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What’s My Life Purpose Now That My Husband Has Passed?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Grieving Widow, after she read our post, Why Did My Partner Crossover Sooner Than Expected?  She says I also have similar questions. My husband passed suddenly in a car accident and I’m unable to accept it. I’m constantly trying to connect with him and continue our relationship.

The Council asks Grieving Widow what she’d need to accept her husband’s death. You know he’s no longer in your physical reality, but he’s here in spirit. There are ways you can connect with him through meditation or asking for a connection in your dreams. You can ask for little signs he’s around that would give you the comfort he’s really gone nowhere. He’s still part of your life, being around you, seeing what you do. He left because it was his wish and his time to finish this lifetime. It was to give you a chance to explore more of who you are and what you want moving forward.

Grieving Widow says she doesn’t want to be here without her husband and asks The Council what is her purpose here without him? The Council says to find out who you are. What would make you happy? What ideas did you have while your husband was still here about things you wanted to do, but never had the chance? Now is the time to move forward and do these things.

Grieving Widow says we have three sons and my relationship with my oldest isn’t good. How can I help him with his life lessons and be the best mother to all my sons when I can’t even find joy in anything anymore?

The Council asks Grieving Widow if she’s saying she doesn’t find joy with her children? Do you focus at all on how to be with them, be part of their lives, and invite them into your life to give you some sort of comfort? Communication is needed here. There’s a coming together to bring you closer together.

What you need to remember is that your children will see how you’re carrying on now that your husband has passed on into spirit. How do you handle this? Do you show them that you’re aware your husband is now in the spirit world, and that you know at some point you’ll all go back into spirit, and that your husband is helping all of you from spirit? Do you talk to your children and uplift them in this moment?

The loss of a husband is traumatic, but your children have lost their father. Do you focus on that? This is a way for you to learn to be of service to others, and at this point it’s your children that need you. How will you be of service? The Council reiterates that much more communication is needed.

Grieving Widow says, I don’t believe I chose to be without my husband and I’m struggling to find a purpose to stay in this life. Do I have a purpose to remain here? The Council assures Grieving Widow that you did plan in spirit with your husband that he would pass. Your purpose, as we mentioned before, is to find out more about yourself and what you would like. What are your interests? Hold your children together. Bring your family closer. Be of service to others.

The Council understands in the human form this is a very difficult time for you. Give yourself more love by accepting you are sad at this moment, accepting this is a grieving time, accept all of that, but somewhere within that make time to help others through what they’re going through.

Grieving Widow says, I feel my sons will learn their life lessons better if I’m not here because I feel I hinder them. The Council reminds Grieving Widow that she is part of her children’s life lessons and they are very aware of how you speak and how you act. Remember that the way you do this, you are adding to their lessons and showing your children how to be and how not to be. They need you in their lives for many more reasons. Be aware of your behavior and your communication. This is part of what they agreed to learn and you have all agreed to this.

The Council understands Grieving Widow’s feeling that she’s hindering her children, but because you’ve all agreed to your husband’s passing, you don’t hinder them. And if you feel you hinder them now, how do you change that? If you can learn how to meditate and how to find things to be grateful for it will change your vibration and help you through this time.


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March 7, 2021 Posted by | Acceptance, Agreement, Audio Content, Channeling, Death, Gratitude, Helping Others, Life Purpose, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , , , , , | 6 Comments

Moving Past the Effects of Causing a Car Accident

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Laura, who says a long time ago she caused a car accident where someone was hurt and she hasn’t driven since. Laura is now starting to ride a bicycle and she feels really happy about this, but recently a similar accident almost happened again while she was on the bike. The Council feels Laura hasn’t let go of this accident and still carries fear about it. They say when Laura remains focused on how careful she must be when riding her bike and it brings back memories of her car accident, she is drawing another accident to herself.

The Council asks Laura to look very carefully at the car accident. What happened to each person involved? How has she dealt with it? Whoever was involved with this accident needed to learn something from it. What has she learned? Once you know all these souls agreed in spirit to experience this accident, you realize you did something that was asked for in spirit. When you realize this you can begin to let go of the guilt and fear and can safely and happily drive a car or a bike again.

This car accident isn’t meant to happen again, but it will happen if you carry the fear and you focus on how careful you must be not to cause another accident. Go out in the frame of mind that you completed your role for yourself and for the other spirits involved. You are now free to go forward with your life and enjoy yourself. As you focus on this you’re creating an atmosphere of safety when you go out.

Laura asks The Council what she needs to learn from this car accident and The Council says Laura needs to see what else in her life she blames herself for or feels guilty about? What things in your life do you think you didn’t handle properly? And go back as far as you can in this lifetime and see what comes up. If Laura does the inner work, the fear and other negative emotions she’s holding on to will disappear. As Laura acknowledges these fears and tries to understand where they come from, she’ll realize these experiences are there to teach her something positive about herself.

Listen to the entire 9-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Laura and the rest of us, and let us know what you feel about it.

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March 2, 2019 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Law of Attraction, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , | 1 Comment

   

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