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Should I Get Pregnant After My Abortion?

This post is inspired by questions from L who asks if she should get pregnant again after having an abortion. It was a difficult decision because her partner was clear he didn’t want to become a father and she was too afraid to become a single Mom. During and right after the abortion L was surprised by the love she was surrounded by and not feeling guilty towards this unborn soul.

The Council says L is one of the few people who actually feel love from the aborted soul and her spirit guides during an abortion, and they say this is exactly what everyone going through this should feel. There is no reason to feel guilty and no reason to punish yourself because you think you have done something wrong.

But now it’s a few months later and she’s experiencing a lot of sadness and regret. She suspects the abortion was to open her maternal instinct, which she thinks would have remained closed otherwise, and now she’s thinking about becoming pregnant again. The Council advises her to try and remember, even if it’s just for a short time, the feeling of love she experienced during the pregnancy and abortion, and that would help her with any decisions she needs to make.

But her partner is still afraid of becoming a father and she doesn’t know whether to give it more time or to end the relationship because she’s already 35 years old. The Council says he might be a great Dad if that’s his choice, but they remind L it’s not her place to make the choice for him.

L asks why this happened to her, how to deal with it, and if there will be another chance for children with this partner or another partner. She thinks maybe her desire for children now is her way of coping with the abortion, but The Council says being a mother is something she wants to experience. It’s up to her whether she persuades her current partner, finds a new partner, or changes her mind about getting pregnant again.

Listen to the entire 10-minute session to gain the full benefit from The Council’s guidance.

February 28, 2015 - Posted by | Audio Content, Beliefs, Choice, Love, Questions & Answers, Relationships | , , ,


  1. Dear Bob, Cynthia and The Council,
    I was in a similar position as anonymous L. Never in my life I thought I would be in a position of having an unplanned pregnancy as I was on the pill for 17 years and changed to a natural contraceptive for health reasons. I felt an abortion was the only choice as my partner said I would be doing it alone and it would be very hard for me. My partner adored me, but as soon as we found out I was pregnant he changed instantly and treated me like I had a disease. He is very spiritual himself, however, he acted selfish, angry and without love. This situation was a shock, I had hardly any symptoms and I wonder why this happened? I also sensed that the pregnancy would miscarry. can you please ask the council if my feelings were right or was my partner manipulating me into thinkng I would miscarry down the track, or was it all in my head. I could not go further with this situation without the agreement from both parties, and I made this decision with love. Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you, A.


    Comment by Anonymous | April 1, 2015

  2. Thank u so much!!


    Comment by L | February 28, 2015

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