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Waking Up with Grieving Memories of Her Grandfather’s House

This post answers questions from a reader who goes by the name, LearningSoulSite, who says sometimes she wakes up in the night and has grieving memories of her grandparent’s house. The grief feels like an anxiety attack.

The Council says LearningSoulSite (LSS) is having these disturbing thoughts because they’re there to teach her to replace these thoughts with better feeling thoughts and to remember the good times. When she has anxiety, she should think of her grandfather in a happy way. Unfortunately many people in this time learn from sadness and challenges, and it’s difficult for them until they’re able to change their reality to a happier one. If LSS’s dreams are giving her anxiety, it’s to show her the good that’s there for her and it’s her choice to find it and focus on that reality.

LSS also says she doesn’t live with her parents and she sometimes is afraid of loosing them. The Council says they understand in our reality there’s a passing on where her parents will return to spirit, but she’ll never truly loose her parents. Can LSS think when her parents return to spirit how joyous this is for them, that she hasn’t lost them, and she and her parents will be reunited in spirit eventually?

What can LSS do to enjoy her parents now? If you’re not near them there’s the phone and email. There are ways to connect. Send your parents energy and love with your mind when you have some quiet time. They’ll receive this. As she leaves the thought of loosing her parents and focuses more on always being connected with them, she’ll feel more of this connection.

LSS asks if her grandparents are trying to tell her something by reminding her of those memories she has about the grandparent’s home? The Council says LSS’s grandparents come to her and ask her to remember them with love and to find those good memories. Change these anxiety-producing memories to more joyous ones.

LSS’s grandparents only come to her in the vibration of love, but LSS is only able to take in what she believes they are offering. When LSS dreams of her grandparents and she get nervous and thinks her grandparents are coming to her for some bad reason, that is how she’ll perceive it.

LSS should think her grandparents are coming to show her love and they are around her. They’ve passed and are around LSS, and when her parents pass they’ll also be around her. And when it’s LSS’s time to pass, she’ll also be around.

Listen to the entire 6-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for LearningSoulSite and the rest of us, and let us know what you feel about it.

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June 29, 2018 - Posted by | Audio Content, Beliefs, Channeling, Choice, Love, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , , ,


  1. So glad you like this. Keep striving for greatness.


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | July 4, 2020

  2. “Unfortunately many people in this time learn from sadness and challenges, and it’s difficult for them until they’re able to change their reality to a happier one.” I thought this was so interesting and exciting. I’d wondered about living a happy, easy life, and if that meant we had chosen to stop learning lessons. In that sense it made me almost shy away from having things just be great, but this message from The Council makes me realize that was such an assumption and it’s possible to learn without struggle! Very cool.

    Liked by 1 person

    Comment by Anonymous | July 2, 2020

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