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I Feel My Marriage Won’t Let Me Move Forward With What I Want

This post answers some follow-up questions for The Council from a reader named, Angie. Angie previously asked The Council some questions which we answered in our post, Why Do I Feel So Drawn To This Man?

Angie: I do have another part to what I’d like to ask regarding my husband, Chris. First, I felt that I needed to get clarification on my connection to Brent (a co-worker – see previous post) as that has been weighing heavily on my mind. Is Brent aware of the kind of connection we share from other lifetimes and that we both pre-planned to come together in our current life to support each other? If not, how can I help him understand?

Council: He’s not aware of anything more than a friendship. If you want him to open up to more than that and question what you both have in this relationship, you’d have to visualize that, but allow him to be who he is. At this time we don’t advise you to push for Brent to be more than a friend. Be a good friend and companion to him. You can talk about things you have in common. You can make that apparent, but his growth and desire to learn more about you must come from him.

Angie: Although my husband and I have remained married for almost 24 years, I haven’t felt we were always aligned with each other. We’ve had our ups and downs, but something was missing between us. I don’t think we ever connected on the level I was looking for in a marriage.

Council: In this connection you’re looking for did you look at your husband from your heart? Did you look for loving things about him even when things are difficult? Do you connect by realizing your husband is also a spirit, and he has his challenges and feelings he needs to work through? Did you connect by appreciating your husband and looking for all the good things in your marriage? When you look for these things, you’ll find them.

Angie: In between our down times, Chris and I had many good years.

Council: That’s wonderful, and it’s good to think about and remember that.

Angie: But when I decided to go back to school, it was the most challenging time. It was challenging because I had to balance taking care of our two sons, focus on my studies, and try to have Chris understand that completing my degree was important to me and will bring success to our family.

Council: Do you know that you created all this and you both agreed to experience this challenge? Did you know you wanted to create this challenge to see if you could handle it so that you’d feel good about yourself? Did your husband agree to this challenge to learn to see you differently, or handle jealousy? There are different reasons this challenge was created, but because you both went through this, it’s something you both want to learn from.

Angie: The extra challenge was how Chris seemed upset with me for what I felt was being focused on my education. After all my hard work during a semester and taking my final exam one weekend, Chris accused me of being with someone else. It was the most hurtful thing to hear him say. There were other moments where I had to tell him I would continue to reach for my goals with or without him.

After I graduated and had a full-time job lined up, things smoothed out. Chris was happier and I thought I’d be happier along side him. I was happy for the next couple years. By this time both our sons were attending college and I was paying their tuition and room and board.

Council: We’d ask you to review what was going on that you were happy for a couple years. Take a good look at that and see what you created and what you went through. What was Chris going through?

Angie: I was able to provide my sons with financial support mostly because we didn’t have a mortgage. Things were going well for us. Chris and I decided to look into buying a new house, but it didn’t work out. I felt is wasn’t the right time. He kept pushing for us to buy a house. I still felt it wasn’t the right time and I explained to him, I’m paying quite a bit in tuition for our boys, including my own expenses and tuition loans. I wasn’t going to take on extra expenses that would come with buying a home. Instead of receiving his understanding, he reacted with a threat of divorce.

Council: In that do you realize you learned to make a boundary, and what you wanted to experience, and what you didn’t want to experience. Look at how you’ve grown, and how you were clear with what you wanted, and you were able to voice it.

Angie: Chris threatened divorce one other time. This was the turning point for me to focus on myself even more. I’m left wondering if our coming together was to have our children and provide for them up to the time they’d begin to create their own lives.

Council: That was part of what your lives are about.

Angie: I know I’ve had a lot of personal growth and I’ve noticed my husband seems to be stuck in the same place and not moving towards his goals as much. This has made it feel like we’re growing apart. Has our marriage run it’s course?

Council: It’s only run it’s course if you decide that’s what you want. If It’s what you want, you’ll create it to go in that direction. It’s really all up to you. That’s one of the great understandings we all need to learn when we create a reality. It’s all up to you.

Angie: I feel the urge to move forward with what I want and I don’t think I’ll be able to fully do this while I’m married to Chris. I do love and care for him very much, but I want to go toward what’s fulfilling and brings happiness.

Council: Meditate on this. Picture yourself going forward with your husband and picture your life without him. What feels better? You’ll always know by how it feels. Do you wish to stay in this marriage and work out the problems? Is this something you wish to create and grow from? Or is it time that you wish to be on your own?

There isn’t any wrong answer. You’ll experience what you need to experience. Your higher self, which is you, is in control and well aware of what you want to create in this life. The best thing is to remain calm, meditate, and visualize what you want.

And so we wish you all love, and light, and happiness, and gratitude on your path. Be supportive of one another and love yourself, as well as others in your life. And remember every single day, you’re all spirits in a physical body, and you’ll create whatever you focus on. Even if you focus on something negative, you’ll create that. We urge you to have positive thoughts, laugh as much as you can, have fun, remember the wonderful and happy memories, and stay in the positive.

Listen to the entire 9-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Angie and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it. You can also ask The Council your own question by typing it into one of the Comment boxes that appear at the bottom of most of our blog pages.

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March 23, 2022 Posted by | Audio Content, Challenges, Channeling, Feelings, Gratitude, Love, Marriage, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

I’m Worried My Mother Will Pass Away

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, LoveMyParents (LMP), who asks about their mother’s health. LMP says recently her aunt passed away unexpectedly and she was younger than my mother. This has triggered a lot of concern regarding my health and my time with my mother.

LMP lives away from their home country and can only visit their parents once every year or two. They say, I’ve been crying a lot since my aunt’s death and worrying about my mother’s health. I plan to move back to my home country in about five years so I can spend quality time with my parents and I’m around when they need me. As an only child I’m very attached to my mother and can’t stand the idea of her passing away.

The Council asks LMP why they’re focusing on the loss of their mother. They have gone nowhere. You should appreciate that they’re here and you still have time to be with them. The more you focus on the fear of losing your parents, the more likely you are to bring this into your life.

The Council asks LMP to change the focus of their attention. Appreciate your parents. You have a lot of time with them. Plan when you’ll see them, how you’ll have a good time together, and that all is going well. Doing this will help you move forward toward what you want, which is having your parents around you. If you continue focusing on loss, you’ll create this in your life.

The Council wants to remind you there isn’t any loss when someone’s physical life comes to an end. They understand your aunt has transitioned and come home to spirit. She’s in a wonderful place. There’s no grief where we are. Appreciate her life. Your aunt is experiencing more joy now than you can imagine. Be grateful she and your parents are fine. Whenever someone transitions to spirit, all is well. There is no loss and you’ll all be together again.

LMP says they’ve been feeling depressed and have experienced many sleepless nights recently. Can The Council please guide me if my plan to move to my home country in five years is okay and will I still have some years to spend with my mother and father? The Council says if you stop being afraid one of your parents will pass on from their physical life, five years is fine. There’s a future that includes you and them being together again. Don’t put a limit on your thinking. Appreciate your parents. They are here and you are here. Think about when you’ll get together and have some fun.

LMP asks if there’s any way to increase the length of my parents’ life using visualization and positive thought. The Council says positive thoughts and visualization will always help keep your parents in your reality. If you keep focusing on your parents being healthy, you can create that.

Remember that positive thinking lets you create in a way that allows your parents to be there for you. If the time comes where your parents are ready to leave this physical reality, you’ll know about this in spirit ahead of time and there will be an acceptance of their passing. But we see here what’s being created by all of you is plenty of time to be together.

Stay focused on the positive. Enjoy and feel grateful for every moment. Don’t have the thought in the background of how much more time do I have with my parents. That’s still coming from a negative place. Be positive and you’ll have your parents around. You’ll create this in a way that when it’s time for them to transition to spirit when they truly want this, you’ll be fine with it.

Listen to the entire 7-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for LoveMyParents and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it, or ask The Council your own question.

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January 23, 2021 Posted by | Acceptance, Audio Content, Channeling, Health, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , , | 1 Comment

Coronavirus Follow-up Questions for The Council

This post answers questions for The Council from a reader named, Challenger, about our post on The Coronavirus from a Spiritual Perspective. Challenger begins by saying they were expecting more in our post on the world we’ll be able to create. And Challenger says there’s the potential for the planet to go in either a positive or negative direction.

The Council says it’s true the planet can go in either direction and that’s why we need downtime to experience solitude during this quarantine so we can reflect on and appreciate what’s happening. The Council says the more we can find things to appreciate, the more we’ll create more new things to appreciate. Appreciate you’re not sick if you haven’t caught the virus. Appreciate your home if you have one. Appreciate the food you have to eat. Appreciate your family and friends. If you do get the virus you can appreciate you can pull through it. The Council says as you begin to appreciate more instead of being in fear of the virus you’ll begin to realize you’re feeling more love towards everyone and everything. And you’ll feel more love and happiness for yourself that you are safe.

The purpose of the virus is to get you wanting to live in a better vibration, and that’s what this virus is slowly doing on a worldwide scale. The world will change in the direction of everyone’s thoughts, and everyone knew this in spirit before coming into this lifetime. Through the upheaval of our daily routines we don’t have to take in negative information and stay in fear. You are spirit. You don’t have to focus on negativity. We will get through this trial no matter what. We will love, we’ll make a better world, and we’ll become better people.

Challenger says there’s a potential for the planet to go toward a more fear-based controlling society or one where there are better and fairer systems that aren’t by and for the few. The Council says this is why the virus was agreed upon and planned in spirit. You asked what can we do to make our life better; not just for yourself, your family, and your friends, but for everyone worldwide.

Challenger says our previous post mentions this virus will be over when scientists and doctors say it will be over, but this puts all the power into their hands. The Council clarifies by saying when everyone begins to have thoughts of gratitude, thoughts of getting through the virus, thoughts of helping each other, then the doctors will find something that will help cure this virus. It’s not that doctors will automatically come up with a cure. It’s the thoughts of everyone on our planet that will create a cure. When we get to a place of loving, the virus will disappear or a cure will be found. Doctors and scientists will find a virus cure when everyone begins to change to more positive and loving people.

Challenger says there’s a lot of concern about the damaging effects of isolation, fear-based law enforcement, and the loss of earnings for many people. Challenger goes on to say The Council didn’t address these situations in our previous post and it would be good to get spirit’s guidance on these subjects.

The Council says every person on the planet came in at this time to help change the planetary vibration and make a big change in the way we live. Not only are we working on this whole reality together, but we’ll still have personal experiences we chose to go through because we want to experience them. Examples of these self-chosen experiences can include depression, fear of isolation, abandonment, and fears about too little money to name a few. These are personal experiences we wished to have so we could learn to change them, whether it’s something new we want to go through or something we’ve experienced in a past life. That’s why this dis-ease is here to not only change the reality we live in, but to also change ourselves to help push us through personal experiences and healings we desire.

The Council says it’s important to remind you why you came to this planet at this time. We all decided to come into this very challenging time to bring about a whole new beginning for the souls that come to this planet after us, to change this world to a much safer one and a much more caring one.

All spirits applaud each and every person on the planet at this time; people going through personal challenges and people here having an easy life and experiencing fun times. Everyone here is so brave to be on this planet now going through this virus. Since you’re in your human body you don’t know the outcome, but what The Council wants you to realize is that you are very much in control of this outcome. It’s a wonderful time we’re creating. We’re creating the beginning of a whole new world.

Be proud of yourselves and be the kind of person you want to be. As everything begins to change, this whole reality will become more united and much happier. You’ll be bringing in a world that’s less stressful for the people that come after you. People’s thinking will be different, their bodies will be different, and there will be more strength and health.

Everyone in spirit is sending you love and light to help you all do what you planned to do – to create a whole new world. Don’t fear what’s happening now with the virus. Put your mind in a place of love, prayer, and gratitude and you’ll see this change begin.

Listen to the entire 9-minute audio recording of our session with The Council to hear their guidance for Challenger and the rest of us and let us know what you feel about it, or ask your own question.

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April 5, 2020 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Choice, Gratitude, Healing, Helping Others, Life Purpose, Love, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Spirit | , , | 6 Comments

   

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