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Will Having a Child Help or Hinder My Life Purpose?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Bea Jay, who wonders if she’ll be able to become a mother. She feels like she’s meant to accomplish much in this lifetime and wonders if having a child will help or hinder her life purpose.

Bea Jay isn’t in a relationship at this time, but has begun to consider the idea of sperm donation to get pregnant at some point in the distant future if she still wants a child. Bea Jay wonders if the idea of having a child in the future is preventing her from living in the present moment.

The Council says for any desire you have that comes from your heart, this desire is something you thought you’d like when you were in spirit before you were born into this reality. For this reason The Council says it’s still possible for Bea Jay to become a mother if she has this desire.

The Council asks Bea Jay why she feels she’ll be unable to accomplish great things if she becomes a mother. Maybe having a child, how you raise it, and who this child becomes can be a great thing. It’s according to how you look at your situation.

The Council says if Bea Jay wants a child in the future, she should begin working on this now. Imagine how having this child will be. What will it feel like? And how would you go about accomplishing other things in your life? There is always a way to follow your heart’s desire, but The Council encourages Bea Jay to begin the inner work of imagining her desires right now.

The Council says Bea Jay can have many things and much success because of the way she’s setting this up in spirit. Do not doubt. Use your feelings and your imagination to see your life the way you want it to be.

Listen to a recording of our entire 4-minute session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Bea Jay and the rest of us, and let us know how you feel about it.

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June 6, 2018 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Desire, Imagination, Life Purpose, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Pregnancy, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , , , | Leave a comment

Fear of Being a Parent

This post is inspired by questions from an Anonymous reader who goes by the name, Anon, who’s looking for answers on the subject of pregnancy and motherhood, and says she struggles in these areas of her life.

Anon had a terminated pregnancy where she felt afraid, but no guilt or regret. She also felt a lot of love for the fetus. Anon has been with her partner (the father of the terminated fetus) for over 14 years and he was devastated by the termination, but he stayed with Anon.

The Council says part of what Anon and her partner agreed to in spirit was to become parents together in this lifetime, and if there was a challenge involving the pregnancy they would face this challenge together and work it out.

Anon says she feels pregnant again, but the same fears are present and she’s concerned she will also terminate the current pregnancy. She hasn’t told her partner because she doesn’t want to break his heart again. They don’t currently have any children and Anon is almost 40 years old.

The Council says the fear is because Anon is bringing many hurts from a previous lifetime in Asia into her current lifetime for her to heal. They say many lifetimes ago she lived in great poverty and had maybe six children which she had to sell so these children could have a better life. The fear she has of motherhood in her current lifetime is coming from this other life and she’s afraid of loosing her children again in this life.

The Council says if Anon goes forward and brings children into the current lifetime she will have one or two that are willing to return to her from this other lifetime in Asia, and they say there is much love here. In her current lifetime she wishes to follow through and learn more about these souls that she didn’t have time to have a full life with previously. The Council says all Anon’s fears can be released if she has one or more children in her current lifetime.

The Council says Anon’s soul needs to either complete the journey it wanted to have or let it go and know the hurts from this past life will come to the surface in a future lifetime for her to heal. The Council advises Anon to meditate on this pregnancy she and her partner intended to face together and to believe she can carry out in her current life what she was unable to in her previous life long ago.

The Council says they don’t see Anon failing. They see if she has one or more children she’ll receive lots of help for the spirit world and her life will be much different than the life where she gave up her children previously. There will be a lot of healing for all the souls involved.

Listen to our entire session with The Council (below) to hear their guidance for Anon and the rest of us, and let us know your thoughts.

June 28, 2017 Posted by | Agreement, Audio Content, Challenges, Channeling, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Pregnancy, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , , | Leave a comment

Will I Have a Child With My Current Partner?

This post is inspired by a follow-up question from a reader named Wendy, who asks The Council if she’ll get pregnant again with the soul of the child she recently aborted, and will her current boyfriend be the father.

The Council says being the mother of the aborted soul is what is planned for this lifetime whether she stays with her current partner or not, and they add that at any moment Wendy is free to choose otherwise.

If Wendy finds joy in this relationship with her current partner and does the inner work of imagining how she wants this relationship to be, there’s a good chance of her re-creating the pregnancy with this man. They advise Wendy not to rush into making this relationship something permanent or rush and jump out of it when she feels insecure, and look at whether this relationship is fulfilling her desire to have this child.

Wendy says she wants badly to have a real chance with this man and The Council advises her to be mindful every day of what she’s grateful for in this relationship and focus on the joyous moments so she can be in that vibration, which will allow her to create more things to be grateful for.

Wendy says she scared because although she’s always had a partner, she never had one she wanted to create a life with. She’s also scared to bring up that she’d like to become a mother in the near future. For this The Council suggests she meditate to remind herself she’s a spiritual being in a physical body, even if she doesn’t fully believe it yet. When she aligns with this thought it will give her the strength and clarity to move forward. There’s no need to be afraid because she wants this relationship to work out and The Council advises her to let this fear go.

Wendy should be clear when she speaks to her partner about their future to see if he’s in agreement with her desire to become a mother, and see what kind of reactions she gets. Being truthful about her desire for motherhood will help her see if this is the correct partner for her.

Listen to The Council’s entire 8-minute session (below) to get all of their guidance for Wendy and the rest of us.

September 15, 2016 Posted by | Audio Content, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Pregnancy, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , | Leave a comment

Should I Get Pregnant After My Abortion?

This post is inspired by questions from L who asks if she should get pregnant again after having an abortion. It was a difficult decision because her partner was clear he didn’t want to become a father and she was too afraid to become a single Mom. During and right after the abortion L was surprised by the love she was surrounded by and not feeling guilty towards this unborn soul.

The Council says L is one of the few people who actually feel love from the aborted soul and her spirit guides during an abortion, and they say this is exactly what everyone going through this should feel. There is no reason to feel guilty and no reason to punish yourself because you think you have done something wrong.

But now it’s a few months later and she’s experiencing a lot of sadness and regret. She suspects the abortion was to open her maternal instinct, which she thinks would have remained closed otherwise, and now she’s thinking about becoming pregnant again. The Council advises her to try and remember, even if it’s just for a short time, the feeling of love she experienced during the pregnancy and abortion, and that would help her with any decisions she needs to make.

But her partner is still afraid of becoming a father and she doesn’t know whether to give it more time or to end the relationship because she’s already 35 years old. The Council says he might be a great Dad if that’s his choice, but they remind L it’s not her place to make the choice for him.

L asks why this happened to her, how to deal with it, and if there will be another chance for children with this partner or another partner. She thinks maybe her desire for children now is her way of coping with the abortion, but The Council says being a mother is something she wants to experience. It’s up to her whether she persuades her current partner, finds a new partner, or changes her mind about getting pregnant again.

Listen to the entire 10-minute session to gain the full benefit from The Council’s guidance.

February 28, 2015 Posted by | Audio Content, Beliefs, Choice, Love, Questions & Answers, Relationships | , , , | 2 Comments

   

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