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What You Create In Your Life Is The Only Thing That’s Important

This post answers questions for The Council from an anonymous reader who asks about her relationship with her husband.

Anonymous: I have a question about my family and marriage. My husband is not very supportive and he’s very calculating in our relationship. I lost my job three months ago and he doesn’t support me financially.

Council: So we’d ask you, what are you doing in this time? Are you trying to find another job? Are you being careful about what you think? When you constantly think this is hard, your husband is manipulative, he’s not supporting you – as you think of this, you create more of it. So hopefully we have all learned that.

So now think of when the relationship was better and when he was supportive. And also think about, I don’t need to depend on that. What can I do for myself? It’s a lesson in being independent.

And so we’d also say, yes you’ve written for some guidance and we would simply ask, have you sat down and spoken to your husband about how you feel? And not in a threatening way and not to have a fight, but if he was supportive before, why isn’t he supportive now? Find out where he is on his path, what he feels, and why he’s acting like this.

In your particular situation, communication is very important. So the first step is to sit down and have a talk about what’s going on, and why there is that change.

Anonymous: Verbally he supports me, but when it comes to money his attitude toward me is very calculating.

Council: So that is what you speak about. It’s good to have questions about this. It’s good to bring this up so that there’s a dialog.

Anonymous: I’ve been managing everything on my own. He’s not this way with his parents and other friends.

Lately he’s saying that he may not live long. I also have intuitions, being an empath, that he may not be able to live beyond two or three years. Can The Council please guide me if my husband’s soul has planned an ending, and what I can do to improve the relationship so that I’m truly happy for whatever time we have together?

Council: Well we’d say here it’s not important what your husband is planning. It’s important what you imagine will happen. If you don’t want your husband around, yes, you could imagine him passing from this incarnation very soon, or maybe lasting a year. But when you have that feeling it’s going to happen, you will create it because of that feeling.

You can change that if you don’t want your husband to leave this lifetime. Imagine him getting better, feeling better, becoming more of a partner, and having more understanding between the two of you.

It’s important for you to know what you create in your life is the only thing that’s important, and it comes from your thoughts and your feelings.

So don’t waste energy thinking about what is he planning or what is he doing. How do you want your life to go forward? How do you want it to unfold? That’s how powerful you are. We hope you understand this.

And so we wish you all love, happiness, and excitement on your journey, and think of wonderful, wonderful things to experience. It could be the littlest thing, but focus on that, and be in a state of gratitude for everything that you have and everything you’ve passed through. And that vibration of gratitude, little by little, will begin to change your life.

Listen to the entire 5-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Anonymous and the rest of us, and let us know what you feel about it.

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December 17, 2023 - Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Feelings, Gratitude, Imagination, Marriage, Questions & Answers, Relationships, You Create Your Reality | , , , ,

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  1. I found it interesting that Council said that Anonymous could imagine her husband passing, and this would make it happen. Or she could imagine him living longer if she didn’t want him to pass. I’m surprised because I didn’t believe we could affect someone else’s lifespan in such a way. I thought that would be up the soul of the person in question and couldn’t be influenced by another.

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    Unknown's avatar Comment by Anonymous | December 19, 2023


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