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Questions About Pre-Planning a Birth While in Spirit

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Jaden.  The following are excerpts of an audio-recorded session we did with The Council to answer Jaden’s questions. These excerpts may be a little more difficult to follow than excerpts from our other posts and we encourage you to listen to the entire 7-minute audio recording of our session with The Council to hear all their guidance for Jaden and the rest of us.

Jaden says if things are pre-planned in spirit before we incarnate into our current reality, why are there so many stories about souls who communicate with adults in physical reality and ask them if they’ll be that soul’s parents. Jaden asks if these souls are simply asking for the potential parent to engage in something that wasn’t previously pre-planned?

The Council says when they speak about pre-birth communication, they’re talking about spirits who communicate with each other before incarnating into whatever life they choose. And they say communication between someone in physical reality, and someone in spirit who’s getting ready to come into physical reality, is definitely doable.

There are some issues that spirits don’t pre-plan beforehand. So when they come into their physical body, if they don’t like the direction their physical life is taking, or if they feel they’d like to learn a different way than what they originally thought while they were pre-planning their life in spirit, these opportunities for physical reality changes are also pre-planned and agreed to in spirit before being born.

Many things are pre-planned in spirit. One soul can say I’m going to come into your life, this person will be my mother, this person will be my father, this person will be one sibling, and this person will be another. Another soul can say they like what someone is planning to create as they go into their physical reality and that soul thinks what this person is creating will help them learn what they want to learn in this lifetime. I’ll see how far you get with what you’re creating and if you’re in the right place, I can decide to come into your reality. And that’s how we grow.

The Council closes by saying that as Jaden asks these excellent questions you are learning more than you knew before about yourself and about spirit. And it’s a wonderful way to learn that you’re truly spirit, and the freedom and the choices that you always have to create in your reality.

As mentioned at the beginning of the post, please listen to the entire audio recording of our session with The Council to hear all their guidance for Jaden and the rest of us, and let us know what you feel about it.

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March 23, 2019 - Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Choice, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , ,


  1. Good question, PE. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and publish an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 27, 2019

  2. I know that questions about pre-birth planning often come up but I am still confused. The Council says that we can always change plans we made but how? For example, in a case of a really challenging lesson related to your body such as illness or a disorder, can you decide that you don’t want to deal with that issue and the body will mysteriously repair itself, especially when you try your best to heal and there is no change? I am sorry I am just confused


    Comment by PE | March 26, 2019

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