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Why Am I Still Single?

This post answers questions from a reader named, Melissa, who asks what’s the purpose for her being single and not having a relationship in this lifetime?

The Council asks Melissa when she thinks of a partner, does she think about how a partner is missing from her life? They say if her focus on the absence of what she desires, she’ll never bring a partner in.

There was a desire to learn a lot about independence while being alone. In another lifetime this wasn’t possible and you had a desire to come into this lifetime and be in charge and be strong.

When you get to a place of being independent and you’re loving this independence, it’s from this place of happiness that you can begin to think of what you want in a partner. Would you like to keep the independence you’ve achieved while in a relationship? What kind of relationship will you have? How would you maintain a sense of equality? How would you form a relationship where you both can grow?

In this lifetime you’re spirit wanted to be strong, capable, and independent because of your experience in your other lifetime. In order to accomplish this you took the time to be alone. But if you hang on to the feeling and the thought that you can’t attract a suitable partner, more of what you’re feeling and thinking will be created in your life.

You’re stalled without a relationship because you’re waiting for it to come along, but you’re not thinking enough about how you want this relationship to be. How can you keep your independence, stay strong, continue to grow, and take care of yourself? You need to focus on the type of partner that will match your desires and also worked hard to become who they are. Enjoy the freedom of who you are and now attract to yourself the partner who will enable you to go even further.

A partner has already been planned for you in spirit. You wanted to attract a partner when you were strong enough to call in the specific ingredients that will put this relationship together. Focus on the relationship specifics you desire instead of the lack of them and you’ll attract this relationship to you.  You’ve followed what you’ve planned. You’ve worked on yourself a lot. That’s exactly what you wanted to do. Now you’re in a place where you can begin to attract this partner.

The Council informs Melissa that it’s not her plan to remain single in her current lifetime. She’s worked out in spirit who will come along and how the relationship will progress.

Melissa closes by saying she’s discouraged by her situation and can’t understand the lesson she’s supposed to learn in what’s going on right now. She feels powerless.

The Council says Melissa has followed her spiritual plans perfectly. It takes a powerful person to go forward and become who they wanted to be, because when you’re on the Earth path you don’t remember what you planned in spirit. You’ve accomplished what you spiritually intended because spirit speaks to you and has brought you on your path. You’ve done the first part of what you wanted, and there’s no reason you can’t attract a suitable partner now.

Know that you have choices. You’re a powerful spirit and now you’re ready to attract the right partner. Be in the vibration of happiness and excitement and know that as you’ve specifically created what you wanted in your life so far, you can also create the partner and relationship you desire in your life. And The Council closes by saying if the work is done without doubt, the relationship won’t take too long for Melissa to draw it into her life.

Listen to the entire 10-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for Melissa and the rest of us, and let us know what you feel about it.

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September 1, 2018 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Other Lifetimes, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit | , , , , , | 1 Comment

Helping a Friend Find a Suitable Marriage Partner

This post answers a question for The Council from a reader who goes by the name, LearningSoulSite (LSS), who wants to know how she can help her friend find a suitable marriage partner. LSS says her friend had a bad experience with a man she deeply loved and it’s difficult for her to like someone.

The Council asks LSS what her friend learned in the experience she had with the man she loved that is keeping her from finding love again. Love is all around if your friend believes she can feel it and have it again.

The Council says LSS’s friend needs to change the way she’s thinking. It doesn’t help her to focus on trying to find love and can’t. And it doesn’t help her to focus on trying to find love, but her last relationship hurt her so much that she can’t.

What was in this last relationship that was wonderful? Her friend needs to believe this relationship wasn’t the permanent relationship she was looking for, but there will be others. She needs to focus on what she enjoyed about this relationship and ask herself if she’d like that in a new relationship. Perhaps her friend is interested in experiencing more love and understanding than she experienced in her previous relationship.

Your friend needs to get to a place where she can eagerly expect a new relationship. It is there and she can find it, but she has to be in the vibration of feeling grateful, and hopeful, and loving. She can’t create from the feeling of pain of being hurt in a past relationship. She can’t create from the feeling of being lost or feeling depressed. She can’t create joy and the future she wants to experience from these undesired vibrations.

She should be hopeful about a new relationship coming into her life. This is an adventure. As she can learn to enjoy the looking for this relationship, she’ll find what she’s looking for.

LSS says her friend has thyroid issues that are getting serious and this may be caused by ongoing stress with her parents. The Council says it’s important to speak more about what she believes and what she wants. She should give voice to her opinion instead of holding things in.

And The Council sees that Chiropractic adjustments at the spinal level of C7 will help her friend’s thyroid.

Listen to the entire 4-minute audio recording of our session with The Council (below) to hear all their guidance for LearningSoulSite and the rest of us, and let us know what you feel about this.

If you like this post, please click the Like button in the section below the recording to let other readers know. Thank you.

July 5, 2018 Posted by | Audio Content, Channeling, Gratitude, Love, Marriage, Questions & Answers, Relationships | , , , , | Leave a comment

Can I Have A Long-term Romantic Relationship?

This post is inspired by questions from a reader named Gabriela, who is nearly 30 years old and has never experienced a long-term romantic relationship, but wants to badly.

Gabriela says she made a spiritual agreement with someone to be her partner in this lifetime, but they didn’t come through. And The Council responds it’s not definite that this person would show up or stay in Gabriela’s life. They say what Gabriela and this person create with their thoughts will turn their relationship one way or another during this lifetime.

The Council says it’s important to understand that you create every situation that happens in your life and that no one can push you in a direction that you, as a spiritual being, don’t want to go in. The purpose of this life is to learn who you are, that you have choices, and that you are a powerful creator.

Gabriela says she’s alone, bitter, and not interested in living anymore. And The Council asks why she’d want to throw away what she’s created because of what she’s experienced at this time. They remind her she’s able to change her circumstances because she’s the creator of her experience, and they advise her to create what she wants.

The Council says if you aren’t in the vibration of love and appreciation for yourself, you aren’t in the vibration of attracting the type of person you’d like to be with. Gabriela set up in spirit that she’d go through many relationships that are not what she desires so she’d have to learn to love herself.

The Council says she has a strong spirit to choose this challenging path. If Gabriela begins to think about her good qualities, begins to love herself, and knows what a loving partner she’s capable of being, they say she will raise her vibration and bring this in.

The Council says we usually have a desire to create things in our lives where we feel we could have done better in our past lives. That’s the purpose of each reality we create. And they add that there’s nothing we create that is wrong. We create it in order to have the experience of it and then improve it.

Ask yourself what loving feelings you can bring to your current experience. When you shift your thoughts to love, your vibration changes and it’s felt by everyone around you. And this is how to get what you want.

Listen to our entire 16-minute session with The Council on Gabriela’s questions (below) to receive their full guidance for her and the rest of us.

October 5, 2016 Posted by | Audio Content, Challenges, Channeling, Choice, Creation, Love, Pre-Incarnation Planning, Questions & Answers, Relationships, Spirit, You Create Your Reality | , , , , | 4 Comments

   

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