Ask The Council

What will you ask Spirit?

Welcome

Bob & Cynthia

Welcome to Ask The Council, a blog where you can ask a group of loving and wise spirit guides a question and get an answer, for free. You can also contact us for a paid private phone session with The Council, and you can read the questions other readers have asked and the answers they’ve received. Other posts contain quotations from The Council that we hope you find inspiring, uplifting, and educational.

Ask The Council a Question

If there’s a question you’ve been thinking about and you’re curious how The Council might answer it, we encourage you to either use the blog’s Comments feature to ask your question, or contact us for a private phone session. You can click here to go to the ‘Let us know what you think about this post, or ask The Council a question’ section of this Welcome post and type your question there or you can type your question in the same section at the bottom of any post that inspires you to ask a question or leave a comment.

Since the blog is currently a project we do in our spare time it can take a while for us to do a session with The Council on a question and then publish a post on the session. Depending on the question and the session it can sometimes take weeks after a question is asked to publish a post with The Council’s answer. Please be patient.

The Council

Cynthia is able to communicate with a group of five non-physical spirit guides in a manner similar to the way Esther Hicks communicates with and speaks for the spirit guides, Abraham, and Jane Roberts communicated and spoke for the spirit guide, Seth. I (Bob) basically interview The Council as they speak through Cynthia during what we refer to as a session. Sessions generally last 5-15 minutes and are usually audio recorded. During the session Cynthia is aware of what The Council is saying and she also receives visual impressions and other types of telepathic communication from them.

The Council’s Basic Guidance

Since we began these sessions with The Council around 2009 they consistently emphasize a few basic ideas that we attempt to summarize here:

1) You are an eternal spiritual being in a physical body.

You are the energy and vibration of continuously expanding love, intelligence, and joy.

Your physical experience in your physical body and your psychological experience of your personality is a small part of the totality of who you truly are.

Let yourself imagine from time to time what it might feel like to experience more of the wondrous totality of who you really are, and don’t be surprised if you are able to experience this more often.

2) You are the creator of all that you experience.

As you open to the possibility your true nature is greater than you ordinarily perceive, it becomes easier to consider the possibility that this expanded you is truly the creator of everything that you experience.

If you’re used to thinking of yourself in a more limited sense, the idea that you are the creator of your experience may be difficult to understand. Our post, What About This Idea That We Create Whatever We Desire, offers insights into this idea.

3) You are here to expand the love you are into physical reality.

You chose, as a spiritual being, to come into this physical reality to experience the joy of expanding the love you are as a spiritual being, into this physical reality. This is your purpose for being here.

Finding Your Way Around the Blog

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At the bottom of the left column on the Home page is a ‘Previous Entries’ link that will take you to a page with a list of earlier posts.

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The right-hand column of most blog pages contains this Welcome message. Below the Welcome message in the right-hand column are some useful features:

Email Subscription: Use this to subscribe to blog posts. You will receive an email notification with a link back to the blog each time a new post is published.

Search: Type a keyword or phrase and click the Search button to get a list of posts in the left column that contain the keyword or phrase.

Archives: The Archives list indicates the number of posts for each month listed. Clicking on the link for a month will display in the left column of the page a list of the posts published that month.

Categories: This is a list of keywords used to categorize posts. Posts can be included in more than one category, if applicable. Clicking on a category link will display in the left column a list of posts assigned to the category you selected.

Navigation Bar

The Navigation Bar at the top of each page contains a link to the blog Home page and links to the following additional pages:

Welcome: A link that displays this Welcome message in the left column (and the right column). At the bottom of the Welcome message is a Comment box where you can post a general comment about the blog or ask The Council a question.

Questions & Answers: Use this link to display a list of introductions to our longer posts, most of which are responses to reader questions. This is an easy way to check out these more in-depth posts. They are listed in chronological order with the most recent post on top. Clicking on the post title will take you to the page where you can read the complete post.

Contact Us: The Contact Us page contains a contact form similar to the Comment form mentioned above. The difference between the Contact Us form and the Comment forms is that the Contact Us form is a private message to us (Cynthia and Bob). It is not posted on the blog. Comments appear on the post page where the comment is posted. The Contact Us form can be used for communicating with us about private sessions or other private matters you think aren’t appropriate for posting in a public Comment.

Bob & Cynthia

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  1. Hi, I am glad I’ve found this website. I live traveling since 10 years, I wish to find my place/people where I feel home, I wish to heal myself and to find my way and mission so to live life fully a lightful, meaningful life and radiating love and light to others.
    I have many questions, all connected, please feel free to answer to one, or more, or all as you wish 🙏🏼

    How can I fully heal myself (psychologically, physically, emotionally, energetically)and my past traumas so to live fully this life? and how can I manifest my full potential and higher self in this lifetime? How to manage the darkish energies manifesting strongly in me sometime?
    What is my “mission” here and life purpose?
    Who was I before this lifetime?
    Am I connected to Pleiades or other constellation/stars/planets and in which way?
    How can I personally connect with the loving spiritual realms, the “invisible things”,
    spirit guides, angels etc. and have clear guidance and clear evidence of it, that are a prove for my rational mind?
    What is the name of my spirit guide?

    I wish you will answer me.
    Thank you very much for what you do and for caring about people

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    Comment by P. | May 14, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, P. We’ll be happy to ask The Council some of your questions when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 14, 2022 | Reply

      • Hi and thank you very much! I would love ti listenn thé audio recording. As I am hard or hearing and my english isn’t perfect, I guess I could miss some part if the council answers. World be wonderful if could be possible to have also a written version of it.
        Warmly,

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        Comment by P | May 17, 2022 | Reply

  2. Dear Bob, Cynthia, & The Council.

    Thank you so much for all the work you do. I eagerly await each new post.

    I have a bit of an unusual & desperate scenario & am wondering if The Council could advise.

    The past two decades have been precarious & difficult. I’ve found it tough to get work, & therefore somewhere to live.

    I originally wanted to be a musician & have been trying to teach & write to create a secure foundation & accommodation from which to make music my main source of income, but the foundation, & therefore the music career, never came.

    The way my work is done changed after the ‘08 crash, & I find myself doing an awful lot of unpaid work applying & pitching for jobs, funding, gigs, practicing, self-promoting, & doing the mandatory unpaid work that comes with self employment. Renting has been unstable & I’ve lived in thirteen places these 20 years.

    At one point I got ill, was made homeless & ended up in subsidised accommodation – I’ve no family or partner & this has been the most security & stability I’ve ever had & I’ve been so grateful, it’s been wonderful. Sadly the building is being demolished & I’ll get notice to move out soon.

    I have tried to up my job search to earn enough to rent somewhere like this locally, but had to leave one job due to being physically attacked, and was bullied out of another. I should be putting in as many job applications as I can to ensure my security, but I’m drained & can’t face doing any more unpaid work.

    Rents have skyrocketed & I’m scared I’ll have to move away from my treasured local support network I spent my adult life cultivating, & the musicians, music, & culture of the city I’ve grown up in & love so much, which are my lifeline.

    I love my home so so much, & I am already grieving its loss. I’m scared I won’t find something this wonderful, secure, and affordable in this location where I can live on my own.

    I’d love to hear your advice. How can I break out of this cycle? Can spirit show me what happens next for me in terms of my accommodation? How do I find something as wonderful as where I am? How I can stay in my home town without flatsharing? I’m in my 40’s now & don’t think I can do that any more.

    With the precarity taking its toll, & I’ve also lost my love of practicing & writing music & I would love to know how I can get that back.

    Thank you for your time in reading this.
    Anonymous

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    Comment by Anonymous | April 21, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Anonymous. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about finding a lovely place to live on your own and get back to your music when we have time, and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 25, 2022 | Reply

      • How lovely of you. Thank you x Anon

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        Comment by Anonymous | April 27, 2022 | Reply

  3. Hi and many blessings to you. I have been recently having a revival of some latent abilities that I used to have as a child. I’m confused what is the purpose or reason is and what I am supposed to be doing with these talents and energy. Am I supposed to work on developing this further or is this not my path or purpose? Thank you for your time and attention to my question.

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    Comment by Heather | April 10, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Heather. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about your latent abilities when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 13, 2022 | Reply

  4. Hello,
    I have a question about how my husband’s and my marriage would end. I have been told by the council that after I move to new state, where my new job has led me to be, I will meet another person and that will be a perfect relationship for me and my son.
    My husband right now came with us in the hope that we can stay together but we are going through the exact same drama we have been living with last 10 years. We are just not perfect for each other. I have also been told that I would stay friendly with him, which I prefer considering the co-parenting I would like to do for my son.
    As I have been told, he will live far from us, and will teach me lesson about independence. I would like to ask – if he is planning to move to India after the marriage ends or will he stay in USA? Can the council please guide me if the end of the marriage would be the extra marital affair from either side?
    Also, he threatens that he will take his life and my life if I end the marriage so i would like to know can he do this for real or he is just using this as blackmail. I feel so alone and I am trying to find strength and happiness in this situation.

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    Comment by starfish.qa@gmail.com | March 23, 2022 | Reply

  5. I was once told by an intuitive that almost half of my past hundred lifetimes were in the Nordic countries. What is it about this part of the world that my soul finds so appealing? When I read about the culture a number of aspects such as sustainability, simplicity, and modesty seem appealing but I feel like there is something more than that. I was previously also told I had a Viking lifetime, are there other lifetimes here that are interesting to know about?

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    Comment by Jaden | March 12, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Jaden. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your connection to Nordic countries, and other lifetimes related to your current life when we have time. We’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 13, 2022 | Reply

  6. Can the Council advise on bringing more friends into my family’s life? I’m not lonely but I would love a stronger community and other families to share experiences and friendship with. Is manifesting a matter of meditation? Visualization? Can I manifest friends for my husband and children or is that not allowing them to be on their own paths?

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    Comment by Anonymous | March 11, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Anonymous. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about bringing more friends to your family when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 12, 2022 | Reply

  7. Hi Cynthia & Bob,
    Sorry for my mistakes in English because it is not my native language
    Ok, I have a couple of questions:
    1) I am very curious to know which star or stars of the Pleiades I come from.
    2) I want to know if there is any reason why I have been obsessed with mermaids since I was a child, so I would like to know if the mermaids are related to the cluster of the Pleiades or they are related to my past lives, because I feel that I miss living underwater very much, and recently in a dream someone called me “water princess” (I did not tell anyone about this dream) and a few days later someone in my family called me “sea princess”. I don’t know what to think, I don’t know if all this is just the product of a fantasy that I have created with my mind over the years or if it is a memory and the mermaids have something to do with me. I’m confused.
    Thanks in advance for the Council’s response. Peace and love to all.

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    Comment by Bluestar_child | March 2, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Bluestar_child. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about the Pleiades and mermaids when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 6, 2022 | Reply

  8. To: The Council
    Why do I feel so drawn to this person?
    I’ve been married for almost 24 years. For the past 10 years I’ve experienced a lot of personal growth in my education, my career, and how I take care of myself. However these changes came about, I’ve always been focused on my husband. One of my goals was to go back and finish my degree. When I finally decided to make my move, I knew it was time to do so. Several years before I graduated, I learned that this company opened an innovation center near where I live. At the moment that I saw the office building I knew I was going to work there. In my last year in college, I applied ONLY at this company and I got the job. I started in June 2016.
    In August 2017 I went to Michigan for work. I was introduced to our development team and it was nothing more than a hello. There was this one individual that I became curious about – I just wanted to know more about him. Who is he? I didn’t talk to him and besides he wasn’t on my project so there was no need to. His name is Brent and he had my attention.
    I went back home and didn’t think much of him. Later, I would hear his name from co-workers and I was all ears wanting to know what they had to say about him. Why would I want to know about someone that is 1400 miles away and that I didn’t have much of a conversation with? I did contact him for work related questions but that was the extent of our conversations.
    In 2018, I was assigned a project that he was also assigned to. I only worked with him temporarily and when we did talk it was only about the project. After planning, I was moved to another project so I didn’t talk to him that much after that.
    Then by 2019 I decided to focus more on myself. My husband has this pattern of saying things to me that do not feel good. Some of his actions weren’t so good either. I felt that it was time to redirect my focus towards what I need to do for myself and not worry about him as much. I told myself that I’m going to plan more time with my friends and do things that I enjoy.
    Later that year, I got to work with Brent again. We were able to work together more than last time which led to us talking more. We started to get to know each other and we clicked. We were realizing how much we had in common. I started to feel like Brent was my person. I wanted to know more about him and I just wanted to continue to talk to him. Was it meant for us to be put in each other’s paths?
    I definitely looked forward to talking to him every time I was at work. He had me laughing and the feeling was something I hadn’t had in a long while. All I wanted was to be with him and I couldn’t understand why. I was so drawn to him. I’ve never felt this way with anyone before. As we were getting to know each other I noticed that there were many parallels with our lives. We were just on different timelines and then eventually we caught up to each other.
    Now it’s 2022 and I’ve been trying to understand our connection and all of the emotions that comes with this. I try not to talk to him, to not want to be near him and I feel like I’m being torn apart. I definitely felt it in the middle of my chest. It’s become a regular feeling even when I’m trying to complete tasks for work. How can someone have such an effect on another person when all they’ve done is talked through work or on the phone? I want to try to understand the purpose and what it means to have Brent in my life. I truly feel that he and I were meant to meet since I’ve now taken on a more spiritual path and learning to be more present. If this is true, I just want to make sure I approach the situation appropriately and in the best way possible. Thank you for your guidance!

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    Comment by Angie | February 26, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Angie. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your relationship with Brent and with your husband when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thank you so much for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 27, 2022 | Reply

  9. First off, I wanted to thank you for the 30 minute reading a few weeks ago. So beautiful and meaningful. I appreciate you all do so much. I do have a quick question.

    I see quick flashes, lights, shadows in my peripheral vision. It happens in random places, inside or outside, and is becoming more common.

    Am I seeing “beyond the veil” or do I need to get my eyes (and mind) checked?

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    Comment by Jane | February 13, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Jane. We’re so glad you enjoyed your phone session with The Council. Thanks for your kind words.

      We’ll ask The Council your question about what you’re seeing in your peripheral vision when we have time and we’ll post their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 15, 2022 | Reply

  10. Dear Bob, Cynthia, and The Council. Thank you so much for all the work you do.

    I was scouring the internet for answers about something that’s on my mind at the moment, and couldn’t find something that really hit the spot, so thought I’d ask and see if you would be happy to answer on my subject.

    I am a PhD student at the end of my studies. I passed a gruelling exam, which included one examiner relentlessly shouting at me for nearly two hours, and would be handed my degree subject to completing some corrections. I love the subject I wrote on and labored over my corrections over long days, weeks, months, and submitted them at the end of last year, but have heard nothing back.

    I have this feeling in the pit of my stomach, and had a dream, that these examiners will not pass my corrections. Once I realised I felt this I began using affirmations, visualisations, and praying for them to pass my corrections. Sometimes I am able to feel better about it and believe it, sometimes not. I also used tarot to see what the outcome would be, and received the same message, that my corrections wouldn’t pass…

    And so I’m wondering now: can I really change this outcome? Can I really change two people’s free will and decision about my work? It feels to me that to do this would be a miracle! But if I can create this miracle, am I going about it in the right way or is there something else I can do?

    I’m also wondering: did I attract this examiner’s behaviour in my exam? And am I attracting the delay in hearing my results from them? And how does my dream and tarot work in this situation? Are they just projections of how I’m feeling, or are they telling me what is now a set-in-stone outcome?

    In eager anticipation, and with deep respect and much love,
    Anna

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    Comment by Anna | February 9, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Anna. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your Ph.D. thesis when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 13, 2022 | Reply

  11. Hi Cynthia, Bob and The Council,

    You have graciously answered a message from me before, years ago, regarding my daughter’s stillbirth. I am writing again with other questions that have recently been eating away at my thoughts.

    Last year, leading up to me turning 40, I was overcome with wanting to try for a baby. Our daughter was stillborn in 2014, our son who is now 6 was born in 2015. Well, since he was just a toddler, the name Haven started appearing to me everywhere. I’d come across this name so regularly that it was overwhelming and I knew I couldn’t deny that the universe was trying to tell me something. Between turning 40, and this name that I became convinced was speaking to me, we tried and immediately got pregnant. Being that Haven means “a safe place”, I had convinced myself that it was either our daughter reminding us that she is in a safe place in Heaven, or it could be another spirit baby trying to communicate that they want to come to us. I sure don’t know, but I absolutely do know that it means SOMETHING. So this little boy I’m pregnant with will be Haven💙What’s even more miraculous than me getting pregnant so fast at 40, is that this baby’s due date is when my daughters was (March 25th). I lost her at 33 1/2 weeks pregnant on February 7th, 2014 – when that day approaches this upcoming week, I will be exactly 33 1/2 weeks pregnant with Haven. What does this all mean???? That can’t be a coincidence, right? Would love The Councils thoughts on this…

    Also, because of the loss of our daughter, with my 6 year old son and now our little boy I’m pregnant with, they have done fetal monitoring on me. I go in 2 x’s/wk to have the babies heartbeat checked thoroughly which is reassuring. But this is VERY triggering for me. I sit there and question “what if they had done fetal monitoring with my daughter?” (who wasn’t very active) “Would she be here today?” “They would’ve noticed she didn’t move a lot if I would’ve just been monitored”. It haunts me quite frankly, almost 8 years later, that I could’ve done something to change the outcome. How did I not know she wasn’t moving? I was 33 1/2 weeks along with her pregnancy, and if they could’ve caught something with extra monitoring I feel like she could be here today. At 33 1/2 wks, she could’ve survived even if they had to have me deliver her at that point. I just make myself sick thinking about the “what if’s”.

    Still struggling to reach peace and would love to hear from you all,
    Sincerely,
    Janette

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    Comment by Janette | February 3, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Janette. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about your stillbirth and your pregnancy when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 4, 2022 | Reply

  12. Hello, I have really been working on my relationship with my young son. In many ways it has improved and he seems to walk through the world with less anger. However, he still seems to have an enormous amount of anger (jealousy?) toward his younger brother. It is causing a ton of tension in our family and makes it hard to trust him.

    Will this ever go away? Is there anything that I can do to alleviate this anger? Where does this come from?

    In the past, the council suggested that I go to therapy- I have. It’s been ok but I honestly can’t seem to cultivate a sense of calm and peace in our family. My son is very resistant to any sort of calming technique- meditation, breathing, etc. He prefers to laugh maniacally and pick on his little brother endlessly.

    Very open to any perspective or suggestions from the council.

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    Comment by Anonymous | January 30, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Anonymous. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your son’s anger when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 31, 2022 | Reply

  13. Dear Cynthia, Bob and Council,
    This is a follow-up question to my previous one on whether my past life caused present suffering and you replied that I was Polish in a concentration camp and decided to experience the camp inmates’ feelings on a personal level. I would assume their primary feeling would be fear but I don’t feel that, only sadness, feeling stuck, lonely, mostly hopeless, self pity and self doubt. I’ve been trying to actually follow Doctor DiLorenzo book Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself, I haven’t gotten to the main part because it takes so much time but I am meditating up to that point. I also read most of the spiritual books. You said I should have hope like I did in the last life, but did my life get better or that hope did nothing? Also, hypothetical question, if I were to escape this life, would I have to repeat the same or not, since I chose this experience? I would greatly appreciate your response.

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    Comment by Mari | January 24, 2022 | Reply

  14. This council is so helpful in bringing understanding to matters. I’m feeling emotionally wounded by a recent relationship that ended abruptly. We are working on being friends. It was very hurtful and I didn’t expect it. I would really like to understand him better. I am not sure where we are headed, except that I feel like knowing him is important. There is a lot to learn, and I am afraid of being surprised again. Trusting is difficult. We also have a mutual very close friend who we adore, there is a sort of trio energy that brings us together. I appreciate anything you can tell me.
    My heart is also heavy because I lost a friend and regret not trying harder to connect with him while he was alive. I wish that friend and I had more opportunity to visit while he was alive.
    I am so grateful for any of your input. Sending love and thanks to all.

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    Comment by TheArtist | January 23, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Artist. Thanks for your kind words. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your relationship when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 25, 2022 | Reply

  15. My question follows on from this one I had just over a year ago: https://askthecouncil.com/2020/12/15/is-my-current-relationship-with-my-soul-contracted-life-partner/

    I’d specifically like to know more about abandonment as I don’t feel I’ve really moved forward with this issue. Since your guidance I’ve seen just how many abandonments I’ve experienced; both in my love life and at work I’ve had everything from colleagues taking my ideas and becoming rich and famous, to more recently a colleague in a project I run ghosting me/the work (the fourth person to leave this project); love-wise it’s been a similar spectrum, from infidelity and abuse, to lovers putting deposits on homes with me then disappearing, and more recently the person I spoke of in my previous post.

    I’d like to know why this has been a running theme in my life? Is this something to do with some past lives I’ve had as well as my abusive neglectful upbringing? And is it something I chose to change in this lifetime?

    I’d also like to know what I need to do to heal this pattern as I’ve always wanted to have a permanent life-partner and the same colleagues to go forward with work-wise.

    I’m also wondering whether, if I do this work, I can re-attract the colleague that has just left and also my ex? Or is it that in healing this pattern I grow beyond this particular colleague and ex and attract a new (what I hope is permanent) colleague and boyfriend?

    Thank you for listening. Your advice would be so appreciated on my quest.
    With best wishes,
    E

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    Comment by Eleanor | January 21, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Eleanor. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about abandonment in your love life and your professional life, and whether you can re-attract your colleague and your ex when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response. Thank’s for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 25, 2022 | Reply

      • Thank you! I hope you are both well. I love this site so much. Every post has a pearl of wisdom in it & I’ve really grow through reading it.
        All the best,
        E

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        Comment by Eleanor | January 26, 2022 | Reply

  16. Hi,
    This is a follow up on the question about whether my past lives caused my present one (you said I wanted to experience what the concentration camp Jewish prisoners went through. What happens if I exit this life, would I have to repeat this? Since I made a choice to do this? Thanks so much.

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    Comment by Mari | January 18, 2022 | Reply

    • Hi, Mari. It’s our understanding that if we finish our current lifetime and still have unlearned lessons that we planned to learn, then we plan to learn these lessons in a future life. But we’ll ask The Council your question when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your follow-up question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 19, 2022 | Reply

  17. Hello Bob and Cynthia,
    I would like to ask The Council about my relationship with my mother.

    From a young age I experienced difficulties that were a great challenge for me. My mother always perceived me negatively and did not show me as much love as my two sisters. That deepened after my dad died. I would like to know why my mother doesn’t need me in her life? Why is she pushing me away? Did I hurt her in any way?

    In 2020 she had a stroke and in the first few months I felt like our relationship was getting better. That was until my youngest sister moved in with her. Since then our relationship has been tested again. She doesn’t respond to my messages and doesn’t want to talk to me when my youngest sister isn’t there. I suspect that my sister doesn’t want me to have a nice relationship with my mother and only wants to keep her to herself.

    Why is my youngest sister so manipulative? What can I do to improve my relationship with my mother? Is there any hope for me? Is there anything I should know right now?

    Thank you! Love and light, Ilona

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    Comment by Ilona | January 13, 2022 | Reply

  18. I find myself getting aroused frequently and somewhat easily and am often thinking about making love. I get the feeling I have an abundance of lifetimes that emphasize romance and other physical pleasures and that my soul is rather fond of the physical. Is this assessment true? and if so can you tell about these lifetimes that are romance heavy?

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    Comment by Tom | January 2, 2022 | Reply

  19. Everything in my life is changing, I have a new relationship, a new job, my car just died for good, suddenly, and I’m moving into a new home. It feels a little chaotic, but exciting though there is a lot of pressure for me to succeed. A palm reader recently told me I have a lot of Loki energy around me. Can you tell me more about this entity/energy and how I can best work with it and honor it? Interestingly, the man I am seeing is really into Loki, and even has two tattoos dedicated to Loki. I am also wondering if you can tell me about past life connections with the man I’ve been seeing and tell me about how Loki is involved with us. The relationship is fairly new, but it feels as though it long lasting potential and hopefully remains a harmonious and beautiful thing.

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    Comment by LadyInLife | December 12, 2021 | Reply

    • Hi, LadyInLife. We’ll be happy to answer your questions for The Council about Loki energy and past life connections with the man you’re seeing, when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 13, 2021 | Reply

  20. Hello,

    I am a Computer Science professional. I want to get council’s opinion on taking up a new course I am thinking about taking since last couple of months now.

    This course is very different from my regular line of work and its also very challenging. I always wanted to study from Ivy League university, but due to financial constraints I was not able to do so earlier. Now I am in a situation where in I think I can take up this challenge.

    This is a big phase shift from what I am doing right now. Can the council please guide me if this thought of taking up a new course and pursuing Masters is something that I should go for. I also wanted to check if this course will help my career and eventually my own company as entrepreneur. Since this is going to be big endeavor for me, I would love to know Council’s guidance. ​

    Thanks for all you do!

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    Comment by Pursuing Dreams | November 30, 2021 | Reply

    • Hi, Pursuing Dreams. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about the course you’re thinking of taking and whether it will help you own your own company when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 1, 2021 | Reply

  21. Dear Cynthia, Bob and the Council,

    I am at a crossroads in my life and would appreciate your help and guidance in the decision I want to make.

    My husband and I have had various issues since the beginning of marriage and it has been 10 years now. I was in abusive relationship for long time and then I have decided to love my self and be self dependent. I was in such a miserable situation earlier that I felt like committing suicide a couple of times during that phase but my love for my young kid kept me alive. By hard work and grace of god, now I am in a position to take care of my self and my kid.

    The thing is that my husband seems to have changed now since last 3 years but I cant forget what he and his family has done with me earlier.

    Going forward in my life my plan is to keep doing better work in office, study part-time in a university while doing work to support my self and my kid and eventually when my kid grows up, retire and travel and do more spiritual and teaching work. I do not want to be dependent on anyone for money, happiness and taking care of me – I want to do it all myself. I have began to find solace in loneliness now.

    I have got a very good job opportunity in a different state which is remote work right now but I can move if I want to move there which would be a fresh start for me and my kid and a different way of living life.

    The difficult decision I need to make is should I continue staying with my husband for the sake my kid having a father or should I move on and build a new life my self and my kid. At the current moment, I like my husband as a friend since he has changed from his abusive patterns but I have lost the love, I dont know if I can love him again considering the history. At the same time, I am also not sure if there will be love for me outside of this marriage.

    Can the council please guide me and provide me some inputs? I will forever be grateful for the knowledge that I have obtained from this blog.

    Love, light and peace!

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    Comment by starseed_lightworker | November 20, 2021 | Reply

    • Hi, Starseed_Lightworker. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your question about whether or not to stay with your husband when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 20, 2021 | Reply


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