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What are Our Lessons in This Lifetime?

This post is inspired by a reader named, Arvinda, who asks about the lessons she and her husband intend to learn in this lifetime.

The Council says we all have the lesson to show love to everyone, including ourselves. Sometimes there’s an idea of what you want to experience in this lifetime, and the rest of the time you’re learning how you create your life with your thoughts and your feelings. What are your thoughts attracting into this life? What experience are you bringing to yourself and how are you handling this?

The Council says your lesson learning in this lifetime is coming from another lifetime where you and your husband met in your early teens and your husband was mute (he couldn’t speak). There were many who were unkind to your husband in this previous lifetime and you tried to help him.

In your current lifetime one of your lessons is communication. You both planned to learn to communicate your feelings honestly with each other and to communicate your thoughts about what you go through daily. You are both here to learn how to listen to each other.

The Council asks if the two of you communicate well with each other? Do you stop to understand when your partner speaks? Do you try to understand the feelings behind the words? The Council says this may seem like something very simple, but they say it’s not simple. It’s a major leap in your soul’s growth when you can communicate and understand.

The Council says you then planned to take this lesson and expand it to listening to your children. Are you there for them? Have you helped them learn to communicate their truth and feelings? Do you show understanding? They say this is a major lesson.

And The Council says you wanted to expand this lesson further. How are you with the rest of your family? your neighbors? with people you work with? Do you listen to them? Do you try to understand what they are saying? Do you show patience and concern with these people? And most of all, do you show love with your words and your actions?

In this lifetime you and your husband wished to open your home to others and have them feel welcome. Do you do that with your family? with your neighbors? It was a great wish to have people come and feel safe.

You say you’ve done much, but haven’t received back what you’ve given out. The Council says when you do for others, you do from your heart, not with the thought of getting something back for what you’ve done. When you feel annoyed, that’s your higher self saying that you’re not going along with what you planned.

The Council says listen to your children and your neighbors and be there for them. Show love and show everyone it’s good to communicate. That’s how we connect in our physical reality.

The Council says it’s particularly important to get your husband to communicate because that’s what he’s carried over from the other lifetime where he wasn’t able to speak. You will coax each other to communicate.

Listen to the audio recording of our entire 11-minute session with The Council to hear their guidance for Arvinda and the rest of us, and let us know how you feel.

September 17, 2017 - Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Love, Other Lifetimes, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , , , , , , ,


  1. Thank you for your kind words and your questions, Mel. As soon as we have time we’ll ask The Council you questions about past lives and agreements with different souls. We’ll post their response as soon as it’s ready. Please be patient. It might take a couple weeks. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 26, 2017

  2. Hi there! First, thank you for doing these. It’s beautiful. I just wanted to ask for some guidance in any area of my life. I trust that my guides know which ones need to be addressed. Mainly curious about past lives, and my ex husband and I’s agreement in this life. Would love to hear the agreements made with my parents as it would help process alot. One of my sons Aubrey? Or my youngest Aura? Any loved ones want to say Hi Lol? I don’t know how this works, or if there are rules. So if I asked too many questions, I totally understand. I trust whatever one you can help with in that case. Again, much appreciated. This is an insanely selfless and beautiful way to help people heal etc. ❤

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    Comment by Melanie Waters | October 25, 2017

  3. Let clear that up. I reading about you and the site and I saw the word payment and I guess I misinterpreted things. Sorry. Just followed you.


    Comment by Crystal Stewart | October 1, 2017

  4. Hi, Crystal. Yes, this site is free to follow. We’re not sure what’s confusing about it. We hope you enjoy our site. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia

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    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | October 1, 2017

  5. Is this site free to follow. I’m confused


    Comment by Crystal Stewart | October 1, 2017

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