Can You Help Me With My Physical Symptoms?
This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Lorraine.
Lorraine: I have trigeminal inflammation, fibromyalgia, and chronic fatigue. I’m following a medical medium protocol with this, and I feel I need more help because this isn’t helping me get better. Can you help me?
Council: Well these conditions that you have are all stress-related. It’s all about what you’ve come through in your past. And we would say this condition, the way we’d explain it to you, is as if your whole body was a light switch, and it’s as if you had your hand on the switch turning it on and off, on and off, on and off. That’s what your nervous system is doing right now. This is quite common in people who have had a lot of stress and don’t feel well. There’s no medical diagnosis for these conditions because they are nerve-related in the body.
And so first of all, we hope that whoever is advising you in your reality, a Vitamin B Complex would help your nervous system.
We would also say that this condition needs adjusting your head and neck, so if you can find a good Chiropractor to work on that, the nerves from the head and brain stem all the way down your body are on this fight or flight vibration.
And so it’s just periods of time that have been building and building. And now your system doesn’t know how to shut it off, which leaves you incredibly drained, and having feelings of burning in your body, tingling, and shooting pains. All of this is from these conditions. Even a breeze from a fan or the wind can make your skin hurt. So #1, you must work on your nervous system.
Now we would say for you, we would ask you to imagine a beautiful dark navy blue all around you. If you have a good imagination, picture yourself going into a room and putting on a long cloak with a hood that is of this dark navy blue. And when you put it on you, it calms your skin, it calms your nerves, and it calms your body. And tell your body this is what we’re doing, and this will help.
We would say for you right now to definitely do the chakra breathing exercise every day to get those chakras to work right. We would say five or six of them out of seven are not working right. So a lot of work is needed here. But work with the mind, work with the colors, and work with the vibration of the chakras, to get that energy working.
We would say music is very important and very soothing. So perhaps when you sit in a chair or lie down and picture yourself putting this navy blue cloak on, you can play beautiful music in the background.
Well, where do you go when you wear this cloak? Are you in a forest? In a peaceful place? Or are you just sitting in a room, sitting in a chair relaxing, and your body is loving it. Constantly tell the body, “This is healing and you are loving.” You are loving this cloak being around you. And little by little, you talk to the nerves, talk to every bone, talk to the fascia, talk to the nervous system, talk to the veins, talk to every organ in your body. And you say, “Now, finally, we are going to feel better. Finally, we are going to heal, and we have in our power the way to bring this healing about.”
This is very doable. It’s a very stressful period to be in. It can seem like you don’t know where to start first, but if you follow this guidance a little bit at a time, you will see the improvements.
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Do My Son And I Have Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder?
This post answers questions from an anonymous reader about whether they and their son have Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD).
Anonymous: Hello. I’d like to ask a question about my child’s and my health condition. I have faced a mental breakdown a couple of weeks back after going through some therapy sessions. I think I may have ADHD symptoms.
Council: Wonderful title. We love what you create in your realities where you must put a word on what you are experiencing.
Anonymous: Even though my child is very good with his studies, he seems to have focus issues, as well. He’s still young and talented. I would like to ask The Council if both of us, indeed, have ADHD, and if so, how can we improve our focus without taking any medicines for it? Medicines have adverse side effects and I’d like to make sure we can cure this, or learn to live with ADHD without using drugs.
Council: It’s a wonderful thing you chose with your child. Together you chose it to come in with where you were experiencing hyperactivity, or not being able to focus, and you thought it would be fun to learn to correct it together. And so, because this is planned and you are right in the middle of it, we would say forget the title. So you get a little hyper sometimes. Okay. You get a little nervous. Okay.
It would be good to have downtime with your child where you sit together and listen to music. And then when it’s finished in five minutes (a very short time), tell each other what you thought of and what you saw when you listened to the music and your eyes were closed. That will bring the calmness or the stillness.
And then with the focus – this is very good – you can draw pictures, and put a number on top of a picture. There’s Picture #1, #2, #3, and #4. And you sit and show each other pictures. And you have your child draw anything (scribbly whatever), and give five pictures that you have to look at. So you would show them to your child, and then you would cover them up and say, “What was in Picture #3? What did you see?” And that brings in the focus. Slowly it gets the brain to focus and remember. Then your child, whatever it’s possible to draw for you, what do you remember?
And so there’s also a period where you can sit and either tell each other stories, or read stories from a book. And after a page or two say, “Okay, now you tell me back, what do you remember that I’ve read to you from this story?” And so that is how you begin to get the brain to focus and no medicines would be necessary, but it would take work to do this, but we see it is what you wanted. And the change can come about if you do the work.
Anonymous: I’m also in between jobs at the moment. Can The Council please guide me toward what jobs will suit me and my son, given we may have ADHD attention span issues? Thank you and God bless you.
Council: Anything where you can do paperwork, do it on your own, work in a small shop, perhaps do some planting, anything where you are not in a large corporation or working with a lot of people. This particular lifetime is for you to focus on (how you put it back then) shortcomings from the past and how you would correct them in your current life. So anything at all that would put you in a small work area would help build this.
We wish you great happiness on your journey. All of you, you’ve all created this, and you all wanted to learn so much from what you have created. And we would say, with that, have fun with it.
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What Is My Family’s Purpose In This Lifetime?
This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Sarah, who asked The Council a few years ago about an abortion she was thinking of having and if the soul of the unborn fetus would return to her in a future pregnancy. She had her daughter in October 2020 and she thinks it’s the same soul and The Council agrees with her.
The Council says this birth will produce a very interesting life. If you’re not practicing the arts yet, you will. Your daughter needs to be taught music, dancing, and art from an early age. You, your husband, and your daughter should all find interest in the arts because you’ve done this in other lifetimes.
Eventually you’ll find a way to heal with music. You’ve all had separate lives as well as lives together where you filled the need to feel loved and feel important through the arts. In your current lifetime you’ve come together to develop all of this and share it with each other. Your daughter should be exposed to the arts and you and your husband should do this also.
The Council says while practicing the arts it’s a good idea to discuss with each other how you feel and how you got the idea to create what you are creating. This will open you to more creativity within each of you.
Sarah says she’s no longer finding purpose in her current profession and she’s feeling the pull of something much larger and far-reaching. The Council says the pull is to get started on an artistic path. When you find fulfillment in this, your current job won’t have such a negative feeling because you’ll allow this new path to be accepted and come in.
Sarah feels she and her husband have lived many lives together and he and I are supposed to do whatever this big thing is together. The Council agrees with Sarah about her past lives with her husband. This big purpose all three of you are supposed to do together was agreed upon in spirit before you were born and this is where your focus should be right now.
Sarah says she’s experienced severe arthritis for the last two years and I’m hoping this experience has run its course and taught me what it needed to. I’m curious if it has anything to do with what’s ahead.
The Council says in a past life in the early 1800s you had a form of arthritis where your fingers were crooked and you were unable to do much with your hands. In that life you always wished to find a way to heal this condition and experience it in a way that wasn’t so difficult.
In your current life, you’ve created a short span of time to experience this problem, but not on such a deep level. On your new path with music and the arts, that will ease your arthritis considerably and you’ll be able to move on. If your arthritis doesn’t totally disappear, and this is entirely up to you, it will be much better than it was.
The Council closes by thanking us for being able to take this information and have so many people be open to it, and get understanding from it, and experience relief from what another spirit has gone through.
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Can I Remember Dreams About Past Lives?
This post is a little different from previous posts in that it answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Lindsay, who scheduled a private telephone session with us to speak directly with The Council. Linsay has graciously permitted us to post part of her session on our blog. Ordinarily our phone sessions with clients are private and not published on our blog.
The part of the session Lindsay wanted to make public begins with The Council suggesting she and her husband sit across from each other, hold hands, look into each other’s eyes for five or ten minutes, and see what comes up. Is it a feeling? Is it a picture in your mind? The Council adds that this practice can also connect Lindsay and her husband to other lifetimes, which was an earlier topic of discussion during the session.
Lindsay says it’s easy for her to remember her dreams and she asks The Council if it’s possible for her to remember dreams about past lives. The Council says this is possible. They recommend having a ritual before you go to sleep. Lighting a candle, burning incense, setting up crystals, or playing soft music every night for five minutes before you go to bed is a good start. As you’re going to sleep, think about being connected with any of your past lives that will help you in your current life. Do this every night and ask to remember your dreams when you wake up. If you keep doing this your subconscious will open.
Having an amethyst crystal around you will also help you with your seventh chakra and your purpose in life. When you meditate you can hold the amethyst in your hand and see what comes in. If you’re into crystals and you want to learn about your past lives through your dreams, having a piece of kyanite will help you go back to past lives and get information.
Lindsay says over the years she’s had dreams or nightmares about tidal waves and tornadoes that everyone is running from and she’s unable to get away. She asks if these reoccurring nightmares are from a past life. The Council says to see what happens in your life in the days following a dream or nightmare. Dreaming about tidal waves and tornadoes that you can’t get away from usually represent subconscious problems you’re experiencing in your current life that you don’t have the answer to. What is it in your life that’s difficult for you to handle, difficult to understand, annoying, difficult to find an answer to, or put an end to?
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Who Do I Address a New Soul Contract To?
This post answers a question for The Council from a reader named, Brenda, who wants to write a new soul contract and asks who she should address it to. She says she doesn’t know how to start writing it, how to word the contents, and she’d really like some help.
The Council says a soul contract written by a human is really a letter to your higher self to help you decide what you want to experience in your lifetime. And if you’re able to go into great detail in your contract it can also describe how you want to experience it.
The Council says if Brenda would like a sense of humor about her soul contract she can start it, Dear Me. This soul contract is to my higher self who has a higher understanding of what’s going on in my life, who knows only love, who knows what I’m trying to put on paper to help me on this path and help me decide what I desire to experience.
Help me create what I desire in the most delightful way. Let me find joy on this path. And when I do experience what I desire, let it stay in my mind so I can help and teach others. And when I return to spirit, let me bring all these experiences that my higher self and my physical self wanted with us so all souls can learn and advance from these experiences.
If possible, Brenda can go into great detail about the way she’d like her life to be and what experiences she wishes to have. If you want a partner, if you want to travel, if you want to teach, or if you just want to relax and watch the people around you and give them a helping hand, put it in the paper you are writing. Put it in a beautiful box with a crystal on top and put the box in the sunshine to feel the energy of all the elements. And every day take your soul contract out and look at it. As you do this, you’ll quickly bring these experiences into your life.
Bob asked The Council if there was evidence of a soul contract written by Brenda when she was in spirit before she incarnated into her current lifetime. The Council says Brenda wanted to bring the love of dance and music into this lifetime, even if she does this as a hobby rather than a profession. Put music on when you’re home and dance around, even if it’s with yourself. The memory of being in dance mode from other lifetimes will help you experience joy and be more attuned to what you desire in your current life.
The Council advises Brenda to get in the vibration of joy first and then write, or feel, or imagine what you desire. If you allow yourself to dance, or even just sit and listen to the music at first, this will raise your vibration.
Brenda closes by saying she’s been having the same patterns appear in her life regarding her finances, she’s learned her lessons, and she now needs to ask for a new soul contract.
The Council tells Brenda she can ask for a new soul contract regarding her finances, but they ask if she’s learned how to plan with the finances she has? And has she learned not to be in fear of having joyous things with her finances?
Many people feel, when they learn about finances, they have to save everything because they have in their mind the feeling of shortage, which you need to eliminate. Balance needs to be learned when there are lessons to be learned about saving and spending.
The Council understands Brenda sees a pattern with her finances and they say to her, don’t be in fear. Go forward with your finances. When you’re not in fear, your finances will increase. When you come into this lifetime it is to experience joy, not to struggle and have to do without. Find your balance and you’ll see an increase in your finances.
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What is My Wife’s and My Purpose in This Lifetime?
This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Anthony, who says at the beginning of his relationship with his wife they experienced some traumatic events where his wife felt she had no control of the situation and she didn’t receive any support from him. These traumatic events occurred several years ago and Anthony’s wife is still suffering. He’s tried everything to help her and nothing has worked. She blames herself constantly and blames him. She’s not able to let go and forgive. Anthony wants to know if he and his wife have shared a traumatic past life together?
The Council begins by saying the loss of control is what Anthony and his wife experienced in another lifetime where Anthony was blind and mute. In this lifetime Anthony’s wife took care of him. It took lots of patience, was very strenuous for her, and it was difficult for her to understand she was making Anthony’s life better.
At the end of that lifetime they both decided they’d create another lifetime (their current lifetime) where Anthony would have the patience and show love and caring for the challenges his wife created for herself. Because of the love they have for each other, Anthony now wanted to be for his wife. He wanted to feel what it’s like so he can learn that side of reality.
The Council asks Anthony to try and focus on the good he’s done for himself and for his wife. The more aware he is of trying to be there for her, be a comfort to her, show her love, and help her through these challenges, this vibration of love exists between them. Eventually the more Anthony is able to focus on this love, even when his wife is blaming him, instead of blaming himself he should know his purpose is to help her through these challenges and to show his wife love.
Anthony and his wife have had many lifetimes where they take turns helping each other, and because they both enjoy this, and learn from it and grow from it, they created their current lifetime to continue this process of going through challenges.
Anthony asks the purpose of his and his wife’s life in their current lifetime? The Council says to be helpful to each other and show the people around them how they care for each other and have patience with each other, so their patience and love can grow within these people. Anthony and his wife have a challenge to work through with each other, and there’s the challenge of the people around them to observe this and learn from it.
Anthony says he feels like the challenge with his wife has something to do with his daughter, and The Council says this particular lesson doesn’t have to do with her, but he’s been with his daughter in other lifetimes. It’s his daughter’s wish in this lifetime to learn about counseling, and so what she sees between Anthony and his wife may help her go into this field. She has a wish to learn about people who are suffering, going through depression, and are suicidal, and also be helpful to these people.
Currently The Council feels Anthony’s daughter may pull away from him because she doesn’t have the understanding yet to be helpful to others in need. Anthony can bring this focus to his daughter by being understanding and having her see how he responds to his wife. Anthony should try not to get angry at sickness, but he can show great confidence in himself by knowing he’s doing the right thing by bringing love into this situation in any way he can.
The Council closes by reminding Anthony that his marriage is an agreement to experience the other side of the coin from the lifetime where he was blind and mute. The Council also says it would be good to play music for his wife every day or every other day. The body’s cells and the soul will respond to the calmness of the music. And to bring humor into the situation with his wife when he’s able. Then he’ll be able to see this situation change. The Council definitely sees a healing of the situation with Anthony’s wife can happen.
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