this life when we are both unable/unwilling to be together? It’s intense and can be challenging to navigate in a professional setting.

    Thank you!

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    Comment by Anon | February 10, 2019

  351. Hello,

    Thanks for the amazing work you are doing – Bob, Cynthia and the council.

    From past few days sometimes I hear wind whispers in my left ear. Can the council please guide me if I have any message in this experience.

    Also, I have extreme phobia of dark and being alone. Can the council please guide me how can I heal this phobia.

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    Comment by SoulSeekingpeace | February 2, 2019

  352. Dear Council, Cynthia and Bob,

    I’m hoping The Council can help me get to the root (literally) of a physical issue I’ve dealt with for most of my life. I have dermatitis and have used every treatment imaginable–from homeopathic to prescription. I’m aware that beliefs are the underlying cause of all physical ailments, so, I would like The Council to tell me which belief I’m holding on to and how I may think differently so that I can move past this malady. Further, this issue seems to be common in my family. My mother had it, my son has it, and I discovered several of my nieces and nephews have it as well. Is this a case of inherited beliefs? And if the explicit belief in having dermatitis is not expressed, meaning, we don’t say to each other: “Well you can expect to have this issue because it runs in our family,” is the transmission of this belief among family members one of a vibrational or psychic nature?

    Love and Light

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    Comment by Vibrationally Aware | February 2, 2019

  353. Thank you for your appreciation for our blog, Fuschia. We’ll ask The Council for ways you can contact your guide or guides when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. We hope their answer helps with your sense of isolation and despair. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 27, 2019

  354. Thank you both for addressing my questions on your blog.I appreciate the work put into it and that there was some back and forth dialogue. The theme of hopelessness is not one I had thought of on my own and the advice given is valuable but not always easy to follow.

    Not being able to identify or directly communicate with my primary guide team is a source of frustration and fits in with the overall sense of isolation and despair. I have tried various techniques and am not making any progress. This issue was not really directly addressed in the reading so I am asking for how to access my team and any other information about them that would be for the highest good.

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    Comment by Fuschia | January 27, 2019

  355. Dear Bob, Cynthia and The Council,

    It’s been nearly three years since my abortion. I have been through therapy and I take a very high dosage of antidepressants. I try to communicate with the baby butbInam unseuccessful. I tell myself daily the the abortion was an agreement and we are humans having a spiritual experience, but I cannot move forward. Before the abortion I was pretty happy. Now I am full of sadness, anger, and blame. I’m afraid I will live another 50 years feeling this way. Can The Council tell me what my purpose is in this life? I am lost.

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    Comment by importantornotblog | January 24, 2019

  356. Hi, Jaden. Thanks for your questions. We’ll be happy to ask The Council when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 17, 2019

  357. Hi, I would love to have some insight on what my past lives were and how they are impacting me now and why I chose/agreed to live this life.

    I would like to know if I could get suggestions about some mental issues I might be going through.

    I would like to ask if they can give me insight into my next life. There is a particular person I feel drawn to and I feel is meant to be my mother in the next life and I would love to hear if it is possible.

    And I would also like to know where my next life will be (assuming I do have one). There is a particular country I have in mind.

    I am male, Jaden is a pseudonym.

    Thank You.

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    Comment by Jaden Lom | December 28, 2018

  358. Hi, Fuschia. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about any past life or between life agreements you may have made or any spiritual reasons that might be interfering with your forward movement when we have time. We’ll post an audio recording of our session on our website when it’s ready. Hang in there. Love and light. Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 26, 2018

  359. I follow your blog and enjoy your readings very much. I have felt a pull many times to contact you.

    I have been unable to succeed in most sectors of my life for at least 6 years, maybe more. I have lost relationships, financial security jobs and excitement for life. My health has also become affected lately and the symptoms make it even harder to keep starting over and over again. This inability to manifest has resulted in depression and confusion about my journey in this incarnation. I typically work on myself spiritually and holistically and yet, all this healing and heightened awareness has not appeared to shift my situation.

    Are there past life issues or between life agreements that are interfering with my forward movement? Or is this perhaps caused in part by the Ascension process or some other spiritual reason? I have sought internal guidance and have come up empty. While I am gifted with many ways to communicate with Spirit, I have never had direct connection with my actual guides. This adds to my feelings of isolation.

    Thank you for hearing me out. Please let me know if you will be taking up my question with the Council. blessings to you both. ❤

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    Comment by Fuschia | December 26, 2018

  360. Hi Council, Cynthia and Bob,

    I want to ask The Council about a lovely experience I attracted. I recently hiked to the top of Cathedral Rock in Sedona where I discovered a Najavo spirit healer performing a meditation/ceremony. I was very moved by his singing and suddenly became overwhelmed with emotion and started to cry. After he finished, he was surprised to see me and my friend. Again, when I expressed gratitude at having been present and how powerful the experience was, I nearly started crying uncontrollably. What’s up with the crying? Are Vortexes real? And what happened?

    He went on his way down the mountain ahead of us and in a wonderful moment of Law of Attraction, just as my friend was talking about him at the bottom of the mountain, we suddenly saw him ahead of us. To make a long story short, he invited us to come with him to a Spiritual Cleansing ceremony he was conducting at a nearby river. Excited by the opportunity, we went and it was a lovely experience. As part of the ceremony, we smoked a Peace Pipe (no drugs involved). However, I did feel the mild elevated feeling I experience in a great meditation. Can you offer any guidance about the greater meaning of this experience?

    Love and gratitude

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    Comment by Vibrationally Aware | December 11, 2018

  361. I left a 25 year marriage 2 1/2 years agoto a man who I believe is a narcissistic sociopath. I strived for fairness and spent over a year and a half investigating our finances and his financial wrongdoings in preparation of our settlement. The mediator would not hear details. Emotionally, I broke down and settled to it I later realized it was at a large financial cost to me. At the time I believed in my mantra light triumphs dark and continued to believe that truth prevails on the universe. However now I feel lost, financially scared, and despite all the horrible things he’s done, I miss him because I’m afraid of living a life alone, unloved and unable to do things that once may have been possible in our marriage , Like travel. I am confused because I have low motivation and don’t have direction on what to do next. I’m 57 years old and feel like time is passing me by… And I know stress is taking it’s toll on my previously healthy body. I’m confused why I have suffered rather than gotten to a better place because of this divorce. I have had a strong intuition in the past but it’s not strong anymore. I used to achieve things but now I struggle to get out of bed. I’ve been given the lessonlesson that life is not fair… But still want to believe light triumphs dark. ( i’ve been called an earth angel in the past). I don’t know what I’m supposed to be doing. I even think about going back despite all the horrible things he has done to me including discrediting my character, lies, financial abuse, verbal and emotional abuse. I am empathetic to that hurt little boy inside of him rather than the horrible things he’s done. I am looking for guidance as to what the universe has in store for me. I would be very grateful to any insights to help me get on the path to happiness, fulfilment and being able to give back again. I hope to hear from you. thank you.

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    Comment by Laurie | December 3, 2018

  362. Hi Cynthia and Bob, thank you so much for all of this great content and value you put other there with this service for everyone I really appreciate it! If you would please be so kind as to answer the following questions I would be very greatful and it would be much appreciated. I am a male aged 34 coming on the cusp of a new 7 year cycle and was wondering the following:

    1. My whole working life I have been in corporate IT however in April this year my path led me into some trainings offering work which helps and coaches people and I learnt some modalities of an energetic and spiritual nature. I am attempting to start a business in all of this, it can get quite overwhelming at times though and I was wondering if the council can shed any light into whether this is a great path and vocation for me?

    2. Also after many years single I finally found the one I thought was it after all of my studies mentioned above. She seemed to match all of my criteria and energically I seemed to feel a very magnetic enegy towards her even though we had only spent a few days in each others company. She lived in another country and the pull was so strong so i packed up where i was and moved to the country which was also my home town anyway and to my dismay she had found somebody else. I am wondering if the council can shed any light if this was a karmic issue or whether I am projecting limiting beliefs in the area of relationships from my unconscious? This was the closest I had ever come to drawing towards me a relationship that I whole heartedly could see myself being with as there was always a hint of hesitance with others in my past.

    Many thanks and lots of love to you both

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    Comment by Roshan Dahya | November 4, 2018

  363. Hi, Sanni. Good questions for The Council. We’ll ask them when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response on our blog when it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 3, 2018

  364. Hello Council. Can you help me? About two years ago I was told by my spiritual therapist that she saw a man as my future mate. I really laughed because I only want to be with women. But I was told later by other two intuitives exactly the same thing, they are friends with my family for over 15 years, I trust them. I looked for trusted tarot readers and they say exactly the same. But I don’t want this to happen, I don’t care how good this can be for me. But I also fear that I don’t have the strength to stand up for my ideals if I actually meet this man because I am very lonely, and because something inside of me is also pushing me to do it, even though I don’t want it. In a way I assume that I planned to be in this situation (it sounds like something I would do, to give me no escape), and I know it is supposed to be for healing for past lives where I was abused by men but I don’t want it to happen no matter what. I enter a state of panic only by thinking about it and it really damages me to feel like that. I don’t want to betray my gay community too. I want the love of my life to be a woman and I want to form a family with her. But I have prayed for my angels, talked to them, and this still shows up in readings. What’s worse is that I feel pushed to do it, like I don’t have any option. I was wondering if the Council could comment on my situation and help me to change my life to what I want it to be, to have a meaningful life with a woman with whom I can have a family. Regards from Finland

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    Comment by Sanni | November 2, 2018

  365. Wonderful, I’m looking forward to it! Thank you!

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    Comment by Mona | October 29, 2018

  366. Hello again. I have a question about a recent past life regression therapy session I had last summer. To say it was mind-blowing is an understatement. It truly transformed my entire perspective on life and death.

    Under hypnosis, instead of reliving some of my past lives, I went to another realm or dimension that I assume was between lives. I felt like I was floating in vast space, but it was incredibly peaceful and full of love and light. I felt truly my spirit expanding and all-encompassing, like I was near Source. This was a place I didn’t want to leave and remained there for a good 45 minutes during the session!

    I briefly talked about a past life where I was crippled and my grandmother carried me around. But I had no desire to talk about any other lives or who this grandmother is in my current life. Soon my spirit guides or higher spirits spoke through me, giving me advice. My questions for the council is, who were these beings? Were they just my “higher self” speaking? And why didn’t I go to any past lives instead? Do they see if I’m heading down the right path in life or if I’m stuck? And what is this place or dimension I went to during the session? Thank you for any insight!

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    Comment by She's a Maineiac | October 22, 2018

  367. Hi, Audrey. Interesting question. We’re also interested in hearing what The Council has to say about the spiritual perspective of the Trump presidency and its effect on the world. We’ll ask as soon as we can and we’ll post an audio recording of their response on our blog as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 20, 2018

  368. Hi, Mona. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your past lives, particularly the ones that relate to your current lifetime, and we’ll post an audio recording of their response on our blog as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 20, 2018

  369. Hello Bob, Cynthia, and Thr Council,

    I kept saying That I wasn’t going to ask, but I just can’t make sense of what is happening. Can The Council be so bold as to provide a spiritual perspective on the Trump presidency and its effect on the United States and the rest of the world?

    Peace and Love Always,
    Audrey

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    Comment by Audrey | October 20, 2018

  370. First, thank you for all the help and insight you provide for so many people. I’m hoping you can help me too.

    I’ve been fascinated by the thought of reincarnation and past lives for many years. I would love to learn any information in regards to who I was in a past life/lives.

    Thanks again for your help, I hope you are having a wonderful day!

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    Comment by Mona | October 20, 2018

  371. Hi, LearningSoulSite. Thank you for your question. We’ll answer your questions about your son’s gifts, the past lives he’s shared with you or other family members, and your role in his lesson learning as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of The Council’s response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 8, 2018

  372. Hello Bob,Cynthia and the council,

    I have a question regarding my 5 year old son. It would be great if the council can please guide me what are his gifts and what can I do as a mother to help him achieve his learnings for this reincarnation. I feel sometimes its tough job as a parent to identify the kid’s gifts – which can add so much happiness if I help him through his journey of life.

    If we had past lives together with me or some of my family members and if they are trying work somethings out – how can I ease the things out for him and them?

    I would appreciate any kind of suggestions and the inputs from council that will help me understand my role in his learnings and what are things I can take care of that will help him the best.

    Thanks so much,
    Love and light!

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | October 7, 2018

  373. Hi, Wendy. We think it’s nice that you encourage you 8 year old son to practice meditation and manifestation. When we have time we’ll ask The Council your questions and post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 5, 2018

  374. Hi, cmw787. We apologize for not answering yet the similar question you posted on our website on Aug 16. We understand you’re in a difficult situation and you’d like a response. Please understand we have many questions to answer and we’ll answer your questions as time permits. Please be patient. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 5, 2018

  375. Well hello again. May this find you well after a busy summer! I now have two sons. One of which is nearly 8 and incredibly interested in what “gifts” he has in this lifetime. I encourage him to practice meditation and to manifest whatever it is that peaks his interest, but I would love to have some knowledge about who he is and what he’s come here to do. I would also like to know the same thing for the baby. I have been told that I myself, derive from a Goddess realm and have heard tales of many past lives, and this information (may it be true or not) has helped me immensely in my process. I would like something similar to gift my children with and any tips on how to help them achieve what they’ve come here to do! Thank you so much.

    With love and gratitude,
    Wendy

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    Comment by Wendy Aronsson | September 4, 2018

  376. I’m hoping you guys can help me. My life has been on a downward trajectory for at least five years now and it just does not stop no matter what I do& no matter what I try. In the last 2 years some unexplainable things started happening that I can’t talk about with most people because their response is that I’m insane. I’m trying to figure out what’s going on. What is My Soul Purpose &why am I constantly stuck in negative situations regardless of my attitude or what I do. I’m just at the end of my rope given I truly have nothing left to lose at this point and it’s a little scary. Thanks for any and all help it’s much appreciated.

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    Comment by cmw787 | September 4, 2018

  377. Thank you so much, I look forward to any insight.

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    Comment by Curious | August 30, 2018

  378. Hi, Jolanda. Sorry to hear you’re feeling so poorly. We’ll ask The Council for possible reasons you’re feeling this way when we have time and post the audio recording of their response when it’s ready. Hang on. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 26, 2018

  379. Dear Council, Cynthia and Bob,
    Hello again! I’ve really appreciated your help in the past and I hope you can help me again.

    18 months ago I ended an 8 year relationship with my husband, who was verbally and emotionally abusive to myself and my 13yo son (not his child). Although we’re apart, we also have a child together, so we see each other or communicate almost every day, which makes it hard to heal, and gives him many opportunities to continue to manipulate my emotions.

    I’ve had 2 other failed longterm relationships, but only this one has been difficult. I’ve found it completely emotionally devastating. I’m struggling so much with the constant emotional pain, despite being in weekly counselling for 2 years (since before the breakup).

    I feel such a strong and deep, unconditionally loving connection to him, despite his juvenile, abusive behaviour and continued dishonesty and betrayal. He has not earned my respect and hasn’t made any efforts to repair our relationship or get me back (apart from constantly telling me he wants me back). He does not deserve to have me in his life, yet somehow I just can’t let go.

    This week I was tortured by the likelihood that he has a new woman in his life (although he’s been saying he can’t be with anyone but me). He hasn’t admitted it yet but the obvious signs are there, and our child has told me bits and pieces about meeting her. I can’t deal with and don’t understand the pain I feel, it makes no sense to myself, or my family & friends to still have these intense feelings for him. They’re aren’t going away, even though it makes no logical sense to be in a terrible, harmful relationship with him anymore.

    Now that I’ve learned about his new woman I’m completely distraught. I feel like I can’t function, can’t work, can barely get through my days, and feel worthless and betrayed. I feel our marriage was meaningless to him, because we only agreed 3 weeks ago that we weren’t going to get back together at all. And I feel betrayed that he constantly said he wanted me back, and that he could never be with anyone else, and now suddenly he’s moved on. I’m soul destroyed, my heart feels like it’s permanently crushed. I’m SO devastatingly lonely and pining for the love we had, wishing for someone else to love but feeling like I’ll never love anyone but him. I feel our marriage was a divine bond, that we’re deeply connected at soul level. I love him so much and would do anything to have a healthy relationship with him, but he has been unwilling to take the necessary steps, and seems to prefer inertia and to just give up than to get help or counselling for himself.

    I’m hoping you can shed some light on the cause of my intense feelings and hopefully offer some advice please? I feel desperate, anxious, worthless, alone, and like a failure. Thank you again, with much love, Jolanda

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    Comment by Jolanda | August 26, 2018

  380. Thank you for letting me know. I appreciate it. :0)
    -Christina

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    Comment by cmw787 | August 26, 2018

  381. Hi, cmw787. We apologize for not responding to your earlier comment. We like to answer questions in the order they’re received, but often their selected based on what seems appropriate at that time. Know that we’ve received your question and it will eventually get asked, answered, and posted on our website, but it could take a while. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 25, 2018

  382. I’m sorry to put another comment I am confused about how this works. Do you guys answer all the questions or do you only answer certain ones? I was sandwiched between two other questions and you guys responded to the other two saying that you were going to ask the council but you just liked mine and it wasn’t commented on.

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    Comment by cmw787 | August 25, 2018

  383. Hi, Curious. You raise a good question. We’ll ask The Council about your prospects for getting married to your partner and post an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. Stay tuned. Love and light, Bob and Cynthia.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 17, 2018

  384. Hello,

    I have a question on marriage. I have been with my significant other for about 12 years. We are both 39. I have been married twice before, my boyfriend has never been married.

    In the early years of our relationship, I did not want to get married again (for obvious reasons), and would lightly joke about not wanting marriage (not often though). About 3 years ago, my thoughts and feelings changed regarding marriage and I finally brought it up to my partner in a ‘no pressure way’, basically saying “I know I wasn’t interested before, but I am now. I don’t want to pressure you and just thought I’d put it out there, so you can think about it.” He basically said ok, this was in January.

    A month ago, someone introduced him as my husband and he made the comment “No, just boyfriend”, laughing about it. This hurt my feelings, but I didn’t say anything, nor have I brought up the topic since January because I haven’t wanted to pressure him.

    I truly feel we were and are meant to be together. We are best friends, lovers, partners… You name it. I have no doubts, he is a very good man and I know he loves me very much.

    Are we meant to take our relationship to the next level? Is he interested in marriage?

    Thank you so much.

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    Comment by Curious | August 17, 2018

  385. I was hoping I could get assistance please. My life is on a downward trajectory and has been for years. I’m doing everything in my power to fix it and I cannot do it. It feels as if everyday will surely be worse than the previous .I’m living everyday in 100% misery praying for death. I’m sick of being lectured on the law of attraction. I practiced it&practiced it correctly. I lived it and it has yet to be effective not even in the slightest. I’ve tried to be a good person my whole life. I’ve always given more than I take and I always try to help out people. I don’t understand why this is happening to me or how to fix it. And about 2 years ago through a series of Random events, I was contacted by the pleiadians. And it’s been ongoing ever since but I cannot truly understand what they’re wanting for me or how I can help. I know they got angry with me at the beginning because I kept asking questions about myself. They literally said “it won’t work, she only wants to know about herself”.I have deciphered(from them) that I have significant purpose I was supposed to fulfill. They said something about being the only Oracle left on Earth(they said the other 7 were on Venus)which doesn’t make sense to me because the internet shows thousands and thousands of “oracles”. Case in point aren’t you considered an oracle?
    I realize I kind of rambled and apologize if it’s hard to follow. I’m genuinely grateful for any help you can and thank you for doing this for people. I’d imagine it’s extremely helpful for many people.

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    Comment by cmw787 | August 16, 2018

  386. Interesting questions, Brooke. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 1, 2018

  387. Thanks for allowing questions. My question is about twin flames. I believe absolutely that I am in a relationship with my twin flame, and have seen the universe confirm this over and over. My twin was diagnosed as bipolar around the age of 11. He had a spiritual awakening after we met and has believed since then that he is not bipolar. I would like to ask if strong emotions can reflect in a twin before you have even met them. This explanation of events is something that popped into my head almost on it’s own (the universe?). Have you ever heard of this happening? Could he have been experiencing my traumatic childhood, and I his through our twin connection, long before we met. Thanks for your consideration.

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    Comment by Brooke | August 1, 2018

  388. Hello Bob,Cynthia and the Council,

    I am looking for a advice from The Council regarding the marks on my face that have been increasing a lot of late. Although it doesn’t hurt in anyway, it looks very bad. It started with one or two marks, but it has been spreading all over my face on my cheeks. I have even visited the doctor for it and he said there is no medicine to reduce the marks.

    Can The Council please guide me if there is any other ointment or natural product which will be useful for me in reducing the marks and making sure they don’t come up as much. I am big believer that all the body related pains/issues are trying to tell us something, but in this case I am not able to understand the issue.

    Thanks,
    Love and Light!

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    Comment by LookingForAdvice | July 26, 2018

  389. Hi, Darla. We understand the difficulties of being very sensitive to the spirit world. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about protecting yourself from other people’s feelings and figuring out which emotions are yours and which are other people’s when we have time. We’ll post an audio recording of our session when it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 6, 2018

  390. Hello Bob and Cynthia, it’s Darla again. My question is about empaths.

    I’ve known from an early age I was hypersensitive (especially to the spirit world). Because of this, I’ve had lifelong anxiety and became very introverted. Being extremely compassionate in this world is painful, to say the least.

    Recently, I’ve struggled with how to protect myself from absorbing other people’s emotions/feelings, while still remaining true to myself. Especially difficult for me is figuring out which emotions are actually mine and which are other people’s. Does the council have any advice for me? Or reasons why I chose this trait for this lifetime? Thank you!

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    Comment by truthjournal | July 6, 2018

  391. Thankyou. Looking forward to the recording. Much love, C.

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    Comment by Christine | July 5, 2018

  392. Hi, Christine. Our condolences on the passing of Caesar. It sounds like you two had a very special relationship. From the information we’ve received from The Council, we’d say your fur babies will all be there happily waiting to greet you when it’s your turn to pass. Thinking about the good times you had with Caesar might help you get over the shock of his passing. When we have time we’ll ask The Council all your questions and post an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 1, 2018

  393. Dear Cynthia, Bob and the Council,
    My beautiful cat, Caesar, died out of the blue on Wednesday. He was not sick, ate his food and ran around that day. When I came home for work, I noticed he did not greet me. I looked over and saw him lying still on the lounge room floor. I knew straight away he had passed. I am still in great shock. I still cannot believe it. I had only returned from a great holiday and picked him up from his sitters house on the Monday. On Tuesday night he walked up to me and I thought I should give him lots of attention. I told him how much I loved him and how much he meant to me and how one day we would all be together will the other pets, he and I, once lived with. The next day he was gone. Will my fur babies be there to greet me when it’s my time and did he know he was going to pass? When I picked him up we both felt detached, which was odd, because we were extremely close every minute we could possibly have. Are our deceased fur babies with us and how do we know? Do our pets have a soul contract with us? I am still numb with shock. Love and light, Christine

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    Comment by Christine | July 1, 2018

  394. Hi, Anonymous. Interesting situation. We’ll ask The Council about your relationship with your boss, and how to get your own answers in the future when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response on our blog when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 22, 2018

  395. Hello Bob, Cynthia and The Council. Thank you as always for your insight and commitment to helping us all out! I have questions on a couple of topics…

    First, I would like to know more about my connection with my boss. I’ve had a tumultuous relationship with this person to say the least. Do I have a past life connection that I am trying to work through? This person often uses words to say that they are supportive, but their actions are the opposite.

    Why do they insist on giving me more work while I’m on vacation?

    I’ve employed the use of a pendulum for answers, but sometimes the answers don’t seem to be accurate. Is this a valid way of getting insight? Am I consciously influencing the answers? Is there a better way to go inward to receive reliable clarity?

    Much love xx
    TM

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    Comment by Anonymous | June 22, 2018

  396. Dear Council, Hello again! I have a general question which has come about listening to all of your insightful answers. Science tells us that the universe is constantly growing. The population is also growing. Is spirit constantly growing as well? Is that why we have new souls being created? If there are old souls with more wisdom, are newer souls more likely to have chosen more difficult life situations? Does an innate sense of morality and love stay with us and grow with us through lifetimes? Or could an “old soul” decide to be an evil person in a lifetime to direct others to a more righteous life? Thank you for all you do for the world, Mary

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    Comment by Mary | June 20, 2018

  397. Thank you for your questions, LearningSoulSite. It seems likely we’ll answer your questions in separate sessions when we have time and post an audio recording of The Council’s response when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 19, 2018

  398. Hello Bob,Cynthia and the council,

    Thanks for all the help and your support. I have a question about two things – one is for me and one is for my best friend.

    1) My grandfather passed away sometime back. Sometimes in the middle of the night I wake up and I have all this memories that I had with at my grandparent’s house. The grief that I have becomes to severe that I feel like I have anxiety attack(I cant even seem to breath properly) and I cant seem to sleep for sometime after that. Since I live apart from parents, I also get worried of losing them sometimes. Can the counsil please guide me if my grandparents are trying to tell me something by reminding me of those memories – Although consciously I dont miss them as much, sometimes the pain becomes severe during sleep/dreams.

    2) I want to be able to help my very good friend. She is trying to look for a partner in marriage and she cant seem to find someone suitable for her. She had a bad experience with a guy whom she deeply loved and although she is trying hard, its hard for her to like someone. She also has thyroid issues that is getting serious from sometime may be due to ongoing stress with parents. Can the council please guide me how can I help her?

    Thanks so much

    Love and light

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | June 18, 2018

  399. Good question, Michelle. We imagine many readers have been in a similar situation and would also be interested in The Council’s guidance on this subject. We’ll ask them when we have time and post an audio recording of the session when it’s ready. Please be patient. We’re a little backed up. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 13, 2018

  400. I would like to try a question if it is possible. I am thinking of making a very serious change in my life and ending a long term relationship. I just question whether I have learned everything I was meant to from this relationship- I have learned a lot, or if there is more to learn. The thought of continuing this relationship is exhausting, yet I just can’t seem to bring myself to end it. Is my need to “hang in there” spiritual or human? would probably be the best way of putting it. Thanks in Advance!!

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    Comment by ~Michelle | June 13, 2018

  401. You have a great blog. Would you like to share your story on “What You Blog About”
    what motivated you to start this blog ?

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    Comment by Whatyoublogabout | June 7, 2018

  402. Hi Cynthia, bob and the council ,
    Thankyou for all that you do for others!
    i have had feelings for someone I’m close to for about a year and a half and I’m too afraid to tell him. I know he’s attracted to me, but I don’t know if he has actual romantic feelings towards me. He confuses me, sometimes I think he cares and sometimes I think he doesn’t. I know sometimes he purposely says things to hurt me, and I don’t know why his behaviour is so confusing. He asks to see me all the time, but I refuse because I’m scared he’s using me. I feel there’s a deeper connection going on. What past life of ours affects this current life the most do I can gain a greater understanding of the situation. Are we ever going to be together?
    Love and light, A.

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    Comment by Anonymous | May 30, 2018

  403. Hi, Bea Jay. We’re glad you found our blog and that this post brought you comfort. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question when we have time about artificial insemination at some point in your future and ask their opinion on whether it’s likely to interfere or help with the things you’re meant to accomplish. We’ll publish The Council’s response in a post when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 27, 2018

  404. Hi Bob, Cynthia, and the Council,

    I first came across this page when I was seeking guidance and comfort regarding an abortion I had almost two years ago. I felt very comforted by the Council’s insight, and feel that I made the absolute right decision. I was told at the time that the lesson of the pregnancy was awareness, and I can definitely see how that circumstance changed my life and made me become more aware of the pain I was hiding from, and ways I can continue to grow into my gifts. I am thankful to the spirit of the unborn child for bringing me to that space.

    However, I still think about motherhood, and wonder if that is an experience that I could have.

    However, I feel that I am meant to accomplish immense things, but wonder if a child would help or hinder my greater life purpose. I am not in a relationship now, but have begun to consider the idea of sperm donation at some point in the distant future if having a child is still a desire, but wonder if that is an idea that is causing me to get to ahead of myself instead of living in the present moment.

    Any insight would be greatly valued and appreciated.

    Thank you!
    Bea Jay

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    Comment by Bea Jay | May 26, 2018

  405. Sorry, I know I tend to ramble.

    -Audrey

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    Comment by Audrey | May 26, 2018

  406. Hi, Audrey. It sounds like you’re having a difficult time. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions when we have time and post their response in a blog when it’s ready. Hang in there. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 26, 2018

  407. Hello Bob, Cynthia and The Council,

    I have a question about choices and consequences.

    In the physical reality in which we live, we have many opportunities to make a variety of life-changing choices. However, once the decision is made, the consequences can be difficult and long-lasting. Examples can range from marrying the “wrong” person, to taking a crappy job, or just saying the wrong thing (even if the wrong thing is the truth and the surrounding people choose to deal only in fiction.)

    What I don’t like, is that pain/hardship/difficulty from our choices can last for years in some instances. I keep hearing from this blog that these experiences are for learning and soul-growth but that is hard for me to accept.

    I have tried to make the right choices in life and with hindsight these choices now seem wrong and I wonder what life would have been like if I had made different choices. Also, I don’t like that I have made so many “bad” choices. Let’s say I have learned my lesson from these choices, but in this lifetime, I cannot apply those lessons again because I am not faced with the same opportunities.

    I don’t like any of it. I want to know why we can’t just plan a peaceful simple life where everything falls into place.

    -Audrey

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    Comment by Audrey | May 25, 2018

  408. Hi, LearningSoulSite. When we have time we’ll ask The Council for advice on developing your psychic sense and we’ll post a recording of their reply on our blog when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 4, 2018

  409. Hello Bob,Cynthia and Council,

    Thanks for the wonderful work and guidance.

    I have a question for the council, I am looking for a way to develop my psychic sense. I am told by counsil in a earlier question that my soul would like to develop a psychic sense, I am not sure what will be a good starting point.

    How will I know and understand what are my gifts and how can I develop that. If there are anythings that I should be careful about or I should protect myself from while working on my psychic sense please let me know.

    Thanks much!

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | May 3, 2018

  410. Hi, In Despair. Cynthia has some experience with long lasting pain and she’s still working on this. We look forward to The Council’s response to your question and and we’ll post the audio recording of their reply as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 23, 2018

  411. Hi Cynthia and Bob,

    First, thank you so much for the help and guidance you provide. I hope you can help me too. I am wondering what the purpose of chronic pain is? I’ve suffered from Cervical Stenosis and Fibromyalgia for about 10 years now. I refused pain medication for awhile, but finally reached a point about 6 years ago where it was impossible to function. Now, I’m at the point where I’ve built up a tolerance (I’ve been on the same medicine for years) to the medication and the pain has increased significantly. I am in horrible pain everyday. However, I’m reluctant to speak with my Dr. about this due to the “drug addict” stigma and current drug epidemic. I have NEVER abused my medication, but for some reason, I worry my Dr. will assume the worst, even though he is absolutely kind and understanding.

    I think it’s because I dread being labeled a “druggie” and think it makes me a bad person. Why in the world would we choose chronic pain as a lesson and how can I get past my fears? I’m so tired of being in pain everyday. I feel so hopeless and helpless. Please help. Thank you so much.

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    Comment by InDespair | April 23, 2018

  412. Good questions, Juan. We’ll ask The Council as soon as we can and publish a recording of their reply in a blog post as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 15, 2018

  413. Were the spirits that occupied the bodies of the German Nazi holocaust victims aware that they were agreed to be worked, tortured, and starved to death?

    If they were party of agreeing to such horrors, what would have been the purpose? Was it due to a karma debt? What was it suppose to accomplish?

    What possible benefit could come from such atrocities?

    What is the purpose of coming to this material dimension to suffer pain, anguish, or agony?

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    Comment by Juan E. Ramirez | April 15, 2018

  414. Hi, Anonymous. We’ll ask The Council about your son’s anger and what you are here to teach each other as soon as we have time, and we’ll post a recording of their response when it’s ready. Good luck and hang in there. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 4, 2018

  415. Hi Bob and Cynthia,
    How can I improve my relationship with my son? He is five and quick to anger. I have no idea what he is so angry about- from my perspective his life is stable and full of love.

    I try to meet his anger with patience and love but I am burning out. At times I meet his unkindness with my own. He is unkind to his little brother, too, as well as classmates, sometimes. Of course, some of this is just age appropriate but I see other kids his age and there seems to be something else going on.

    What are we here to teach each other in this lifetime? Is he scared of something? I know that everyone’s kids ‘drive them crazy’ but I feel like there is something he needs that I am not giving him. I have begun to think of him as ‘mean’ and I know that is unfair and unhelpful but have less and less evidence to suggest otherwise. Does the Council have any thoughts about what he needs to feel safe and loved or how I can help him learn empathy and kindness? He creates a lot of strife and stress in our family.

    Thank you.

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    Comment by Anonymous | April 4, 2018

  416. Hi, SoulPeace. We’ll ask The Council about your marriage when we have time and post a recording of their response on our blog when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 2, 2018

  417. Hi, Anthony. We’ll ask The Council about your career when we have time and post a recording of their reply on our blog when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 2, 2018

  418. Hello Council,

    Thanks for Cynthia and Bob for helping with the questions- answers and providing a guiding light.

    I am in the cross roads of my life where I need choose between two things – whether to stay in a marriage which is not working out well and try to make it better – or be brave enough and walk out with our kid. I have always been somewhat scared of living on my own and taking all the responsibilities of my kid on my own.

    I feel that whatever we have been going through the last few years, when I look deep inside, I don’t feel the love for my husband any more. I feel like I am sticking only because its more traditional option and being scared of living on my own.

    I feel its hard for me to forget about things which happened in the past. He doesnt want to make an effort to correct the things/wrong doings of past.

    Can the council please guide me if I Should I still forget him and let the past go [even though things can be corrected which he doesn’t want to do] OR start a new life for me and my kid without him. I feel like I am coming back to the same point over and over. I do want a closure to this and move ahead in any direction which is best suited for me and my kid.

    I deeply appreciate your help!

    Thank you!

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    Comment by soulpeace191689339 | April 1, 2018

  419. Hello again! Often I’ve heard that the reason we are here on this earth is to raise our energy vibrations, to become more like the Source or Creator. My question is this: if we originally came from the source, why is it that we’re not already at that higher level? I’m lost as to the point of all of these lives and lessons. Will we ever reach a point of not returning for more lives? Thank you for any insight.

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    Comment by Darla | March 27, 2018

  420. Dear Bob, Cynthia and the Council:

    I have a question about my job and I’m hoping The Council has some insight. My regular job duties include dealing with death and the prevention of death and violence. However, after leading an intense response to a major crisis event that was felt across the country (and perhaps, the world,) I feel bored with my regular duties. Does The Council see if I will move on to a larger role in emergency/crisis response activities, or perhaps something else?

    Thank you!

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    Comment by Anthony | March 21, 2018

  421. Hi, Audrey. Interesting questions. We suspect there’s not a 1:1 ratio of humans to souls, but we’ll be happy to ask The Council and post a recording of their reply. We’ll also ask about animals become extinct will they return as other animals. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 13, 2018

  422. Hi Bob, Cynthia and The Council, your blog is inspiring! I have a question. I am unsure if something like this has already been answered. So apparently around the year 1800, the population of the Earth was around 1 billion people. Now the population exceeds 7 billion. So where do all these additional souls come from? Also, as human population increases, and wild animal population decreases, what happens to the souls of those animals? For example, if rhinos become extinct, will the souls of the rhinos return as other animals? Do they have the option not to reincarnate?

    Thanking you always,

    Audrey

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    Comment by Audrey | March 13, 2018

  423. Hi, Lavender. Thank you for your appreciation of our blog. When we have time we’ll ask The Council about your son’s anger, how to best guide him, what’s going on with your son from a spiritual perspective, and whether your son is spiritually intuitive. We look forward to The Council’s reply and we’ll post a recording on our blog. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 12, 2018

  424. Hello Bob, Cynthia and The Council! I always appreciate the wonderful advise given, both to myself and the questions of others who’s answers simultaneously benefit me.

    My question today is inspired by a previous question of another, about her son’s anger. I have an 8 year old boy that has been troubled and difficult, well, always. He has trouble showing affection, despite affection being offered to him. I know I’ve made mistakes so far, not knowing how to handle such a headstrong child. I just wonder why he feels the way he does.

    I want him to care that he is loved and care to love other people. He is always quick to aggression with parental figures, teachers and his younger siblings. The kind of deep anger he carries is not something that I can remember him witnessing from anyone else. Though I know he’s been around for a fight or two with his dad.

    I had him at a young age and was much less seasoned in my growth journey, so I’m sure there will always be a little bit of guilt there on my part, learning through trial and error. I was hoping the council would give me advice on how to best guide him. Punishment for example, of any form, which personally I feel is needed when aggression and disrespect is the main language he speaks, leaves him with an attitude of nonchalance. “I don’t care”, “I didn’t want that anyway”, or on the reverse, he throws unacceptable tantrums (hitting, stomping, screaming and when we say this behavior can’t go on, and put him in time out, he will cry and feel sorry for himself, but is completely blinded by his actions hurting other people, and why he ended up in the situation that he was in to begin with.

    I worry he lacks empathy for others. He lies a lot as well, I’ve put him in therapy, and he’s made progress, but from a spiritual perspective, what’s going on? I recognize, to a smaller extent, the same internal struggles I felt that I went through as a child. I was, and in my own way still am, very resistant to authority, and it’s a confusing juggle between the ego, and what I consider my own higher truth, and learning when to go against the grain.

    I have attempted to teach him the law of attraction and self empowerment, the chakras and meditation, but with that he becomes a fantastic story teller. Once he had me believing he could astrally project and that he went to a place with dimensions to doors, but someone was there telling him which ones he could and couldn’t get back from. It all seemed so advanced, that surely there was something to it. Then he stopped wanting to talk about it and later told me that he made it all up. Did he?

    He also used to talk about seeing colors that weren’t supposed to be there. (I took him to the eye doctor, everything was fine.) Is he spiritually intuitive? And if so, why does he harbor such anger and compulsions to break every rule possibly given. (I exaggerate, but only very little, he really is the ultimate tester.)

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    Comment by Lavender | March 12, 2018

  425. Hi, Kim. We’ll ask The Council about your daughter’s fear of choking and whether it’s connected to a past life. We’ll publish a recording of the session on our blog when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 5, 2018

  426. Hi Cynthia, Bob and the council,
    My 10 year old daughter has developed a fear of choking. This seems to have come out of no where. This has affected her eating and weight lose. I have taking her to different doctors for help. I wanted to know if this fear is related to a past life. Also any advice on how to help her overcome this.
    Thank you, Kim

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    Comment by Kim | March 5, 2018

  427. Hi Bob & Cynthia,

    I have suffered a stillbirth very recent. I miss my baby boy. I keep on imagining what it would be like for our family to him, our third child in the family. I want to know why did this happen? When I find out I was pregnant it was a surprise but We was ready to welcome him in to life. I want to know more about this soul and why he isn’t here with us? If I planned to concieve would his soul return or would it be a different soul? Thank you for your time, your gift that you share and your guidance.

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    Comment by Thuy | February 19, 2018

  428. Hi, Thuy. Thank you for your questions related to your stillbirth last year and your gratitude. When we have time we’ll ask The Council about your situation and post a recording of their response on our website. Hang in there. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 16, 2018

  429. Hi Bob & Cynthia,

    I have a stillbirth in November 2017. I am devastated and didn’t even know that stillbirth can happened. Though I have two children to keep me going, I miss my angel baby dearly. I don’t have an answer to why medically why I loss my baby boy. I feel lost and confused. I want to know why spiritually why my son didn’t make it to this lifetime with us. After this event I don’t feel good about anything. My husband is trying to sell his business because of an indifference with his partner. I am worry about our financial future. I would like to ask the council for guidance. I used to know what I want to do next, but now I am not sure what will make me happy. Where do I come from here? What is my life purpose? Why did we have to experience this stillbirth? I thank you both for your time and your special gift that you share with us all. With Gratitude – Thuy

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    Comment by Thuy | February 15, 2018

  430. Hi, Anonymous. Depression is a big lesson. We’ll ask The Council about your case and publish a recording of their reply in a post when we have time. Hang in there. Love & light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 14, 2018

  431. Hello,
    I would like The Council’s take on depression. I have been working so hard for many years to shake this awful pattern and try as I may (meditation, gratitude journals, therapy, medicine) I just can’t seem to shake it. I can be ok for a bit (primarily when I am really busy) and other times like now, it’s just unbearable. I intellectually understand that my negative emotions are what is creating this, but can’t seem to consistently stay positive. How can I allow all the good that I have created for myself to come in? I have been trying so hard for so long.

    Looking for the Light

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    Comment by Anonymous | February 14, 2018

  432. Hi, Wendy. Congratulations on your pregnancy. We’ll be happy to ask The Council for advice for you, and whether your baby is the same soul as before. We’ll post a recording of their answer as soon as we have time. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 25, 2018

  433. A happy hello to all of you wonderful beings! I wrote a couple of times, months ago and your collective commitment and advice brought me to the very wonderful place I’m at today. Thank you.

    I am currently six months pregnant, with what I believe to be the same soul that tried to enter over two years ago. This has brought an unbelievable amount of joy into my life and the lives of my sweet little family. And you know what…? I created it! THANK YOU!

    Now, I’m wondering about another area of life. I have had the privilege of working with an Ayurvedic coach and really loved everything I learned during that time. Since then, I have been digging deeper and enjoying many types of healing arts. I keep feeling like I’m meant to be in this field, in some way, but I’m not sure how.

    I have recently enrolled into an Ayurvedic Practitioners course. Part of me is insanely excited and anxious to see where it takes me. The other part is just telling me I’m insane!

    I have a good amount of fear surrounding anything new that I dare to take on. Mostly because historically speaking, I haven’t gone through with many commitments and have found myself self sabotaging and finding excuses as to why it won’t work.

    Does the council have any advice for me? Do they see me being successful in this field and if so what can I do to break old patterns, have confidence and take this all the way? Especially with a 7yr old and a new babe on the way!

    And if you wouldn’t mind, I would love to know if this baby is in the fact the same soul as before! Just for fun. It will be crazy loved either way!

    A million thanks, and a billion blessings.

    With great love and gratitude,
    Wendy

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    Comment by Wendy Aronsson | January 25, 2018

  434. Hi, Soul Seeking Knowledge. It will be our pleasure to ask The Council for you about any past life connection to pyramids or Atlantis when we have time. We’ll also ask for guidance on how you can continue with your meditations without fear of darkness or evil or hearing strange things. We’ll post a recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 14, 2018

  435. Hello Bob and Cynthia,

    I have a question for the Council. From childhood I am very drawn to Pyramids and Egypt. From last few months, I am immensely drawen to Spiritual and Metha physical books and quest of knowledge is becoming very severe.

    Can the council please tell me if I had any past life connection with Pyramids or Atlantis – I feel like I have a purpose in there that I am not understanding yet.

    I also have one other question regarding the meditation that I do. Sometimes I have a fear of darkness/evil while I am meditating or hear strange things. Can you please show me how can I help myself and continue and progress in the meditation ~ I have had some good experiences in meditation and I dont want to stop it for the fear which is unexplained.

    Thanks so much for showing us the light.

    Looking forward for the answer

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    Comment by Soul_Seeking_Knowledge | January 12, 2018

  436. That would be wonderful, thank you so very much!

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    Comment by Dee | December 27, 2017

  437. Hi, Dee. We’re glad you enjoy our website. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about connection with spirit, your astral travel, and your intentions for communicating with spirit when we have a chance, and post a recording of our session on our website. Interesting questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 26, 2017

  438. Hi, SoulPeace. Interesting questions about spirituality and enlightenment. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and post a recording of our session with them on your answers. Please stay tuned. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 26, 2017

  439. I’m so happy I came across your site! It’s very informative and uplifting. I’m hoping you can help me too. I started to notice my connection with spirit about 3 years ago. It began as small coincidences (or synchronicity), then evolved into dream visitations, “feeling spirit” around me, and eventually astral traveling (which started spontaneously). I went through a period of time where I was going out of body (on purpose) fairly regularly and meeting with my deceased mother and what I believe are my spirit guides. I’ve also had dreams of people who feel familiar in the dream state, but are strangers in waking life. In the last 6-8 months, the astral traveling has become quite infrequent. I don’t know why. However, I’ve always wondered why it started in the first place as it happened so abruptly? Also, I think I’ve had a meeting with my council in a dream state (although I know it’s real regardless of being a “dream”). Am I meant to communicate with spirit (not just for myself, but for others)? I’ve been so confused about all of this. I would be so very grateful for any insight, thank you!

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    Comment by Dee | December 26, 2017

  440. Hello Bob,Cynthia and Council,

    Thanks for the amazing work that you guys have been doing. I have a question regarding the spiritual enlightenment. I have been reading a lot about Buddhist culture now a days. For some reason I am very much drawn to spiritual progress and finally knowing the truth behind us taking different incarnations and learning more and more lessons – may be creating more karma and desires for the next incarnations.

    Can you please let me know if we can learn about the lessons we have to learn without taking births on earth ?

    Also, I want to know how can one achieve the freedom of taking incarnations on the earth – and achieve “moksha”/Nirvana.

    I am trying to find peace for myself and would like to know where should I begin in order to achieve that ?

    Thanks much!

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    Comment by soulpeace191689339 | December 23, 2017

  441. That’s quite a few separate questions, LearningSoulSite, but we’ll try to answer them as soon as we can and well post The Council’s response on our website. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 16, 2017

  442. Excellent questions, Jolanda. As soon as we have time to answer and post them, we will. We look forward to what The Council has to say about this. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 16, 2017

  443. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the council,

    I would like to thank you immensely for the guidance that you have been providing me. You guys are doing an amazing job by giving people guidance, support and ray of hope.

    I have a concern about my child so I thought to ask the council for their opinion on the same. I have seen many times, specially when he is at home, he has anger issues. He gets angry on things and its hard to control him at that time. If we say anything, he starts crying mostly always.

    Can the council please guide me what are his learning lessons in his life and how can I help him. I have a feeling that it has something to do with my husband’s learnings too since I see the similarities often. Would like to know more of council’s words of wisdom on this.

    Also, it would be good to know what are our lessons with each other and what kind of previous lives three of us had previously with each other?

    The other question I had is about the Job. I understand one of my major lesson is to be independent in this life. Due to visa related issues, I may lose my job in the near future. Can the council please guide me which way should I go? should I stay in the same engineering field or try to take up writing or some other thing in which I dont have any experience as of now. Also, we have to move to some other country if I need to continue working – would that be advisable at this point in time or should be kept for later.

    Thanks much for love and light,

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | December 14, 2017

  444. Dear Bob, Cynthia and The Council, last time I was here asking questions was a year or more ago and I have found your answers very helpful. My question today is about child cancer.

    Unfortunately a beautiful young soul, very close to my heart (a young boy in my family), was diagnosed with cancer 2 days ago. As we are a very health-conscious family, we are all in shock. It’s the last thing we would have expected to happen.

    Can you please shed some light on the spiritual aspect of cancer, especially childhood cancer? Why does it happen, what are the patients and their families needing to learn? And if there’s anything in particular you can say to enlighten us about regarding my young relative, I would be most appreciative. Thank you ❤

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    Comment by Jolanda | December 10, 2017

  445. Hi Cynthia, Bob and the Council,

    Recently, I had three vivid dreams of someone I had a significant crush on several years ago. I decided to do an internet search on his name and discovered that he lives a short distance away from me. In fact, I believe we practically live on the same street. This was astounding to me as we knew each other in high school, in a town thousands of miles away. We have not been in contact since high school, but something in me wonders if I wanted to create an experience of being in contact with this person and seeing what happens from there. I feel it is not coincidence that we live close to each other. However, I am incredibly nervous and do not entirely feel confident that contacting him out of the blue is the right thing to do, especially since I do not know him any more, and he may not remember me. Thinking about it makes me feel like a teenager all over again. My questions are 1) is this situation a coincidence, or is my spirit drawings me to have a particular experience 2) Does this person symbolize something in my life in which I need to develop awareness?

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    Comment by Jayden | December 8, 2017

  446. Thank you Cynthia & Bob. I look forward to hearing what they have to say.

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    Comment by Kristi Louise | November 28, 2017

  447. Dear Cynthia, Bob and the Council

    Like all readers of your blog, I’m very grateful for the guidance you provide with such generosity. I’m hoping you can provide insight and guidance on an extremely personal and humiliating problem I’ve had for years. I’m a 34 year old female and have never been able to have intercourse. Despite having real physical desire for men my body seems to freeze and doesn’t allow anyone in and I become deeply paralyzed by fear. This happened even when I was deeply in love with someone wonderful a few years ago. It’s made it difficult to be involved with someone even if I am strongly attracted to them. I feel so lonely and abnormal and it’s heartbreaking. I really would appreciate any guidance you have to help me heal. Thank you so much.

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    Comment by Anonymous | November 21, 2017

  448. Noted, Lavender. Stay tuned for The Council’s response.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 17, 2017

  449. Great! That’s exciting, I’d like to add that it was sitting draped over his neck, more like a pet vs. him being constricted by it, that detail might also be important.

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    Comment by Lavender | November 16, 2017

  450. Interesting dream, Lavender. This may be The Council’s first question about dream interpretation. We’ll ask when we have time and post the recording of our session. Stay tuned. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 16, 2017

  451. Hi, a few days ago I had a detailed dream about a man with negative energy, his intentions were not specifically known but left me with that feeling. I was supposed to be setting up a play date with this little girl that lived at this man’s house for my daughter, but he didn’t want us there when I arrived. I’m not really sure if these details matter, but the one significant aspect seemed to be that he had a large black snake around his neck the snake was mostly covered in bees. Any ideas to what my subconscious might be trying to tell me? The dream gets more and more vague after that. Thank you again for this opportunity.

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    Comment by Lavender | November 16, 2017

  452. Good questions Kristi. When we have a chance we’ll ask The Council and see what they have to say, and we’ll post their reply when it’s ready. Stay tuned. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 13, 2017

  453. Hi Cynthia, Bob & The Council,

    Thank you for sharing your amazing gifts and your valuable time to help other people. Your blog is very informative and I enjoy reading it.

    I would like to ask Spirit a personal question about myself and the spiritual journey I am on. I started my awakening several years ago, and since then, my thirst for knowledge has been insatiable. It’s almost like I have this constant magnetic pull to the Spirit realm. It is constantly on my mind, and when I try to distance myself from it (spirit), I end up right back at it. I guess my question is, why? Why is the pull to Spirit so strong? And what am I supposed to be doing with it? What is my purpose in all of this? I guess I need a little direction. I obviously want to serve God and my Higher Purpose and acheive my goals for this lifetime, but I’m not clear on what they are. Any guidance would be greatly appreciated!

    Thank you so much! Much love.

    Kristi Louise

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    Comment by Kristi Louise | November 13, 2017

  454. Hi, Brennan. We’re glad you liked The Council’s response to your previous question and that you’re asking more. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and post their response on our blog. In the meantime, think uplifting thoughts about your Dad’s surgery tomorrow. We are. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 29, 2017

  455. Hi, Maria. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions when we have time. We’ll post their reply when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 29, 2017

  456. Hello Bob and Cynthia. I asked a few questions a few months ago. I loved the response y’all and the Council gave me. You confirmed what I was thinking all along. I do have a couple more questions. If you don’t mind.

    My best friend lives in California. I have such strong feelings for her. I feel as though she is my soul mate. We both know that we are in each other’s soul group. My question is, will I ever be able to be with her? What do I need to do to help her talk to me again?

    Our relationship got a little messed up when I forgot to put the most important word in the text. I love her so much. How can I fix it?

    My parents still do not like that I am transgender. My dad and I have agreed to disagree. No big deal. My mom is still having the hardest time with it. Will she ever get off my back about being transgender? She believes that I am not supposed to be transgender. She thinks I chose to be this way. Why is she giving me such a hard time?

    My dad is having heart surgery on the 30th of this month. So, on Monday. I’m worried that he isn’t going to be the same after the surgery. Honestly I’m worried that he isn’t going to make it through the surgery. We just lost a family friend of ours. They say things come in threes. Will I be able to handle what ever happens to my dad?

    Thank you for listening to me. I thank you for all the things you and the council do for everyone.

    ~Brennan

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    Comment by Brennan | October 27, 2017

  457. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the council,
    Thank you so much for this opportunity to ask you and the guides some questions! I would like some clarification on my future please. Do you see a move for me? What do you see career wise? Anything for my children and husband? Thank you so much for your time.
    Love and Light, Maria

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    Comment by Maria | October 27, 2017

  458. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the council,

    I want to thank you for all the guidance that you have been giving me with the help of the council. I always try to read and re-read it when I am stuck with something.

    Me and my son have moved back with my husband a week back. Although everything is going well so far, I am not feeling happy deep inside. Th happiness is superficial and is not coming from heart. I feel my inner self is not that happy, may be I am finding it hard to forget what happened in the past.

    I will start meditating on it. Can you please guide me what can I do to help my self to have more loving thoughts and be in more positive state of mind. I feel like my inner self is trying to tell me something I can’t hear in meditation/intuition. Can you please guide me if this is the case.

    Immensely thankful,

    Thanks,
    Vacha

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | October 5, 2017

  459. Hi, Kimberly. We’ll try to get some answers for you about a love relationship in your life. We’ll post a response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 25, 2017

  460. Hello , I am still single at 34 and have heart failure and I worry about running out of time to find love. I have never once found love. I feel like god has forgotten me. Please let me know if and when I will find love and a description of him. I would like a partner to share my life with. Thanks

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    Comment by Kimberly | September 19, 2017

  461. Good evening,
    I’m looking for some guidance and insight into a struggling romantic relationship, and my own self worth.

    I wrote to the council about 9 months ago and I’m happy to report that my son, although still has a tick disorder, is doing much better and happier! Thank you!

    I however am still stuck in this cycle with Ty, and don’t know how to let him go or create a loving supportive relationship. I was wondering if you had any insight as to our soul agreement for this lifetime and/or on our past lives together?

    Even though friends and family have told me to let him go, I don’t want to give up. I see past his masks and into his heart and I love him. I feel a very strong connection with him and love that I can’t seem to sever even though he has expressed not being ready for this relationship right now. I don’t want to let him go. I’ve found myself terrified of being alone, jealous and like I’m being abandoned by him. Even though he says he’s not ready, he still spends majority of his time with me and my son. This week, I lost control of myself and was not kind. I embarrassed him and he is taking his space from me. I believe in love and that we can make it through anything, but he is very prideful and even though he won’t admit it, sensitive.

    How do I fix this relationship?Can I heal these wounds I’ve inflicted? Are we bound to repeat this cycle again/ what are we supposed to learn from this? I feel very lost, so any direction on my path would be greatly appreciated.

    Thank you for your time and guidance. Love and light to you!

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    Comment by Kelly | September 10, 2017

  462. So glad to hear, thank you, and i will be patient. Love & Blessings x

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    Comment by Just Me Again | August 21, 2017

  463. Interesting questions about your cat and Cambodia. We’ve already recorded a session with The Council on it, but it may take a while to post it. Please be patient. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 21, 2017

  464. Hi, Arvinda. We’re so glad Vacha has recommended our blog to you. As soon as we get a chance we’ll ask The Council about your lessons and the lessons of Yogesh in this lifetime and post their response. Please stay tuned. It may take a while since there are several questions ahead of yours. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 21, 2017

  465. Hello Bob,Cynthia and the Council –

    Hope you are well. I came to know about the website from my daughter. My Name is Arvinda and My husband’s name is Yogesh.

    We live in India. I have been hearing about the Soul and its learning in this life. I want to understand what is my are my learning lessons in this life.

    Also I would really appreciate if you can also tell me what are my husband’s learning lessons in life.

    When I look back at my life, I have always done so much for my life and haven’t quite received the same amount of love from them. Now I am close to 60 years old and my husband is 62 years old.

    If you can please help us to acknowledge it with my learning lessons and my husband’s learning lessons – I would be deeply grateful.

    Thanks,
    Arvinda and Yogesh

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    Comment by Arvinda Dave | August 21, 2017

  466. Dear Cynthia, Bob & Council

    I am planning to move to Cambodia early next year to fulfill my dream and to do the work I feel I am guided to do. I have to leave my cat behind as she cannot travel with me. I have found somebody that is willing to take her in when I leave for Cambodia, but I would like to ask a few questions to the council that I would like to have clarity on.

    1. Is this person the correct one to look after her?
    2. I understand why she came into my life (my healer and support in very difficult times), but what did I agree to offer her in this lifetime and did I do that for her? I feel sad and guilty to leave her behind, while she was so good to and for me. Did we agree that I would leave her behind?
    3. Can the Council tell me about previous lifetimes, as I feel we shared more than this?
    4. Does she understand why I have to leave her behind and is she ready to move on?
    5. Did I have a previous lifetime in Cambodia (I feel an intense need to go back since I was there for a holiday 5 years ago) and is it the right move/time for me to go?
    6. An old Cambodian woman who did a reading for me believe that I was her doctor in a previous life. Does the Council have anything for me about this?
    7. I feel guided to produce a specific synergetic transformational essence blend, do transformational retreats for tourists, some healing work at a wellness centre in Cambodia and whatever else I feel guided to when I am there. Does the Council have anything for me about this?

    Once again, I am very appreciative of the work you do and the opportunity to be able to get clarity on the questions I have.

    Much love and appreciation
    Just Me Again

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    Comment by Just Me Again | August 15, 2017

  467. Two good questions, LearningSoulSite. We’re glad your meditations are bringing you peace and helping your grow. We’ll ask The Council how you can improve your meditations, and your question about soul mates when we have time, and we’ll post their response. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 9, 2017

  468. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the council,

    Hope you guys are doing good. I am trying to do meditation as much as I can, as the Council suggested — to reach the answers of the questions that I have myself. It does give me peace and seems like it’s helping me to grow in a way. Thank you council for that.

    I do feel something special few times during meditation, but I can’t seem to reach to the answer or intuition by myself during meditation. Can the council please guide me where I am going wrong or what can I improve upon in the meditation that I am doing. I usually do guided meditation and the color meditation(Imagining a color green/white and letting it flow through my body).

    I did have one experience of seeing white light and hearing voices which I could remember after waking up before 5 years in a dream at night(after praying for a long time), but I can’t seem to reach to that state again.

    One more thing I want to ask the council is that I have been reading Michael Newton – Journey of souls and destiny of souls – In that book its written that we have a primary soul mate and a soul group in which we frequently incarnate. I do understand the concept of a soul mate that they can be a friend, sister/brother, husband or any other relationship.

    The relationship with a soul mate is different from what I understand, they help each other to grow and be of support/ there is an inherent feeling of “coming home” with a soul mate.

    I feel that all the romantic relationships I had till now, I never connected with anyone at that level that I can feel they are my soul mate. I do have friends, relatives with whom I feel deep connection but in terms of romantic relationships, I don’t think I have reached that feeling of sharing a deeper connection.

    As the Council suggested before, the lesson to be learned from this life was to be very independent. It may mean that I need to be emotionally independent and not rely on anyone. Can the council please guide me if the learnings that I have is a reason that I haven’t come across to my soulmate yet. I am not sure if there is a possibility in the future to meet a person who is/has been my primary soul mate/spouse in my past lives.

    Thanks so much.

    Loads of love.

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | August 9, 2017

  469. Hi Bob, Cynthia, and The Council,

    I feel quite shy asking this question, but curiosity has gotten the better of me so here it goes… Earlier this year, a psychic told me that I am a “channel” much like Cynthia. While I have had sensory experiences–smelling phantom scents and occasionally feel like I’m having a conversation in my head, I’ve certainly never had an experience where I can do any automatic writing, feel like I know the future, or channel spirit. Can you offer some feedback on this?

    Much love and gratitude to you all.

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    Comment by Anonymous | August 4, 2017

  470. Hi, Casey. Try and hold on. We did a session with The Council today to answer your question. We understand an abortion can be a difficult time and we’ll try to get their reply to you shortly. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 30, 2017

  471. Hello Council,
    I had an abortion. Now I want to die. I am told I took a life and now I don’t want to live anymore. I have two kids and a husband but I have no desire to live. I was shy of five weeks. I try and communicate with the soul. I’ve read every book regarding past life regressions and aborted spirits returning to the same mother but nothing makes me feel better. I feel shunned. Scared. And fear divine retribution.
    My life feels as if it is over. What can the council offer?

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    Comment by Casey | July 27, 2017

  472. Hi, EG. We haven’t had many or any questions specifically about autism. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question and post their response when it’s ready. Thank you for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 22, 2017

  473. Hello Bob and Cynthia and The Council! I have a question about people with Autism. I understand that people with Autism think differently than “typical” people. Working with this population shows that people with Autism can lack empathy or ability to read facial expressions and body language. They often perseverate on items or concepts and communication can be difficult. My question is, if we plan our lives in advance, why would so many people choose to be born with Autism?

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    Comment by EG | July 21, 2017

  474. Thank you! Im very much looking forward to the response!!

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    Comment by Lavender | July 21, 2017

  475. Good question, Lavender. When we get a chance we’ll ask The Council your question and post their response. Stay turned. Love & light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 11, 2017

  476. Hello, my question is about whether or not I should be sexually intimate with my best friend. Does the council see this becoming an issue later on, or could it remain light and fun, which is what it’s meant to be? Im also wondering if we were connected from a past life or if this is a fresh feeling and new intention/relationship?

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    Comment by Lavender | July 11, 2017

  477. Happy summer! And such a happy summer it is, greatly in part to the healing I’ve received from the council. I am moving in the direction of love and working everyday to create expansion within myself and my family. I feel stronger as each week passes and my confidence is larger than it has ever been before.

    I am certain that I am able to invite the very soul that I love so much into this family and even though I sometimes get anxious about exactly when this will happen, I have been able to call my energy back to me and re-focus relatively easily. My gratitude for this gift goes beyond words or the physical. Thank you.

    I have two questions now that I feel can help me even further. The first is this: Is there any advice for my partner on helping me to create this pregnancy? We have started trying, but he is still unsure if this is a possibility due to a report form the doctor that he received years ago. I’ve told him that our thoughts create our reality and I believe this with my whole heart, but I’m also wondering if there’s anything he can do with his physical body to help promote fertility? Is it strictly mind over matter? Anything I can send his way is much appreciated!

    My second question is one about my son. He is an amazing little boy who has taught me SO much and continuously pushes me to be my best self. I would like some advice on how to help him through some things he seemed to come into this life with. (I’m sure I’ve also partially created, during times of struggle where I have been less than perfect as his mama.)

    He’s a perfectionist. He wants very much to please and even more than that, he always wants to be on top. I know to some extent this is normal for all children, but I worry that he will be untrue to himself by being so concerned with having to be so perfect all the time. I want him to know that my love is unconditional and I want him to feel secure in making decisions that feel good to him as opposed to what he might think others want, from him.

    He is such a special little boy, smart beyond his years and SO easy to love. He has difficulty opening up and allowing himself to love my partner. Sometimes this bothers me and I know he holds back his true feelings surrounding the situation because he doesn’t want to upset me. I want to encourage communication and honesty while making sure he feels loved and secure, especially as this family grows. I want to provide him with tools that he will use for the rest of his life, tools that will make his journey more joyful and spiritual.

    Please tell me what I can do to help him and I will implement it immediately! And just out of curiosity, could you sneak in a little info about any past lives I’ve shared with both my little boy and my partner? I’m just SO darn curious!!! Thank you. Always and eternally.

    With all the LOVE,
    Wendy

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    Comment by Wendy Aronsson | July 2, 2017

  478. Hi Bob, Cynthia and the council,

    We have a spiritual leader/Guruji that we go to for guidance mostly related to family issues or gaining more spiritual knowledge. He says he can also talk to spirit world and gives us guidance based on that and on Astrology.

    Sometimes he says it is because of Astrology and he suggests us some chants, rituals of “pooja” that gets performed by priests. Most of the rituals include praying god and asking for wellness through interacting number of sanskrit shlokas.
    Sometimes that does have an effect and the other times it has positive effects but lasts temporarily.

    The more I read consunil’s guidance and read about spirituality – I have a question about the authenticity and the actual impact of such kind of rituals performed. One thought I have is it might work because we “believe” in it and it doesn’t if we dont “believe”. But I am not sure on this part.

    As the counsil say – We need to learn our lessons in order for our soul to grow and we “choose” this “difficult” experiences before taking birth. However, when we are born we sometimes feel its too much to handle and resort to such kind of activities. What I wanted to ask is that – does this sort of rituals have any effect or can postpone learning the lessons.

    The other question I have is regarding two of my friends – Pragna and Priayanka. I feel I share a connection from past lives with both of them. Both of them always love and give me support when I was going through difficult time. Can the council please tell me about the past lives we have shared and what is the pre birth plan for me with both my friends. I particularly love my friend Pragna who is in USA and I miss her a lot. She helps a lot in staying positive and sort of keeping me happy.
    I wish I can be toeghether with Pragna in future. Can the counsil see that happening ? or we were just meant to be together physically for a short amount of time and we need to live in separate countries now.

    Thanks for showing love and light – Bob,Cythia and the counsil
    Loads of love.

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | June 30, 2017

  479. Hi, Anonymous. Good questions. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and post their response. Stay turned. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 28, 2017

  480. Hello, I have a question for The Council. I feel like there is so much more that I have to accomplish and get depressed when things don’t work out. I’m convinced that I have the ability to live the life I want to lead, but seem to be frustrated quite often–meaning things seem like they might happen then don’t. Also, I have a bit of difficulty with people. Any advice? Anything from a previous life that I am trying to rectify? Which career at this point would I be most successful?

    Thanks!

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    Comment by Anonymous | June 28, 2017

  481. Hi Bob and Cynthia,
    I asked a question of the council a few months ago and was grateful for your thoughtful response- I had recently had an abortion and was really feeling sad and guilty about it (In my previous question I wondered if the aborted soul would return o our family). I’ve tried to work through my negative feelings around the abortion these past few months- saw a few therapists, have done some reading, tried communicating with the aborted soul…. and while I do feel more functional, I feel there is still so much more work to do. Can the Council provide any guidance as to how I can truly work through this experience in a healthy way and learn to forgive myself?

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    Comment by Anonymous | June 5, 2017

  482. Thank you!
    I am looking forward to ypur response.

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    Comment by LostSoul | May 23, 2017

  483. Hello Bob,Cynthia and Counsel,

    Hope you guys are doing good. From the last couple of days I have been thinking about a question, which is in regards to my marriage.
    For a long time almost for 5 months, my husband was not calling me and we were still going over the issues the two times we talked in that time. Now, from last week he called and he claims that he is changed and he understood my issues and willing to work on those. He sounds very changed but I am little bit skeptical since this is not his usual behavior with me. I am more keen on settling in India and he is saying he would need like 2 more years to do that.

    The question that keep me unsure is that – if he is actually changed or he wants me just for the sack of money and the home loan that we have. When I go there, I am pretty much alone without a family and I need to go through a lot if those issues happen again.

    I also think about the counsel’s guidance from last time and it was said that in the pre birth plan, the issues between my husband and me were suppose to be resolved once I learn to be independent. I also think about our son and feel that if things to workout, it would be good for him and me for our future life together.

    If I think about it positively and move ahead and possibly reconcile, Is this a good time to do that or should I wait for some more time. Can the counsel please guide me as in what changes I should see in him and may be in me too in order to this relationship to workout.

    Thanks so much.

    Love,
    Vacha

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | May 22, 2017

  484. Hi, Lost Soul. We’ll ask The Council your questions when we have time and post their response. Love and Light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 10, 2017

  485. I have decided to write in today, as my mom has often pointed The Council out to me and has even written about a difficult situation I had to go through (a second time again) to you and showed me the response.
    I have three main holes in me that I need help healing.

    First, it is my relationship. I will be 25 years old in a few months. I am dating (and staying with) a 21 year old man. Although I have great confusion around this, I am almost sure I love him for the right reasons. We have been together for two years (then broken up for, not sure, but could be 6 months – because I decided to pursue a love-less ego boost relationship with someone I could never pursue a life with). And by some “miracle” I got back with the 21 year old man. It was as of we were never apart. And for a few months it was amazing. I suppose I felt ‘home’ again.

    It’s been a little over a year again, being together, and a lot has changed. He can be the most amazing guy, and then at times make choices that damages me emotionally and to the point where I feel physically sick. Although he is not an alcoholic at all – these bad choices always involves his friends and alcohol. He has made the same mistake numerous of times. Always apologizes, and then he does it again. We are currently at a point where I have told him to stop drinking completely or we need to end this. (Of course everything in me had hoped that he would choose the ‘quit drinking’ issue – which he did).

    The concern I have now though, is. 1. Am I molding this person into someone I want and am I forcing him to face personal issues, he is not ready for? Or could this be a positive thing? 2. I feel haunted by the moments where he has hurt me, yet I want to be in this relationship. Is there a soulmate in this person whom I can pursue a life with? Has he come to a realisation? Is there hope for us? Or have I learnt the necessary lessons and do I need to be strong and let go? What if that will be the biggest mistake ever?

    Another thing I could really use some guidance with is my “career”. I have been an au pair for quite some time. I do this with no passion, in fact, I do it with a heavy heart. This is not my calling. I am more. Yet, I stay stuck, as I can not get a admin job, due to the fact that I have no experience. Also, I can not do it in the “live your life and leave the job that makes you unhappy” way as I have to still survive financially. Where does my heart want to take me? I said ‘admin’ as I feel it is probably the best I can find with only childcare experience.

    Last thing. I have come to the realisation lately that I am utterly unhappy. It is as if my eyes open and my soul told me “Wake up. You need to start loving yourself.” I feel like a have been doing a little bit better, but not with the passion I should be grabbing this new life that awaits me. Maybe just a little guidance on this?

    I want to have a relationship with myself. A joyful, beautiful one. I want to feel free.

    I would appreciate any guidance you offer and await it with a open mind and open heart.

    Thank you.

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    Comment by LostSoul | May 8, 2017

  486. Hi, Anon. Maybe there’s a past life connection with your phobia of vomiting. We’ll ask The Council about your phobia and publish a post on their reply. Hang in there. Love & Light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 27, 2017

  487. Thank you. I can’t wait to hear what the council has to say

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    Comment by Brennan | April 27, 2017

  488. Hi bob and Cynthia

    Thank you so so much for your time and help. You kindly answered my questions around my new baby and losing my job and also about my fear of being sick.

    Council mentioned that kids get sick and doesn’t mean I should get sick and I shouldnt live in the fear. I’d like to expand on this as this fear is a phobia of myself vomiting and since having kids it’s getting worse and worse. I am so scared of kids catching a stomach bug and I know it’s going to happen one day and I am petrified of catching it. I feel like I would rather die than vomit and it’s taking over my thoughts every day of whether we will catch it. How can I overcome this fear? I know of other people
    With this phobia and no amount of therapy seems to help. I don’t see anyone who has got over it.

    Can anyone help with how I can overcome this? It’s taking over my life and I know one day it will happen. It’s ruining my time as a parent as I am so scared I will not cope!

    I am fine with other illness like colds measles chicken pox – it’s only vomiting 😦

    I would be so grateful for advice as I cannot live like this!

    Many thanks and blessings x

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    Comment by Anon | April 27, 2017

  489. Good question, Brennan. We’ll ask The Council as soon as we can a post their response. Love and Light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 25, 2017

  490. I’ve been learning a little about pre-birth planning. I’m curious to see if y’all can help me with this. My birth name is Sheala. I am changing my name to Brennan. I’m going to be going through the change soon. I’m going from female to male. I’m wondering if I planned in my pre-birth planning to be transgender. If so why did I plan this? It’s hard to even be gay/lesbian in this day and age. Transgender is extremely hard for some to understand. On top of that I have mental illness. What is the purpose for me to have all these things that are “shunned” upon? What is the reason for me in this lifetime?

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    Comment by Brennan | April 24, 2017

  491. I am sorry bob and cynthia. I would ask new questions later.
    Thanks

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | April 22, 2017

  492. Hi, Vacha. Please try and wait until we’ve answered your more recently posted questions before posting new questions. This will help us keep track of them. Love and Light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 21, 2017

  493. Hello Bob, cynthia and council,

    I have one more question which I have been thinking from sometime. It is regarding the pre birth plan that I have with my son . Since I dont know yet which way my marriage would go, I am not sure about the future that lies for my son And me with respect to family .
    I was just wondering did my son came to this life knowing that this would happen and what could be his pre birth plan with me and his learnings out of this whole experience of getting born in unstable family.

    Thanks again for helping like you always do,
    Deeply grateful ,
    Vacha

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | April 21, 2017

  494. Hi, Diana. We’ll ask The Council how you can find a loving and financially secure husband and post their response as soon as we have time. Love, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 20, 2017

  495. Hi, Diana. We’ll ask The Council about how you can find more satisfying work and post their response when we have time. Love, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 20, 2017

  496. Hi, Fernanda. We’ll ask The Council your questions about relationships and career, and post a response as soon as we have time. Love, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 20, 2017

  497. Hi, Vacha. We’ll ask The Council your question about spiritual realms and post a response as soon as it’s ready. Love, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 20, 2017

  498. Hello, I would love to meet my Soulmate Husband (the soulmate I will marry) soon, someone who I connect with deeply on all levels, and there is huge mutual love. Do The Council have any insights on this please? Is there anything I can do to speed up the process? Are they able to see him at all?

    I understand that I will attract the same vibration as myself… however I struggle with lack/ poverty issues, and would love to meet someone who does NOT struggle with poverty issues, so that I feel safe and secure. Do you have any insights? Many thanks and much gratitude, Diana

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    Comment by dianawalles | April 20, 2017

  499. Hello, I’m 42 years old, and for over 20 years have been trapped in meaningless, unfulfilling office jobs. I’d love to focus more on my creativity and art, and also to develop healing work and group skills.

    I’ve been in despair for many years – not knowing how to fulfill my potential, because I work in a meaningless, badly paid, full-time job – and have: a) no money to use for trainings b) I’m exhausted all the time c) I have very little spare time to develop my art, healing skills etc. I feel trapped.

    Is there any hope for me still to break out of this cycle, and somehow survive financially? Will I ever get any support from anywhere? I want to feel like I’ve lived, before I die. I hope to thrive one day, to use my potential, and break free from struggle 😦

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    Comment by Diana | April 20, 2017

  500. I want to ask for your help. I’m 42 years old and a single woman. In my life I’ve never done anything important. For me it´s very difficult to have any kind of relationship or employment. I’m very worried because I feel the time is running and I don´t have a real life. I feel I’m died on life.

    Also I want to know why all that I’ve wanted had become impossible, especially if it’s about a relationship. All my love relationships became impossible and platonic. I usually got obsessed with this man. I really spent a lot of years trying to forget and moved on every relationship.

    In my career I don’t know what to do. I studied something but now I lost interest in this and I’d like to find other things, but this looks impossible too. So I feel very worried for my financial situation and I don’t know what to do to survive now.

    Thank you for all the help you can give.

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    Comment by fernanda wu | April 19, 2017

  501. Hello Bob,Cynthia and Counsil,

    Thanks for guiding and inspiring us with all the wonderful answers. Last few days I have been reading few books by Dr.Brian Weiss and Khorshed Bhavnagari’s books about Spirit world. I am also reading Abraham and Hick’s books.

    The question I had is for Spiritual Realms. I have read that each reincarnation that we have is for learning things and we expand in the spirit world. From the books knowledge, there are 7 realms and we grow and eventually become one with source after 7th realm.

    If there are indeed realms, I just wanted to know which level(If there are 7) of realm my spirit belonged to when I took birth in this lifetime and what is the main learning that I intend of having in this life time. From the book, I came to know that depending upon the life we live,based on Karma – we can either expand or we can come down in the realm.

    Can the council please guide us if this is true. If this is not true, how do we exactly expand the learning experiences in this life time?

    Thanks again – loads of respect –
    Vacha

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | April 18, 2017

  502. Please explain the buffer of time in regards to manifestation.
    thank you

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    Comment by Juan Ramirez | April 8, 2017

  503. I would like to ask the council a question: I have two young children (suffered one miscarriage in between them). I was recently pregnant and my husband and I decided to end the pregnancy. It was not an easy decision and I have been devastated. Feeling guilty but also just missing the baby. And feeling a bit like a bad mom- I did the opposite that I was supposed to. I didn’t protect my baby. Friends have said things like ‘you did what was best for your family’ but I came to realize that the baby was part of our family. But oddly, I didn’t feel connected to the baby at all while I was pregnant, not at all. I can’t figure that out. It was only after the abortion that I really felt connected. I would like to try again- is this soul still with me? Is there any way I can call her back?I have this silly notion of convincing her that I am a good mom (I am!), but ultimately it seems that I need to win her trust back, so she can trust me to keep her safe.

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    Comment by Anonymous | March 27, 2017

  504. Hello Council and best wishes your way………I have a question about my health if possible…..I understand it is connected to our emotions and our attitudes….And we actually cause our own illnesses……If this is true then how should I and what could I do to be healed back to normal besides just changing our thoughts and attitudes…..Is it even possible ? I’m told I have a throat tumor that must come out. But I have had a prophetic word said to me that it is not a right prognoses at all…….Not knowing what to do I wonder if there is a way of truth to return to health ? This might sound like a crazy silly question but I truly don’t know which way to turn and just wonder if there is truth I can follow to return to my health….Thankyou. Linda

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    Comment by Linda | March 15, 2017

  505. Hello Cynthia and Bob and Council,
    Hope you guys are doing good.

    As I read more and more about other people questions, previous life and multiple realities,

    *What profession would be best suited for me depending on the skills I had in my previous life times. I would like to pursue that profession going forward as I think I have that choice now.
    * What kind of previous life times I had and how does it affect me as a person now. Sometimes there are unfinished things that we need to take care of.

    I am getting this questions because one of our “Guruji” – spiritual leader we believe in, told that my life would be very different after 50. I don’t quite understand that how it would be different. Off late after the abortion and issues with my husband, I feel like I am growing spiritually and reading about spiritual and reincarnations a lot.

    When you get a chance , can you please ask this question to the council.

    Thanks for helping Bob and Cynthia as you always do to show me love and light.

    Thanks and blessings,
    Vacha

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | March 15, 2017

  506. Good questions, Marie. We’ll ask The Council and post their response. Love and Light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 13, 2017

  507. Many people today are learning the Reiki practice and charging quite a lot for their services. I would be interested to know if the Council feels that the Reiki practice is of true validity. Can they explain why symbols are used and how do they work? If one is to practice Reiki healing on others, how proficient should they be? Also, I believe that the energy changes we are experiencing are having an effect on how the practice should be taught and the formality can be relaxed or changed somehow. I would be very interested in any guidance from the Council on this subject. As always, much gratitude to Cynthia, Bob and the Council for this wonderful opportunity to hear words “from on high”.

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    Comment by Marie | March 12, 2017

  508. Hi, Anon. We’ve been having some technical difficulties with our recording equipment lately, but we’re close to solving the problem and posting responses to questions. When we get to your question we’ll post The Council’s response. Hang in there in the mean time. Love & light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 11, 2017

  509. Hi Bob and Cynthia

    I contacted last year when I was pregnant with my second child and unsure if it was what I wanted. Our little girl has just been born and I love her to pieces. However I have also recently been made redundant and life feels very unknown and I feel (I can’t explain very well) but uneasy and unsure where I am going in life. Is this the start of a new phase with a new baby and having to find a new job after maternity. Do the council have any advice on what direction my life is going as I feel very out of sorts and in no mans land.

    Also I have a massive phobia of being sick and this massively impacts my life since having children. I constantly worry about catching bugs and kids getting ill and how I will cope and it takes the joy from parenting. Do they have any advice.

    I think all in all am feeling a bit lost and stuck with all this change and wondering what is next.

    Thanks so much for helping again

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    Comment by Anon | March 11, 2017

  510. Thank you, wai. We’ll try to make it worth your while. Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 19, 2017

  511. following this post!

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    Comment by wai | February 18, 2017

  512. Hello, again, it’s Darla. I have a question about the concept of soul mates. What are The Council’s thoughts on this? Do we all have a certain soul we are deeply connected to throughout many lifetimes? If so, can we have more than one soul mate? Or do we have a “soul family” that we reincarnate with more often? I’ve been told by a psychic friend that my own mother was my mother-in-law in a past life, and that my husband was my daughter in the past. Thanks for any information!

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    Comment by truthjournal | February 16, 2017

  513. Hello Bob and Cynthia,

    This is vacha again. I am actually going through a life changing crisis right now. I would appreciate counsil’s guidance and light on this subject.

    As I have previously mentioned, I have on going issues with my husband and in laws. The marriage has been a physically abusive from begining. With time, it has only grown and right now I have reached a stage where I couldn’t continue the marriage further for the sake of my safety and my son’s.

    I have moved back to India with my parents. I thinking to get separated from my husband. The question I has for the counsil is that, this is my second marriage. In both of my marriages, I have ended up being with physically abusive husbands. I have given 5 years to my second marriage, and the situation only gets worse because of my husband’s anger and my in law’s interference. At a times, I feel suicidal but thinking of my son, I have decided not to take such extreme step. I think I might have to set some karmic accounts with both my husbands. Is that true from counsil perspective.

    My son is only person in my life who keeps me going. If we decide to separate, will my son be staying with me. Also, going forward, will there ever be a good relationship I would have.

    Career wise also I have to start from fresh here and all my last 5 years have gone to bring up my son and taking care of him.

    Is there a chance I would have planned to face such abusive relationships before coming in to this world. I read your posts for multiple realities, and the thought that you can’t change some things which you wanted to experience before coming in to this world. Is my failed marriages one of those things that I cant change.

    Thanks again for helping as you always do Bob and Cynthia. Loads of love from india.

    Vacha

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | February 5, 2017

  514. Hi, Wendy. We’ll ask The Council your questions and post their response when it’s ready. Love, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 26, 2017

  515. Hello Bob and Cynthia,

    It’s Wendy again. I first want to thank you both (and the council too!) for the wonderful sense of relief that I was provided with after receiving my message from the council. I have since worked very hard to see things differently and make changes to create the life I desire. I’m experiencing more joy with Siggy and in the little things everyday. I feel like I’m waking up!

    I do have a couple of questions for the council that I feel could help me even further. I would like to know if they see me doing this inner work and if I’m on the most beneficial path at the moment. I want to know if I’m doing well with my son. I am consciously working to invite more joy into my life and my relationships, though it isn’t always easy for me. I struggle with anxiety and often wonder if I’m going to get where I want to go. And if I do get here, will I have moved beyond the people and relationships I have now and love so much? This sometimes leads to self sabotage. I’m very afraid to move along my own path in fear that I will leave my current relationship behind.

    Since my last post, I took the council’s advice and spoke with my partner regarding my desire to have a child. He has put a lot of thought into it and has taken on a greater role with my 6 yr old, which quite obviously overjoys me. He says that he can see us having a child and would like to do so with me, but that he would like to wait until his current business ventures settle down a bit. Perhaps in a couple of years.

    I feel anxious to expand my family, to have a baby, to finally meet the soul who has already taught me so much. Perhaps I feel anxious to have a baby with Adam right away because of the fear I have of losing him. The council had suggested not to rush in or out of the relationship, but I wonder if time plays a role in whether or not that same soul will make its return.

    I also wonder if the council suggests waiting a bit myself? I am on a divine mission and very much know what I want to do with my life. How can keep my negative or fearful thoughts away while I manifest the joy, love and success that we all want and deserve? Is it possible to forge my own path and still grow with someone who’s path may differ from mine?

    Thank you again. From the very core of my heart.

    Wendy

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    Comment by Wendy Aronsson | January 25, 2017

  516. Hi, Vacha. Thank you for your questions. We’ll ask The Council and post their response on our blog. Love, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 25, 2017

  517. Hey Bob/Cynthia,

    It’s Vacha. I have a question for the council and I would greatly appreciate if you please discuss it with them. I am going through a life-changing crisis and would appreciate council’s guidance in that.

    I have numerous problems in my marriage. Nowadays the issues are getting worse – at every level – that it is impossible to stay in the relationship.

    As this is my second marriage and I have a young kid, I really wanted this to work out. I am not really sure if this was a pre birth plan of my spirit to always land up with abusive marriages. I am feeling so depressed and stressed about my marriage.

    I am thinking of going to India soon. I am also very much worried about my career. I need to find new job there. It is going to be a difficult time to manage social pressure of failed marriages, a kid and a job. I also have a big regret that I never end up with a loving companion. I also feel suicidal at times but then I think of my kid and my responsibilities towards him, which keeps me going.

    Evaluating all my options and my life with him over here, I am thinking going to India is the only option I have. Can The Council see happiness in my life – marriage wise, career wise – or do I have so many tough lessons to learn in this lifetime.

    I really appreciate your time and effort. Please get back to me on this question – I would really appreciate the council’s view point in the events of life and the reason behind it continuously happening to me.

    Thanks,
    Vacha

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | January 24, 2017

  518. Hello Bob and Cynthia and the Council, its Audrey again. I want to thank you for what you do.

    I have a couple of questions in regard the The Book of Mormon. I have two friends in the LDS church who perform temple work where they act as stand-ins for posthumous baptisms of the dead. They also have stated they will baptize me after I die which I think is very loving of them.

    Anyway, I have tried to learn more about their religion. I really hope I don’t offend anyone – I am just curious.

    I read the first half of The Book of Mormon and found it difficult to follow so I read more on the founder, Joseph Smith. Was Joseph Smith visited by the Angel Moroni? Who is/was the Angel Moroni? And so Joseph Smith translated The Book of Mormon from gold plates using the Urim and Thummim. Did he actually have the Urim and Thummim? Did these gold plates really exist? How was he able to do this translation? If so, were the gold plates translated correctly? It seems that translating something like that would be a very difficult task. Did the events in the Book of Mormon actually take place? Did they take place in this reality or a different one? Is The Book of Mormon a reality that exists only in spirit? Or is it a work of fiction? What was the spiritual purpose behind the creation of the Book of Mormon?

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    Comment by Audrey | January 24, 2017

  519. Thank you both so much!

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    Comment by Kate | January 18, 2017

  520. Hi, Kate. We’re glad you found our website and that it’s brought you peace and answered many questions. We’ll ask The Council about the challenges you desire to overcome and post they’re reply when it’s ready. Love, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 18, 2017

  521. Hi, Diana. We’ll ask The Council your question about your relationship and post their reply when it’s ready. Love, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 18, 2017

  522. Hello Cynthia and Bob

    I stumbled upon this website and I can’t begin to tell you want peace it has brought me regarding my two abortions and the passing of my beloved dog. Thank you for the work you do, you have answered so many questions and put my soul at rest on this matter.

    I would like to ask the council a question though, I have no idea what my purpose on earth is, I feel like a spectator a lot of the time, my days are like a loop. It almost doesn’t feel real. I suffer with anxiety and it plagues my mind, I can’t seem to relax and enjoy being here. I am fairly poor at doing well at a job, I feel like I have made the incorrect choices in life and that I have very little future as I cannot escape my bad habits and faults. I see the posibilities in life but I don’t have the courage or self discipline to peruse them. I think I also over think things and this dissuades me. I also have a big issue with authority and constructed systems in the workplace. How can I over come these challenges so I can be more. I live in fear of my own life, and I am failing horribly at it.

    Many thanks, Kate

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    Comment by Kate | January 17, 2017

  523. Hello, I’ve been in a relationship now for 6 months and am very torn about whether to continue or not. I’m keen to settle down now as I’m 42 years old. On one hand, we have a lovely, deep, authentic connection, and compatibility on many, many levels, and feel very good together. On the other hand, I find my partner’s life choices, circumstances, and struggle to cope with the daily practicalities of life very unsettling. Including irresponsible financial and work decisions – he seems stuck in life. I feel that perhaps I do not respect him enough. I feel he is not stepping into his masculinity enough (for me), so I end up feeling slightly resentful that I can’t relax and feel like a protected woman. I do however have compassion for his own childhood wounds. The thought of ending it feels almost unbearable, and yet I feel totally stuck with moving forwards (i.e. moving in with him or marrying him in the future)… Do the spirit guides have any insight on this matter please? Many thanks and best wishes, Diana x

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    Comment by dianawalles | January 14, 2017

  524. Thank you so very much. You have made me smile and appreciate my life even more. Many blessings to you! Mary

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    Comment by Mary | January 4, 2017

  525. Hi, Mary. Good question. We’ll ask The Council as soon as we get a chance and post their response. Stay tuned. Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 22, 2016

  526. Dear Council,

    I’ve only just found you, yet you resonate with me deeply. Let me preface my question with the fact that I have a wonderful life and family whom I appreciate immensely. I was born into a vastly different situation, but somehow I worked through it. Luckily, I came into the world with some emotional intelligence and learned from many teachers along the way.

    I’m not unhappy, yet I feel like the professional life that I thought I would have isn’t happening. I sense that there are many friends and family who feel the same way for me. The irony is that I’m happier now than I was when my professional life was progressing “as planned” so to speak. I’m a nicer and better person as well. I could chalk it up to “life turns out for the best,” though I still feel like I’m missing something or that I’m failing to do something I’d always thought I was destined to be.

    Is that feeling just a vestige of a past life and past expectations?

    Thank you for all you do for the world,
    Mary

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    Comment by Mary | December 22, 2016

  527. Hi, Jim. We’ll ask The Council about your anxiety and your purpose in life, and we’ll post their response on this website when it’s done. Good questions. Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 17, 2016

  528. Good questions, Frankie. We’ll ask The Council as soon as we have time, and post the session on our website. Stay tuned. Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 17, 2016

  529. Hi Cynthia and Bob,

    I am experiencing issues related to developing romantic relationships. I have been involved in long term relationships with men who ultimately do not want to develop partnership and commitment with me.

    Currently I am friends with someone who I fell in love with several years ago, but our romantic relationship didn’t work out because we could not seem to land on the same page. He is currently in a relationship with someone else that he intends to marry. As a result I have experienced feelings of anger, sadness, resentment and confusion. I see him showing love and a willingness to commit to his girlfriend that he never showed to me and it hurts. My friends tell me I should stop being friends with him.

    I have also been in other relationships where the men I’m involved with show little interest in developing a relationship with me, and I wonder where this pattern originated. The questions I have are:

    1. What did I come into this lifetime seeking to learn about love.
    2. Why do I still feel a connection to my friend (like, did we know each other in a past life).
    3. How do I break this pattern of becoming involved with men that do not want to build a romantic relationship with me?

    I would so appreciate any insight you and the council provides.

    Blessings to you.

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    Comment by Frankie | December 10, 2016

  530. I almost forgot. Several nights after that, I woke up and Joe was laying on his back, eyes open, and talking. He said, “ok, I understand.” I thought he was talking to me. I asked him, “what do you understand?” He continued to stare forward and said, “I see it. It’s green and had a tail.” And that was all.

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    Comment by Audrey | December 5, 2016

  531. Hello. My name is Jim, I’m a married father of two young children. I’ve struggled with obsessive-compulsive disorder most of my life and wonder how I can get better. How can I not worry so much or have so much anxiety? Is there a reason behind this disorder?

    I’ve also struggled with finding my true purpose in this lifetime. I’m currently working at a memory loss center as a maintenance supervisor and I feel confused as to what path to take career-wise. I hope The Council can help guide me in the right direction. Thanks for your time.

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    Comment by Jim | December 5, 2016

  532. Thank you. My boyfriend is very well educated and has a good job. He is very conservative. So this event struck me as quite odd. He talked for at least a half hour. He also talked about seeing dogs from his past on “Dog Star.” I just kept talking to him. He almost sounded autistic when he was speaking.

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    Comment by Audrey | December 4, 2016

  533. Hi, Audrey. Very interesting conversation with your boyfriend while he was sleeping. This is new information for us. We’ll ask The Council what they think of it and post their answer on our blog as soon as we can. Thanks for asking your question.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 4, 2016

  534. Hi, Linda. We imagine it’s difficult feeling down after you’ve had an energy healing. We’ll be happy to ask The Council what you can do to get unstuck and re-establish your sense of joy. Hang in there.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 4, 2016

  535. Hi Cynthia and Bob,

    I’m wondering if you can ask the council about an experience I had a few months ago.

    My partner Joe started talking in his sleep. His voice was slightly changed from his normal speech. I started a conversation with him as he slept. I asked him what he was talking about and he said, “Dog Star.” I asked him where he was and he said, “Dogstar .” I asked what is dogstar and he said that it’s where all dogs are and people go there to get their dogs.

    I asked if there is “cat star.” He said that yes there is catstar. He said “I don’t really like it there, I mean, they’re nice to look at but they get on top of everything.”

    We talked about dog star a bit more and then I asked, “who am I talking to right now?” He said “Joe. Not Joe-person.” I asked what is the difference between Joe and Joe-person. He said that “usually you talk to Joe-person. But now you’re talking to Joe.” I asked where Joe is and he said “person-star.”

    So Cynthia and Bob, do you think the council could shed some light on any of this? It was an interesting and strange conversation.

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    Comment by Audrey | November 29, 2016

  536. Good morning…..I have a question concerning distant energy healings…..I recently had a distant energy healing done to clear my aura of anything negative……since then I have felt down, not much joy and seem to have lost my flow in life ….. will this pass or is there something I can do to reastablish my joy, luck, and to get unstuck of where I am right now ……I was in a flow before and seem to be disconnected now in some ways….what direction should I take ? I feel so closed in many areas and thought the energy healing could help clear my path…….thank-you for anything that could help ….Linda

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    Comment by Linda | November 28, 2016

  537. Hi, Carmela. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your eyelid spasms and if they have any recommendations for returning your eyes to normal. We’ll post our response when it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love, Bob & Cynthia.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 12, 2016

  538. HELLO,
    I was hoping you could help me. I have had noticeable eyelid spasms since early June. I have been to a few eye doctors who could not help me. I am a healthy woman and can’t understand why this is happening. What can I do to make them go away.

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    Comment by Carmela | November 12, 2016

  539. Hi, Megan. As soon as we get a chance we’ll ask The Council your question about bullying and post their response as soon as it’s ready. Love, Bob & Cynthia.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 10, 2016

  540. Hi, Marie. We were able to ask The Council your question last night and as soon as the recording is ready we’ll post it on our website. Hang in there. Love, Bob & Cynthia.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 10, 2016

  541. Hi, Lynn. We’re glad to hear your daughter was born healthy. We were able to ask The Council your question last night and we’ll publish a post on it as soon as the recording and post are ready. Love, Bob & Cynthia.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 10, 2016

  542. Hi, Jolanda. We did a session with The Council last night and asked them your question. When the recording is ready we’ll publish a post on this question. Love, Bob & Cynthia.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 10, 2016

  543. Dear Cynthia and Bob,

    In high school I got bullied for many years. I have all these painful memories of being disliked by SO MANY people, many times for no reason at all. I felt as if there was something wrong with me.

    I never understood why I attract so much hate from others. It seems that people either really genuinely like me or they dislike me. I am tired of triggering people. I realized that the bullying made me distrustful towards others and even to this day I find it hard to believe that someone would love me and accept me for who I am.

    Right when the bullying started, I used to be very avoidant and really closed myself to others with the fear of rejection (social phobia), but fortunately now I have changed that. Now I have my friends and even a boyfriend, but I always fear they will leave me or that they will finally realize that I am not enough.

    Before the bullying took place, I used to believe I was a very likable person. After the bullying, I thought everyone would end up hating and rejecting me.

    Why did I get bullied in the first place? Did my soul learn anything from it? Did my bullies learn anything? Sometimes I believe that they never felt any guilt and right now many of them are super successful people who probably don’t even care that they mentally and emotionally tortured me for years.

    I don’t want revenge, but where is the justice? I’ve been insulted, spat on, even physically assaulted. But none of these people ever apologized. Did I have a contract with them? How can I remove the shame of having been bullied? I still feel a bit inferior to others and I know my self-esteem should be very high.
    Thanks so much,

    Megan

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    Comment by Megan | November 10, 2016

  544. Hi Cynthia and Bob,
    I would like to understand why I often get stuck at the same point all the time.

    I´m a 36-year old woman, but only few times I’ve worked even though I have a master degree. Usually I get a job for few months in another subject different from what I studied. My parents give me money and I work like a housewife for them.

    Also, I haven’t had any romantic relationship in my life. I only had one for few months and obviously when everything broke up I was devastated.

    I used to feel that I don´t want to be alive because for me everything is really so difficult. It is not suicidal thinking, it is more that I have the feeling that I don´t belong to this dimension.

    Sometimes I feel that I’m a kind of autistic person… or I’m just a kind of plant that breaths and eats. I have been with many therapists, but in the end I return to stay in the same place.

    Thank you if you can help me.

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    Comment by Marie | November 9, 2016

  545. Bob, Cynthia and The Council,
    I’ve followed your blog for a time and have a question that I haven’t fully been able to work out in my head. During my last pregnancy, I developed fairly severe OCD, which presented itself as Germaphobia. I’ve battled with OCD compulsions in the past, but they usually revolve more around holding on to feelings of guilt or general worry of my own health. This time it went to an unprecedented level of stress and exhaustion.

    I thought several times a day, every day, up until I had my daughter, that I had contracted a germ that would silently kill her in the womb, all while I was unaware. Nearly daily situations would arise; either by accidentally having “dirty” water splash in my eye, eating food that just so happened to be undercooked, etcetera that could possibly cause this bacteria to claim my daughter’s life without me being made aware until it was too late. I was convinced that I would be one of the unlucky people that would experience such a loss, and all because I wasn’t careful enough, hence the ritualistic and obsessive steps I would take to avoid the possibility.

    I’ve since overcome my condition, but the idea I can’t seem to connect in regards to thoughts having the power to physically manifest and create, either good or bad, then why did I have a healthy baby girl?

    Now don’t get me wrong, I couldn’t be more happy and thankful that my daughter is thriving and healthy (it’s all I ever wanted). But, I know all too well how much effort and energy I put into these fearful thoughts, and it really stole ALL of my joy and affected those close to me dramatically. I just don’t understanding how it didn’t create the negative outcomes that I feared.

    I feel like I felt that feeling of loss with every fiber of my being (when I go through an episode, I get this warped idea that if I prepare myself for the worst, then when it actually happens it won’t be as bad). But I felt it in just the way you say to feel for and imagine having the things you want to bring into your reality; to manifest.

    So while I’m thankful beyond belief that this is not the case for me and my daughter, and these negative ideas did not come into my reality…what does that mean for the opposite positive thoughts, feelings and focus…I have no doubts that I put much energy and effort into my fear, so if the law of attraction is impartial and acts off of thought and vibration…why didn’t I manifest my worst fears, and what does that mean about my ability to manifest my desires?

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    Comment by Lynn | November 8, 2016

  546. Thank you Bob, Cynthia, and The Council, I highly appreciate this. <3.

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    Comment by Amber Choisella | November 4, 2016

  547. Dear Bob, Cynthia and the Council,
    I few months back I wrote to you about my husband who is much beloved but emotionally abusive. Your advice to me was that he wouldn’t change, and I needed to protect my children by leaving him if I couldn’t do it for myself.

    I’ve spent months pondering your response and attempting to find a better solution, but am now beginning to see that he is most likely incapable of change. I haven’t 100% given up, but am 99% there. Which is very sad for me.

    My 2 previous relationships (1 was a marriage) were superficial, born out of my insecurity, and ended fairly easily once I realised my error. But this time I married for love, and truly believed (as he says he did) that I was marrying for life. We have a lovely daughter together and I can barely imagine a life without my much adored husband. My heart fills with joy and love just thinking of him. Unfortunately now, it also fills with anger and pain, and we have only been married 4 years.

    My question is: I feel leaving him is probably my only option, but I can barely think about it as my heart feels like it’s being ripped from my chest and violently smashed, day after day after day when I think of my future, and lost hopes and dreams. I don’t know how I’m going to bear the pain and disappointment. Just thinking of it is unbearable. I’m not into drugs or alcohol, but at the moment drinking is looking very appealing, and I’ve even considered antidepressants, something I’m very against. I don’t have any skills to deal with the crushing pain of heartbreak, and don’t know where to go for help. I’m having counselling, and try to talk to my friends often, but nothing seems to ease the deep cutting pain and despair that I feel inside.

    I’ve been in a deep hole of depression once before and really don’t want to go there again. But I also don’t want to numb myself. Can you help me please? I’m terrified to take the next step. I feel like it entails consciously jumping into an abyss, which is counter-intuitive to me.

    With loving gratitude,
    Jolanda

    P.S.: I’m also very worried about how I will cope financially and whether he will allow me to stay in our house. I want to stay here for my children and my work, but fear that he will want to punish me and will try to hurt me by making me sell it, leaving us homeless and jobless, and taking away the security I had before I married him. Legally, he would be entitled to do that. Do you have any advice? This is another reason I’m hesitating to leave. Thank you.

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    Comment by Jolanda | November 4, 2016

  548. Hi, Amber. We’ll be happy to ask The Council if you’re on the right track with your spiritual readings, and if you can eventually make this a full time career. We’ll post your answer as soon as it’s ready.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 29, 2016

  549. Hello Cynthia and Bob,

    Please ask the Council on my behalf if I’m on the right track of the direction I’m currently taking with doing my spiritual readings. I want to know if I can eventually make this a full time career.

    Thank you and Blessings to you both,
    Amber Choisella

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    Comment by Amber Choisella | October 28, 2016

  550. Thanks for narrowing down your questions, Ashley. We’ll get The Council’s answers as soon as we can and we’ll post them in a blog.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 26, 2016

  551. Well if I had to narrow it down to what I really want to hear the most from the council, it would probably lean more towards my own personal “story” of past lives and the one I have now, about my abortion and that soul and possibly my relationship with my boyfriend now.

    And how everything plays out into what I’m really supposed to do in life…where do my talents lie and why am I having trouble finding them?

    I have many philosophical questions, (I’ve come up with even more today), but maybe they will have a place in the comments box.

    Mostly I’d love some detail that could help me feel more sure that there is something to it all…then by default maybe I would have less philosophical questions…

    The only thing that I would like to add to this or switch if needed, would be chakras and what that may have to do with some of the issues that I have dealt with in my past or may be dealing with now.

    I really appreciate the effort that both of you put into the blog! Thank you so much. I feel very grateful to have the opportunity to even ask such questions. I got very caught up in my ramblings and really need you to know that! I hope I’ve narrowed it down in a way that the questions might easily transition onto the next while still being fairly concise. If not just pick what either of you might intuitively feel would benefit!

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    Comment by Ashley | October 24, 2016

  552. Hi, Ashley. Thank you very much for your questions. We’re glad you took time to review other people’s questions and The Council’s answers. And we’re glad these questions and answers helped you with your own questions and has given you more specific questions.

    For the purpose of this blog, it would help us help you if you could narrow your questions down to a specific area, ask just a few questions, and keep your comment as brief as possible while still making your questions understood. We understand you’re curious about religion, how thoughts can affect your reality, extrasensory perception, and your abortion. We suggest taking some time to think about your most pressing current question for The Council and trying to ask it as succinctly as possible. You’re welcome to ask follow up questions at a latter date, or questions on another topic. We expect to be around for a while.

    Thanks in advance. If it’s too difficult to relate your question to a specific area, consider making an appointment for a paying phone session where you’d be able to ask your questions directly to The Council and get their response. We look forward to hearing from you.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 23, 2016

  553. Bob, Cynthia, and The Council, thank you for all of the wisdom and guidance you give people. You’ve been a tremendous help to me in the past, and I would love some more guidance. My thirteen year old son is extremely sensitive to energy, and he also experiences anxiety. I believe at least some of the anxiety is because he picks up on energies that his brain doesn’t understand, so his brain creates anxiety. Do you see this too? Going to middle school became so anxiety provoking and overwhelming last year that he ended up having such severe panic attacks that I pulled him out of school and am homeschooling. We’ve been working with a naturopathic doctor who is also an intuitive healer, to help my son, and although he is somewhat better, but still struggles with anxiety. What can you tell me about my son’s pre-birth planning around his struggling with anxiety? We thought it was all because of being in school, and yet, since we’ve pulled him out, it’s still very much here, and causing a lot of grief. I guess I’m looking for reassurance that things won’t always be this hard for my son, and that he’ll grow up able to be independent, hold a job, etc.- all the things a parent wants for their child. I try to hold in my heart and mind that he’ll be fine, but it’s hard when right now, he’s not.

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    Comment by mariner2mother | October 23, 2016

  554. Hi Cynthia and Bob!
    A couple days ago I posted a question about the spiritual path that I should be walking and questions on how to get there, what religion is right, which is wrong (with a little of my background story). I was able to find previous questions that helped me with my own question, though now I have more specified questions.

    I gather that religion is more like a catalyst to the source, and there are many ways to tap in? And if I am to be under the impression that we create our own reality, wouldn’t that mean all religions are in fact valid, because people believe them? Is that the only reason why? Or are these enlightened or holy people just hanging around somewhere independent of our beliefs on their reality? Basically, is their reality different than what people believe it to be?

    Who makes up the council? What beliefs do they hold that make their reality real if that’s the case. And what of people that don’t believe that they’re real? Does that make them not real? I’m guessing not, so I’m hoping the council can explain!!! (Not intending for this particular question to be disrespectful to the council at all, it just aids in getting my main question across!)

    Am I real only because I believe I am? What keeps little children from flying when they jump off a roof truly believing that they can? What stops the chaos from ensuing if everyone’s thoughts can literally be reality? There must be something that we can collectively deem true that governs the reality that we are creating, both in physical and spiritual. Otherwise, person 1 could truly believe person 2 was a sinner destined for hell, while person 2 believes that they are to reincarnate and become a tree? Which is true? Does the tree become hell, and if so, hell for whom? How could they both be true?

    I’m hoping you’ll bear with me. I know I’ve asked a lot of questions, but I’m just making sure you’re getting my central theme. There must be some foundation on which to build, right? What about the third eye and the chakras. I feel like this would be what was being used during the spiritual experiences that people have (you guys may not think that at all), but some believe that you can’t even begin to attain these abilities unless you decalcify your pineal gland and open your chakras in a certain way to receive the energy. And yet others eat junk food and drink and bathe in fluoridated water and even have negative outlooks on life and still claim to have these extra-sensory or spiritual abilities. Which is it? It can’t be both can it? And if it can, then how does that tie in to my centrally themed question above? It seems vague, and I just want clarity.

    I don’t want to work so hard in tuning in to a frequency that I can’t because I bathe in fluoridated water and eat like an average American at least half the week. Do I need to change my life that drastically? Is this ability elusive and difficult to come by? A road laid with rules and restrictions? I’ve tried to see auras, to listen for clues, to believe things, but it’s hard to couple it with an analytical mind. For me nothing solid ever comes through.

    If I were you Cynthia, I feel I’d know for sure because of that first-hand experience, and it would be so hard for me to stray when people didn’t share my beliefs because I heard/saw them before my very eyes (eye?). Surely this would expand my consciousness and awareness in this lifetime and so be available to me? How can I make this my reality? Or did I already choose my reality…Or am I always choosing and therefore changing it? Ohh my. I am sorry haha, what a ramble.

    Please, please don’t take these contemplations the wrong way, I mean no offense and want with all my heart and soul to believe that I’m headed in the right direction, which I feel is why I’ve been drawn here in the first place and have the opportunity to ask the very questions that could give me the boost that I need.

    I had a personal question in my post from before about the abortion I had in 2014. I mentioned I was vague in hopes that some detail could be provided, as I have noticed the precise detail some people have been given in their responses and I’d be lying if I didn’t have some high hopes haha. I’ve always wondered about my past life and how it affects my desires, aversions and decision making now, if at all as well. I have trust that the council will know precisely what to say to ease or sway my little rambling heart haha. Thank you so much in advance for entertaining my curious self!
    With love, Ashley

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    Comment by Ashley | October 18, 2016

  555. Hi, Nacole. We’re glad you found our website. Thanks for the background and the story of your abortion. It sounds like you’re experiencing the love that The Council says is always available to us, particularly from the soul you aborted. It sounds like the desire for change that you’re experiencing is all for good things.

    We’ll ask The Council your questions as soon as we have a chance, and post their answer when it’s ready. Please be patient. We have several questions to answer and it sometimes can take many weeks before we’re able to post your response. Keep focusing on the love and peace you’re feeling. Love and light, Cynthia and Bob

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 9, 2016

  556. Hi, Darla. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about past lives and were you psychic in any of them. We’ll also try to get at the root of your fear. We’ll post The Council’s response when it’s ready. Love Cynthia and Bob

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 9, 2016

  557. Hello,

    My name is Nacole. I had an abortion today. My whole life I had read the Bible. I have prayed over everything. Honestly, up until today I despised people who had abortions. I thought it was selfish. I was very judgmental. So here I am today laying in bed in complete peace. Let me explain.

    I have had a total of 5 pregnancies. 1 whom was still born around 7 months. His name Edward. His father and I were best friends until the pregnancy happened. Then I became evil and only wanted to ruin his life. He insisted I abort him in 2007. I refused. I told him if he is meant to be here he would be here. If he was not then God would take him.

    My oldest, who is now 17, was a preemie born at 1 pound in 1998.

    My other one who is 16 was a struggle to get here, but she was born on time just low birth weight.

    And lastly my baby, who is 2, was born a little small but okay. I had a great team of doctors. However her father also left me in my 7th month.

    I was devastated by the demise of that relationship. All of the men in my life seemed to move on once a bigger commitment was introduced. Often times leaving me in an extreme amount of pain and loneliness.

    So now, today, I found myself in an abortion clinic. I was shaking and crying and praying for forgiveness. I thought I would become suicidal. I thought I would have extreme anxiety. I already different [sic] from PTSD from a history of abuse.

    The baby I aborted was a product of an affair. I am not in a committed, monogamous relationship but he is.

    This last relationship I felt happened because of the severe lack of love in my life. The loneliness was unbearable. The heartbreak immeasurable as I was sure my last baby’s father was my “soul partner” but he moved on.

    I clung to this man because he had a pulse. I felt pretty again. It was never my intention to take him from his current relationship, but to just stop the loneliness for a moment.

    Well he would say things like, “You are going to have my baby,” and “Her name will be Brooklyn.” Then of course when I presented him with pregnancy he fled, which I expected.

    Because of the low birth weights and loss of my son I just couldn’t go through it alone. I develop hyperemesis (constant vomiting) every time. Severe anxiety. Placenta previa. Severe headaches and constipation. My last pregnancy I had visiting nurses.

    So I decided because he was not interested in becoming a father and I couldn’t be sick alone. I aborted.

    This is where the odd part happens.

    I sit in the room waiting for the doctor. I am flooded with emotions. He asks me if I am sure. I say I have to be sure. I cannot raise a baby alone, and getting through the pregnancy alone would cause a lot of stress and medical issues.

    After the procedure I am loopy. I come home and my beloved friend is caring for me. Buying me food, picking up prescriptions, and buying heating pads for the severe cramping and bleeding that was supposed to occur. I was preparing myself for battle suicidal thoughts and extreme fatigue.

    That has not happened. When my mother called to check on me I told her…”I feel peaceful. I feel like my little girl will be back.” I also said, “More than guilt or pain, I feel love.” It is hard to explain.

    She must think I’m losing my mind. In addition, I have almost no bleeding at all. I do not have cramping. I have been laying in bed thinking about the baby and all I can do is smile at the thought of her.

    Today I have felt an immense amount of need for change. Change to stop smoking. Change to lighten up on my drinking. Change to lose weight. Change to stop letting people stay in my life who treat me so poorly. Change to move homes and even jobs. It is so odd that I would have an abortion and start thinking of these things. But it is truly what I have been thinking about.

    So much so I typed in Google, “I feel at peace with my abortion.” And “Why would my abortion make me want to change my life,” which brought me here.

    I must say, I sat on my couch with my jaw hanging reading the stories of abortion on here. The advice and the meanings, it is like you were reading my mind.

    I guess the only questions I have are….

    1. How difficult will the process of changing my life become?

    2. What if I fail at it?

    3. Will I ever get past my two year old’s father, in order to find someone again?

    4. How is this termination changing my thoughts and beliefs so rapidly?

    5. Why do I not feel guilty?

    6. Will she come back to me?

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    Comment by Nacole | October 8, 2016

  558. Hello again, it’s Darla. I’ve had psychic experiences all my life. I’ve always felt deeply connected with the spiritual. Still, I’ve struggled with the anxiety this can bring. I feel like I have this deep-rooted fear buried deep in my psyche. My question is what were some of my past lives like and did I have this ability before? Thank you for any help.

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    Comment by truthjournal | October 7, 2016

  559. Hi, Delfos. We’re glad to hear you’re feeling better about the abortion you had around a year ago.

    We’ll ask The Council about the information you received from this medium and post a response as soon as we can. It sounds to us like this medium was more interested in scheduling more sessions with you than she was in providing the kind of spiritual guidance we hear from The Council.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 2, 2016

  560. Hi, Vacha. We’ve done a session with The Council on these questions and we’ll get it posted as soon as we can. We can tell you now that The Council says don’t be in a hurry to move back to India.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 2, 2016

  561. Dear Cynthia and Bob,

    I had an abortion around a year ago and just recently I am starting to feel so much better and clear in my mind of what has happened. I cried so much that I let go of the emotions and feel free again.

    However, 2 days ago I went for a medium consultation and feel very anxious and scared of what this medium told me. The medium said to me that my aborted child was a girl who is now very angry and sad from not being able to be born.

    I told the medium that before the abortion I prayed to my aborted soul and asked it for forgiveness and that all I felt from this soul was pure love and acceptance. I also felt it was going to be a boy, not a girl. Then the medium said “how would you feel if I had to kill you now?”. She seemed to try to make me feel guilty and then said that I needed her help in further sessions to release that soul, “because it is not at peace and it is attached to you in a negative way”.

    She then said that if I do not solve this situation with her, I will not be able to get pregnant or that my future child will be a very angry “fucked up” one. Also she said that I had personality problems that I must change or I will be a crazy woman and that my grandmother is my guardian angel and she is worried about me.

    I know my baby is in heaven right now, not with me anymore and that it was a boy, not a girl. Please tell me whether this medium was right because I do not know what I can do with that information,

    Thank you for your help,

    Delfos

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    Comment by Delfos | October 1, 2016

  562. Hey Bob/Cynthia,
    Hope you guys are going good. This is Vacha.

    Thanks much for the answer for the question I had on abortion. I am starting to think what was suggested by Counsel – the reason why the pregnancy occurred in the first place.I am thinking a lot about what I want to next in my life – the kind of work, the place I want to settle down eventually etc.

    I want to actually eventually want to move to India. The issue with that is – I have loads of issues with my in-laws and I move to India, it can be a big problem for me. It may even drift my husband and me apart to the point of separation.

    This is my second marriage for me and my husband. I actually want this marriage to work for the sake of my son. and Although I want to move to India eventually – I have a fear that My husband and I may be separated because of the family issues that we will have there.

    My own family is in India and I will get a good support from them if I move there. As I am the only child that they have, it will be good if I move there for them. I miss them so much here and they miss me too.

    Career wise, it will be better if I stay here – it will be tough to find a job in India with the experience that I have in my domain. That’s what I think as of now.

    I am very confused about this. After this pregnancy and abortion happened – it is sort of a wake up call for what I want to do next.

    This is not a urgent question. When ever you and the counsel have some time, Can you please suggest me what is my learning lessons spiritually – with respect to the relationships I share with my husband and my mother in law and other family members ? Will it be a good move if I go to India or is it better to stay here and do the job that I am doing and kind of going ahead with the flow.

    I am thinking about the purpose of my life and the lessons that I have learn. My life had many ups and downs from past few years. It seems to a constant struggle. My relationship is my husband is sometimes good and sometimes very bad. I am really not sure what the future holds with respect to that. Is there anything I can do to make the relationships among my husband, myself, my parents and his parents better.

    Thanks so much for the answers that the Counsel gave me. Thanks to Bob and Cynthia for taking a time to help people. I am deeply grateful for that.

    Regards,

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | September 23, 2016

  563. Hi Counsil,
    My name is Vacha Dave and I am from India. I presently live in Virginia with my husband and my son.
    I am very religious person by faith and I strongly feel that god directed me to your website to seek some guidance regarding my very complicated situation I am in.

    I am two months pregnant and I am thinking of having an abortion because my health condition, any additional support and the Job that I started recently which is necessary for me and my son in the future too. In case even if I want to go ahead with this pregnancy , my health and my condition is not helping this without any additional support.

    Although I never really planned this pregnancy, I feel extremely guilty for the fact that I would be killing my baby. Although I don’t really know the gender of the baby – I think I have seen him in many of my vivid imaginations playing with my younger son – I call him Monu – A chubby,foodie younger son – who unfortunately will never happen in reality. My health is not permitting this – I have extreme Nausea and vomiting – same which happened for the first pregnancy. It was very difficult because of ongoing issues with my husband – it was very trying time for me and my family.

    I have nevery purposefully hurt anybody my whole life of 30 years. I have always loved and morally lived a very correct life. This is the biggest decision I had to take because because of my health and my conditions. It seems correct to me but this guilt of killing my own baby – and not giving him chance to live is trubling me a lot.

    I have gone through various posts you have online. I have tried talking to baby, Crying, asking for forgiveness, asking god in meditation – but I somehow want forgiveness from my baby. I think he is not getting the treatment he deserves from me, and If I can ask for Monu’s forgiveness and I want god to take him to heaven.

    I will chant and pray to god as much as I can for him. Can you please help me with this ?

    I have read many of the online articles from this site, and the fact that it could be a plan between my spirit and baby’s spirit and I will eventually meet him – helps me to deal with it in a better way

    Thanks a ton in advance for helping millions like me to fight depression and guilt that we have from having abortion.

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | September 20, 2016

  564. Hi, Janice. We’ll ask The Council about your relationship and post their response as soon as we can.

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  565. I am compelled to ask The Council a question. I felt love and a soul connection to my partner, but he has pulled away. He betrayed our relationship with another. Can you please tell me what is going on and whether we might reconciling? Thank you.

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    Comment by Janice | September 19, 2016

  566. Hi,

    A year ago I had an abortion which made me clinically depressed. The sadness faded away greatly but I still have problems with depression. I feel like I have a chemical imbalance in my brain as a result of the trauma and I am not quite sure how to fix it. I am scared that I will start having depression for the rest of my life. But I am not comfortable with taking antidepressants. Please give me an idea on how to get back to normal and avoid relapses. How can I have a regular sleep pattern?

    Since the abortion I go to sleep everyday at 4 in the morning and wake up at 2 pm. Then I have no energy to do anything and have a constant headache all day. I cry every day and feel like I am living way under my potential. This abortion destroyed my mind and I want my self back. The abortion itself was not that traumatic, but the experience at the abortion clinic still brings me to an anxiety attack. I want to let go of those dark moments and move on but don’t know how to. And I still feel like that baby wanted to live as my child. Will he ever return to me?

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    Comment by Sarah | September 3, 2016

  567. Hi again! I hope I’m not bothering you and I don’t mean to be impatient, but I have another question to add. If not this soul, then will there be another? I’m really wondering about a baby in my future, and I’m wondering about my agreement with Adam. Because I’ve been quite insecure with him, since this whole thing. Although, I want more than anything to have a real chance with this man. Which is a first for me. I’ve always had a partner but never one that I really wanted to create a LIFE with. And because of this, I’m scared silly. I’m also scared to bring up the fact that I really do wish to become a mother again someday in the near-ish future. Please tell me if I’m meant to walk the parental/life partner walk with this man. And what I can do to ensure that I’m being my most loving and supportive self, to myself and to Adam? Thank you!!!

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    Comment by Wendy Aronsson | September 2, 2016

  568. Our pleasure, Laura.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 28, 2016

  569. Ahh thank you 🙂 so sorry I wonder why I never found it before. I’ve had a good read and listen and am going to try and meditate and work on my mind being fear based. I hope I get to the end of this and wonder why I was so worried.

    Thanks so much

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    Comment by Laura | August 28, 2016

  570. Hi, Laura. We did reply to your earlier question in our post, “Is My Pregnancy a Mistake?“. Have a look.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 28, 2016

  571. Hi,

    I posted a while back but never received a reply 😦 I am pregnant with number 2 and just feel completely anxious and scared about it. I fell pregnant back in 2014 and instantly regretted it and then miscarried. After the miscarriage I decided I didn’t want my daughter to be alone and it’s taken 18 months to fall again. Ever since finding out I feel the same regret and have wanted to miscarry. I feel awful as I should feel lucky after all my fertility issues but I have a massive phobia of being sick and anything medical and scared of c section again (which I think I will do)

    Why do I feel such regret and fear over something I wanted. I’m so scared of ruining our lovely life and starting all over again. Can the council tell me this is the right thing for us as a family and shed any light. Will I get through this? Will I regret this baby if it turns our life upside down?

    I hate feeling this way and praying for something to go wrong but I’m so scared of doing it all again to the point it’s all consuming.

    Thanks so much

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    Comment by Laura | August 28, 2016

  572. Hi there. I’m writing after endlessly searching for spiritual advice on abortions. I found you all through a Google search, on “spiritual healing after an abortion”. I found that you’ve discussed the matter before and you were able to answer a lot of my questions, but I have one very specific question. Am I able to invite that same soul back to us?

    I’m not sure why I got pregnant when I did. I’m not sure HOW I chose to terminate the pregnancy, and I’m not sure when I’ll move on. But I’ve suffered terribly, with guilt and sadness since.

    I have a five yr old son, have miscarried once and have had two abortions. The first was during my teenage years. A decision I’ve always felt secure with. But this past year, at the age of 32, recently separated and in a new relationship with a man who “has” a 1% chance of getting anyone pregnant…I in fact became pregnant. I made the decision based on everyone else. Especially the father. I didn’t want to trap him in any way. I didn’t want to hurt my son or my ex husband, but I wanted that baby. And yet I still sent him back to God.

    I believe deeply in soul agreements and the lessons that come from them. I’m certain God was with me during that time, but I’m still so very sad about it. I’m afraid we’ll never have that chance again to be parents to that child or any other. And since the termination, I’ve felt a great need to become a mother again.

    Please. I would very much like to know if that soul will make a return to Adam and me. I’ve looked to source for the answer myself, but I’m too clouded with sadness and confusion. Thank you. What a gift you’re able to give. Thank you!

    Wendy

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    Comment by Wendy Aronsson | August 26, 2016

  573. Hello, Bob and Cynthia!

    First off — thank you for all you do in helping people on this site. I would be forever grateful if you could ask The Council about my current job/career issues. I’ve been a stay-at-home mom for 14 years. My kids are the lights of my life, and I love them dearly. Being a mom was a dream of mine that came true.

    Now I want to re-enter the workforce. However, I have huge anxieties and insecurities about exactly what type of job I would be suited for, one that would bring me a little peace knowing I’m making a real difference in this life. I have a good sense of what my talents are, but not sure how to make this a reality. Like most people, I want to know what my main purpose is in this life. I feel like I’m lost and not traveling down the right road toward genuine fulfillment. Any guidance would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much for your time!
    -Darla

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    Comment by Dar | August 4, 2016

  574. Oh yes please post the answer…that is what I meant ! ….I just wanted to make sure I could read the reply somewhere….thank-you so very much……..you may never know how much this answer will change my life either way…bless you for this site and all involved in helping people like me who would never get an answer from any other way…thank-you from my heart……blessings your way……..Linda

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    Comment by Linda | August 2, 2016

  575. Hi, Linda. We’ll ask The Council your questions, but we won’t send you an email. We’ll post their response like we do the other questions on our site. Let us know if you’d rather we don’t answer your questions.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 1, 2016

  576. Please send me an answer to my question as I forgot to hit the button below to send it to my email at [email blocked]. thankyou Linda

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    Comment by Linda | August 1, 2016

  577. I am asking a question as can a person with psychic abilities see a person’s past forever ? Before I found God and before I came into the Light I was involved with some occult rituals……the amazing “Chris” occult I believe….he did a sexual energy ritual on me that has forever devastated me……people with psychic abilities see this and tell me that I make them sick!!!!!!I do not have any part of that life anymore as I am on my spiritual journey with God but cannot seem to elevate this from my being !! I have forgiven him and myself but it seems to lay on me for all to judge ! Can it be removed from me so I can go forward as it seems to be a block for many areas of my life including relationships with people……will that dark area ever leave my past….will people ever stop seeing my past ??? What can I do ?? Can you help me to remove this from my energetic field ?? Desperate for answers …….please !!!

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    Comment by Linda | August 1, 2016

  578. Hi, Tracy. Based on The Council’s previous guidance, we expect how you think and feel about your abortion next week will create whether it affects your son. Stay in loving thoughts about all souls involved in this abortion. When we get a chance we’ll ask The Council your question and post a recording of their response.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 22, 2016

  579. Hi There,

    I am pregnant maybe two months now. I am scheduled to have an abortion next week. After reading Beth’s story on abortion on your page I am enlightened and feel at ease. I had a good cry last night wondering if this was right or if karma was going to get me bad later on in life for me or for my one year old son.

    My question is, will this abortion affect my son sooner or later?

    I am 27 and this is my 3rd abortion. I had my first when I was 17 and one again when I was 18. I always wondered about these souls and if they came back to me someway, somehow…maybe a niece or nephew and maybe even my son. I struggle with my spirituality a lot and would love some advice or clarification. Thank you. ❤️

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    Comment by Tracy | July 21, 2016

  580. Hi Bob and Cynthia,

    I have been trying for a baby for 18 months and have recently found out I’m pregnant. Ever since I found out I am filled with fear and dread that is a mistake. This also happened 18 months ago but I miscarried. I would never abort but keeping asking the soul to leave as I’m afraid of upsetting our lovely life and that it’s not right for us as a family . I have a gorgeous daughter and wanted another for a sibling for her but now I am so scared and feel I want to rewind. Can you ask council if this soul will leave and why when I tried for so long and wanted it so bad I then feel fear and regret. I am so confused how I change from wanting it to then regretting it. I hope it’s not a long wait as my minds in some turmoil not knowing. Thank you so much for helping

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    Comment by Anon | July 7, 2016

  581. Thankyou so much for taking the time to read this!

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    Comment by maria gerhardy | July 5, 2016

  582. Hi, Maria. As soon as we have a chance we’ll ask The Council about your past lives, whether they see you doing healing work as a career, and whether you’ll develop any other senses.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 4, 2016

  583. Hi, Laura. Good questions. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and publish the session on the blog.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 4, 2016

  584. Hi Cynthia and Bob, I am interested in knowing about my past lives. If there is anything you can tell me, that would be fantastic! Also I need some guidance with my spiritual path. I have been advised by a psychic that I am a healer with empathic ability. Do you see me doing this as a career in Adelaide and will I develop any other senses? Thank you for your consideration. Blessings to you both.

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    Comment by maria | July 3, 2016

  585. Hello,
    I wonder whether I made the right choice of aborting my pregnancy (since I got pressured by others). Will that soul come back as my future child? I find myself obsessing about how he would look like and that he would have preferred to be alive now, not dead. Is the latter true? How do I remove those thoughts of regret? They are tormenting me. Will I be able to have a living child in the future? That also worries me.

    Thank you,

    Laura

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    Comment by Anonymous | June 30, 2016

  586. What if the path that your soul “chose” in order to achieve spiritual growth is actually inhibiting it? Is there any way to break the contract once incarnation has begun? I am in my mid-thirties, have tried everything to resolve my situation, and think about killing myself every day. This body/life is harmful to my soul. How do I get out without killing myself? My “higher self”/”spirit guide”/”God”/”whatever” does not seem to care about me or my suffering.

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    Comment by Cait | June 26, 2016

  587. Thank you so much for your answers. I most appreciate your loving responses. I didn’t mention in my questions that I have been listening a lot to Abraham’s advice on relationships, which is what led me to ask you these questions.

    Prior to listening to Abraham, I was certain that leaving this relationship was the only choice I had. But I heard Abraham say over and over again the following: (to paraphrase) “Don’t get out of a relationship until you can be strong and happy within yourself, no matter what is going on around you. If someone makes you go out of the Vortex, just get back in. Don’t let someone upset your ability to be happy and be in the Vortex.”

    That resonated with me so much, and I realised that my problem is really myself (unable to be happy when others are not). Abraham cautions that if we don’t get ourselves right before leaving a relationship, we’ll just get into the same type of relationship again and again, until we learn our lesson.

    I would love to know your opinion on this, considering my own situation? Your answers were fairly certain that I had learned all I need to learn. But I know I haven’t learned how to be happy while others are unhappy, which is why I feel that my husband is the absolute best partner I could possibly have at this time. Because he’s in my face every day, being unhappy with me, and pushing my buttons. What better way to learn to get happy no matter what is going on around me?

    Regarding our children, if I stay with him AND succeed in being happy no matter what, won’t they learn from my example?

    As you can hear from my response, leaving him will tear my heart out. I have already given up on 2 other relationships, and given one child a broken home. I really don’t want to give up this time. I want to be able to give my children a happy home with their natural father (and step father), if that is at all possible? What do you think?

    Thanks again ❤
    Jolanda

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    Comment by Jolanda | May 23, 2016

  588. Hi, Jolanda. We received an answer to your questions from The Council this past Saturday. Your questions were #3 of 3. Please allow us some time to answer these other questions, then we’ll post your session and our comments.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 16, 2016

  589. Hi, Sujata. We did a session with The Council this past Saturday and received an answer to your question and two others. As soon as we can we’ll post the session and our response. We’re working on the questions in the order we received them. Yours is second. Thanks for your excellent question.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 16, 2016

  590. Hi! I’m excited to have found your website, and am loving listening to The Council’s interesting answers to people’s questions. I’m hoping maybe you could help answer my question? It’s been upsetting me for a very long time.

    My beloved husband and the father/step-father of my children is verbally and emotionally abusive towards me (and towards his step-children). It’s taken me a very long time to realise that this is the problem in our relationship – that he is a very unhappy, angry man, who doesn’t know how to be in a relationship, doesn’t know how to be loving and kind, and doesn’t know unconditional love. (previously I believed him when he said there was something wrong with me and that I was the cause of our problems and the cause of his unhappiness and anger).

    I’ve come to the point where most women are told to leave, as it’s not healthy for me or my children to be exposed to abuse, especially on a doaily basis. I’m scared of him and scared to be myself. But I have a very strong feeling that we are meant to be together, and that being with him is exactly the place I need to be, in order to grow as a person. I have low self worth, am terrified of conflict, and find it impossible to be happy if others aren’t happy with me. I believe I’m with the right person to find a way to be happy in myself no matter how he feels, and to find my own happiness and strength in the face of his anger, depression and bullying.

    My questions are: 1. Am I right to stay with him? 2. Is it ok to allow my children to live in this environment, while I learn my lessons of strength?
    And most importantly! 3. How do I get through this and help my children get through it? What I mean is this… living with this man is a daily struggle because I’m not yet in a place where I can be happy when he’s not. It’s so hard being yelled at, snapped at, blamed, ignored, criticised, and devalued by someone who means the world to me.

    No matter how he treats me, I feel unconditional love and adoration for him. I need to get to the place where I don’t care whether he feels the same about me or not, and to not feel the need to change him into the loving supportive husband I wish he was, and feel I deserve.

    I want to be able to enjoy being around someone I adore, instead of allowing his hateful words to pierce my soul, torture me, and deplete my self worth.

    Can you help me please?

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    Comment by Jolanda | May 13, 2016

  591. As per Anita Moorjani, we should love ourselves. This is the only recommonded thing. But, she denies about forced positive thinking by suppressing negative thoughts. Now my question is how to practice to love self (Naturally, not forcefully) ?

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    Comment by Sujata | May 10, 2016

  592. Hi Bob and Cynthia and the council. Thank you for the Private Phone hook up; it gave me great insight into a past relationship. I have listened to my recording many times, but this has also brought more questions to the surface.

    You described a not letting go and a wanting to understand, and a great need to heal this on both parts. I have a constant sense of urgency about this in agreement on both parties.

    These two past lives you described before I said anything about the fact I had seen them. One of us coming and going as I worked away and in a village life around the days of knights and Dames our life was a simple village life and the other life where we practiced the dark arts, and this woman’s mistrust of me cost me my life. What did I do for her to act in such a way?

    In both these lives you described a great love between us, but the coming and going is what caused the mistrust and the fear of being able to feel the love. You say there were many more past lives. Can you tell me any more to bring understanding?

    After sometime in this relationship in this lifetime I started to have dreams and visions of this woman wanting to spiritually harm me and I felt unsafe. I did not share with her all of them and on one occasion she told me she felt like something was dark inside her and it increased my fear. I started to protect myself spiritually and became very wary. Am I correct in saying we were connecting with that past life?

    I do understand that the Third Party Male, an ex-boyfriend best friend role, was to to bring this mistrust and fear by manipulation. I was constantly defending intentions that were perceived wrongly. I now believe he brought this in to heal our mistrust of the past lives and does this with others she is around.

    This coming and going and not knowing what was going on as well as so much confusion left both of us in a state of anxiety. We had a lot of laughter and fun at times and seemed to have telepathy, and 11:11 would come up everywhere. One day I opened my front door to greet her and it was like I was hit in the heart with a small electric shock. I spoke to a medium about this and all she said that is amazing you can even feel that.

    And the day I told her I loved her and meant it, she appeared to physically retracted like the words went into her or she couldn’t accept them. What do you make of this?

    I was sitting out the front and my phone was in the bedroom and she called me and said you just tried to ring. I said no I didn’t. My phone is in the bedroom. When I went in to look, sure enough on my phone was a record of it calling her and I wasn’t anywhere near it. I did ask another medium this and they said it was spirit letting you know you are connected. What do you think and why is this connection so strong between us.

    She also said we were supposed to heal this in this lifetime. I’ve been to cut cords and have barb hooks removed by some of the best that work in this field for some relief for a couple of weeks. Then its back like something is pushing for a mutual understanding of it all. That’s what I keep getting. And if it comes we are just going to have a greater awareness and understanding about us individually and our connection. Is this true?

    Through this I have gained a greater understanding of my part and a willingness to admit, some things I could have handled in a more loving way. I don’t know if I could have communicated better, but I was confused at the time by all the events that transpired and became disconnected with how I felt and shut down emotionally.

    I have desire to bring healing and love to the situation. This was the bomb I needed under me at the time to bring humility and shift me to a more humbled being as the more I know the less I feel I really know. Thanks with much Love and respect. D

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    Comment by Aquarius 4 | May 2, 2016

  593. Hi, Guadalupe. It sounds like you’ve managed to turn your life around. Congratulations. As soon as we get a chance we’ll ask The Council your questions and publish the answers in a post.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 2, 2016

  594. Hi Cynthia and Bob,

    I have always felt like I never belonged to this earth. One spiritual healer once told me I have not reincarnated on earth previously, and that I am a volunteer soul who comes to help others earth. Also she told me I am half Crystal half Indigo. All what she told me resonates with me, but I am not too sure about it.

    I have a strong connection to Germany and whenever I visited I feel like I have been born there plenty of times. Is the latter true?

    My mother also had 2 miscarriages before I was born and I strongly feel I was the soul who wanted to incarnate. My mother and I have a very strong connection. She once read I am her soul mate and that I am here so she learns from me. Is the latter also precise?

    Throughout my life I suffered immensely, but also felt incredible happiness because I overcome my problems. I never understood why the following things happened to me, and it hurts me that other people had such stable lives and loving families.

    In Argentina (where I come from), as my parents and whole family were fighting on a daily basis, I developed really bad OCD and depression. My sister was physically and emotionally abusive beyond measure and I was a witness of her anorexia and and emotional instability (borderline personality disorder). When I was 12, my parents decided that we had move to Spain due to the financial crisis in Argentina. When we arrived in Spain, life got unbearably painful. I suffered from severe bullying for almost 10 years in a row in school.

    The first years in Spain were absolute hell. My parents were emotionally neglectful and very depressed as well. My father started to travel and I did not see him for 4 years. We all felt like he abandoned us. Every time he came back home he shouted at us and told us that we did not deserve to live.

    I started developing suicidal thoughts at the age of 14 and although my older brother (who was 10 years older) saw me taking knives to my room in order to take my own life, he never tried to help me or even talked about it. My older sister saw me getting heavily bullied and never stood up for me. My father once beat me up when I was home an hour late. I was so hurt that I could not talk to him for a year.

    I failed all my courses in high school and my life was an absolute turmoil. Even teachers disliked me because I was a foreigner in a very conservative Spanish neighborhood. People called me names and I developed intense social phobia. My siblings were way older, but they never ever tried to help me. They seemed to reject me as a sister. I only wanted to die so I could find my real family in heaven and not be just an outsider. All I wanted was a family who accepted me and protected me. I was so fragile, yet no one really cared…

    One day, at the age of 15 I said, “This is it,” and started to overcome everything on my own. I quit the antidepressants that I took for 4 months, which were making me emotionally numb. I actively stood up against my bullies and they stopped torturing me psychologically. I studied so much and got the best grades in my class at the age of 15. Teachers could not believe it. I was that student who failed and never attended school. My parents finally divorced so there were no more fights at home. I healed my OCD on my own. I developed a business at the age of 19 which now supports my mother (she does not have a job and without these business she would be homeless).

    My mother and I became business partners and got really connected. I started to exercise and got over my depression. I started to run and get really athletic. I even saw a bully at the gym and he could not believe that I was running so fast on the treadmill, since I was the slow and fragile loser. I learnt English on my own and then got accepted for a University in Holland, which is in the world’s top 100 universities.

    I finished my Bachelor’s degree a year ago (at age of 22) and got a very good GPA. Now I am studying my Master program in Holland. In Holland I got over my social phobia, became quite proficient in English and learnt a bit of Dutch and German. I got an 8 on my thesis and sent it my English high school teacher who said to me that I would never succeed in life. I made so many friends and there are people who truly love me and accept me for who I am. None of them would ever imagine that I was a suicidal person who had almost severe OCD, was bullied for 10 years and belonged to a highly dysfunctional family. I am able to say that I am extremely proud of myself because I have overcome SO MUCH.

    I still feel really resentful at those people who had a much easier life and things just work fine for them. I gained so much wisdom because of the pain I have suffered and the lessons I learnt as a result. I feel like I have been put in such hardships because I have many lessons to teach to OTHERS, especially my bullies and my relatives. I forgave my bullies and believe they were as broken as I was. My father said that when he suffers, he remembers that I overcome so many things so he can as well.

    I don’t want to suffer so much anymore. I want to know whether my spirit guides know how much I achieved or whether there is anyone who is proud of me in the spiritual world. The relationship with my siblings and parents is almost healed, but I still resent them from having abandoned me as a child and teenager. I had to be extremely strong and do everything on my own, otherwise I would probably not be here on earth. My mother did not care whether I went to school or not, or whether I studied or not. No one really cared about me.

    I know I have come to this earth to help others, but I am so extremely sensitive. I want to achieve my purpose in this planet, but I don’t know how to do that anymore. I still feel like I have become emotionally unstable as a result of past traumas. How do I get more stable so I can help others?

    Thank you a lot!
    I send you my love,

    Guadalupe

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    Comment by Delfos | February 29, 2016

  595. Hi, Guadalupe. The Council tells us all of what happens to us in our physical life is pre-planned by our spiritual part. They’ve also said there isn’t any disappointment on the part of the soul being aborted. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions and post their reply when it’s ready.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 4, 2016

  596. Hi, A. We’ll be glad to ask The Council about your past lives and whether you’re an old soul. We’ll post a response after we’ve done the session.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 3, 2016

  597. Hello,

    I had an abortion 3 months ago and it is really haunting me. I want to know whether it was pre-planned and whether the soul of that embryo I aborted is my spirit guide and close to me when I think of him. After the abortion I started to see number sequences everywhere, like 11:11, 12:12, 14:14. What do they mean? Does that soul love me and plan to return to me? Were they disappointed that I aborted him? Is he doing well now? I miss him and ir hurts me so much that I will never get to meet him. How could I contact him? I want him to know that I love him forever and that I am sorry. Which lessons did I have to learn as a result of the abortion?

    Thanks in advance!
    Lots of love,
    Guadalupe

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    Comment by Guadalupe | February 2, 2016

  598. Dear Cynthia, Bob and the Council,
    I have had a pretty hard run in life from being abandoned and abused by my parents, homelessness, people coming in and out of my life including boyfriends, financial hardship ect. I am curious to know if my last life was any different and roughly how many lives have I had? Am I an old soul? Many thanks, A.

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    Comment by Anonymous | January 31, 2016

  599. Hi, Sarah. Thank you for your kind words.

    Congratulations on your recent choices that led to a deeper appreciation for love. You’re right – it is huge and all encompassing. Spiritual things and intimate love often appear confusing, particularly when it’s a little new to us.

    Your questions about twin flames, soulmates, a significant other, and creation are likely to help many others in addition to yourself.

    We find life is often a combination of creation, sitting back and appreciating what we’ve created, and then creating more based on what we’ve learned.

    Thank you so much for your questions. We look forward to doing a session with The Council to answer them and posting the session on our website. In the meantime, know that The Council has told us many times there isn’t a “right” way to do things, and choice is our most powerful tool. If we don’t like the way things are going, we always have the choice to do something different.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 28, 2016

  600. Hi there!

    I absolutely love your page. Thank you for all that you do, for starters.

    I am a 23 year old female, fairly new to all things “spiritual”. I am finding myself confused frequently, and would just like to have a little clarity on the nature of things I suppose, as well as my ever-confusing path to intimate love.

    I have recently made choices in life that have led me to a place of deep(er) understanding and appreciation for self-love, and ultimately, love in general as it is a huge, all-encompassing thing. In this, I have found myself questioning the meaning of many things-do twin-flames exist? Are soulmates simply other souls who are meant to help us along-but not necessarily be our significant other? Am I truly able to create either individual in my life, or it is more like, whichever one I need will appear?

    I have a very good friend in my life that has been there for it all. We have identical personalities, tastes in nearly everything, lifestyles, outlooks, goals, spiritual beliefs, everything. However, I don’t feel that draw to him, like I want to be with him. We have explored angel numbers together, marveling at how the signs match up with numbers on license plates, documents, signs, etc. It seems to me that he is meant to be something big in my life, based off of these signs. Is he a twin flame, a soulmate, etc?

    Ultimately, I feel like I need to know whether or not to try and “create” this person, or sit back because he’s that person. How much of the “draw” is based off of science-like pheromones and primal knowledge of procreation with an individual, and how much is divine? How much is predetermined, and how much do we control in our human form? So confusing!

    I feel as though I may know the answers-but am I successfully communicating…and with whom or what? So many synchronicities have appeared to me-in the form of angel numbers, shooting stars when I’ve asked, articles on my facebook feed that are thoroughly relevant…ultimately, am I doing this whole thing correctly? 🙂

    Thank you so much for your time, I appreciate this more than I can put into words.

    Love to you both,

    Sarah

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    Comment by Anonymous | January 27, 2016

  601. Hi, Sunshine. We don’t think you’re being punished for terminating the 2 pregnancies. We’ll ask The Council your question about having a child and a family, and we’ll publish a blog about it when it’s ready. Thanks for your question.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 11, 2015

  602. Hi Bob and Cyntia,
    I found your blog very interesting and was wondering if you can ask the Council about me. I am 43 years old & single, however with a strong desire to have a child for the last few years. All the attempts were unfortunately unsuccessful and I am trying to come to terms that maybe I will never become a mother. This has been difficult, especially in light of the fact that 20 years ago I choose to terminate two pregnancies. I was given the chance twice to experience the birth of a child and twice I terminated it. I am often wondering if I am being punished for it now and if I would ever have a child and a family. Thank you for your time!!!

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    Comment by Sunshine | November 8, 2015

  603. Interesting question. We’ll ask The Council and post their response.

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 5, 2015

  604. Why do we need a human vessel, aka a mother’s womb, to re-incarnate?

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    Comment by Anonymous | November 4, 2015

  605. Hi, S. Thanks for your question. Feeling so comforted recently by your decision to leave the relationship you were in, love yourself, and create a whole person for a future partner and family sounds like it’s a good sign it was the right decision. We’ll ask The Council why you became pregnant at this time and what your spirit’s intention is for this pregnancy. If you’ve read or listened to some of our other posts on the subject of abortion and karma you may receive the impression that you can’t karmically destroy yourself or anyone else. We’ll post The Council’s response when it’s ready, and we’ll try to do this before your appointment.