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Did I Know This Man I Love in Another Lifetime?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Susie, who says she fell madly in love with a boy when she was 16 years old. My father was a holocaust survivor and the boy wasn’t Jewish so he broke us up. I got married, but I’ve loved this boy for the rest of my life. Four years ago and 45 years after we broke up I contacted this man and he was as amazing as he was when I was 16. I’m still madly in love with him.

The Council says in at least four lifetimes Susie was childhood friends or brother and sister with this man and there’s great love from these past lives.

Susie says she has nothing in common with her husband, but she still loves him, but nothing like the way she feels for this boy she met when she was 16. She says the boy got involved with drugs when she left him, he’s become an alcoholic over the years, and she feels responsible.

The Council says it’s not necessary to feel responsible for this man. These are his lessons and his choices. You have no idea what people are trying to learn when they are going through something they’ve chosen. You’ve only agreed to be there for part of his experience.

Susie says she wants to cure this man. The Council says you don’t cure anyone. You show love, you show acceptance, compassion, and patience. You’re there to possibly suggest a way to follow through on what they’re experiencing, but you don’t cure them. This isn’t your responsibility.

Susie says her daughter was born with an eating addiction and she’s trying to heal both her daughter and this man she met when she was 16. The Council says again that Susie can’t heal them. Everyone chooses what they need to experience, even if they don’t remember in their human body why they make their choices. There are things they need to experience for soul growth and to teach the people around them. You can’t cure these people or change their path.

Susie says she feels her daughter and this love of her life are meant to be together. The Council says she didn’t choose in spirit to be married to this man in her current lifetime. What was chosen was familiarity, friendship, closeness, and support. You’ve chosen to be friends with this man because there are things you need to learn. Everyone has a lesson. This doesn’t mean you’re meant to be married or in an intimate relationship like marriage. Be there to learn from each other. The three of you wanted to experience acceptance.

Susie says she needs The Council to release her daughter and this man from their soul contract. The Council says they can’t release anyone from their soul contract. No one is in charge of releasing someone from their contract but themself. In your human form you may not understand why you’ve made certain choices, but your higher self knows. When your higher self knows you’ve learned your lesson or experienced enough you’ll release yourself.

Between you, your daughter, and your friend you need the ability to speak with each other, listen to what’s truly going on rather than what you think is going on, show acceptance, and allow each other to be who they are. Allow them to make their own choices. Give love and compassion and know every step of the way you’ll find something to learn from your experience.

The Council says in the past lives Susie and her friend have shared there’s been a lot of happiness and fun and that love has drawn them together in their current life to go through more difficult challenges.

The Council tells Susie she’s here to experience love, to bring love from the spirit world into your current reality. In every way you can show love to yourself, to this friend, and to your daughter.

Listen to the entire 7-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Susie and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it, or ask your own question.

If you like this post please consider clicking the LIKE button in the section following the recording to let us and other readers know. Thanks.

February 17, 2020 - Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Love, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , , ,


  1. Like

    Comment by Krista | May 23, 2020

  2. Thank you for your help. If it would help…these are the ones that speak to me the most…

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    Comment by Krista | May 23, 2020

  3. Hi, Krista. We’ll be happy to ask The Council about any past life relationships you might have with Viktor when we have time and we’ll post an audio recording of their response as soon as it’s ready. Thanks for your questions. Love and light, Bob & Cynthia


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | May 23, 2020

  4. I think I found a past life lover…Or maybe something more than that. His name is Viktor. I am American and Viktor was Russian. I was born in 1984 and Viktor was born in 1962. He tragically died in a car accident at 28 years old in 1990. I was only 5 years old when he died. We have never met each other. I didn’t even know he existed until last year in 2019.

    It all began when I met a Russian man through an online game. He is the only Russian person I have ever met in my life. We instantly became best friends. He is teaching me Russian. We have been friends now for about 4 years. Well, last year he suggested I look into Viktor’s rock band. Viktor was the creator of an underground soviet rock band named кино. My Russian friend doesn’t like them but he had a feeling I would like them. I started researching this Viktor guy.

    It is difficult to put into words how I felt when I saw Viktor’s face for the first time. It was instant recognition. I could feel him pulsing through my veins. It felt magnetic. I had the thought…he is mine, and I am his, and it has been this way forever. When I look into his eyes it feels like looking into a mirror. I get a pulling sensation in my chest if I look at him too long. It feels trance-like. His voice makes my atoms vibrate. There is no doubt in my mind that I know this man completely. But we never met in this lifetime. Sometimes I feel so so happy when I see him, like I could explode from the Love. And sometimes I feel so incredibly sad that I could cry. Very emotional sensations.

    The more I learn about him, the deeper my love gets for him. He is always on my mind. Couldn’t stop thinking about him even if I tried. All consuming.

    What is this? Why did I find him? Why do I have these feelings when I see him? Why do I feel so strongly that I need to be with him?

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    Comment by Krista | May 23, 2020

  5. Thanks, Susan.


    Comment by Cynthia & Bob | February 17, 2020

  6. Great advice all the way around!

    Liked by 1 person

    Comment by mariner2mother | February 17, 2020

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