Resolving ‘Bad Luck’ Issues
This post answers questions from a female reader named, Mel, who feels like she’s run into some bad luck lately related to situations she perceives are out of her control. Mel feels like she needs to resolve these issues for her family.
The Council believes Mel has incarnated to follow her own path and not to heal things for her family or others. The Council says while each family member has agreed to be in this situation, their healing is up to them. It’s up to you to see what’s your part in this situation and to discover how you’d like to change it. The Council adds that what they feel Mel ought to do is to emotionally withdraw from the current family situation. Examine how you feel when you’re not around chaos and drama. This peaceful feeling is what you wanted to experience in your current lifetime.
In one past life you were a judge in old England and had to listen to cases and make decisions about what was to be done with other people. This isn’t the life you’re meant to have this time around. In your current life you intend to experience peace, freedom, and travel. You want to be in different situations and find peace on this path.
In your family there are many different lessons going on. Family members are experiencing intermittent difficult times. This is not what you call bad luck in the beginning of your question. These difficult times are from lessons that family members desired to experience so that they could find their way through these situations by handling them differently than in their past lives.
Mel’s part in her family’s situation is to see it, but know that this isn’t the path she’s chosen. You’ve created your family situation in order to see it and have the strength to pull away and find peace. The Council asks Mel if she has the strength to do this knowing these choices are yours and you create in your life?
You allow others into your life to share what they’re going through. The way you handle this will teach them there’s another way. Ask family members to see their situations in other ways. What can you do to make this situation calmer? This will teach them to find these other ways without you being drawn into the situation. The lesson that you want in this lifetime is peacefulness and not to be drawn in where you must experience what’s going on in family members’ lives. It’s good for you to stand back and learn from the situations other family members go through and know you have the choice whether to be in these situations or not. Help the people in your family find their own answers and not try to fix their situation for them.
The Council says Mel’s family members aren’t experiencing bad luck, they’re experiencing negative thinking. And they say of course it can be reversed. Change the way you’re thinking and the energy around you will change and different situations will be experienced. Have better, more positive thoughts. See yourself the way you’d like to be and you’ll create the peace you’re looking for.
Each person in your family has experienced things that they’re bringing in from past lives in order to heal them. You aren’t here to do this healing for them, but perhaps you can show them a way by the questions you ask them.
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1) You are an eternal spiritual being in a physical body.
You are the energy and vibration of continuously expanding love, intelligence, and joy.
Your physical experience in your physical body and your psychological experience of your personality is a small part of the totality of who you truly are.
Let yourself imagine from time to time what it might feel like to experience more of the wondrous totality of who you really are, and don’t be surprised if you are able to experience this more often.
2) You are the creator of all that you experience.
As you open to the possibility your true nature is greater than you ordinarily perceive, it becomes easier to consider the possibility that this expanded you is truly the creator of everything that you experience.
If you’re used to thinking of yourself in a more limited sense, the idea that you are the creator of your experience may be difficult to understand. Our post, What About This Idea That We Create Whatever We Desire, offers insights into this idea.
3) You are here to expand the love you are into physical reality.
You chose, as a spiritual being, to come into this physical reality to experience the joy of expanding the love you are as a spiritual being, into this physical reality. This is your purpose for being here.
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