Follow-up Questions From A Married Woman About A Man She Met
This post answers follow-up questions for The Council from a reader named, Lisa, about our post, How Do I Handle A Relationship With A Man Who Isn’t My Husband?
Lisa: We got sexy over the phone. I pulled back. I told him we know each other from previous lives, and I know he’s in my life for a purpose, but we have to work together to market each others business, and help each other because we’re on the same wavelength. He replied, “Wow, let’s just end this now.”
Council: He’s not very intuned with knowing you from a past life, and that’s just where he is at this time. But he was going in one direction and you shut it down, so the interest in not there.
Lisa: Now I’m thinking is he going to tell my husband on me? Is he going to be upset and rude if I go to the park on Wednesday, and I keep getting angel messages that it’s part of my life’s divine purpose?
Council: We would say here to ask yourself why are you going back to the park? Why don’t you stay away from it for a while If you are in fear of him talking to your husband? Just – what is it that they say in your reality right now? – ghost yourself. Don’t go there. And stop thinking of being afraid that he will tell your husband. In that fear, if you constantly do that, you will create it. We do not see him wanting to do that, but you are very powerful, and in your fear you will create it. So we would say, do yourself a real easy favor and just stay away.
Lisa: But he’s not speaking to me, so what do I do?
Council: Nothing. He is not speaking to you. Is that not a clue? Is there something about him not speaking to you that you do not understand? It’s very clear he’s shutting this down. So we would say to pay attention to that. Don’t open up something that’s not going to go in the direction that he wants.
Lisa: Will he speak to me again?
Council: We would say, eventually, if you stay away for a while and not go into how you have to help each other out, and you know each other from other lives. Just be cordial. That’s it.
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You are the energy and vibration of continuously expanding love, intelligence, and joy.
Your physical experience in your physical body and your psychological experience of your personality is a small part of the totality of who you truly are.
Let yourself imagine from time to time what it might feel like to experience more of the wondrous totality of who you really are, and don’t be surprised if you are able to experience this more often.
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As you open to the possibility your true nature is greater than you ordinarily perceive, it becomes easier to consider the possibility that this expanded you is truly the creator of everything that you experience.
If you’re used to thinking of yourself in a more limited sense, the idea that you are the creator of your experience may be difficult to understand. Our post, What About This Idea That We Create Whatever We Desire, offers insights into this idea.
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Hi, Eden. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about caring for your aging father when we have time, and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia
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Hi Bob and Cynthia,
Could I please ask The Council how to best care for and support my aging dad. He lives just over an hour drive from me and is now 83 years old with a lot of health challenges popping up. He has a healthy mind though so we don’t want to explore putting him in care because he has said he would absolutely hate that and it’s not necessary at this point anyway.
I’m concerned about him because he lives alone and I’m aware he’s beginning to need more help however he is quite resistant to help because he likes to be independent so it’s a challenge getting him to accept help with things around the house even though it’s clear that he needs the help.
How can my sister and I best support him whilst also maintaining our own lives and jobs living an hour away from him? Do you see that we will have to cut back on our work days to help care for him? How can we convince him to accept help and be willing to spend a little bit of money to receive that help? There are government supported options for help at home which are subsidized however he is very resistant to spending any money on himself.
Thank you in advance for the advice xoxo
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Hi, Derek. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about an intimate relationship when we have time, and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia
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Hello. I’ve come to you once before several years ago in the most crucial and largest turning point in my life. You gave me very intimate and heart-wrenchingly sound advice.
This question is one that has been on my mind but has been building a lot the past few years. I’m 26 nearing 27 and I’ve never had an intimate relationship. I’ve never had a girlfriend because I just feel that I’m too different from the people I come across to make anything work. For my sake and theirs I have avoided it. I long for an intimate spiritual friendship that I know is really my yearning for Spirit. However I have not advanced far enough along yet to experience Him intimately in meditation.
I know I ultimately have control over my life and it is my decision whether or not to solely pursue God quickly and directly alone or maybe through another. I have only been working with a girl at work for 3 days as of typing this and we’ve barely spoken but I feel a very strong connection to her. I’ve gotten lovesick for at least one other girl in the past that destroyed me for a time.
Question(s):
Is my heart accurate in my sudden feelings for this girl in particular? Am I “meant” to be with another in this life? If not I will no doubt continue to seek the Lord with as much zeal as I can muster. The path has been very difficult and lonely though. I don’t know if it is appropriate to ask for a timeline, but when will I meet this girl if ever? When will I marry if ever? Is there one out there looking for me as I am for them? Will a relationship delay my search for God?
Thank you. I love you.
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