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A Pre-Birth Soul Agreement Involving Rape

This post is about a question from a reader named Susan, who was molested/raped by an older brother from 12 years old to 14, when she became pregnant with his child. Susan has learned we often enter into pre-birth agreements with other spirits to share certain experiences during a physical lifetime and she asks what agreement she made with the spirit of her brother that allowed this to happen.

The Council says Susan wanted to go through something shameful in this lifetime so she could have the experience of trying to turn it around with love. The spirit of her brother volunteered from a place of love to help her with this challenge. And Susan also wanted to experience the joy of forgiveness by forgiving her brother.

The Council says that as a spiritual being Susan is pure love and light, and from this point of view what she experienced with her brother isn’t as horrible as it sounds from a physical point of view. The Council is clear Susan chose to experience this challenge to know she’s okay whatever happens in her physical life.

The Council says if Susan feels this challenge is too much for her and she’s having difficulty bringing love into it, then she needs to remove herself from being around her brother for a while, but to take time to send him love. They say she doesn’t have to feel it; just think the thought. It can be difficult in the beginning, but sending love will change both of them for the better.

The Council says it was very brave of Susan to ask this question. They add she’s performed a valuable service and brought a lot of love into this reality by asking it. And this question will help many others in similar circumstances.

The Council says we are never alone and spirit is always sending us light and love. They advise meditating on what this love and light feels like and gradually our thoughts and feelings will begin to change. And they say this doesn’t just affect the two of them, but it affects us all.

The Council closes by reminding us that human and spirit help each other and to remember we are more than a person in a physical body. We are also spirit. And we’re here to take the love from spirit and expand it into our lives, and to know there is nothing wrong with how you experience your human life.

Listen to the recording below of the entire 18-minute session with The Council to hear all their guidance. This session was longer than most and we’ve only included some of the highlights here. There’s a lot of guidance in this session and we encourage you to re-listen to it or the parts you think are worthwhile. And as always, please let us know what you think.

December 31, 2015 - Posted by | Agreement, Audio Content, Challenges, Love, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , , ,


  1. Hi, Susan. Thank you for your wonderful feedback on this reading after a little over a year. We’re glad to hear you’ve been able to release those ill feelings and have a pleasant conversation with your brother. Looking forward to hearing what additional wonderful things this lifetime is bringing you and your family. Love, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 6, 2017

  2. Bob, Cynthia, and The Council, I re-read this post, and listened to the recording again today. It’s been just over a year since this channeling, and I’ve turned the shame around, and let go of anger and frustration. I have healed the relationship with my brother to the extent that when we talked this past Christmas Day 2016, it was a very pleasant chat. I felt no feelings of anger or frustration, and was able to enjoy being a sister talking to a brother. It was truly amazing. Thank you again for such a lengthy and complete answer to my question. This lifetime is certain shaping up to be an amazing one.


    Comment by mariner2mother | January 5, 2017

  3. Congratulations, K. The realization you’re okay and well being is always present, no matter what’s going on in your life, is huge.


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 6, 2016

  4. What a wonderful Post. Thank you Susan for asking. Thank you Bob, Cynthia and the Council for responding. I have been away from the blog for a while but today, just minutes ago I was going through intense moments of “what was i thinking” and “Why, God WHY?” when I got my gentle reminder of the choices I made and things I wanted to experience which probably did not sound that bad in the planning stages. This is the second time that the council has delivered an answer, a shout out and perhaps some serious cheering on for me at a difficult moment through a question that was not mine or even directly related to my situation but still had a very relevant timing and answer for me. I really AM OK. Well being does abound at all times. Thank you.


    Comment by K | January 4, 2016

  5. Bob, Cynthia and The Council, thank you so very much for bringing this information through for me. It is helpful to know that I asked for this huge challenge. Fortunately, I don’t have to have much interaction with my brother. I will take your advice and will sit and think of my brother as spirit and send him love for helping me with this. I’ve done a bunch of work using hypnotherapy, helping to remember my true, divine self. As I mentioned, I’ve come a long way, and your information will help me move even more into forgiveness. Thank you again, and I hope you have a beautiful 2016. -Susan


    Comment by mariner2mother | December 31, 2015

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