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What Can You Tell Me About This Man In My Life?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Momof3, who’s curious about a man that has recently come into her life. She says, I feel very comfortable and safe with him, as if I’ve known him for years, but we just recently met. This Council says this was something that was needed at this time.

Momof says, I find myself wanting more in this relationship, but I’m not sure he feels the same way and this is unnerving for me. I’m surprised by my feelings because my husband passed away last year and I didn’t think I could feel anything for anyone else. The Council says it’s wonderful that you do feel for this man. You’re at a point in your life where you can create a relationship again. You’re not supposed to stay morning forever someone who’s passed away. If you meditate and talk to the spirit of your husband, you’ll feel him around you in another dimension or in energy. Going forward in your current life you want comfort and companionship. You’d like that feeling of love again and there’s nothing wrong with that.

Momof asks if this relationship was pre-planned or did I have previous lives with this person? The Council says this relationship was pre-planned. In one of your wonderfully happy lives you were a married couple in Hawaii. You had a life close to nature and believed in several gods and goddesses. You brought joy into this life and had many celebrations together. There’s a comfort in this person coming into your life right now, and you needed some comfort.

Momof asks if this relationship is just a passing thing because I’m grieving my husband’s passing and I’m vulnerable? The Council says at this point you can make this relationship what you wish it to be. There was a plan to make it something more than just passing by each other. With your thoughts and how you think about what you want you will create this relationship or not create it. If you want more, but you’re constantly afraid it’s your imagination and the relationship won’t happen, then that is what you’re creating. If you can meditate and picture the relationship the way you’d like it to be, picture it growing, but don’t rush it, then you’ll have that manifest in your life. It’s up to you. You both planned to come into this reality and create your relationship as you came together, and you’d decide at that point what direction you want to go in.

Momof asks if the relationship can actually be based on true feelings that we build on and find love again? The Council says this is a wonderful way to do this, so do the inner work. There are feelings on this man’s part, but how it moves forward is up to what you create and what you want. You’ll experience this relationship the way you create it.

Listen to the entire 4-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Momof3 and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it. Or you can ask The Council your own question by typing it into one of the Comment boxes that appear at the bottom of most of our blog pages.

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September 22, 2021 - Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Feelings, Love, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , , , , , , ,


  1. Sorry to hear about your difficulties, Momof3. When we have time we’ll do another session with The Council to see if they can provide some clarity and we’ll post an audio recording of the session when it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 17, 2021

  2. Thank you so much for your response. So I have been practicing what you suggested and was taking it slow and following his lead,and signs i was getting from universe werr positive, and really felt like I was connecting deeply with this person. Was i wrong?
    Because he ghosted me. He basically just stopped communicating with me out of the blue, and didn’t answer when I enquired why. I thought everything was perfect and he just stopped. Any idea why he did that?
    I am obviously devastated and feel really disappointed and hurt for opening up my heart to him. I don’t understand why he did that especially since I really felt we were so spiritually and deeply connected in a positive way. But i dont have any hard feelings towards him…i feel on a soul level that he is a good person… and i still want to pursue a relationship with him. Should I? Or is he not interested? Should i just let go, cut ties and forget hom?
    I know he has his free will, whether he wants to pursue a relationship with me or not, and i guess he doesn’t, even though i did and tried to manifest it. But wondering what I did wrong or what i need to change so this doesn’t happen again. I font eant to go through repeat situations if it my lesson or me that needs to change. And light on that? Was it miscommunication or that he is just doesn’t want me? I followed my heart and Intuition and thought we were awesome together and wanted the same thing, and that we could actually even complement each other. I was wrong. Now im doubting my own intuition and guides. Which is upsetting me because i can’t trust any feeling i have now. I felt like i listened to my intuition and was confident in the signs that i trusted was from the universe and spirit guides with regards to the relationship and moving forward with it, but it turned out to be wrong. I don’t know how to let go of this situation. Any help?
    As always thank you for your insight love and blessings to you all.

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    Comment by Momof3 | October 15, 2021

  3. Hi, Eden. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about your spirit guides when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | September 23, 2021

  4. Hi Cynthia and Bob,

    I have the below question for The Council please:

    Could you please tell me who my spirit guides are at this particular stage in my life journey? I have heard that certain spirit guides will come and go in your life according to the help that you need at that particular time. I would love to know who’s around me and what it is that they are helping me with. The reason I am curious to know is so that I am able to better imagine and connect with them.

    Thanks so much xoxo

    Liked by 1 person

    Comment by eden | September 22, 2021

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