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Why Aren’t My Partner and I Planning to Have Children?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Denisa, who asks for guidance with her relationship with her life partner. We’d love to start a family together, but still nothing happens. My life partner keeps talking about wanting to have children with me, but he also mentions that he’d like my financial situation to be similar to his. I’d also like that, but I don’t know what to do to improve my finances. It seems very difficult for me right now. Is my financial situation the reason we don’t try to have children, or is it something else?

The Council says your finances are part of the reason you’re not trying to have children, and it comes from a lifetime you had as brother and sister in a very poor family. There wasn’t enough to eat, there wasn’t enough clothing, and you had no education. You were the older one and took care of your brother. You found the means to feed both of you and move forward in life. You were the one who took care of your brother.

In this life your boyfriend has the subconscious memory of the previous life. He desires you to be in a better financial situation, thinking this will take care of you both going forward in this life. Your boyfriend doesn’t want to have children where there will be an experience of lack. It’s the memory of you taking care of him, and that’s what’s causing this delay with children and with wanting you to have a better financial situation before you go forward.

It’s not that you have to do better financially. It’s that your boyfriend needs to deal with his issue of being able to independently take care of you and a family. That’s what he wanted to learn going forward. In that past life you took care of him. In this life he wanted to take care of you. And yet these memories are within him and so he can insist you do better financially.

This is where the hold-up with having children is coming from. If you both can agree on it we suggest you have children now. Your boyfriend will learn he can fulfill the role of being the breadwinner, being independent, learning how to be a family man, and learning how to take care of himself, you, and your children.

Denisa asks, Have my boyfriend and I agreed in spirit to have children in this lifetime? The Council says yes. You both want this a great deal, but there are the memories and past lives you need to work through. You need to understand where this desire for your financial stability comes from and you both need to let go of this.

Denisa asks, What can I do to improve my financial situation. The Council says that isn’t necessary. That isn’t what you need to do. What is meant now is to have conversations and be in a place where you can express that the financial situation you have, what you make now, is more than enough for now to start a family. Eventually we see you can make more money, but what’s needed is to express that your situation is okay and you believe he has the ability to take care of you, himself, and a family. Give him the confidence to go forward with this. This is what was agreed upon.

Eva says, It seems to me I don’t know which way to go. I’m thinking about writing a book about my childhood, what I’ve been through, and what I’ve learned from it. The Council says writing is very powerful, and writing is energy. We’d say write about your childhood or anything else because you’re putting more energy out and that will bring you more financial success.

Eva asks, What is the main purpose of our relationship? The Council says to be supportive of each other. Support your partner with words that give him confidence. Your partner wanted to teach you to be the supporter, the one who listens to the questions, the one who’s able to talk about what’s worrying both of you. You would bring guidance to your relationship. You’d make things are clearer for him to give him the opportunity to grow. As you listen to him and give him confidence, you are growing also because you’re fulfilling what you both agreed to.


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November 18, 2021 Posted by | Agreement, Audio Content, Channeling, Guidance, Life Purpose, Other Lifetimes, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , , , | 4 Comments

Who Do I Address a New Soul Contract To?

This post answers a question for The Council from a reader named, Brenda, who wants to write a new soul contract and asks who she should address it to. She says she doesn’t know how to start writing it, how to word the contents, and she’d really like some help.

The Council says a soul contract written by a human is really a letter to your higher self to help you decide what you want to experience in your lifetime. And if you’re able to go into great detail in your contract it can also describe how you want to experience it.

The Council says if Brenda would like a sense of humor about her soul contract she can start it, Dear Me. This soul contract is to my higher self who has a higher understanding of what’s going on in my life, who knows only love, who knows what I’m trying to put on paper to help me on this path and help me decide what I desire to experience.

Help me create what I desire in the most delightful way. Let me find joy on this path. And when I do experience what I desire, let it stay in my mind so I can help and teach others. And when I return to spirit, let me bring all these experiences that my higher self and my physical self wanted with us so all souls can learn and advance from these experiences.

If possible, Brenda can go into great detail about the way she’d like her life to be and what experiences she wishes to have. If you want a partner, if you want to travel, if you want to teach, or if you just want to relax and watch the people around you and give them a helping hand, put it in the paper you are writing. Put it in a beautiful box with a crystal on top and put the box in the sunshine to feel the energy of all the elements. And every day take your soul contract out and look at it. As you do this, you’ll quickly bring these experiences into your life.

Bob asked The Council if there was evidence of a soul contract written by Brenda  when she was in spirit before she incarnated into her current lifetime. The Council says Brenda wanted to bring the love of dance and music into this lifetime, even if she does this as a hobby rather than a profession. Put music on when you’re home and dance around, even if it’s with yourself. The memory of being in dance mode from other lifetimes will help you experience joy and be more attuned to what you desire in your current life.

The Council advises Brenda to get in the vibration of joy first and then write, or feel, or imagine what you desire. If you allow yourself to dance, or even just sit and listen to the music at first, this will raise your vibration.

Brenda closes by saying she’s been having the same patterns appear in her life regarding her finances, she’s learned her lessons, and she now needs to ask for a new soul contract.

The Council tells Brenda she can ask for a new soul contract regarding her finances, but they ask if she’s learned how to plan with the finances she has? And has she learned not to be in fear of having joyous things with her finances?

Many people feel, when they learn about finances, they have to save everything because they have in their mind the feeling of shortage, which you need to eliminate. Balance needs to be learned when there are lessons to be learned about saving and spending.

The Council understands Brenda sees a pattern with her finances and they say to her, don’t be in fear. Go forward with your finances. When you’re not in fear, your finances will increase. When you come into this lifetime it is to experience joy, not to struggle and have to do without. Find your balance and you’ll see an increase in your finances.

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October 22, 2018 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Desire, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , , , , , , , | 4 Comments

   

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