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How Can I Deal With My Difficult Son’s Behavior?

This post answers questions for The Council from an anonymous reader about her son’s difficult behavior.

Anonymous: I’m really struggling with my son and I’m wondering if The Council has any advice or encouragement? Sometimes I wonder if he’s on the autistic spectrum, but I’m not sure if a diagnosis would get us anywhere.

Council: We don’t see that.

Anonymous: We have an ever-growing rift between us. He’s rude, entitled, not cooperative, anxious, and picks on his little brother.

Council: Number 1, he’s chosen this path so that all around him will learn patience, will learn to love him no matter how he acts, and to accept who he is.

Anonymous: There’s nothing easy about this child. I’ve read every parenting book and I’m still here struggling with him. He doesn’t make friends easily. I find myself really working to help him build and maintain friendships, but it’s too much. I want to stop worrying about him, but I also want him to just let us all be and stop fighting and causing problems within our family.

Council: He’s a very intelligent soul who doesn’t remember why he chose this life. He chose it, number 1, to teach others around him. But when you think he’s ready, we’d say for you and him to read books on crystal children and indigo children. Many times they find themselves lonely, they don’t[have patience for what goes on around them, they don’t like things that don’t move along quickly, they want quick answers, they want the truth, and they are difficult sometimes – even in school – to get along with others. Now if you can teach him, or have him read a child’s book on indigo children or crystal children, he may begin to find himself and feel more self-acceptance. He wants to move forward and have recognition.

When he is difficult, it’s not good to punish him or yell at him. The best thing is to walk away and calmly say, “I  won’t give you attention when you’re like this,” and leave him alone. Then teach him about energy, so we suggest you learn about energy first.

In another life your son was a great healer. In his current life there’s a book called, The Reconnection: Heal Others, Heal Yourself, by Eric Pearl, and it teaches you how you can feel the energy in your hands and use it on yourself and others. Give him that book to read, or read it to him, but don’t force it on him. Leave it around so that he can find it. He’ll learn to feel energy and get a different understanding of what this life is about.

So for him you need to go into the world of better thoughts no matter what he does. It’s to teach him about energy, to teach him he’s a special child like many of these crystal babies, and indigo children, and rainbow children. And so that would be the beginning. It will take time, but it will be the beginning of changing him.

Bob: I think you said he should read a children’s book.

Council: They have children’s books. When he’s older he can read more adult books on the crystal children and the rainbow children. There are books for children and there are books for adults so the parents can read these books and learn what is going on and have a better understanding of what he’s going through.

And this is what he created because he wants to find this other way. And not being on that path, he’s frustrated, and he doesn’t want these friends or people, and he’s difficult because he’s not where he wants to be. And so the human brain doesn’t understand what’s going on, but the higher self is saying: This isn’t working; you don’t want to feel like this.

And so these books and learning about crystals will help him. And it’s your job to support and give him these things, and let him explore his own path.

Anonymous: I was nice and normal before he was born. Now I feel like a raving lunatic much of the time.

Council: That’s why you also need to read these books. There will be a better understanding.

Anonymous: He constantly embarrasses me with his behavior and my reaction to him. I can’t find any common ground with him.

Council: It’s to change your reaction. Do not feed it, do not yell, do not become frustrated. Just walk away. Say, “When you behave like this, I will not deal with you,” and walk away. That will give him different ways of looking at things. And so it’s to remain calm, to remain open to see the change in him, to see that in your mind, to help him, to send him beautiful pink energy so that he can take it in, and his spirit will take it in and help him find his path.

Anonymous: We have no shared interests or activities that we enjoy.

Council: Exactly.

Anonymous: What can I do with this child? And yes, I recognize that he’s very bright and talented, but surely he came into this life carrying too much from a past life fear. Can I help him release that?

Council: You have all the information, and that will help him release that.

And so we’ve enjoyed this again. We send you all blessings, love, and happiness. And enjoy what you’ve created. And if you don’t like what you’ve created, then change it, change it with your thoughts and how you think.

You are a great spirit that’s here to learn many, many different things. And you’ve all created this time to come in knowing it would be difficult, and knowing there would be a lot of chaos. But you came in to hold the beautiful light, to love no matter what, and you will see your lives change.

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November 11, 2023 - Posted by | Acceptance, Audio Content, Channeling, Choice, Love, Other Lifetimes, Questions & Answers, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , , , , , , , , ,

2 Comments »

  1. Hi, Anonymous. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about a healthy romantic partner for you when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Cynthia & Bob's avatar Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 22, 2023

  2. Hi Cynthia and Bob,

    Could I please ask the council the below question 🙂

    Could you please give me some insight into what is blocking me from attracting in a romantic relationship? I feel like I’m in a great place in my life and am generally very happy but would love to experience a healthy romantic partnership and create a family with someone.
    I have been single for many years and have done a lot of self work and truly feel that I have a lot to offer so I’m curious if there is a block there that is preventing me from attracting in a life partner.

    Many thanks xx

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    Unknown's avatar Comment by Anonymous | November 20, 2023


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