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Whether to Leave an Abusive Relationship

This post is inspired by questions from a reader named Jolanda who says it’s taken her a long time to realize her husband (who is the father and step-father of their children) is verbally and emotionally abusive to her and their stepchildren.

Jolanda asks if she’s right to stay with her husband and The Council says there was a pre-birth agreement they would come together in this lifetime. They see previous lifetimes where Jolanda had experienced a lack of courage and in this lifetime she desires to learn to be a protector of herself and her children. The Council adds that her children are part of this agreement and it’s their purpose to push Jolanda to become the protector she wants to be.

The Council asks if Jolanda feels it’s safe for her children to be around her husband, or is it time to move on to protect them. The Council says these questions are there to push her in the direction she wants to go. And they add Jolanda doesn’t need to grow any more to realize the relationship with her husband is an abusive one.

The Council says Jolanda’s spirit wants to experience the other side of the coin – the kind of partner she’d feel unconditional love with and feel her children are safe, growing, and happy. They say it’s her choice and the lesson to protect herself and her children is right in front of her.

Jolanda says it’s difficult to be yelled at, blamed, ignored, and devalued by someone who means the world to her. And The Council asks if she believes by staying in this relationship she’ll acquire the strength she needs and the love she wants.

The Council advises Jolanda to love herself and her children and put herself on a path where she experiences this, and to picture herself as strong and happy, having a loving partner and happy children.

The Council says if Jolanda stays in this relationship it will stay the way it is. This is the way she created this relationship – to stay this way until she finds the strength to change it.

Listen to the entire 11-minute session (below) to hear all The Council’s guidance for Jolanda.

May 22, 2016 - Posted by | Audio Content, Challenges, Channeling, Choice, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships | , , , , ,

2 Comments »

  1. Dear Cynthia, Bob and the Council,
    I am very interested to know a particular past life. I recently had a reading from a clairvoyant and I asked her if i was ever psychic in a past life. She said I was an Oracle in Egypt and I lost my head! I cannot find much on the internet about Oracles in Egypt, only about the Oracle of Delphi, Greece. I wasn’t able to ask her more about this as I was running out of time. Can you please ask the council if this is correct, what other events happened in that life and why did i lose my head? excited to hear your answer and absolutely love this site. Much Love, Christine xx

    Comment by Christine | May 25, 2016 | Reply

    • Hi, Christine. We’ll ask The Council about the past life as on oracle in Egypt and post they’re reply. Much love. Bob & Cynthia

      Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 26, 2016 | Reply


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