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How Do I Handle This Relationship With A Man Who Isn’t My Husband?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Lisa.

Lisa: I met a man who makes me smile and feel special. Being around him instantly raises my vibration and makes me happy.

Council: With familiar souls that usually happens.

Lisa: We’re drawn together like magnets. He has asked me out, but I’m married and won’t have an affair. I want this person in my life as a friend because I feel like we bring each other up and can help each other, but I’m not exactly sure why the Sun or the universe brought him to me.

Council: The universe, or God, or whatever you believe in, brought him to you because you have called it in. You are at a point in your life where you want someone to make you feel special.

We suggest you begin to find things about yourself that make you feel special, so it doesn’t have to come from an outside source. When you begin to appreciate yourself and not rely on this person to help you feel good, then your relationship can move on and you can become friends.

Lisa: Is he my twin flame or soulmate? Am I crazy and he’s just a player, and I’m making this up because I want to feel loved?

Council: Yes, you’ve created it because you wanted to feel love, but it’s someone that you’ve known in other lifetimes. There’s that coming together with sort of a giggle because it’s what you have planned, and how you go forward with what you both create out of this relationship is in the works. And so, it’s a wonderful place for you to be at this time.

Lisa: My husband doesn’t know about him. If he did know about him, I’d never be allowed back to the park, even though we are just friends and only talk at the park. How should I handle this?

Council: Well, you can be honest and tell your husband this. Or you can just go there and not feel that this is something you have to be sneaky about because it’s just a friendship. And you have to be very clear that you want to keep the relationship just a friendship.

And so eventually we would hope you would get to a point and say, “Oh, I met this person and we talk a lot.” And maybe you can find out if this person is married, what kind of job is this person interested in, and does he have a family? And just repeat that to your husband so it is open, it is honest, and everyone will be okay with it. Let go of the thought that you have to keep this information quiet, or secret, or you won’t be able to go to the park. That will bring in drama and chaos.

So just think of it as a familiar soul. You’re friends right now and you’re just going to go forward. It doesn’t have to be secret. There’s nothing wrong. When you feel things have to be secret, that will create problems.

And so we send you all love, and wonderful, wonderful experiences, and clarity, and fun along the way. Life is always supposed to be fun, even in the difficulty. It’s the way you look at it. And know that no matter what, you have the ability to change it.

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June 10, 2024 - Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Love, Marriage, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Soul, You Create Your Reality | , , , , , ,

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  1. Hi, lisabayer. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your follow-up questions about the man you met when we have time, and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Cynthia & Bob's avatar Comment by Cynthia & Bob | June 12, 2024

  2. We got to sexy over the phone. I pulled back. I told him we know each other from previous lives, and I know he is in my life for a purpose, but we have to work together to market each other’s business, and help each other because we’re on the same wave length. And he replied, “Wow! Let’s just end this now.” Now I’m thinking, is he going to tell my husband on me. Is he going to be upset and rude if I go to the parks on Wednesday, and I keep getting angel messages that it’s part of my life divine purpose. But he’s not speaking to me, so what do I do? Will he speak to me again?

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    lisabayer's avatar Comment by lisabayer | June 11, 2024


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