Moving Past Struggles Over an Abortion
This post is inspired by an anonymous reader who struggles to forgive herself for having an abortion. She sees this as an opportunity for spiritual growth, but she gets stuck and asks The Council how she can move past the regrets she experiences. She believes healing will come if she’s able to have another child, but she’s worried her negativity from her abortion is preventing her from getting pregnant. Anonymous asks The Council if there’s anything she needs to do before she’s able to conceive again.
The Council sees that Anonymous carries guilt with her about her abortion and they remind her and all women who experience a terminated pregnancy there’s no need for this guilt. All pregnancies are pre-planned in spirit. She and the soul of this child wanted to experience this. The Council says if she were in school she’d received an A+ for following this challenge she and the child picked to experience and she’s promoted to the next level. They add that the next level is for feeling love for herself and being proud of what she’s done, and proud for the soul of this child that she allowed it to experience what it wanted.
The Council sees Anonymous’s desire for another child and they remind her of the difficulty creating what she desires when her vibration isn’t in one of joy. They suggest thinking positively and changing how she thinks about her abortion: get to a place where she can see she created the abortion and if it’s her desire, she doesn’t need to experience it again.
Moving forward The Council suggests Anonymous do whatever she can to get to a joyful place. She can do this by finding memories that make her laugh or watching movies that make her laugh and raise her vibration. Begin to think of a new child and the life she can offer it.
The Council asks Anonymous to practice a meditation that concentrates on her heart center. At first see a tiny light within her heart. And as she experiences more joy this light will grow. This is the light of her creation. As this light becomes brighter and brighter it opens the door to whatever she desires.
The Council recommends that in this light Anonymous bring what she wishes to create into her mind and into her feelings. Feel the love and then she’ll be able to move forward and have another child if that’s her desire. Her purpose now is to work on her heart chakra and make the light and the feeling within it grow.
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If you’re used to thinking of yourself in a more limited sense, the idea that you are the creator of your experience may be difficult to understand. Our post, What About This Idea That We Create Whatever We Desire, offers insights into this idea.
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Hi, Anonymous. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia
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Hello,
I have a question. Recently I had to undergo periodical pap test. The results came back negative, there are some changes, might need operation…. I had terminated pregnancies is it karma for this? I was wroting before about the sporit of the fetus, that I had very strong connection with. My biggest dream is to see each other. You wrote in previous post that I will see this spirit it will come back to me. Is it still the case? I think and wish for it everyday, there is so much love when I think of this spirit.
Now Im thinking that I had best gifts for me (pregnancies) and I did not accept them…I want family and kids very much, and wanted back then, but felt so insecure with my partner at that time…Will I get better from this? Will I get pregnant, will I be given another chance to have kids? Why Im experiencing these issues with my health?
I do wim hof breathing, pink light meditation, what else I could do to strengthen my immune system?
I have another question, I see the light in my head especially in the mornings nowdays, it is very good feeling, what is it? What I can do with it? It appears to me since I was spending a lot of time doing spiritual practises 10 years ago. Sometimes its stronger, as it is now. I used to use it for making the right choices, imagining in which situation i see more light. Maybe there is something that it tries to tell me?
Thank you so much for your answers.
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Hi Bob and Cynthia and Council, I have been working to put all of your advice into action- thank you! And I’m curious… you get so many questions from women struggling with the aftermath of abortion- why is this? If abortions really are pre-planned why do they bring us so much pain? It seems like some women get stuck in their sadness- that can’t be part of the plan. Just trying to make sense of it all…
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