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A Stillborn Pregnancy

Jyoti’s questions

This post is inspired by questions from a reader named Jyoti about a wonderful pregnancy she had in early 2013 that ended in her giving birth to a stillborn baby. It tells the story of a spirit who originally planned to be her child, but just before birth agreed with Jyoti’s loving spirit to remain in the non-physical so it could learn more before coming to the physical world. She wants to try and get pregnant again and give birth to the same soul, but the pain of loosing the child left her feeling sensitive about this.

Having this soul again

Before this pregnancy she wasn’t so keen on having a child, but now all she wants is to have this soul again. She now has the understanding that all souls have purpose, pick their parents, and if they’re not ready to come into the physical they remain in the non-physical.

A Dream

In a dream the spirit came to her with a message and Jyoti asks: Why did he leave us? Is he coming back? What does this message mean? Should we try again now or wait until we’re more mentally prepared?

A Strong Connection

The Council sees a strong connection between Jyoti and this spirit and while they cannot say when she should become pregnant again, if all goes as planned there’s a good chance this spirit will return to her. So they ask Jyoti to speak to the child at night before she goes to sleep, ask if it’s ready to return, tell this spirit about their life, and see what happens.

To hear the full 12-minute recording of this session, if you’re not on our website click the post title and then click on the play bar below. We look forward to your comments.

Copyright ℗ 2015 Bob & Cynthia Dukes

February 1, 2015 - Posted by | Audio Content, Challenges, Death, Questions & Answers, Relationships | ,


  1. Hi Bob & Cynthia

    Thank you for the answers to my earlier questions. It helped us immensely in moving forward.
    When we decided its time for us to try again, I asked my son to come back to us. I also mentioned that in case he wants to learn more in the spirit world, any willing soul who wants to join our family is welcome and will be loved and cared for….even if it is not the same being.

    Now that I have conceived, I keep thinking if this is the same soul of my stillborn son wanting to come back? My husband says it is the same soul. It makes me feel guilty that in case it is not so, this baby may feel unwanted. This thought makes me sad. I hope its not affecting this baby adversely. Its only been 8 weeks now. I know I have a long way to go and I want this pregnancy to work. I want to connect to this baby and develop the same bond I had with my first and my questioning mind is not making it easier for me. I would really appreciate if you can tell me if this child is the same soul I gave birth to 2 years back? It will help me bond better with this baby.



    Comment by jyoti9696 | September 3, 2015

  2. We’ll ask The Council, Jyoti, and see what they say. We’ll post a response when we find out.


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 4, 2015

  3. Since you see a strong connection between our spirits I would like to know if we have shared our lives together before? A lot of my family and loved ones have moved on to the other realm. Do you think it is one of those souls wanting to come back to be a part of the family again?


    Comment by Jyoti | February 2, 2015

  4. Hi Bob & Cynthia
    Thank you so very much for answering all my questions!
    Like the council says we are actually changing cities every year. We have been planning to settle in one place for long but somehow it hasn’t happened yet! I feel sad for the soul who had to go through the ordeal due to our change in plans. We are actually working on this aspect of our life right now. Hopefully that will clear the confusion for the spirit!
    I really want him back and would do whatever it takes to make it feasible for him to come back!
    Regarding getting pregnant again, I think we should wait for some time and settle down before trying again! I am glad the spirit is willing to come back. I will definitely work towards convincing him. 🙂
    I do speak to my baby’s soul, but will do it regularly now! Hope to get an answer from him soon! Thanks for the guidance!
    Lastly, I would like to thank you both and the council. You are doing a wonderful job! Thank you for giving me and all those people who are in need of support the much needed hope!


    Comment by Jyoti | February 2, 2015

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