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Why Have My Boss and I Come Together in This Lifetime?

This post answers questions for The Council by a reader who goes by the name, Anon, who says she’s faithfully married with children and recently began a new job. Her boss took her breath away when she met him. There was instant recognition and desire, and both are committed to their spouses. Anon asks why they’ve come together in this lifetime when they are both unable or unwilling to be together romantically?

What The Council sees here is a spiritual agreement between these two souls who have a strong bond from working together in many lifetimes as husband and wife and as siblings. The agreement was to go separate ways in this life so they could have experiences they wished to live through and learn from, and at a certain point perhaps these two souls could come together again if they both created the idea of drawing each other into their lives.

The desire to be together was there for both of you, but life got in the way and you both met other people. You went down a different path than the one you originally envisioned. And yet because the energy between you and your boss is so strong, you still managed to come into each other’s lives even though you have both have different partners. There’s a comfort that’s felt from the two of you being together.

In this life can the two of you be supportive friends to each other? Can you feel the happiness of being able to come together in this lifetime in different roles and help each other grow and learn? Can you experience a different kind of relationship than you’ve had in other lifetimes? You both have the ability to create this relationship the way you want it.

In spirit the two of you originally planned for the possibility of becoming partners again after going in your different directions, but each of you went down a different path where you wouldn’t be marriage partners, but you can have a strong friendship.

Listen to the 5-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Anon and the rest of us, and let us know how you feel about it.

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February 20, 2019 - Posted by | Agreement, Audio Content, Channeling, Marriage, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships | , , , ,


  1. I’ve felt like that at different times when I was sure I’d spent many previous lifetimes with a person and it’s confusing when they show up again. Good luck to you both.

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    Comment by pjlazos | February 25, 2019

  2. Hi, Laura. Interesting questions. We’ll ask The Council about your situation when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. In the meantime, be careful on your bike. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 21, 2019

  3. Dear C & B,
    I would like to please ask the Council the following question: A long time ago I was responsible for a car accident at an intersection and someone got hurt. I never drove again. Nowadays I am starting to ride a bycicle and feel really happy about it, but recently the same scenario/accident at an intersection almost happened again except this time while riding. I try to be very careful, but still this happenned… Why? What is it I need to learn? Do I need to give up cycling too? Thanks for your reply.

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    Comment by Laura | February 20, 2019

  4. Hi, Anon. Life is truly strange and amazing. Thank you for your gratitude and appreciation. We’re glad the post brought you comfort. Best of luck, love, and light. Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 20, 2019

  5. I’m so grateful. Thank you. This rings true and gives me so much comfort. I appreciate that you shared your gifts with me.

    My boss and I are working well as partners. There is a comfort in the relationship, and knowing where it comes from helps me deal with the unwanted tension. I think we’ll do good things for our community together.

    Life is strange and amazing.

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    Comment by Anon | February 20, 2019

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