Will the Soul I Aborted Return in a Future Pregnancy?
This post is inspired by a question from an Anonymous reader who asks The Council if the soul she recently aborted will return to her in a future pregnancy. She says this abortion wasn’t an easy decision for her and her husband and she’s been missing the baby and feeling like a guilty, bad mother. She says oddly she didn’t feel connected to the baby while she was pregnant. Only after the abortion did she feel connected to this soul.
The Council says she wanted to experience how she’d feel when someone she loved passes on and she created this in a way where she was pregnant and aborted the child she felt no connection to. Now that the child is gone she feels the connection and has the opportunity to learn the lesson that love is forever. The connection she felt in her physical reality isn’t broken when one soul returns to spirit.
The Council says she pre-determined in spirit to be able to become pregnant again and it was agreed that this same soul she aborted would return in this future pregnancy. She was not a bad mother. She was creating a lesson for herself, and they ask her to remember that lesson when others she knows pass from this lifetime.
There is a sadness from not being connected in physical reality, but she can still feel them and talk to them in her mind and dreams. They say this connection was an important lesson for her to learn and to share with others.
The Council says the spirit of the baby that was aborted was part of this decision. It knew it would be aborted so the mother could learn the lesson about love transcending physical reality. But this soul would not go away and if Anonymous brings this soul back there will be many new lessons they will learn together. Anonymous did exactly what she pre-planned in spirit and has no reason to feel bad about terminating her pregnancy.
In their closing The Council asks us all to remember our promise as we all came into this physical reality to bring love into this reality, no matter what the reality is. Listen to our entire 7-minute session with The Council (below) to receive all their guidance for Anonymous and the rest of us, and let us know what you think.
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Hi, Anonymous. We’ll ask The Council about your concerns and post their response. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia
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Hi Bob and Cynthia, and the Council,
Thank you for your kind and thoughtful words above. I have revisited them many times these past few months. This is ‘Anonymous’. I have been trying my best to learn from this experience and remain a present mother to my two sons… but I am struggling to forgive myself. Does the Council have any guidance? Clearly this is an opportunity for spiritual growth but I seem to get stuck in a place of regret- how can move past that? I do believe that great healing will come if I am able to have another child but worry my negativity over the abortion is preventing that. Is there anything I need to do before I can conceive again?
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I have recently come across your blog because I was looking for spiritual answers to pregnancy and motherhood.
This is an area of my life that I struggle so hard with and I have so many mixed feelings that I don’t understand where it is coming from.
I’ve had a termination where I felt so panicked and fearful yet no guilt or regret. I also felt a tremendous amount of gentle love towards this child-to-be.
Somehow I felt great connection, peace yet also enormous fear at the responsibility of it all. For that I felt guilty (not accepting the responsibility).
I have been with a wonderful partner for over 14 years so I should feel braver. He was devastated by the termination yet he stayed with me.
I feel now pregnant again but the same fears are coming through again and I fear this will end in termination as well. I haven’t told it to my partner as I really don’t want to break his heart the second time. We don’t yet have any children but we are both almost 40. I am so lost! I really don’t know what to do!!! I fear everything about having a child (even the adult relationship with the child) partially because my relationship with my parents have been difficult. I feel it wasn’t so much love but obligation, and I fear I would just have this child out of obligation and fear he/she would not love me and I couldn’t love them. In spirit I love them so much!!!! I dreamt of them, but the reality is so muddled and full of fear and dread.
I have very low confidence in my abilities, there are moments where I almost physically feel hugs from my child, smiles, laughter … yet I have these huge negative emotions that just make me cry!
After my first termination I have reached out to a spiritual healer mainly because I wanted to send so much love to this child (the lady told me a boy) but I just felt it as energy and not the gender. And I kept promising it that I would bring it back at a later time and now the time is here nothing has changed.
I fear having a mother-son relationship I had thoughts of my son murdering me, I fear their masculine energy. But I also had thoughts of my son walking me hand in hand in my old age and taking care of me.
I guess because I have never actually had the crushing responsibility of raising a child yet I don’t really know what it would be like and I am trying to delay ever having to make this decision yet time is running away from me and I must decide.
I don’t know anything about my past life experiences if they have any effect on this monumental decision but I’m trying to so desperately understand myself!
Would you please be so kind as to perhaps ask the council about my spirit, my child spirit, my partners spirit to try and understand why I am struggling so so hard with this decision.
I also realise that there are practical concerns as well, I fear the responsibility, the routine, that I would fail and mainly that my love would be inadequate and my abilities lacking. Financially, as well, we are lacking.
Please help me!
Sincerely,
Anon
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Stay positive, and good luck. Love Bob & Cynthia
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Hi I am ‘anonymous’- thank you for your insight, it means a lot to me. I just remarked to a friend that this experience has been my life’s first trauma so I think you’re right- there is a lesson here for me and I need to be open to that instead of just being sad. I will try to stay positive and take the lesson. I do miss the babe and hope she comes back to us soon.
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