Ask The Council

What will you ask Spirit?


Bob & Cynthia

Welcome to Ask The Council, a blog where you can ask a group of loving and wise spirit guides a question and get an answer, for free. You can also contact us for a paid private phone session with The Council, and you can read the questions other readers have asked and the answers they’ve received. Other posts contain quotations from The Council that we hope you find inspiring, uplifting, and educational.

Ask The Council a Question

If there’s a question you’ve been thinking about and you’re curious how The Council might answer it, we encourage you to either use the blog’s Comments feature to ask your question, or contact us for a private phone session. You can click here to go to the ‘Let us know what you think about this post, or ask The Council a question’ section of this Welcome post and type your question there or you can type your question in the same section at the bottom of any post that inspires you to ask a question or leave a comment.

Since the blog is currently a project we do in our spare time it can take a while for us to do a session with The Council on a question and then publish a post on the session. Depending on the question and the session it can sometimes take weeks after a question is asked to publish a post with The Council’s answer. Please be patient.

The Council

Cynthia is able to communicate with a group of five non-physical spirit guides in a manner similar to the way Esther Hicks communicates with and speaks for the spirit guides, Abraham, and Jane Roberts communicated and spoke for the spirit guide, Seth. I (Bob) basically interview The Council as they speak through Cynthia during what we refer to as a session. Sessions generally last 5-15 minutes and are usually audio recorded. During the session Cynthia is aware of what The Council is saying and she also receives visual impressions and other types of telepathic communication from them.

The Council’s Basic Guidance

Since we began these sessions with The Council around 2009 they consistently emphasize a few basic ideas that we attempt to summarize here:

1) You are an eternal spiritual being in a physical body.

You are the energy and vibration of continuously expanding love, intelligence, and joy.

Your physical experience in your physical body and your psychological experience of your personality is a small part of the totality of who you truly are.

Let yourself imagine from time to time what it might feel like to experience more of the wondrous totality of who you really are, and don’t be surprised if you are able to experience this more often.

2) You are the creator of all that you experience.

As you open to the possibility your true nature is greater than you ordinarily perceive, it becomes easier to consider the possibility that this expanded you is truly the creator of everything that you experience.

If you’re used to thinking of yourself in a more limited sense, the idea that you are the creator of your experience may be difficult to understand. Our post, What About This Idea That We Create Whatever We Desire, offers insights into this idea.

3) You are here to expand the love you are into physical reality.

You chose, as a spiritual being, to come into this physical reality to experience the joy of expanding the love you are as a spiritual being, into this physical reality. This is your purpose for being here.

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Search: Type a keyword or phrase and click the Search button to get a list of posts in the left column that contain the keyword or phrase.

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Categories: This is a list of keywords used to categorize posts. Posts can be included in more than one category, if applicable. Clicking on a category link will display in the left column a list of posts assigned to the category you selected.

Navigation Bar

The Navigation Bar at the top of each page contains a link to the blog Home page and links to the following additional pages:

Welcome: A link that displays this Welcome message in the left column (and the right column). At the bottom of the Welcome message is a Comment box where you can post a general comment about the blog or ask The Council a question.

Questions & Answers: Use this link to display a list of introductions to our longer posts, most of which are responses to reader questions. This is an easy way to check out these more in-depth posts. They are listed in chronological order with the most recent post on top. Clicking on the post title will take you to the page where you can read the complete post.

Contact Us: The Contact Us page contains a contact form similar to the Comment form mentioned above. The difference between the Contact Us form and the Comment forms is that the Contact Us form is a private message to us (Cynthia and Bob). It is not posted on the blog. Comments appear on the post page where the comment is posted. The Contact Us form can be used for communicating with us about private sessions or other private matters you think aren’t appropriate for posting in a public Comment.

Bob & Cynthia


  1. Good day to all. I have received life changing advice from the council before and I’m in desperate need of their advice, once again. I have a long history of anxiety/panic disorder. One which I have worked very closely with and have managed to grow and heal a great deal, from. There is a lot of fear behind my anxiety and when it turns to a panic attack, it get very ugly, very quick. I am unable to function. I shake, become nauseous, pace for hours and become absolutely terrified that I’m going to die. I feel completely out of control. Family/maternal responsibilities are a huge trigger. Which saddens me deeply because there’s nothing more important to me than being joyfully present with my children. I’m in the middle of a very anxious period, where I’m going to bed and waking up with anxiety. And where I battle it throughout the entire day. I know it’s time to shed another layer, to get closer to my highest truth…but I feel completely stuck and don’t know where to start. I only know that I do not want to lose another moment with my children, to this feeling. It feels like it mostly lives in my heart and solar plexus and has been very intense, for several days now. I would very much like to know how to best move through this and which lifetime is affecting my sense of security, the most. Or, where should I focus my healing?

    Thank you for listening and providing such selfless support to those of us in need. May you feel love and support in return.

    Many blessings,

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    Comment by Wendy Aronsson | May 19, 2019 | Reply

  2. For a long time I’ve had an interest in Northern European history and myths (e.g. stone henge, Norse myths etc.). I would like to ask if I had lifetimes associated with this geographic area and where?


    Comment by Rob | May 1, 2019 | Reply

  3. Hello Bob,Cynthia and the Council,

    Thanks for always showing us light and enlightening us on the spiritual journey. I am deeply grateful for your love and guidance for us all.

    I have a question regarding my son. My son will be 6 years old next month and I have a question regarding his health and weight. When I was pregnant with him and even when he was younger – we have been going through some issues as family. Pregnancy, in particular, has been very difficult and I think because of that – his health got impacted.

    He has low weight compared to other kids of his age. Also, since childhood, his immunity is very low and he gets sick very often. He has allergies and high sensitivity to climate and food. He is a very picky eater and even the food that he likes, he eats very little. He is also a hyperactive kid and burns calories faster.

    Can the council please guide me if this was something he has preplanned while in spirit and what is his or our learning lesson from this situation. Also, the main important question that worries me the most is – going forward how can I help him to be more healthy and improve his weight.

    I would really appreciate if the council can give me some advice which can help me as a parent in understanding my kid’s spiritual learnings better.



    Comment by soulpeace191689339 | April 15, 2019 | Reply

    • Hi, SoulPeace. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your son’s low weight and his poor health when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response on our blog as soon as it’s ready. Good luck with your son. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 18, 2019 | Reply

  4. Hi, Bob and Cynthia. I had talked the council before about my lost golden bangles. They told they were in an old purse but now I realized those were my mothers in the house. She has 4 altogether. So can you please ask the council if they see what happened to mine, and there was also money missing with it which was in an envelope.


    Comment by Mystery | April 14, 2019 | Reply

    • Hi, Mystery. We’ll ask The Council for clarification on your missing bangle earrings and money when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of of their response on our blog as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 18, 2019 | Reply

  5. Hi Bob and Cynthia thankyou so much for doing this. I wanted to ask did I marry the right man and did we preplan this marriage? I am asking this because when we got married we went through not so happy times. Though right now everything seems to be fine I sometimes think that something out of nowhere will pop in and we will be going through bad times again. Do you see us having a long happy married life. Also are we meant to have any more children?

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    Comment by curious | April 9, 2019 | Reply

    • Hi, Curious. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your marriage and the possibility of having more children when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their reply on this blog when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | April 10, 2019 | Reply

  6. I love your blog. Thank you for taking the time out to channel and answer questions. I have a question that has been bothering me, and I have been guided to your site, so who knows, maybe the universe was suggesting I ask you! I am a twin flame, and recently I messaged my twin and I feel I may have been too hasty with my choice of words. In short I told him that I am stepping away from him if he does not want to open up to me more, but that if he changes his mind, I will always be here for him. He has not replied and it has been several weeks. He may have misunderstood my intentions, or he may not want to get any closer to me at this time. I am feeling the disconnection and it worries me. My question is did I make the wrong choice? or What can I do to help him open up to me more so we can connect in the 3D?

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    Comment by Grale Irithe | March 10, 2019 | Reply

  7. Hi I would like to ask a question about prebirth communication between parents and the souls of incoming children. If things are planned in spirit beforehand, why are there so many stories about souls asking (or even declaring) individuals to be their parents via dreams (or even appearing in the physical as orbs or the person they were in a previous life)? Are these souls simply asking for the potential parent to engage in something that wasn’t previously planned (as individuals can change course during their physical incarnation)?


    Comment by Jaden Lom | March 4, 2019 | Reply

    • Hi, Jaden. We’re a little confused about your question and are hoping you can provide some clarification. We don’t understand what you mean when you say,

      “…why are there so many stories about souls asking (or even declaring) individuals to be their parents via dreams (or even appearing in the physical as orbs or the person they were in a previous life)? Are these souls simply asking for the potential parent to engage in something that wasn’t previously planned…”

      If you can ask your question a different way so we might be able to understand it better, we’d appreciate it. Thanks. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | March 7, 2019 | Reply

      • There are cases where living people have claimed that a soul has communicated with them asking if they would be that soul’s parent. I was wondering why these cases exist if everything of this matter is planned in spirit beforehand?


        Comment by Jaden Lom | March 7, 2019 | Reply

  8. Hello Bob, Cynthia and the council,

    Thank you so much for being there with me as a guiding person in my spiritual journey. I have a question about meditation. Whenever I go deep in meditation, I see colors. I also see a third eye opening up during my meditation which is when I see different colors(its mostly blue/indigo and sometimes yellow).

    From the meditation center I visit, they tell me that it would be hard to reach the self-realisation stage if you are stuck at your third eye stage. It looks like your energy is trying to connect with the divine through that point rather than reaching until the seventh chakra.

    Can the council please guide me how can I pass this stage in meditation and if you can share some suggestions which can help me that would be wonderful.

    The other question I have is regarding my job. I am getting good job offers but I am hesitant to take those up because of my young kid. Can the council please guide me if I should change my job or stay at my current job where I am being paid less but there is more flexibility?

    Thanks so much!

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    Comment by Seeking truth | February 18, 2019 | Reply

    • Hi, Seeking Truth. We like your meditation question. Until we’re able to do a session with The Council on this question you may want to check out our recent post, Meditations to Balance and Align Your Chakras, if you haven’t already. Cynthia suggests doing the meditations for all the chakras one time and then on a weekly basis doing the meditation just for the Crown chakra. This may help you until we get further guidance from The Council. We also look forward to asking The Council your question about employment. Thank you for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 18, 2019 | Reply

  9. I’m faithfully married with children, and recently started a new job. My boss took my breath away when I met him. It was instant recognition and desire. I could tell he was shaken also. Both of us are committed to our spouses, and we work well together otherwise. I believe we were married in a past life. I also think he was a soldier.

    Why have we come together in this life when we are both unable/unwilling to be together? It’s intense and can be challenging to navigate in a professional setting.

    Thank you!

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    Comment by Anon | February 10, 2019 | Reply

    • Hi, Anon. Sounds like a challenging situation. We’ll ask The Council about your relationship with your boss as soon as we have time and we’ll publish an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thank you for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 10, 2019 | Reply

  10. Hello,

    Thanks for the amazing work you are doing – Bob, Cynthia and the council.

    From past few days sometimes I hear wind whispers in my left ear. Can the council please guide me if I have any message in this experience.

    Also, I have extreme phobia of dark and being alone. Can the council please guide me how can I heal this phobia.

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    Comment by SoulSeekingpeace | February 2, 2019 | Reply

  11. Dear Council, Cynthia and Bob,

    I’m hoping The Council can help me get to the root (literally) of a physical issue I’ve dealt with for most of my life. I have dermatitis and have used every treatment imaginable–from homeopathic to prescription. I’m aware that beliefs are the underlying cause of all physical ailments, so, I would like The Council to tell me which belief I’m holding on to and how I may think differently so that I can move past this malady. Further, this issue seems to be common in my family. My mother had it, my son has it, and I discovered several of my nieces and nephews have it as well. Is this a case of inherited beliefs? And if the explicit belief in having dermatitis is not expressed, meaning, we don’t say to each other: “Well you can expect to have this issue because it runs in our family,” is the transmission of this belief among family members one of a vibrational or psychic nature?

    Love and Light

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    Comment by Vibrationally Aware | February 2, 2019 | Reply

  12. Thank you both for addressing my questions on your blog.I appreciate the work put into it and that there was some back and forth dialogue. The theme of hopelessness is not one I had thought of on my own and the advice given is valuable but not always easy to follow.

    Not being able to identify or directly communicate with my primary guide team is a source of frustration and fits in with the overall sense of isolation and despair. I have tried various techniques and am not making any progress. This issue was not really directly addressed in the reading so I am asking for how to access my team and any other information about them that would be for the highest good.

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    Comment by Fuschia | January 27, 2019 | Reply

    • Thank you for your appreciation for our blog, Fuschia. We’ll ask The Council for ways you can contact your guide or guides when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. We hope their answer helps with your sense of isolation and despair. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 27, 2019 | Reply

  13. Dear Bob, Cynthia and The Council,

    It’s been nearly three years since my abortion. I have been through therapy and I take a very high dosage of antidepressants. I try to communicate with the baby butbInam unseuccessful. I tell myself daily the the abortion was an agreement and we are humans having a spiritual experience, but I cannot move forward. Before the abortion I was pretty happy. Now I am full of sadness, anger, and blame. I’m afraid I will live another 50 years feeling this way. Can The Council tell me what my purpose is in this life? I am lost.

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    Comment by importantornotblog | January 24, 2019 | Reply

  14. Hi, I would love to have some insight on what my past lives were and how they are impacting me now and why I chose/agreed to live this life.

    I would like to know if I could get suggestions about some mental issues I might be going through.

    I would like to ask if they can give me insight into my next life. There is a particular person I feel drawn to and I feel is meant to be my mother in the next life and I would love to hear if it is possible.

    And I would also like to know where my next life will be (assuming I do have one). There is a particular country I have in mind.

    I am male, Jaden is a pseudonym.

    Thank You.

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    Comment by Jaden Lom | December 28, 2018 | Reply

    • Hi, Jaden. Thanks for your questions. We’ll be happy to ask The Council when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 17, 2019 | Reply

  15. I follow your blog and enjoy your readings very much. I have felt a pull many times to contact you.

    I have been unable to succeed in most sectors of my life for at least 6 years, maybe more. I have lost relationships, financial security jobs and excitement for life. My health has also become affected lately and the symptoms make it even harder to keep starting over and over again. This inability to manifest has resulted in depression and confusion about my journey in this incarnation. I typically work on myself spiritually and holistically and yet, all this healing and heightened awareness has not appeared to shift my situation.

    Are there past life issues or between life agreements that are interfering with my forward movement? Or is this perhaps caused in part by the Ascension process or some other spiritual reason? I have sought internal guidance and have come up empty. While I am gifted with many ways to communicate with Spirit, I have never had direct connection with my actual guides. This adds to my feelings of isolation.

    Thank you for hearing me out. Please let me know if you will be taking up my question with the Council. blessings to you both. ❤


    Comment by Fuschia | December 26, 2018 | Reply

    • Hi, Fuschia. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about any past life or between life agreements you may have made or any spiritual reasons that might be interfering with your forward movement when we have time. We’ll post an audio recording of our session on our website when it’s ready. Hang in there. Love and light. Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | December 26, 2018 | Reply

  16. Hi Council, Cynthia and Bob,

    I want to ask The Council about a lovely experience I attracted. I recently hiked to the top of Cathedral Rock in Sedona where I discovered a Najavo spirit healer performing a meditation/ceremony. I was very moved by his singing and suddenly became overwhelmed with emotion and started to cry. After he finished, he was surprised to see me and my friend. Again, when I expressed gratitude at having been present and how powerful the experience was, I nearly started crying uncontrollably. What’s up with the crying? Are Vortexes real? And what happened?

    He went on his way down the mountain ahead of us and in a wonderful moment of Law of Attraction, just as my friend was talking about him at the bottom of the mountain, we suddenly saw him ahead of us. To make a long story short, he invited us to come with him to a Spiritual Cleansing ceremony he was conducting at a nearby river. Excited by the opportunity, we went and it was a lovely experience. As part of the ceremony, we smoked a Peace Pipe (no drugs involved). However, I did feel the mild elevated feeling I experience in a great meditation. Can you offer any guidance about the greater meaning of this experience?

    Love and gratitude

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    Comment by Vibrationally Aware | December 11, 2018 | Reply

  17. I left a 25 year marriage 2 1/2 years agoto a man who I believe is a narcissistic sociopath. I strived for fairness and spent over a year and a half investigating our finances and his financial wrongdoings in preparation of our settlement. The mediator would not hear details. Emotionally, I broke down and settled to it I later realized it was at a large financial cost to me. At the time I believed in my mantra light triumphs dark and continued to believe that truth prevails on the universe. However now I feel lost, financially scared, and despite all the horrible things he’s done, I miss him because I’m afraid of living a life alone, unloved and unable to do things that once may have been possible in our marriage , Like travel. I am confused because I have low motivation and don’t have direction on what to do next. I’m 57 years old and feel like time is passing me by… And I know stress is taking it’s toll on my previously healthy body. I’m confused why I have suffered rather than gotten to a better place because of this divorce. I have had a strong intuition in the past but it’s not strong anymore. I used to achieve things but now I struggle to get out of bed. I’ve been given the lessonlesson that life is not fair… But still want to believe light triumphs dark. ( i’ve been called an earth angel in the past). I don’t know what I’m supposed to be doing. I even think about going back despite all the horrible things he has done to me including discrediting my character, lies, financial abuse, verbal and emotional abuse. I am empathetic to that hurt little boy inside of him rather than the horrible things he’s done. I am looking for guidance as to what the universe has in store for me. I would be very grateful to any insights to help me get on the path to happiness, fulfilment and being able to give back again. I hope to hear from you. thank you.

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    Comment by Laurie | December 3, 2018 | Reply

  18. Hi Cynthia and Bob, thank you so much for all of this great content and value you put other there with this service for everyone I really appreciate it! If you would please be so kind as to answer the following questions I would be very greatful and it would be much appreciated. I am a male aged 34 coming on the cusp of a new 7 year cycle and was wondering the following:

    1. My whole working life I have been in corporate IT however in April this year my path led me into some trainings offering work which helps and coaches people and I learnt some modalities of an energetic and spiritual nature. I am attempting to start a business in all of this, it can get quite overwhelming at times though and I was wondering if the council can shed any light into whether this is a great path and vocation for me?

    2. Also after many years single I finally found the one I thought was it after all of my studies mentioned above. She seemed to match all of my criteria and energically I seemed to feel a very magnetic enegy towards her even though we had only spent a few days in each others company. She lived in another country and the pull was so strong so i packed up where i was and moved to the country which was also my home town anyway and to my dismay she had found somebody else. I am wondering if the council can shed any light if this was a karmic issue or whether I am projecting limiting beliefs in the area of relationships from my unconscious? This was the closest I had ever come to drawing towards me a relationship that I whole heartedly could see myself being with as there was always a hint of hesitance with others in my past.

    Many thanks and lots of love to you both

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    Comment by Roshan Dahya | November 4, 2018 | Reply

  19. Hello Council. Can you help me? About two years ago I was told by my spiritual therapist that she saw a man as my future mate. I really laughed because I only want to be with women. But I was told later by other two intuitives exactly the same thing, they are friends with my family for over 15 years, I trust them. I looked for trusted tarot readers and they say exactly the same. But I don’t want this to happen, I don’t care how good this can be for me. But I also fear that I don’t have the strength to stand up for my ideals if I actually meet this man because I am very lonely, and because something inside of me is also pushing me to do it, even though I don’t want it. In a way I assume that I planned to be in this situation (it sounds like something I would do, to give me no escape), and I know it is supposed to be for healing for past lives where I was abused by men but I don’t want it to happen no matter what. I enter a state of panic only by thinking about it and it really damages me to feel like that. I don’t want to betray my gay community too. I want the love of my life to be a woman and I want to form a family with her. But I have prayed for my angels, talked to them, and this still shows up in readings. What’s worse is that I feel pushed to do it, like I don’t have any option. I was wondering if the Council could comment on my situation and help me to change my life to what I want it to be, to have a meaningful life with a woman with whom I can have a family. Regards from Finland

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    Comment by Sanni | November 2, 2018 | Reply

    • Hi, Sanni. Good questions for The Council. We’ll ask them when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response on our blog when it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | November 3, 2018 | Reply

  20. Hello again. I have a question about a recent past life regression therapy session I had last summer. To say it was mind-blowing is an understatement. It truly transformed my entire perspective on life and death.

    Under hypnosis, instead of reliving some of my past lives, I went to another realm or dimension that I assume was between lives. I felt like I was floating in vast space, but it was incredibly peaceful and full of love and light. I felt truly my spirit expanding and all-encompassing, like I was near Source. This was a place I didn’t want to leave and remained there for a good 45 minutes during the session!

    I briefly talked about a past life where I was crippled and my grandmother carried me around. But I had no desire to talk about any other lives or who this grandmother is in my current life. Soon my spirit guides or higher spirits spoke through me, giving me advice. My questions for the council is, who were these beings? Were they just my “higher self” speaking? And why didn’t I go to any past lives instead? Do they see if I’m heading down the right path in life or if I’m stuck? And what is this place or dimension I went to during the session? Thank you for any insight!

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    Comment by She's a Maineiac | October 22, 2018 | Reply

  21. Hello Bob, Cynthia, and Thr Council,

    I kept saying That I wasn’t going to ask, but I just can’t make sense of what is happening. Can The Council be so bold as to provide a spiritual perspective on the Trump presidency and its effect on the United States and the rest of the world?

    Peace and Love Always,

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    Comment by Audrey | October 20, 2018 | Reply

    • Hi, Audrey. Interesting question. We’re also interested in hearing what The Council has to say about the spiritual perspective of the Trump presidency and its effect on the world. We’ll ask as soon as we can and we’ll post an audio recording of their response on our blog as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 20, 2018 | Reply

  22. First, thank you for all the help and insight you provide for so many people. I’m hoping you can help me too.

    I’ve been fascinated by the thought of reincarnation and past lives for many years. I would love to learn any information in regards to who I was in a past life/lives.

    Thanks again for your help, I hope you are having a wonderful day!

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    Comment by Mona | October 20, 2018 | Reply

    • Hi, Mona. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your past lives, particularly the ones that relate to your current lifetime, and we’ll post an audio recording of their response on our blog as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 20, 2018 | Reply

      • Wonderful, I’m looking forward to it! Thank you!

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        Comment by Mona | October 29, 2018 | Reply

  23. Hello Bob,Cynthia and the council,

    I have a question regarding my 5 year old son. It would be great if the council can please guide me what are his gifts and what can I do as a mother to help him achieve his learnings for this reincarnation. I feel sometimes its tough job as a parent to identify the kid’s gifts – which can add so much happiness if I help him through his journey of life.

    If we had past lives together with me or some of my family members and if they are trying work somethings out – how can I ease the things out for him and them?

    I would appreciate any kind of suggestions and the inputs from council that will help me understand my role in his learnings and what are things I can take care of that will help him the best.

    Thanks so much,
    Love and light!

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    Comment by learningsoulsite | October 7, 2018 | Reply

    • Hi, LearningSoulSite. Thank you for your question. We’ll answer your questions about your son’s gifts, the past lives he’s shared with you or other family members, and your role in his lesson learning as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of The Council’s response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 8, 2018 | Reply

  24. Well hello again. May this find you well after a busy summer! I now have two sons. One of which is nearly 8 and incredibly interested in what “gifts” he has in this lifetime. I encourage him to practice meditation and to manifest whatever it is that peaks his interest, but I would love to have some knowledge about who he is and what he’s come here to do. I would also like to know the same thing for the baby. I have been told that I myself, derive from a Goddess realm and have heard tales of many past lives, and this information (may it be true or not) has helped me immensely in my process. I would like something similar to gift my children with and any tips on how to help them achieve what they’ve come here to do! Thank you so much.

    With love and gratitude,

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    Comment by Wendy Aronsson | September 4, 2018 | Reply

    • Hi, Wendy. We think it’s nice that you encourage you 8 year old son to practice meditation and manifestation. When we have time we’ll ask The Council your questions and post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 5, 2018 | Reply

  25. I’m hoping you guys can help me. My life has been on a downward trajectory for at least five years now and it just does not stop no matter what I do& no matter what I try. In the last 2 years some unexplainable things started happening that I can’t talk about with most people because their response is that I’m insane. I’m trying to figure out what’s going on. What is My Soul Purpose &why am I constantly stuck in negative situations regardless of my attitude or what I do. I’m just at the end of my rope given I truly have nothing left to lose at this point and it’s a little scary. Thanks for any and all help it’s much appreciated.

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    Comment by cmw787 | September 4, 2018 | Reply

    • Hi, cmw787. We apologize for not answering yet the similar question you posted on our website on Aug 16. We understand you’re in a difficult situation and you’d like a response. Please understand we have many questions to answer and we’ll answer your questions as time permits. Please be patient. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 5, 2018 | Reply

  26. Dear Council, Cynthia and Bob,
    Hello again! I’ve really appreciated your help in the past and I hope you can help me again.

    18 months ago I ended an 8 year relationship with my husband, who was verbally and emotionally abusive to myself and my 13yo son (not his child). Although we’re apart, we also have a child together, so we see each other or communicate almost every day, which makes it hard to heal, and gives him many opportunities to continue to manipulate my emotions.

    I’ve had 2 other failed longterm relationships, but only this one has been difficult. I’ve found it completely emotionally devastating. I’m struggling so much with the constant emotional pain, despite being in weekly counselling for 2 years (since before the breakup).

    I feel such a strong and deep, unconditionally loving connection to him, despite his juvenile, abusive behaviour and continued dishonesty and betrayal. He has not earned my respect and hasn’t made any efforts to repair our relationship or get me back (apart from constantly telling me he wants me back). He does not deserve to have me in his life, yet somehow I just can’t let go.

    This week I was tortured by the likelihood that he has a new woman in his life (although he’s been saying he can’t be with anyone but me). He hasn’t admitted it yet but the obvious signs are there, and our child has told me bits and pieces about meeting her. I can’t deal with and don’t understand the pain I feel, it makes no sense to myself, or my family & friends to still have these intense feelings for him. They’re aren’t going away, even though it makes no logical sense to be in a terrible, harmful relationship with him anymore.

    Now that I’ve learned about his new woman I’m completely distraught. I feel like I can’t function, can’t work, can barely get through my days, and feel worthless and betrayed. I feel our marriage was meaningless to him, because we only agreed 3 weeks ago that we weren’t going to get back together at all. And I feel betrayed that he constantly said he wanted me back, and that he could never be with anyone else, and now suddenly he’s moved on. I’m soul destroyed, my heart feels like it’s permanently crushed. I’m SO devastatingly lonely and pining for the love we had, wishing for someone else to love but feeling like I’ll never love anyone but him. I feel our marriage was a divine bond, that we’re deeply connected at soul level. I love him so much and would do anything to have a healthy relationship with him, but he has been unwilling to take the necessary steps, and seems to prefer inertia and to just give up than to get help or counselling for himself.

    I’m hoping you can shed some light on the cause of my intense feelings and hopefully offer some advice please? I feel desperate, anxious, worthless, alone, and like a failure. Thank you again, with much love, Jolanda

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    Comment by Jolanda | August 26, 2018 | Reply

    • Hi, Jolanda. Sorry to hear you’re feeling so poorly. We’ll ask The Council for possible reasons you’re feeling this way when we have time and post the audio recording of their response when it’s ready. Hang on. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 26, 2018 | Reply

  27. I’m sorry to put another comment I am confused about how this works. Do you guys answer all the questions or do you only answer certain ones? I was sandwiched between two other questions and you guys responded to the other two saying that you were going to ask the council but you just liked mine and it wasn’t commented on.


    Comment by cmw787 | August 25, 2018 | Reply

    • Hi, cmw787. We apologize for not responding to your earlier comment. We like to answer questions in the order they’re received, but often their selected based on what seems appropriate at that time. Know that we’ve received your question and it will eventually get asked, answered, and posted on our website, but it could take a while. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 25, 2018 | Reply

      • Thank you for letting me know. I appreciate it. :0)


        Comment by cmw787 | August 26, 2018 | Reply

  28. Hello,

    I have a question on marriage. I have been with my significant other for about 12 years. We are both 39. I have been married twice before, my boyfriend has never been married.

    In the early years of our relationship, I did not want to get married again (for obvious reasons), and would lightly joke about not wanting marriage (not often though). About 3 years ago, my thoughts and feelings changed regarding marriage and I finally brought it up to my partner in a ‘no pressure way’, basically saying “I know I wasn’t interested before, but I am now. I don’t want to pressure you and just thought I’d put it out there, so you can think about it.” He basically said ok, this was in January.

    A month ago, someone introduced him as my husband and he made the comment “No, just boyfriend”, laughing about it. This hurt my feelings, but I didn’t say anything, nor have I brought up the topic since January because I haven’t wanted to pressure him.

    I truly feel we were and are meant to be together. We are best friends, lovers, partners… You name it. I have no doubts, he is a very good man and I know he loves me very much.

    Are we meant to take our relationship to the next level? Is he interested in marriage?

    Thank you so much.

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    Comment by Curious | August 17, 2018 | Reply

    • Hi, Curious. You raise a good question. We’ll ask The Council about your prospects for getting married to your partner and post an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. Stay tuned. Love and light, Bob and Cynthia.


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 17, 2018 | Reply

      • Thank you so much, I look forward to any insight.

        Liked by 1 person

        Comment by Curious | August 30, 2018 | Reply

  29. I was hoping I could get assistance please. My life is on a downward trajectory and has been for years. I’m doing everything in my power to fix it and I cannot do it. It feels as if everyday will surely be worse than the previous .I’m living everyday in 100% misery praying for death. I’m sick of being lectured on the law of attraction. I practiced it&practiced it correctly. I lived it and it has yet to be effective not even in the slightest. I’ve tried to be a good person my whole life. I’ve always given more than I take and I always try to help out people. I don’t understand why this is happening to me or how to fix it. And about 2 years ago through a series of Random events, I was contacted by the pleiadians. And it’s been ongoing ever since but I cannot truly understand what they’re wanting for me or how I can help. I know they got angry with me at the beginning because I kept asking questions about myself. They literally said “it won’t work, she only wants to know about herself”.I have deciphered(from them) that I have significant purpose I was supposed to fulfill. They said something about being the only Oracle left on Earth(they said the other 7 were on Venus)which doesn’t make sense to me because the internet shows thousands and thousands of “oracles”. Case in point aren’t you considered an oracle?
    I realize I kind of rambled and apologize if it’s hard to follow. I’m genuinely grateful for any help you can and thank you for doing this for people. I’d imagine it’s extremely helpful for many people.

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    Comment by cmw787 | August 16, 2018 | Reply

  30. Thanks for allowing questions. My question is about twin flames. I believe absolutely that I am in a relationship with my twin flame, and have seen the universe confirm this over and over. My twin was diagnosed as bipolar around the age of 11. He had a spiritual awakening after we met and has believed since then that he is not bipolar. I would like to ask if strong emotions can reflect in a twin before you have even met them. This explanation of events is something that popped into my head almost on it’s own (the universe?). Have you ever heard of this happening? Could he have been experiencing my traumatic childhood, and I his through our twin connection, long before we met. Thanks for your consideration.

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    Comment by Brooke | August 1, 2018 | Reply

    • Interesting questions, Brooke. We’ll ask The Council when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 1, 2018 | Reply

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