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A Relationship that Teaches a Desire for Freedom

This post is inspired by questions from a reader named Kips who asks The Council for advice on a 9-year relationship with a man that has just ended.

The Council says the way this relationship was planned by Kips’s soul before incarnating into this lifetime was to end this relationship quite early. Because Kips and this man were fond of each other from other lifetimes they planned to come together for a very short time and then for Kips to get her freedom, which is what she wishes to experience in this lifetime.

And yet something about this relationship held Kips in it much longer than she originally planned. This staying with one another for a longer period is something that appeared because of circumstances in this lifetime.

Kips says being with this person brought her much heartache, and The Council says they hope this heartache has taught Kips a lot. And once these patterns are recognised The Council hopes Kips won’t accept them and stay in them, or draw them into a new relationship when she prepares to move on.

Kips says this man recently professed a desire to create a family with her and then he was gone. And The Council says that’s the way is should have been, but because of circumstances they created in each other’s lives it wasn’t over and it’s taken much longer in this reality to come to this point.

Kips adds that she wonders if there’s light ahead and says she’d like to experience love with a partner and build a family. The Council responds that there is light ahead and all around if Kips looks for it. The Council suggests expressing gratitude for the periods of this relationship when things went well instead of focusing on the hardships. They say as she appreciates the good that was in this relationship she can create something new for herself and move on.

When Bob remarked that it sounds like The Council is advising Kips to let go of this relationship, The Council says that if Kips and this man came together again they see another ending because the main purpose of the relationship was to come together and then release. Kips wanted to experience the freedom of learning from what was experienced and then move on.

The Council says what is ahead for Kips isn’t more loss unless she stays focused on loss and fear of things not working out, rather than happiness coming into her life. And they add if Kips truly desires freedom then she’ll be free to move on. If she desires a family and a new loving relationship that is easier and happier and that’s committed to by both people, then she’ll create that.

The Council ended this session by sending Kips and the rest of us more light, and they suggested we know this light is within all of us. And it’s all of us together that will bring the light into this reality so there’s peace and love and the feeling of spirit in each other’s worlds.

Listen to the recording of the entire 9-minute session (below) with The Council to hear all their guidance and advice for Kips and the rest of us.

June 11, 2016 - Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Desire, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Reincarnation, Relationships, Soul | , , , , ,

1 Comment »

  1. When I left my husband I was recovering from an abusive family but the marriage didn’t make me feel better. Neither did the 2 long term relationships that followed. I wanted to cut off all communication and called my husband a few times over 30years but didn’t receive the affirmation I wanted. I wanted him to make the running. Then I decided to look for him as his mother had died and searched for 3years only to discover he had died a few months previously. His family who did very well out of a large legacy put every obstacle in my way. They were over solicitous in his final illness and not even close friends were told of his illness and death. I’ve made my own researches into this. The thing is that my pain and mourning will not stop. Can you help?

    Comment by Lunarteddy (@Lunarteddy) | June 12, 2016 | Reply


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