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Will an Old Boyfriend Come Back into My Life?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Ashley, who’s been plagued with nostalgic feelings for a man she hasn’t communicated with in 7 years. It all started with him coming to me in a dream and since then I’ve often had dreams about him. I feel like he visits me, but is this just wishful thinking because he’s moved on with his life?

The Council says this soul visits you in your dreams because you’ve had other lifetimes together and because you’ve had times that were special in this lifetime, but you didn’t have the intension of staying in each other’s lives. The spirit of this man can feel your longing and sadness and comes to visit you in your dreams because there’s great love there. But now it’s time for you to move on with your life and learn the other lessons you’ve planned.

Ashley says, to his knowledge I’ve moved on and he’s unaware of these feelings I still hold for him. The Council says in human form he’s not aware of these feelings, but his higher self knows.

Ashley says she wants to let go of these feelings and I’m in a relationship now, but things have become clear to me during the last year how much I’ve held on to this man. The Council says the spirit of this man also feels this holding on and he’s come to try and remind you to move on and experience the other things you’ve planned.

Ashley says she was with this man the night his sister died 10 years ago. We were neighbors and best friends growing up. Our mothers were close to each other. I miss this man so much, but I also told him my feelings after we finally had a fling and he shut down the relationship. I realized how much of an influence he had on my life and how much he continues to influence it because he’s not in it. The Council asks if you’re able to wish this man love and happiness. That’s what’s needed for both of you.

Ashley says this man broke my heart and I still haven’t healed 10 years later. We don’t speak. What should I do? The Council reminds Ashley they do speak, but on a spiritual level rather than a human one. When you have these dream visitations, be aware of what’s being said and the feelings you have. When you’re awake, think of this man and be grateful for these visitations, be grateful for the experiences you had together, and be happy knowing in future lives you can be together again if you desire. Have your experiences in your current life and this man will have his experiences. When you return to spirit you can share what you’ve accomplished and when you’re ready, you’ll move on to new experiences that you both want together.

Ashley says part of me feels we had a spiritual contract and have some unfinished business. I feel like I’m not in a position to reconnect with him because it would hurt too much to be turned down. I’m terrified of how he thinks of me, but I wish I knew. The Council says the contract Ashley’s talking about has been fulfilled. You experienced what you had together and now it’s time to move on. This was something you both agreed on in spirit.

Ashley closes by asking if this man will come back into her life? The Council says right now they don’t see this happening, but with your meditations, visualizations, and feelings, if it’s something you want, you can create this.


Listen to the entire 6-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Ashley and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it, or ask your own question.

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July 11, 2020 - Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Feelings, Gratitude, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , ,

7 Comments »

  1. Hello. I would like to thank you for your services to us all. It really is beautiful what you’re doing and I’ve never seen anything like it on a personal level like this. It reminds me a lot of Dolores Cannon’s work and The Law of One (the latter being very new to me). I have struggled with depression a lot in my life. I am 22 years old and have always felt out of place since I was very young. I feel homesick often even when I was a child growing up with my family. The emotions are so strong sometimes that I just want to explode in sadness and frustration. I would just like to hear what I need to hear from the council pertaining to myself on a personal level. I’ve always felt the need to progress spiritually and I feel very alone right now. Thank you and much love.

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    Comment by Derek | August 1, 2020 | Reply

  2. Hi Bob, Cynthia and the council,
    I hope you are doing well. I would like to ask the council about my mother, from whom I was separated as a baby. She had abandoned me years ago but now she wants to connect with me again. I don’t know how to react because I barely have any loving feelings for her since I never really knew her and she left me. I am not trying to meet her and neither can I due to certain situations. Do you feel that I will be seeing her in the near future and if so about how long will it be before we reconnect?

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    Comment by Anxious | July 30, 2020 | Reply

    • Hi, Anxious. We’ll be happy to answer your questions about your mother when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | August 1, 2020 | Reply

  3. Hello Bob and Cynthia. I came across someone that was teaching a technique called “Memory Flipping” to change your memories to something that feels good to help you live a better life and achieve success, and a life you want. He talked about where he went through “The Secret and using the Law of Attraction” and that it didnt really work for him. A lot of people I have seen have said “The Secret and the Law of Attraction” never worked for them. But doing “Memory Flipping” and that has helped him change his life around. Basically in a nut shell he is saying if someone has a bad or traumatic experience it could cause a limiting belief or no belief and you could take weeks of subliminal messages or visualization or apply “The Law of Attraction” you would not be able to get it. Because of that experience.

    My questions for The Council are, what do they think of “Memory Flipping?” If we “Flip Memories” does that take away from the lessons we wanted to learn? And since the Law of Attraction is always at work, why have so many people “claim” it not to work. Be that through thoughts, speech, vision boards, etc. What do we need to change to bring about our desires using The Law of Attraction? Is it because of traumatic experiences or “bad” experiences and it causing or us letting it cause a limiting belief or total lack of belief that The Law of Attraction will not bring our desires? So would Memory Flipping be a catapult to changing that belief by changing the memory of a traumatic or “bad” experience. What about life plans, if we planned in spirit to experience a traumatic or “bad” experience how does that all play into this.

    Thank you Bob and Cynthia. Blessings, Love and Light! ❤

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    Comment by Harmony | July 16, 2020 | Reply

    • Hi, Harmony. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about memory flipping when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 18, 2020 | Reply

  4. Hello to Bob, Cynthia, and The Council! My wife has been following you for quite some time and sharing with me your many blessings and answers. I am interested in all things spiritual, metaphysical and unexplained and I believe that there are many worlds and dimensions where all possibilities (and impossibilities) are explored and manifested.
    One day my wife and I were out for a drive and had an odd and eerie feeling we were traveling along a road that wasn’t how it should have been on the map, and after several minutes of curious and anxious travel, we arrived at a house she had seen in a recent dream. At that point we finally felt like we were “back” from our “detour”.
    Subsequent visits to the area seem to indicate we moved back and forth between points on the road that are several miles apart, and out of sequence with a normal drive. During the ride we were both conscious, but it seemed eerie enough that later we thought we may have been influenced by aliens or otherworldly forces. I am curious to hear what you could tell me about that.
    Thank you so much for the work that you all do and the guidance you provide.

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    Comment by Ian | July 12, 2020 | Reply

    • Hi, Ian. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about the possibility of aliens or other forces influencing your curious trip as soon as we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your question. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 16, 2020 | Reply


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