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Do I Have A Twin Flame, Not A Soulmate?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Bluestar Child.

BSC: I would like to ask The Council if I have a twin flame, and I don’t mean a soulmate?

Council: Ahh, here we go again. In your reality so many have decided to bring in this twin flame or this soulmate. This can be difficult for you to understand, but we’ll put it out there in as gentle and simple a way as we can.

We were all created at the same time. There are no new souls. There are souls that are new by creating your current reality*. And so this twin soul that you’re looking for…

Bob: Twin flame?

Council: The twin flame that you’re looking for is you. You are the twin flame, the twin soul. When you meet this person you say, “Is this my twin flame because I look at this person and I feel so connected? We like so many of the same things. We say the same words. We understand the same things.”

It’s because this person is you in another form. This person is a mirror that’s reflecting part of yourself back to you. Isn’t that interesting?

BSC: What spiritual contract did I have with George, a boy I studied with at university? Was he my twin flame, or was he just another soulmate in my life?

Council: He was just another soulmate. You had a connection way back in Lemuria where you worked together, working with energy, working with crystals, working with the environment, and working with plants. And we see here in that particular life there was a great friendship between the two of you. And so you’ve come back together in your current life to meet, to recognize each other on a higher level, and to have a greater understanding of some particular things in this reality. And so there should be comfort in that relationship, but it’s another soul.

BSC: If I have a twin flame, but it’s not this boy, George, is my twin flame incarnated on another planet (for example, in the Plieades, where I come from, or another dimension), or is he in my current incarnation?

Council: This twin flame, as we’ve said, is you. And so when you meet someone, and you can meet many people in this reality and think, this is my twin flame, because each part of you will be reflected back to you in different ways, but you’ll feel the connection. You are connecting to another part of you that wishes to give you comfort and show you another way to handle things. It’s you teaching you how to be. And it’s wonderful because you’re just relying on you.

BSC: If he is incarnated now, have I met him? Or do I have to meet him in this life?

Council: There will be a meeting. What we see, what is planned, quite soon you’ll meet this part of you.

Bob: So Bluestar Child will meet a man who she’ll consider a twin flame?

Council: In her current reality there’s a spirit that will appear in her current life that will be considered, because of the connection which will be felt, would be considered a twin flame. It hasn’t happened yet.

*Note: It’s not clear to Cynthia and me what The Council means when they say, “We’re all created at the same time. There are no new souls. There are souls that are new by creating your current reality.” We intend to ask The Council for clarification on these points and either publish them soon in a new post, or we’ll update the current post to make their ideas more clear. Thanks for your patience.

Listen to the entire 6-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Bluestar Child and the rest of us, and let us know what you feel about it. You can also ask The Council your own question by typing it into one of the Comment boxes that appear at the bottom of most of our blog pages.

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October 3, 2022 - Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Reincarnation, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , ,


  1. Hi, Momof3. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your soulmate and your relationship with your son when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response when we have time. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 17, 2022

  2. This topic of twin flames and soulmates has been something that has been intriguing me. I have often wondered if my late husband is my twin flame or soulmate. I was inseparable from him but he passed away. But I still feel connected with him spiritually and energetically and it overwhelms me sometimes. Im sure we had a soul contract or past lives together or maybe im just believing these things to have answers to cope with his loss.
    But since him I have met and had relationships and also feel connected those men. I guess they all have come into my life to teach me something. Are they all soul mates too or is there just one?
    I was told that my late husband was not the one I would spend my life with and my true soulmate/twin flame would be after him. Of course I never thought that would be true and I would lose him. I wonder if I have met this person I would marry now? I have had a love relationship that recently ended and am trying not to get involved in another one too soon, but I feel like there’s connections with people I meet. In particular a man I’m dating J, but don’t want to make same mistakes of past relationship. I do believe all these friendships and meetings are to teach me something and help me heal. And for me to help him as well. In helping him I feel healing. But I feel I’m searching for my soulmate and feel incomplete.
    Then there is my oldest son, we are so alike but also butt heads alot. I feel like he hates and love me. And it’s a difficult relationship. Is he from my past and have to work out things with me from before? How can I have a loving relationship with him. Or just let him be and concentrate on myself?
    Maybe I’m just trying to find answers to feelings and emotions I feel towards men I can’t explain. Maybe it’s just me being lonely and simply wanting to be loved and to love like it was with my husband. But I feel lost and confused and feel like I’m constantly search for my other half. And I try to hold back my emotions and feelings because I know I’m vulnerable and just looking to be lived like I was with my husband . But it’s difficult because I feel when I don’t listen to my heart and emotions, I feel anxiety and unbalanced and overwhelmed.
    Would love to know if I have already met the person I was told I would eventually marry and who it is or name. Or if that was just something something just made up.
    Thank you for all your insight and answers. Blessings to you all.


    Comment by Momof3 | October 4, 2022

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