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How Can I Mend a Deteriorated Personal Relationship?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Glenda, who says she met someone about 8 years ago that she believes was her twin soul. We had so many similarities and we could tell without a word what the other was thinking.

The Council says this is because there have been many, many lifetimes where you’ve popped in and out of each others lives, almost like brothers and sisters. The two of you have had lots of fun as well as a lot of challenges. And you continue to want to come in and out of each other’s lives.

Glenda says two years ago this man took a job that required a move to a city further away. He changed after this move and he was aware of this and frustrated by it. We had a few arguments about his behavior, which had never been an issue before, and it led to him largely cutting me from his life.

Glenda says she understands about loss. Both her parents as well as some dear friends have passed from this life and she’s had failed relationships also. The situation with this man doesn’t feel like any of those. It’s more like a piece of herself is missing. She asks The Council if there’s a way to mend the link between her and this man.

The Council says this was an experience she wanted to have from a spiritual perspective. She wanted to learn about loss, how to accept it, and how to let it go. This relationship can be mended, but it will take time. The Council suggests Glenda does the inner work first by sending loving energy and talking to the spirit of this person. You are here to help each other. Learn from this situation. It’s okay to leave each others lives and you’ll always be able to return.

The Council says this situation has been repeated by the two of you in past lives, but there’s a desire on both your parts to be in relationship in this lifetime. The frustration this person is going through is what leads to the arguments and you have to allow this soul time to work this out on their end. With patience, inner work, and meditation contact will be made again. The Council feels it’s possible to hear from this person in six months, but they say the timing is also up to the people involved.

You wish to experience time together then separate. Sometimes in past lives it was for good and sometimes you came back. When you separate you learn more about yourselves and when you come back together you’re able to share what you’ve learned and you both grow from this.

The Council says there’s only a slight possibility of this relationship becoming romantic in this lifetime, but it wasn’t really something that was planned from a spiritual perspective.

Listen to the entire 4-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Glenda and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about this, or ask your own question.

If you like this post, please consider clicking the LIKE button in the section following the recording to let us and other readers know. Thanks.

January 13, 2020 - Posted by | Audio Content, Challenges, Channeling, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , ,


  1. Sounds wonderful, Glenda.


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 26, 2020

  2. Hi, Cynthia & Bob. While I haven’t heard anything from my friend, I did have a dream this morning shortly before I woke up. In it, I was upset. He hugged me and told me that our paths would bring us back together.

    Liked by 1 person

    Comment by Glenda McCarthy | February 26, 2020

  3. Hi, Eden. We’ll be happy to ask The Council how you can move on from a previous romantic relationship when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response on our blog as soon as it’s ready. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 14, 2020

  4. It was our pleasure, Glenda. We’re glad The Council’s answer makes sense to you. We hope you enjoy following their guidance.


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 14, 2020

  5. I wanted to thank you very much for taking the time to answer my question. The answer makes considerable sense, and I will attempt to follow your guidance.

    Liked by 1 person

    Comment by Glenda McCarthy | January 13, 2020

  6. Hi Bob and Cynthia,
    I would love it if you could please ask the council about my inability to move on from a past romantic relationship. I was with my ex-partner for a year when he ended it sudddenly even though it was going so well. Since then I have been unable to move forward and he is constantly on my mind like an obsession. It has been over a year and a half since the relationship ended. Could you please give me some advice on how to move forward from this and have a peaceful mind.
    Many thanks xoxo

    Liked by 1 person

    Comment by Eden | January 13, 2020

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