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What’s Blocking Me From Attracting A Romantic Partner Into My Life?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Eden, who asks, What is blocking me from attracting a romantic partner into my life? I’ve been single for years now and I’ve done a lot of work on myself during this time in order to welcome in a partner to enhance my life. However, I’m still not attracting in the right person. I feel as though I might have an unconscious block or a limiting belief, which is stopping me from attracting the right person. Could you please shed some light on this?

The Council says in one particular lifetime in the early 1800s you were a wife in a very lovely marriage with children. But your husband died unexpectedly and left you broken-hearted for this whole lifetime. You became a totally different person, sad and obsessed. You always wished your partner was still there.

In your current lifetime, subconsciously the fear is there that if you find the perfect partner, the relationship would end prematurely in your partner transitioning to spirit. That’s the belief that comes into your current lifetime. That’s the belief you wanted to work on and heal.

We ask you to not only visualize what you’ve lost now that you have this information, but think about how wonderful your relationship was. Meditate on this and ask for information about your marriage. How do you think your life would have been with a husband and children? Bring that relationship into your current lifetime. It was beautiful and it ended early, but that was then. Now you can have another beautiful relationship and it will last your entire lifetime.

There’s the belief of worry, and fear of being abandoned again that’s stopping you from pulling in someone who you want to have a relationship with.

We can tell you that in spirit you planned to have a relationship in your current lifetime with the spirit of the husband you lost in the lifetime we mentioned. It’s there for you. We suggest you concentrate on the joy that you’ll have the opportunity to be together again, and have another lifetime together, and create as you both go along.

Stop worrying about not finding the perfect person, what is wrong, and what’s blocking you. You now have the answer to those questions. But you also know now that in spirit you and your husband from a past lifetime have both agreed you’ll come together to have another great relationship, to live out another wonderful life. We wish you well on this. Meditate on it and feel the happiness and excitement that you’ll meet this person again.

Eden closes by asking, Is there a partner out there for me with whom I can create a beautiful and fulfilling relationship, which is really what my heart yearns for? The Council says this relationship is there for you. Now create it.

Listen to the entire 5-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Eden and the rest of us. You can also ask The Council your own question by typing it into one of the Comment boxes that appear at the bottom of most of our blog pages. Or you can pay $60 for a half-hour private telephone session with The Council by using this link to make a payment into our PayPal account and contacting us at: for scheduling information.

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January 22, 2022 - Posted by | Audio Content, Beliefs, Channeling, Healing, Other Realities, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , ,


  1. Glad you liked this message, NewLove. We’ll be happy to ask The Council your questions about your relationship when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | January 27, 2022

  2. That is an amazing message. I currently have found myself in relationship that happened abit unexpectedly, but very welcome. He feels that we may have had past lives together and we are merely continuing a previous life, because we came together so easily. Have we had past lives and can you tell me more about them. He is all in the relationship but i may be abit hesitant to go all in. Do i have cause to be hesitant and worried, or is this the relationship that will last and bring us most happiness for the rest of this life together?

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    Comment by Newlove | January 27, 2022

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