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What If We Don’t Want Another Child?

This post is inspired by a follow-up question from Michelle, who terminated a pregnancy last month because the timing wasn’t right for bringing another child into her family, but Michelle was having difficulty finding peace with this decision.

In our post to answer Michelle’s original question (Some Clarification on a Recent Abortion), The Council advised Michelle and her partner based on Michelle’s desire to possibly have this child when the timing is right. Now Michelle is asking what can be done of she and her partner decide not to have another child. She wants to know how she can release this spirit who is waiting to return to her in a future pregnancy. if there is one, and doesn’t want to “mess up” a plan that was made if she chooses not to get pregnant again.

The Council says there’s an understanding that if there’s a change of heart and another child isn’t desired, this is fine. They advise Michelle to send love to the soul who was on standby and let it know that at this point in your life what you had planned has taken a turn and it’s not necessary for it to come into her lifetime.

The soul will wait until Michelle definitely decides she doesn’t want another child. If she’s unsure, the soul will wait to see if it will be needed to fulfill the original agreement.

Listen to our full 4-minute session with The Council to receive all their guidance for Michelle and the rest of us, and let us know what you think.

March 15, 2017 - Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Soul, Spirit | , ,


  1. We’re glad if we were able to help, Albert. Love, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 23, 2017

  2. your post actually changed my thinking of forcing my wife for the second child ,,


    Comment by Albert Trotter | April 23, 2017

  3. I guess bob and Cynthia and the council I just want to understand how to bring peace into this situation. My husband and I were finally to a good place in our marriage and this surprise pregnancy kind of threw it all in the air again. We are not seeing eye to eye and I have been struggling emotionally to cope with the termination of the pregnancy. I would like some spiritual guidance from the guides so I can connect to something much greater than all of this.


    Comment by Michelle | April 11, 2017

  4. I’m sorry I wasn’t more clear. My husband is really adamant about not having any more children and I can say that I semi agree and I think I just want a baby now to try and fill the void that I am feeling after my abortion. The days sometimes are bright, and sometimes they are dark. I read stories of other women and I am scared that I will not be able to connect to God now because of this situation that I have put myself in. I know that I did the right thing for my family but I feel alone and scared. The council says that I need to change my thoughts, and I am just having a hard time. I wake up in the middle of the night wondering if I did something wrong and I can’t seem to fall back asleep. I need to change my thoughts but sometimes it has been very hard to adjust. This group has been a relief.


    Comment by Michelle | April 4, 2017

  5. Hi, Michelle. We’d love to be able to help you be happy and sleep comfortably, but we don’t understand the part of your comment where you say, through changing my own thoughts what does The Council recommend? Is this in relation to birth control or independent of birth control? Can you be more specific in your question? Thanks, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 2, 2017

  6. Michelle here again,
    I have talked with my husband a lot and we have decided to not have any more children and are looking towards permanent methods of birth control. Through changing my own thoughts what does the council recommend? I would love this to be an opportunity to connect with god/source but feel isolated alone and afraid. Unable to sleep or be happy. I don’t want this forever.

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    Comment by Michelle | April 1, 2017

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