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Why Did My Partner Cross Over Sooner Than Expected?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Misti, who has a question about divine timing. She says her twin flame partner crossed over earlier this year from cancer leaving her devastated and confused. Many years earlier he was told his life plan by a guru and was supposed to live longer than he did. He was a powerful medium and we were both certain he’d recover from his illness. Why did my partner leave earlier than I expected?

The Council feels Misti’s partner learned most of what he wanted to learn before he passed. No matter who tells you how long you’re going to live, your spirit knows why it’s here, what it’s looking for, when you achieve it, and when you plan to leave. Your partner was very excited about going back into spirit and bringing the information and the feeling of what he learned with him, and then to come back in a new life.

Misti asks if her partner was needed sooner than expected on the other side and The Council replies somewhat humorously that nothing is needed on the other side. It’s all there.

Misti asks if her partner taught her the lessons she needed to learn sooner than expected and she released him sooner? The Council says Misti hasn’t learned all her lessons and she’ll be in this lifetime for quite a while yet. Be grateful for what you learned from your partner and move forward. You’ll always receive help from spirit and from your partner even though he’s passed over.

The Council advises Misti not to feel she learned too quickly and helped your partner crossover. He didn’t rush back to spirit because something’s wrong back there and he’s really needed. He crossed over joyfully with information, with feeling, with understanding that would help everyone grow, even in spirit.

Your partner learned that confusion is okay. He learned that when you’re here you don’t ever reach your full potential. There’s always more desires and more you want to learn. You go through each lesson and you take the information with you to the other side so that even in spirit everyone grows. Your partner learned about chaos, he learned about confusion, and he learned about healing. And he was excited to take this information and the feelings back to spirit.

The Council closes by saying your partner definitely didn’t need to heal the cancer her was suffering from before he crossed over.

Listen to the entire 4-minute audio recording of our session with The Council to hear all their guidance for Misti and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it, or ask The Council your own question.

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October 19, 2019 - Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Death, Emotions, Gratitude, Healing, Helping Others, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , ,


  1. Hi, Grieving Widow. Hang in there. We’ll ask The Council your questions about your purpose in life without your husband as soon as we have time and we’ll post a recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Try to think positively. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 13, 2021

  2. I have also had similar questions. My husband passed suddenly in a car accident and I am unable to accept it. I don’t know how to and am constantly trying to connect with him and continue our relationship. I don’t want to be here without him.

    What is my purpose here without him? Also we have 3 sons and the relationship with my oldest son is not good. How can I help him with his life lessons and be the best mother to them all when I can’t even find joy in anything anymore?

    I don’t believe I chose to be without my husband and I am struggling to find a purpose or passion to stay here. Do I have a purpose to remain here?

    I also feel my sons will learn their life lessons better than if I was not here as I feel like I hinder them.

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    Comment by Grieving widow | February 12, 2021

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