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How Can I Help My Daughter Feel More Confident?

This post answers question for The Council from a reader named, Mel, who asks the best way to help her daughter feel more confident and boost her self-esteem. Mel wonders if her daughter’s past lives are preventing her from seeing the wonderful, smart, amazing woman she is?

The Council says Mel’s daughter needs to feel accepted. Do you compliment her often? Do you point out all the wonderful things she does? Right now your daughter’s confidence comes from you. When she gets enough of this and she believes it and accepts it, she’ll have more and more confidence in herself and won’t need the acceptance from outside herself. She wanted to learn appreciation for herself in her current life.

In your daughter’s last lifetime she worked as a servant and did what needed to be done. There wasn’t any excitement for her in that life and she didn’t have any goals. In her current life your daughter wanted the experience of feeling confident, and when she feels this way she’d allow herself to experience desires of different things she wants. We ask you to allow your daughter to be who she is, but also to fan the flame of her feeling good about herself.

Mel says maybe the interactions my daughter and I had in our past lives have prevented her in some way from healing her lack of confidence in her current life. The Council reminds Mel that the confidence your daughter is working on in her current reality comes from her last lifetime where there wasn’t any confidence, no dream, and no hope.

Mel asks if her daughter’s being overweight is a result of past lifetimes. The Council says the desire to lose weight isn’t a problem from past lives. This is something your daughter created to accept, and once it’s accepted and your daughter feels good about herself, the extra weight will disappear when the time is right and when your daughter learns what she wanted to experience.

The Council says if there’s a problem with being overweight, is it in your eyes or your daughter’s? Does something come up if you talk about this? Is this more negative than positive? If it is The Council advises talking more positively about weight loss. The fact it’s part of who your daughter is now doesn’t mean she’ll always be this way. Being overweight is one more thing your daughter created to keep in front of her while she was trying to build up her confidence.

The Council reminds Mel that everything she and her daughter talk about should be positive on all subjects. When your daughter learns to be more positive and look at things more positively, her life will change for the better.


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January 20, 2021 Posted by | Acceptance, Audio Content, Channeling, Healing, Other Lifetimes, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Is Daughter’s Fear of Choking Connected to Past Lives?

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named Kim, whose 10 year old daughter has a fear of choking, which seems to have come out of nowhere. It’s affecting her diet and causing weight loss. Kim wants to know if this fear is related to a past life and asks for advice overcoming this fear.

The Council sees several past lives for the daughter that are related to the fear of choking and they see it’s the daughter’s intention that the choking will stop in a relatively short time.

In one past life this fear of choking comes from being a fetus about to be born. In that lifetime the soul of this fetus agreed with her mother and father to be stillborn and when it was time to be born she wasn’t able to breathe. There was a tightness in the throat similar to what’s affecting Kim’s daughter’s current life. In that past lifetime the spirit of the mother wanted to experience the loss of a child and Kim’s daughter’s soul helped the mother out.

In another lifetime in the 1400s Kim’s daughter was hung for being a witch, and again there was a feeling of not being able to breathe. She had to hide her healing talents, her ability to make medicines, and her guidance of people.

In the daughter’s current lifetime her experience of choking will lessen as she learns to speak her truth and talk about how she feels. It’s a lesson for her to be brave about who she is and to speak out. The Council also suggests Kim’s daughter gets massaged, particularly the back of the neck, practices deep breathing, and takes singing lessons.

There was a lifetime where Kim’s daughter was a slave used for building and waiting on a royal family. As these slaves were no longer needed they were buried alive and again there was the feeling of not being able to breathe.

Kim’s daughter wanted to experience this choking feeling again and to know there was a way to transform the feeling of fear she experienced in two of her previous lifetimes and change her condition.

Kim’s daughter had another past life where she drowned. The Council suggests being on the lookout for fear of water, and they say that each of these deaths are affecting her current fear of choking.

The Council suggests, as Kim’s daughter becomes old enough, to begin letting her know that people have many lives for the purpose of experiencing love, and that you create everything that happens to you. She is a powerful spirit who is only experiencing this fear of choking so she can learn to change it.

Listen to our entire 10-minute session with The Council to hear all their guidance for Kim, her daughter, and the rest of us, and let us know how you feel about it.

March 15, 2018 Posted by | Agreement, Audio Content, Channeling, Love, Other Lifetimes, Questions & Answers, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , , , , , , , | 4 Comments

   

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